New York – Op-Ed: Let’s Get Serious About Protecting Our Kids

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    For photo illustration purpose only. subjects in photo not related to articleNew York – It is that common theme, again, that is once again in the news – the abuse of young people where someone in authority is protecting the abuser or molester.

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    The names and players change but the theme remains constant. And, unfortunately, there does not seem to be an adequate solution.

    After the Baruch Lanner case many thinkers in our community had thought that the times of covering up were over. A few years elapsed. Then came the accusations against Kolko and people once again thought that a fundamental change had happened. It didn’t.

    We went back to the same routine. And many more innocents were victimized. Newspapers and bloggers picked up the cry for protection of the innocents and the abused, but by and large, our leadership did not make the fundamental changes that were necessary for complete safety in schools.

    Last week, Brooklyn District Attorney Charles Hynes issued a call to push for a law that would make Rabbis into mandated reporters. The call was not met with welcoming arms. A subtle rift was detected by some between the Brooklyn DA and some of the Rabbinic leaders who had formerly worked together.
    There is one thing that will work, though, and it is perhaps time that we do it.

    Florida Governor Rick Scott has recently signed a bill, SB 1816, into law that we must adopt here in our fine state of New York, as well.
    Institutions must put the well-being of children before their own reputations. Florda’s SB 1816 provides the toughest child abuse reporting law in the country and gives the law some teeth too.

    In essence, institutions that do not report allegations of child abuse will face huge fines – fines to the tune of $1,000,000. That’s right, one million dollars. New York State must also pass such a law.

    If New York State passes such a law, no institution will question their obligation to report. The law also draws no distinction between mandated reporters or not. Any school or institution that suppresses or quashes a report will face the fine.

    What will happen if this law is passed, is that our schools will not quash reports. Since the fate of the school’s existence will be at risk, most school authorities will err on the side of protecting both the child and the school rather than err on the side of caution in protecting the alleged perpetrator’s reputation.

    In the past the religious Jewish organizations did not support the Markey Bill. That bill allowed victims of sexual abuse more time to press charges, as well as extend the timeframe for civil lawsuits. The reason that the Jewish organizations did not support that bill was that they felt that the Markey Bill would cause well meaning Jewish organizations to go bankrupt.

    A bill that would resemble the Florida Law, however, would be different. It would not deal with the past, just the future. It would also allow the schools, camps and institutions to err on the side of protecting the victims.

    While we are advocating for the strengthening of victims rights, there is another area that requires attention as well. At the same time, the repercussions of falsely accusing an innocent teacher should also be stepped up. We do not want to create a situation where we are furthering the empowerment of a vengeance seeker who wishes to even a score with a well-placed accusation. Don’t think that it doesn’t happen. It does.

    But let’s not let this take away from our Torah obligation of protecting the oppressed. The victims of child molestation can face life-long struggles of depression, self-esteem and can often ideate suicide.

    The Florida law states: Any institution, state university, or nonpublic college, university, or school, whose administrators, faculty, or staff knowingly and willfully fail to report known or suspected child abuse, abandonment, or neglect committed on the property of the institution, university, college, or school, or during an event or function sponsored by the institution, university, college, or school, or who knowingly and willfully prevent another person from doing so, shall be subject to fines of $1 million for each such failure and the loss of all state funding.. for a period of 2 years.

    The Florida law is a good idea and an excellent model for other states to follow.

    It is unfortunate that we, in the Torah community, have faltered slightly in this very important area of protecting our children. We have made grave errors of judgment in, for example, how we dealt with the Boruch Lanner case, Kolko, and others too.

    And our reputations have suffered. No longer do we play the role of the “light unto the nations” that we have striven to achieve in all of our interactions with the surrounding society. Indeed, in recent weeks the media has unfairly portrayed highly regarded Jewish organizations as nothing more than molester protectors.

    The Torah has always called for the protection of the weak and the innocent. The Mitzvah of Lo Saamod al Dam rayacha – do not stand idly by your brothers’ blood – has always been a theme that has characterized our Torah organizations.

    During the Nazi holocaust our Torah organizations joined together and formed the Vaad Hatzolah to save lives. True, our pooling together, may have been short-lived, but we did it nonetheless, because the underlying issue involved saving human life. It is time to redeem ourselves for our past transgressions and once again stand up for those without a voice.

    This law could save many lives as well.

    We need to get our politicians on board to craft and push such a bill immediately. Of course it would have to be tweaked to meet New York’s needs, rather than Florida’s. The politicians should get input from those who are particularly familiar with the uphill battles that victims face.

    Our Rabbinic organizations are staffed with highly educated lawyers and politically connected individuals that could help make passing this bill a reality. Our brother’s blood is calling out to us. The question is, will we listen?


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    Ben_Kol
    Ben_Kol
    11 years ago

    This is an excellent idea. If the yeshivas know that they will be hit for one million dollars for covering up abuse, hundreds — no, thousands — of neshamos wiil be saved.

    Ben_Kol
    Ben_Kol
    11 years ago

    I have only one problem with the bill. It does not go far enough. It covers only abuse perpetrated on school property or at school events. Kolko often abused little boys off school property, in his car.

    Ben_Kol
    Ben_Kol
    11 years ago

    Is anyone actual proposing a similar bill in NY, or is this just VIN’s idea?
    I think that would should contact our politicians to demand the passage of such a bill.

    DavidCohen
    DavidCohen
    11 years ago

    Well stated, great idea, and long overdue.

    Of course, expect an unholy alliance of Aguda and the Roman Catholic Church to wholeheartedly bash any such suggestion.

    11 years ago

    Florida’s law should be brought to New York!

    TheRealJoe123
    TheRealJoe123
    11 years ago

    Great article just VIN, should have also mentioned one of the famous cases in the Chasidush community not just one from the MO and litvish.

    Also people to need to be realistic, and not push for the type of change that WILL not happen, like the Markey bill, this Florida idea or Hikind’s bill have bigger chances of passing and will do just as much good if not more.

    Hynes has got to go, no matter how much good he’s supposedly going to do in the coming months, he has to retire gracefully or next November is not to far away.

    PMOinFL
    PMOinFL
    11 years ago

    The realities are simple. We cannot destroy the life of a seemingly honest person based on one accusation. At the same time, ignoring dismissing or covering up an accusation only turns the rape/molestation into a lifetime of psychological torment.

    The simple answer is to demand that the investigation be SEALED, at least in the early stages. You allow the investigation to go on, with the cooperation of community leadership, and keep the entire investigation under wraps until such a time as there is significant evidence for a trial. Once a prosecution begins, it would be impossible to keep it under wraps in this day and age.

    The most important thing to remember is that most of these rapists are VERY weak people. That is why they prey on children. They COUNT on the community ostracizing witnesses. They know that their chances of acquittal are better than 50% because most witnesses will not cooperate.

    If we CHANGE that. If these rapists know that *ALL* witnesses WILL testify, I think you will likely find more of these perverts taking a plea to keep it quiet and protect their children.

    THAT should be the goal. Get the guilty in cages, with no trial and no publicity.

    Insider
    Insider
    11 years ago

    If Hynes wakes up and smells the coffee, he can do the job right. If not, good-bye old friend.
    The Florida bill sounds good. Unfortunatesly, we would just have to forget about the past.
    Plainly, the Agudah just does not know how to deal with this issue. The Florida bill would shake them up enough to set them straight.

    11 years ago

    Great idea! It should be Matzliach, and hopefully protext many of our kindarlach!
    One thing to consider, many of us were not moleseted in schools but in homes of innocent looking men in our community, how can we fight that?

    Truth
    Truth
    11 years ago

    How sad! In the times of Asifas against bad things on the Net – the Op-ed is implying that Most Jews are more afraid of losing a few bucks than they are of G-d!

    11 years ago

    The Florida law states: Any institution, state university, or nonpublic college, university, or school, whose administrators, faculty, or staff knowingly and willfully fail to report known or suspected child abuse, abandonment, or neglect committed on the property of the institution, university, college, or school, or during an event or function sponsored by the institution, university, college, or school, or who knowingly and willfully prevent another person from doing so, shall be subject to fines of $1 million for each such failure and the loss of all state funding.. for a period of 2 years.

    The Florida law is a good idea and an excellent model for other states to follow.

    I AGREE 110% PERCENT. Rabbonim enables YOU are NOW on Notice!

    maxedout
    maxedout
    11 years ago

    the yeshivas will find another way to get around this. our gedolim will never allow us to go after one of their own. its like an old boys club.

    FredE
    FredE
    11 years ago

    “It is unfortunate that we, in the Torah community, have faltered slightly in this very important area of protecting our children. We have made grave errors…”

    Uhm, grave errors are not slight falters. The errors that occurred should not have occurred. And really it shouldnt take a Ph.D to figure out what the priorities should have been.

    LebidikYankel
    LebidikYankel
    11 years ago

    I agree with the writer’s sentiment. We do need to take action on this. However since, as he writes, we are concerned with discharging our “Torah obligation”, we ought to follow the Torah’s dictates.
    One issue with reporting is mesira. Suffice it to say that learned bloggers notwithstanding, the issue is not simple and straightfoward at all. There are extremely serious problems with reporting, especially a one-time offense.
    Another issue is the establishment of guilt, also open to question.
    There are other issues involved here too.
    Although protecting our children is absolutely vital, let us put our heads together to discover halachically viable solutions. Embracing the Markey bill may not be the answer!

    11 years ago

    Why is everyone blaming Rabbis and yeshivas? I know for a fact a private person who lured kids into his house. Parents and children need to be educated on how to keep kids safe. That is key. Arresting a person who may or may not be guilty (on the word of a child) will not solve this problem. They need rehab, not jail.

    NORMAN
    NORMAN
    11 years ago

    The problem with the DA office they washed away all the cases the came to them.The kol tzeak organization was a joke. Who ever called in to report a crime it always went on charles desk and that is where it disappeared.
    Today they can’t do that anymore because the media is watching them very closely.

    As far as kolko, i could guarantee all you readers he will have his day very soon.
    The DA is not offering any plea deal this time around that is sure. If the DA will lose this case that is coming up very soon the media have a field day with the DA OFFICE

    The new law they plan in coming out will help all the rabbis think twice before they intimidate anyone. This should have been done long time ago, however charlie had no choice to try to do something ASAP becasue his name is being humilated by the media everyday.