Israel - Rabbi Elyashiv: No Crocs on Yom Kippur |
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Israel - Rabbi Elyashiv of the Lithuanian stream of ultra-Orthodoxy has ruled that it is best not to wear crocs shoes on Yom Kippur even though they are not made out of leather and, therefore, would seemingly be permissible for the holiday. His reasoning behind the ruling is that they are too comfortable, and thus don’t provide the level of suffering one should feel on the holiday.
Leather is traditionally not worn on Yom Kippur as a symbol of humility and increased humanity on the atonement holiday.
The halachic ruling came in response to a question posed to the rabbi by a young yeshiva student asking whether it is permissible to wear on Yom Kippur shoes one would normally wear throughout the year. In response, the rabbi ruled it is best to avoid wearing crocs on the holiday. “It is permissible legalistically, but it is inadvisable,” said Rabbi Elyashiv.
The rabbi further explained his ruling saying that he ruled according to the halachic authorities who believe that the prohibition against “wearing sandals” refers to not wearing leather shoes.
Despite this, the rabbi added, he took into consideration the interpretation of halachic rulers who see the prohibition against “wearing sandals” as referring to creating a level of discomfort. As such, any shoe that is not from leather but is comfortable to wear is forbidden on Yom Kippur.
Rabbi Elyashiv’s ruling will create a challenge this year for his students, many of whom have chosen in recent years to wear crocs on Yom Kippur.
Because worshippers spend most of Yom Kippur at synagogue for prayer services that include long periods of standing, crocs have been a favored choice among synagogue-goers on the holiday and have gained popularity in the haredi sector because of the difficulty posed by standing through all the prayers.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 07:51 AM TheTruth Says:Report as Inappropriate
Not only that, but we should spikes in our non-leather shoes. This is a bigger hiddur. And wear a size that is too small.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 07:48 AM all the "reid" Says:Report as Inappropriate
the toldos avraham yitzchok rebbe shlita wears white crocs for yom kippur
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Sep 25, 2009 at 07:46 AM themathprof Says:Report as Inappropriate
So, all my friends that wear sneakers to shul during the year should wear shoes?
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Sep 25, 2009 at 07:46 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
I just bought new crocs :(
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Sep 25, 2009 at 07:58 AM ney sayer Says:Report as Inappropriate
oh come on... This is a bit much
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Sep 25, 2009 at 07:56 AM Yoelish Says:Report as Inappropriate
Then I guess that means, no Crocs for me!
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Sep 25, 2009 at 07:55 AM AuthenticSatmar Says:Report as Inappropriate
This theory would eliminate most of the shoes people wear Yom Kippur.
Sneakers, tennis shoes, and slippers are all designed to provide comfort.
Look for a new line of shoes with a hashgacha. I'm sure some entrenpaneur will come up with it.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 08:00 AM Yoelish Says:Report as Inappropriate
Why are making fun of the Posek Hador? Do you know so much Torah, that, you can chastise his p'sak? Are you of his callibur?
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Sep 25, 2009 at 08:12 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
it is a known fact that r elyashiv is not speaking to the hamoin am-he is gearing his psak to yeshivalait,thats why he doesnt look to be maikel,people that knew him years ago said he used to pasken more lekulah-and they asked him what changemhe said he saw that he is paskening for yeshivalait which should not be looking for kuulos,therefore of course if its too difficult for the aalei batim-this psak does not mean to asser it from you,but if u could follow it-it will be a zechus for you on yom kippur
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Sep 25, 2009 at 08:04 AM merkin Says:Report as Inappropriate
sounds like a croc to me. Personally, I wear shoes made of thumbtacks on Yom Kippur.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 08:29 AM CHAP IT Says:Report as Inappropriate
#2 all the reid : how do yo know? do you actually see the toldos avrohom yitzchok rebbe, shlita wearing them. and anyway maybe he needs them for heath. be dan lekaf zchus once in a while(and especially during the aseres yemei teshuva) and don't make a zilzul of the gadol hador's psak.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 08:19 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Why are making fun of the Posek Hador? Do you know so much Torah, that, you can chastise his p'sak? Are you of his callibur? ”
the halacha does not say that you have to suffer
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Sep 25, 2009 at 08:19 AM crocs me up Says:Report as Inappropriate
I'll believe it when I hear it from his mouth myself. There is absolutely no source quoted here to prove it. TZOM kAL
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Sep 25, 2009 at 08:14 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Not only that, but we should spikes in our non-leather shoes. This is a bigger hiddur. And wear a size that is too small. ”
Great way to be talking about ore gedolim right before yom kipper
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Sep 25, 2009 at 08:13 AM s Says:Report as Inappropriate
what in the world would make someone ask such a question?!
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Sep 25, 2009 at 08:49 AM chochom Says:Report as Inappropriate
i think that crocs are assur. it is a gezera for crocodile leather!
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Sep 25, 2009 at 08:47 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Acrock.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 08:41 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Can someone please tell us where it says we must suffer on Yom Kippur?
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Sep 25, 2009 at 08:40 AM ST Says:Report as Inappropriate
He didnt rule thats its assur, only that its not appropiate.. if you with your daas Bal Habayis hold differently, then do what you want.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 08:40 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
typical misnaged mussarnik psak
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Sep 25, 2009 at 08:37 AM Donny Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ the halacha does not say that you have to suffer ”
Actually, the posuk does. It says "v'inisem es nafshoseichem".
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Sep 25, 2009 at 08:36 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
just got a pair of the new crocs (called crocband) lovin it will wear on yk
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Sep 25, 2009 at 09:13 AM DerNister Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Can someone please tell us where it says we must suffer on Yom Kippur? ”
"v'initem et nafshoteichem" I too long wondered how much physical suffering we need to inflict upon ourselves on Y"K. My svara, at least for myself, to wear more comfortable shoes on Y"K was due to the fact that I don't suffer from the poor shoes on Y"K itself, but rather the next day and for a few days after. I would get horrible cramps in my legs and ankles. I don't think the Torah requires me to suffer for up to a week after Y"K.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 09:13 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Can someone please tell us where it says we must suffer on Yom Kippur? ”
“ Can someone please tell us where it says we must suffer on Yom Kippur?”
The torah says we must inflict discomfort on our "neshamas", not on our physical bodies; while some of th chazal have interpreted this to mean we must inflict our physical bodies through the various innuyim, an physical infliction that makes it MORE difficult to daven with kavanah (i.e wearing painful shoes while standing during the teffiilah) is contrary to the intent of the mandate that we forego the comforts of daily life so as to focus on teshuvah and teffilah. Bottom line: Wear whatever non-leather shoes, including crocs, that don't inflict pain that will interfere with your davening and as always, consult with your local posek.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 09:12 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
where does it say not to be comfortable??? what a hack in tchainik!
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Sep 25, 2009 at 09:26 AM Ouch Says:Report as Inappropriate
There are plenty of leather shoes out there that are far more uncomfortable than any Croc or cloth shoe.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 09:22 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ sounds like a croc to me. Personally, I wear shoes made of thumbtacks on Yom Kippur. ”
I think that for the teshuva that you require, you should wear spikes in your shoes.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 09:19 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Can someone please tell us where it says we must suffer on Yom Kippur? ”
If you don't have to suffer, why are you fasting, not washing, and not anointing yourself with fragrant oils?
You are not supposed to pain yourself but you are supposed to limit yourself from normal pleasures - v'inisem es nafshosaichem.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 09:15 AM formelly Says:Report as Inappropriate
actually this makes perfect sense, the reason for not wearing leather is comfort (non comfortable does not mean suffer). so why do people wear shoes that are more comfortable than leather shoes.
When the halacha was written not to wear leather, leather was the shoes to wear for comfort. They did not have sneakers crocs and so on.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 09:28 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ the toldos avraham yitzchok rebbe shlita wears white crocs for yom kippur ”
“ the toldos avraham yitzchok rebbe shlita wears white crocs for yom kippur"
If you look at any videos of the rebbe, you will see he wears these kinds of shoes, (which are not crocs) year around...they are part of his levush and not somthing special for yom kippur (except perhaps for the white color)
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Sep 25, 2009 at 09:02 AM JACK Says:Report as Inappropriate
Every few months, someone goes to a Gadol in Eretz Yisrael, and tries to get them to pasken a "halacha" to how they want it paskened. I want to know if the person brought the actual crocs to R' Elyashuv and showed him the crocs. If anyone here has ever tried to speak to R' Elyashuv, it nearly impossible to ask him a detailed shilah about a croc. Furthermore, why would someone waste the time of one of the oldest Gedolim in the world to ask him such a silly question? obviously this person wanted to be able to say "R' Elyashuv said no crocs"
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Sep 25, 2009 at 09:00 AM Handy Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ the halacha does not say that you have to suffer ”
huh? What part of "ve initem" doesn't mean "and you should suffer/torture"?
Not sure what you're talking about.
Regardless of crocs or any Rabbi - the halacha is a passuk, which says you should suffer on yom kippur.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 08:56 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Wat about mothers, looking after kids is strenuous on such a day do i needa suffer more by wearing ill fitting shoes???
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Sep 25, 2009 at 08:56 AM dr. bill Says:Report as Inappropriate
there is a brisker chumarah, observed by the Rav ztl, to actually feel the earth thru one's shoes on yom kippur. i believe the Rav wore rain galoshes. it is not intended to specifically cause discomfort and, like many such chumrot, are meant for yechidai segulah who have acheived such a level of observance.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 08:56 AM Chaim S. Says:Report as Inappropriate
Typical Litvak psak halocho. If you can be machmir on something that has no basis of chumra, do it anyway. Then you can scream at the lenient chasidim who are wearing crocs. A Litvak avreich was walking in Bnei Braq with a sour face. What happened asked his friend? I went to my rov with a sheila and he said it was muttar. Awwww. The Gemoroh says that koicho d'heiteiro odif. Rashi explains that to pasken a hetter you have to understand the halocho. Anybody can pasken l'chumra and say no.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 08:54 AM TheTruth Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Great way to be talking about ore gedolim right before yom kipper ”
"His reasoning behind the ruling is that they are too comfortable, and thus don't provide the level of suffering one should feel on the holiday. "
I'm not the one saying this. Ore (sic) gedolim are.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 09:43 AM power up Says:Report as Inappropriate
i respect his pesak, but n''h he is not my posek
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Sep 25, 2009 at 09:41 AM Joseph Says:Report as Inappropriate
This doesn't surprise me at all.
If a person wants to accept extra afflictions on himself not mandated by halacha, that's his choice. But don't pasken something like that for the masses (and to his credit and common sense, it doesn't sound like he did).
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Sep 25, 2009 at 09:41 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
I did not think that Yom Kippur was about suffering, it is about raising one's spiritual level to that of malochim... suffering does not necessarily do that... this is not tish'a b'av... it's a holy day of teshuva!
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Sep 25, 2009 at 09:40 AM currently says Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ actually this makes perfect sense, the reason for not wearing leather is comfort (non comfortable does not mean suffer). so why do people wear shoes that are more comfortable than leather shoes.
When the halacha was written not to wear leather, leather was the shoes to wear for comfort. They did not have sneakers crocs and so on.
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According to your logic -- that if comfortable footwear such as crocs, sneakers and so on were around in the time of Chazal, they would be included in the issur -- it should be perfectly OK to wear leather shoes, just as long as they're not comfortable.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 09:35 AM Ba'al Koreh Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Can someone please tell us where it says we must suffer on Yom Kippur? ”
Parashat Pinhas - Perek 29, passuk 7. "Ve inetem et nafshotechem"
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Sep 25, 2009 at 09:33 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Is it this rabbi or some other rabbi in his community, that paskened that a woman should not wear a sheital/wig in order to cause suffering on the women; and the divorce rate went-up amongs the 'anti sheitals.'
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Sep 25, 2009 at 09:48 AM Kavod Rabonim Says:Report as Inappropriate
note the Rav said **"In response, the rabbi ruled it is best to "avoid" wearing crocs on the holiday. ""It is permissible legalistically"", but it is inadvisable," said Rabbi Elyashiv"** he never said it is assur. The "Jewish" media likes to put things in our Gedolim's mouths and then try to get people to say loshon Horah and belittle them.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 09:56 AM boroparkyenta Says:Report as Inappropriate
Regular terry slippers, and sneakers are more comfortable. Some people dont find crocs comfortable at all. We are always more comfortable in slippers than in our leather high heels. I always think while standing in shul on yom kippur that I am so happy not to have to wear fancy Shabos shoes with high heels. I am allowed to wear slippers or sneakers to shul! Yay! I never wear sneakers all year round.
I even exercise in flat leather shoes. The flat styles that are so in fashion now are a blessing, especially for taller women that hate heels anyway.
Crocs are so unflattering, and not all that comfortable anyway. I own a few pairs but never wear them. My children do like them. Whoever does, should enjoy.
The important thing is to daven and do tshuva.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 10:01 AM Meira Kingberg Says:Report as Inappropriate
I have lots of foot problems nothing feels comfortable if I'm on them. LOL
For me, new leather would provide many hours of intolerable suffering, should I then wear leather so that I suffer enough?
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Sep 25, 2009 at 10:04 AM AK Says:Report as Inappropriate
To all you Am Haaratzim who have nothing better to do Erev Yom KIppur but to make fun of Gedolei Yisroel, Please open up a Mishna Berurah Siman 614 S"K 5. He says that one should be machmir and not wear any shoes, leather or not, that prevents you from feeling that you are barefoot.
This is not a "Brisker" chumrah. It is the shitah of the Elyah Rabbah, Shaarei Thsuvah, Pri Megadim, and Chasam Sofer.
R' Elyashiv is paskening like this Mishna Berurah to those who ask. BTW, the Mishna Berurah says not to be Mocheh on those who are Meikil. I am certain R' Elyashiv would say the same for his pask in line with the Mishna Berura.
Be happy we don't hold like the Bach, who holds that you must go specifically barefoot. See Biur Halacha.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 10:03 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Wow first off oh my do the posters here respect any gadol Rav elyashiv might be a litvak but find me the one chasidesheh gadol who would dare and wouldent tremble in fear of disagreeing with him and I happen to be what is known as a liberal chusid but I know as great as my rebbe is the posek hador is rav elyashiv and chzal warn us about disrespecting our gedolim second one can think than nebech a little discomfort has become worth than the gallows around here we use words like suffering couse our chioce shoes are out we sound like a child crying over the collor lollypop he got in shul and nebech I guess befor crocs klal yisrael just couldent survive yom kipur it was so horibule this tortuers yom tov nebech let's just get rid of it how can one be excpectet not to eat not to drink not to be comfetuable such suffering nebeach by the way look it up I know ur going to go balistic but has anyone notict the lil Halacha where it's better not use a pillow when you sleep or less pilows so in order to be meaneh the guf for all the extra comfurts it allowd itself during the year that's the point of teshuvah my my how we ever survived befor crocs nebech is all that's left to say let's daven moshiach comes real soon
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Sep 25, 2009 at 10:18 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Not all answers are supposed to be public. Did anyone ask R' Elyashiv if this was a public psak or meant for the specific person. This is a big problem in our day of email/text/internet. Hence the idea of asking your local Rav. If you want to wear crocs and YOUR Rav says or HAS SAID its fine, go right ahead.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 10:15 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Can someone please tell us where it says we must suffer on Yom Kippur? ”
It says so right there in the Chumish. "Teannu Es Nafshosechem"
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Sep 25, 2009 at 10:13 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
I think a very important part is missing. Many great Rabbonim wrote responses about 150 years ago permitting the use of non-leather shoos, while some Rabonim did not allow it. Although the accepted Halacho (I think this is by all communities) is to wear non-leather shoes Lechatchila, Rabbi Elyashiv is apparently (to me) of opinion that one should not wear shoes that are very comfortable and worn outside regularly. BTW, if you really want, my daughter made in kindergarten Yom Kippur shoes of thin cardboard and staples. Pretty sure that if you wear them the staples will go in all places and guarantying some Inuy.
Easy fast and Gemar Chasima Tova.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 10:06 AM Kogan Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ If you don't have to suffer, why are you fasting, not washing, and not anointing yourself with fragrant oils?
You are not supposed to pain yourself but you are supposed to limit yourself from normal pleasures - v'inisem es nafshosaichem. ”
I think there is a difference in not enjoying any pleasures or davka suffer. Anyway with all due respect to rav Elyashiv, this is not a universal psak and people need to consult their poskim.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 10:40 AM not a croc wearer Says:Report as Inappropriate
I wear crocs only Tisha buv and Yom kippur. I hate them. Can I still wear it?
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Sep 25, 2009 at 10:40 AM Tishma Oti Says:Report as Inappropriate
First of all Crocs are so gay NO men should be wearing them. Second, I take off my shoes in Shul and daven in socks so I can feel like an anav on Yom Kippur. Third, it is improper for all the above writers to be insulting to the Posek HaDor of the Yeshivishe Kehillah. It is unbecoming to act this way if one is a frum Yid. Period. Non Frum Yidden, please refrain from insulting our Rabonim, especially on matters pertaining to halachah that the Reform Community does not respect. Just one man's opionion.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 10:43 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
how about wearing only a kittel with no jacket or bekasha under it is that permitted?it sure is comfortable to where one over your shirt.does anyone have the answer?
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Sep 25, 2009 at 10:31 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
sorry if you like it or not he is our posek and we cannot pick and choose what psak we like or not IF he actually said that we have to listen.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 10:31 AM zaide Says:Report as Inappropriate
if this is the case then Sheitels are also ASSUR
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Sep 25, 2009 at 10:55 AM Reasonable Guy Says:Report as Inappropriate
I will not even think I can argue with the Gadol Hador; I would just question the idea of suffering. This is Yom Tov not Tisha B'Av. I know that they are halachikly ok, as he, himself, said. I just wanted to know what the inyan was that he is refering to. I know many poskim, who are in the same stratosphere as the gadol, who are not worried about this.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 10:53 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Thank you #46.
I am crying for Klal Yisroel as I just read through with absolute shock that just a few days before Yom Kippur there are people here posting opinions and knocking our undisputed Gadol Hador. UNDISPUTED amongst all Frum circles. Litvish, Chasidish, Misnagdish, Yeshivish, Sefardish, etc. There is no Rov in the entire world who will not tell you that Rav Elyashuv is our Gadol Hador. Even if they have a different Psak have you ever seen anyone in the last 10 years say a Psak from Rav Elyashuv is wrong???
I cry for those who used this forum to level hock and mock on and about Rav Elyashuv. It is you who will find yourself crying before next Yom Kippur for the tragedy's that will fall upon your family and you will need to remember that being Mivazeh a Talmud Chochom not only casues you to loose your Oilam Haba but destroys your Oilam Hazeh. I shudder to think of the children Klal Yisroel will bury next year because of the comments made on this topic.
Maybe Rav Elayshuv did give this Psak maybe he didn't - but to knock this Torah giant??? a few days befoere Yom Kippur???? What a Chaval on where Klal Yisroel is holding as a whole to have you people as a part of our Am Hanivchar. Atah Virchartanu Mekol Hoamim - Hashem chose us. The lowest Yid is greater then the greatest Goy in the eyes of Hashem. How sad that we cannot realize that and act accordingly.
.........And then from the same mouths that spew this disgusting redderick about our Gedolay Yisroel will come a Teffila of Ani Mamin for Moshiach??? and we expect the RBS"O to listen?????
we truly are a dor of Yesomim.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 10:49 AM No! Says:Report as Inappropriate
In my humble opinion: Horav Eliyashiv Shlita SHOULD'T have said this, because most people will NOT adheed to his Psak, and it would only make a mockery of him and Piskey Din of Rabonim. [ The same thing happened when Rabbonim made a "ban" on a frum concert ].
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Sep 25, 2009 at 11:16 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ actually this makes perfect sense, the reason for not wearing leather is comfort (non comfortable does not mean suffer). so why do people wear shoes that are more comfortable than leather shoes.
When the halacha was written not to wear leather, leather was the shoes to wear for comfort. They did not have sneakers crocs and so on.
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This chumrah is not new. Some Acharonim discourage wearing comfortable shoes through one which cannot feel the ground. R. Meir Eisenstadt (1670-1744), for example, writes in his Panim Me'iros (2:28) that a God-fearing person should not even wear non-leather shoes that are both protective and comfortable. The Chasam Sofer (Hagahot to Shulchan ArukhBach even writes that one should refrain, when possible, from wearing a cloth around one's feet, and he reports that his teachers were accustomed to walk barefoot on Yom Kippur. 614) concurs. The Mishna Berura (5) cites Acharonim, such as the Eliya Rabba, who rule stringently, and concludes that it is proper for one to be stringent and to wear a soft cloth slipper, and not a comfortable shoe (see also Arukh Ha-Shulchan 614:5).
Nevertheless, despite the psak of these Achronim, there is good reason not to be machmir: R. Ovadia Yosef (Chazon Ovadia, Yamim Noraim, p. 315 and R. Shlomo Zalman Auerbach (Shalmei Mo'ed, p. 77) permit wearing all shoes
not made of leather, in accordance with the popular custom. Similarly, R. Shimon Gruenfeld (1860-1930), known as the Maharshag, writes (Sefer She'elot U-Teshuvot Maharshag 2:110):
"In my opinion, it seems that even from the strictest point of view there is no reason to be stringent … There is no great level of piety and one
who is stringent in order that it should be more of an "affliction" and so that he should suffer more is a "foolish pious man," and he has no
capability of understanding the depth of our holy Torah… It is clear to me that one who walks on Yom Kippur while suffering due to not wearing
shoes, [such as one] who walks in a cold area in order to suffer more through walking barefoot, does not receive additional rewards and is only
considered a fool and simpleminded… In addition, it seems to me that one who does an action in order to suffer on Yom Kippur, even involving
one of the five afflictions, in a way that the Torah would permit, and he would to be more stringent in order to increase his discomfort, will be
punished for denigrating the festival…"
With due respect to the "gedoilim”, perhaps their pronouncements would command greater esteem if they issued as many chumras on the averos "bein adam l'chavero" (e.g., cheating in business) as they do on “bein adam L’Makom. The major problem today isn’t that Frum Jews have become too comfortable in their shoes on Yom Kippur; it’s that they have become too comfortable violating the halachos of Chosen Mishpat.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 11:16 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
I think with all do respect, the person who asked this Shaila had NO right to ask. All he did was cause more machlokes and more Loshon Hara. What was his point? What did he gain? If hes such a tzadick, he should not have asked and did what he knew for himself was proper. Everyone knows the Halacha and so DID HE!
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Sep 25, 2009 at 11:25 AM speak for yourself!! Says:Report as Inappropriate
"our undisputed Gadol Hador. UNDISPUTED amongst all Frum circles. Litvish, Chasidish, Misnagdish, Yeshivish, Sefardish, " He is NOT my gadol hador!! this psak seems ratherextreme to say the least- VERY misnagdish!
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Sep 25, 2009 at 11:35 AM AK Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ I think with all do respect, the person who asked this Shaila had NO right to ask. All he did was cause more machlokes and more Loshon Hara. What was his point? What did he gain? If hes such a tzadick, he should not have asked and did what he knew for himself was proper. Everyone knows the Halacha and so DID HE! ”
Why are you blaming the one who asked the shaila for causing Lashon Hora and Mochlokes. Maybe you should blame the one who posted this psak!
R' Elyashiv didn't post this or issue a Kol Korah, he gave a personal psak to someone who asked. That's called causing machlokes?
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Sep 25, 2009 at 11:40 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
I was always taught that the no leather rule was to create more discomfort and because leather represents luxury, wealth, and comfort. My fabric tennis shoes feel more comfortable than any leather pair of shoes which give me calluses and rub my heels.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 11:44 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
#61 - your point is not a good one. Every person has a right to ask and should ask any Shayla they want. It's a Mishna In Pirkei Avos - Ain Habayshon Lomad. Ask away. The Chaval here is not on the person who asked. If anything it may be on the sites that publish the article. Why would they do it? If their intention was Ltoeles Horabim so we can all learn from and here the latest Psokim from our leader we need to thank them for helping us. If their intention was to create a forum for people to hock then they should be destroyed. I think in the future these articles should be published but without any ability for anyone to log in and comment. This way we hear the news, we hear the psak and we cannot offer our feeble opinions which are really meaningless to the readers.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 12:02 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Thank you #46.
I am crying for Klal Yisroel as I just read through with absolute shock that just a few days before Yom Kippur there are people here posting opinions and knocking our undisputed Gadol Hador. UNDISPUTED amongst all Frum circles. Litvish, Chasidish, Misnagdish, Yeshivish, Sefardish, etc. There is no Rov in the entire world who will not tell you that Rav Elyashuv is our Gadol Hador. Even if they have a different Psak have you ever seen anyone in the last 10 years say a Psak from Rav Elyashuv is wrong???
I cry for those who used this forum to level hock and mock on and about Rav Elyashuv. It is you who will find yourself crying before next Yom Kippur for the tragedy's that will fall upon your family and you will need to remember that being Mivazeh a Talmud Chochom not only casues you to loose your Oilam Haba but destroys your Oilam Hazeh. I shudder to think of the children Klal Yisroel will bury next year because of the comments made on this topic.
Maybe Rav Elayshuv did give this Psak maybe he didn't - but to knock this Torah giant??? a few days befoere Yom Kippur???? What a Chaval on where Klal Yisroel is holding as a whole to have you people as a part of our Am Hanivchar. Atah Virchartanu Mekol Hoamim - Hashem chose us. The lowest Yid is greater then the greatest Goy in the eyes of Hashem. How sad that we cannot realize that and act accordingly.
.........And then from the same mouths that spew this disgusting redderick about our Gedolay Yisroel will come a Teffila of Ani Mamin for Moshiach??? and we expect the RBS"O to listen?????
we truly are a dor of Yesomim. ”
In todays day and age , unless you literaly hear a psak from a gadol or you receive a prsonal letter from the gadol then the psak is void . I heard this from one of the mispallelim at the shul where rav kaniefsky shelita davens
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Sep 25, 2009 at 11:57 AM therealist Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Can someone please tell us where it says we must suffer on Yom Kippur? ”
"V'einisem es nafshosaychem"
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Sep 25, 2009 at 12:15 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Thank you to all the commenters who felt that the reason given in the article for this psak was insufficient and shared with the rest of us your own knowledge of what Rav Elyashiv meant and was thinking.
Also, with much respect, I don't believe that many of you who left advice and suggestions really considered that you only addressed making your feet uncomfortable, which could be easily remedied by putting a few pebbles in your crocs, as the rest of us all do in our sneakers and tennis shoes, which are also too comfortable on Yom Kippur.
However, you have failed to mention many of the other comforts which we negligently forget to address. Turning off all air conditioning should go without saying. It is also extremely admirable to wear small-brimmed black hats and the oldest suits we have, the more garish the better. These have the advantage of not only being the worst fitting and most uncomfortable suits we have, but also, if sufficiently out of style, together with the small-brimmed hat can make us feel very self-conscious and uncomfortable, giving us not only a physical discomfort, but a psychological one as well, which clearly shows that we are going Lifnai Meshuras HaDin.
Also, it is very admirable to eat salty and spicy foods before the fast, so as to make us as thirsty as possible all night and day. Do NOT drink much water before the fast, and have as much caffeine as possible. Also admirable is to greet our fellow Mispalellim with a "G'mar Tov" accompanied by a punch to the stomach. And before Yom Kippur, please do not wish anyone an easy fast, as this appears to be against the whole point of of the Tzom.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 12:15 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ It says so right there in the Chumish. "Teannu Es Nafshosechem" ”
Anonymous Says: Says:
“ It says so right there in the Chumish. "Teannu Es Nafshosechem" ”
Your Nefesh.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 12:26 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ First of all Crocs are so gay NO men should be wearing them. Second, I take off my shoes in Shul and daven in socks so I can feel like an anav on Yom Kippur. Third, it is improper for all the above writers to be insulting to the Posek HaDor of the Yeshivishe Kehillah. It is unbecoming to act this way if one is a frum Yid. Period. Non Frum Yidden, please refrain from insulting our Rabonim, especially on matters pertaining to halachah that the Reform Community does not respect. Just one man's opionion. ”
NOTE to all commenters who point out that other commenters should not be criticizing a Gadol HaDor or any other people, especially right before Yom Kippur:
You are criticizing other people right before Yom Kippur.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 12:24 PM bayrish Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ First of all Crocs are so gay NO men should be wearing them. Second, I take off my shoes in Shul and daven in socks so I can feel like an anav on Yom Kippur. Third, it is improper for all the above writers to be insulting to the Posek HaDor of the Yeshivishe Kehillah. It is unbecoming to act this way if one is a frum Yid. Period. Non Frum Yidden, please refrain from insulting our Rabonim, especially on matters pertaining to halachah that the Reform Community does not respect. Just one man's opionion. ”
"so i can feel like an anav.." wow, very humble of you....
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Sep 25, 2009 at 12:23 PM STOP Says:Report as Inappropriate
Listen, don't listen- do whatever you want but stop stop stop talking about the Rav in a negative way. Hashem Yerachaim, it's Erev Yom Kippur- think before you talk. How can you talk about a person who knows more Torah when he is sleeping than the rest of us will ever know in this lifetime.
And I WONDER why my students can't get along. They have NO CHANCE when these are their parents.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 12:29 PM bayrish Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Thank you #46.
I am crying for Klal Yisroel as I just read through with absolute shock that just a few days before Yom Kippur there are people here posting opinions and knocking our undisputed Gadol Hador. UNDISPUTED amongst all Frum circles. Litvish, Chasidish, Misnagdish, Yeshivish, Sefardish, etc. There is no Rov in the entire world who will not tell you that Rav Elyashuv is our Gadol Hador. Even if they have a different Psak have you ever seen anyone in the last 10 years say a Psak from Rav Elyashuv is wrong???
I cry for those who used this forum to level hock and mock on and about Rav Elyashuv. It is you who will find yourself crying before next Yom Kippur for the tragedy's that will fall upon your family and you will need to remember that being Mivazeh a Talmud Chochom not only casues you to loose your Oilam Haba but destroys your Oilam Hazeh. I shudder to think of the children Klal Yisroel will bury next year because of the comments made on this topic.
Maybe Rav Elayshuv did give this Psak maybe he didn't - but to knock this Torah giant??? a few days befoere Yom Kippur???? What a Chaval on where Klal Yisroel is holding as a whole to have you people as a part of our Am Hanivchar. Atah Virchartanu Mekol Hoamim - Hashem chose us. The lowest Yid is greater then the greatest Goy in the eyes of Hashem. How sad that we cannot realize that and act accordingly.
.........And then from the same mouths that spew this disgusting redderick about our Gedolay Yisroel will come a Teffila of Ani Mamin for Moshiach??? and we expect the RBS"O to listen?????
we truly are a dor of Yesomim. ”
WOW..."the lowest yid"??!? there's no such thing..all jews, NO MATTER WHAT, are the aibirshters kinder.." I shudder to think of the children Klal Yisroel will bury next year because of the comments made on this topic." Seriously?! who are you to play judge and jury!? a gmar chasime taiva to all : )
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Sep 25, 2009 at 01:12 PM anon Says:Report as Inappropriate
I'm sorry for those of you for whom this is news. This is not a surprising psak. My Rav said this 3 years ago. He paskened that Crocs are not assur but are nonetheless not appropriate for those who are punctilious with their adherence to the law. The Pasuk says "V'anisem Es Nafshosechem" Can't get around that.
Obviously this is an old issue because there are poskim being quoted from over a decade ago. The poskim who disagree have been quoted above. Obviously, when there are poskim coming down on two sides of issue, one generally asks one's own Rav for a psak.
This is not an emotional issue - it is a halachic one. It is based on legal precedent. On Erev Yom Kippur we should do the right thing and ask a question from those with an understanding of halacha and psak.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 12:55 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ First of all Crocs are so gay NO men should be wearing them. Second, I take off my shoes in Shul and daven in socks so I can feel like an anav on Yom Kippur. Third, it is improper for all the above writers to be insulting to the Posek HaDor of the Yeshivishe Kehillah. It is unbecoming to act this way if one is a frum Yid. Period. Non Frum Yidden, please refrain from insulting our Rabonim, especially on matters pertaining to halachah that the Reform Community does not respect. Just one man's opionion. ”
I know a *lot* of surgeons who wear them...surgeons spend a lot of time on their feet.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 12:48 PM formally Says:Report as Inappropriate
to those who make fun of the chumrha I laugh at you guys, Since, when your rov says a chumrha you will do it or not do iot in a NY minute. Like choiliov Yisreal, some where saying if you do not follow the chumrha you are eating treif and did not say that is was ok for others since their possak said it was OK.
That is very hypocritical.
If the leather prohibition has nothing to do comfort then why is it assur to where.
If it is because of luxury, many sneakers cost more than leather.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 02:20 PM What a Croc Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Why are making fun of the Posek Hador? Do you know so much Torah, that, you can chastise his p'sak? Are you of his callibur? ”
How do you know he really said it? In today's forged Kol Korah signature environment, who knows for sure?
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Sep 25, 2009 at 12:49 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Elyashiv is widely respected among most yiddin, both chassidim and misnagdim, but please don't elevate him to a sainthood that even the Rav himself would likely be uncomfortable with. We go overboard with these scorecards of, "who is the biggest gadol hador", or Rav X is a bigger gadol than Rav Y' The bottom line is that he is clearly a bigger tzadik and gadol ba'torah than most of us commenting on his takanahs here on VIN.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 02:48 PM eitza geber Says:Report as Inappropriate
can anybody understand a posuk in the Torah without the gemaorah. the Gemorah in Yoma in the final Perek wxplains what V'ineisem es nafshoseichem" means and what it doesn't
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Sep 25, 2009 at 02:55 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Actually there is a halachic issue with crocs and if u wear them on Yom Kippur take note:
Many people wear the strap on the top and don't wrap it around their heal. On Yom Kippur and Shabbos it can be carrying since it is unneeded. If you wear crocs on YK, make sure to put the strap back around your heel. Several yrs ago when crocs became the in-thing, our Rov announced this immediately following kol nidrei so the women/children who were leaving shul should not be oiver on carrying Ch"V.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 04:09 PM Eddie Says:Report as Inappropriate
For those of us who are familiar with the Mishnah Berurah and respect the Posek HaDor, I think this story would make a great advertising campaign for the Croc company. Imagine this billboard: "Crocs- too comfortable for Yom Kippur. Feel free to experience their comfort the other days of the year!" Gmar Chasima Tova!
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Sep 25, 2009 at 04:08 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
with all due respect to Rav Elyasiv he most probably doesn't even know what crocs are and was told something by a few people who have an agenda just like the concerts
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Sep 25, 2009 at 03:33 PM Velvel Says:Report as Inappropriate
I agree with the Rav. Crocs are also sponors of women's volleyball which is also an immodest sport.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 03:14 PM Yitzchak Says:Report as Inappropriate
With all of the tsoress that we Yiden face it amazes me that there are so many comments about crocks!
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Sep 25, 2009 at 05:42 PM formally Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ With all of the tsoress that we Yiden face it amazes me that there are so many comments about crocks! ”
you are right but issues like this is what robbonum concentrate on
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Sep 25, 2009 at 05:45 PM yaakov Says:Report as Inappropriate
crocs are "comfortable?"
they are cheap rubber/plastic footware.
they neither look nice nor are they really comfortable.
they fall off your feet (*the real reason i say no crocs on yom kippur. i get sick of peopel taking their shoes off). and they are drafty.
a good non leather tennis shoe is comfortable.
i say wear somthing comfortable so you can concentrate on your prayers and not on your footware. this article is absurd. but it shows that basically , someone HATES CROCS.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 05:28 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Why did this come out now with no time for people to buy something else? Same as the concert ban. It came out at the last minute.
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Sep 25, 2009 at 04:56 PM Tevye Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ I agree with the Rav. Crocs are also sponors of women's volleyball which is also an immodest sport. ”
And I'm sure Dodge, Chevy, Mazda, Lexus, BMW, etc sponsor some that is immodest as well...
Are you going to stop driving your car now?
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Sep 25, 2009 at 04:42 PM Eoni Mimaas Says:Report as Inappropriate
It's disheartening to see what happens when a psak din gets disseminated through the internet. How does anyone know that the article is correct? Furthermore, who knows exactly what this great posek said and under what conditions? I will wait until he publishes his Tshuva, in the meantime we all need to do our own Tshuvah!
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Sep 26, 2009 at 06:12 PM shimon taylor Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ It's disheartening to see what happens when a psak din gets disseminated through the internet. How does anyone know that the article is correct? Furthermore, who knows exactly what this great posek said and under what conditions? I will wait until he publishes his Tshuva, in the meantime we all need to do our own Tshuvah! ”
You MUST be right. We shouldn't believe this was paskened in this context.
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Sep 26, 2009 at 06:08 PM shimon taylor Says:Report as Inappropriate
Baloney!!!!!! To me they are extremely uncomfortable! And I'm sure that other poskim would pasken differently anyway.
I highly respect da'as tora, but I think that this is based on personal feeling, as I myself know that very flat feet or feet with scrapes and bruises, are enough uncomfortable, even in the most comfortable shoes. As long as you are not comfortable enough to run a 100 meter sprint, then I don't think it is too comfortable ever.
Just keep out the leather, and that's fine.
If you personally feel that you have perfect beautiful feet, then you can add discomfort as ever you see fit.
comments?
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Sep 26, 2009 at 02:40 PM lion kay Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ the halacha does not say that you have to suffer ”
thats funny! i was sure it says in the torah, "ועיניתם את נפשותיכם"
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Sep 26, 2009 at 02:39 PM Moshe Kapoier Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ huh? What part of "ve initem" doesn't mean "and you should suffer/torture"?
Not sure what you're talking about.
Regardless of crocs or any Rabbi - the halacha is a passuk, which says you should suffer on yom kippur. ”
Ve'initem means you "should impoverish", make poor! From the root, "Ani".
In Machshava the understanding is NOT to cause oneself pain, but to lessen the needs of the "Nefesh", the physical part of us on Yom Kippur. (In Kabbala, Chassidus, and Machshava the Nefesh is the Body, as opposed to the Neshama, the soul. Sometimes the word "Nefesh" is used to refer to to the Soul, including the Neshama, but the understanding is generally that it refers to the body, as in "Ki Hadam Hu Hanefesh").
Thus, the idea on Yom Kippur is not to cause ourselves pain, but to be on a level where physicality and physical pleasures are not the focus of our existence. We are angel-like for te day.
Therefore we don't eat, as angels don't eat, we don't drink, have relations, anoint ourselves, we say Baruch Shaim aloud, some people stand all day, not for pain, but because we're expressing our status as angels, who are removed from these things.
For this reason we don't wear LEATHER shoes, as they are symbolic of physical existence, as seen by Chalitza, the removal of the leather shoe, symbolizing the end of the physical existence of the dead brother, and in many other regards, removing shoes in the Bais Hamikdash, when talking to Hashem (Moshe Rabbeinu).
It is not like Tisha B'av, which IS a matter of causing ourselves discomfort, as it is a mourning day.
Yom Kippur is an "Angel" day. (According to Midrashim, we have no Yetzer Hara this day, as our Bodily pulls are negated. Any sins we do are from habit.)
I personally always felt that on YK one could wear Crocs for this reason, and on TB, it'd be better not to. (I wear slippers both days.)
With all that said, I am not a posek who comes to R' Elyashiv's toes, (let alone his Crocs) and I have not examined the Halachic sources recently, so I don't know which ones interpret "Ve'initem" as the idea of pain and discomfort, so I won't argue in Psak, I'm simply giving over a "deeper" understanding of the idea, so some of you might appreciate the significance of the Halacha.
I'm going now to learn the sources, so have a Gmar Chasima Tova
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Sep 26, 2009 at 09:14 PM StopAndThink Says:Report as Inappropriate
Are there actually people here saying that the gadol hador is wrong??? Because he said something that might make your life a little bit uncomfortable, that means you bash him? Dont you think he knows just A LITTLE bit more than you do???
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Sep 26, 2009 at 09:54 PM eva Levy Says:Report as Inappropriate
i will wear crocs cuz thats all ive got but honestly? i don't find them to be Soooooooo comfortable. they make my feet sweat and my feet hurt just as much after davening in crocs as in any other old pair of plastic shoes.
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Sep 26, 2009 at 11:16 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
All the people who mocked rav elyashiv shlitah should know that they should daven hard this yom kippur for mechilah.The onesh is very great,look it up in chazal and the shulchan aruch.
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Sep 26, 2009 at 11:10 PM shlomo Says:Report as Inappropriate
first of all like # 7 said: this is an (old) issue regarding most shoes people were on Y"K and most likely even more comfortable than Crocs.
second. "LO DAYACH MA SHEOSAR OLECHA TORAH"
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Sep 26, 2009 at 11:23 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ it is a known fact that r elyashiv is not speaking to the hamoin am-he is gearing his psak to yeshivalait,thats why he doesnt look to be maikel,people that knew him years ago said he used to pasken more lekulah-and they asked him what changemhe said he saw that he is paskening for yeshivalait which should not be looking for kuulos,therefore of course if its too difficult for the aalei batim-this psak does not mean to asser it from you,but if u could follow it-it will be a zechus for you on yom kippur ”
Since you're so sure of yourself,why don't you maybe pose the question to R' Elyashiv Shlita FOR BALEI BAATIM????
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Sep 26, 2009 at 11:29 PM me Says:Report as Inappropriate
R' Shlomo Zalmen Auerbach disagrees.
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Sep 26, 2009 at 11:57 PM Velvel Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ And I'm sure Dodge, Chevy, Mazda, Lexus, BMW, etc sponsor some that is immodest as well...
Are you going to stop driving your car now? ”
I don't drive my car into Shul on Yom Kippur!
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Sep 26, 2009 at 11:48 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Why did this come out now with no time for people to buy something else? Same as the concert ban. It came out at the last minute. ”
"Why did this come out now with no time for people to buy something else?"
The Rav doesn't concern himself with these nuts and bolts issues. He only paskins when asked and the question just came up. Why would a rav of his stature even think about the right shoes for yom kippur unless one of his talmidim asked.
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Sep 27, 2009 at 12:19 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Honestly, on Erev Yom Kippur I think that you should all be concentrating on what you can do to be better Jews. No one here, from what I have read, is a Posek. This is why we are suppose to have our own Rabbis to whom we seek guidance and advice. If anyone has questions regarding this article, they should concult their own Rav and restrain from insulting and passing judgement on fellow Jews during this auspicious time. Shana Tova to you all and may you have a meaningful fast.
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Sep 27, 2009 at 05:13 AM A pusheter Yid says Says:Report as Inappropriate
Ask your local Rabbi. This is my best advise. Tzom Kal.
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Sep 27, 2009 at 04:52 AM Moshe Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ All the people who mocked rav elyashiv shlitah should know that they should daven hard this yom kippur for mechilah.The onesh is very great,look it up in chazal and the shulchan aruch. ”
A bit of respect for the psak of a godel is required.And for all those amaratzim that try to comment on the psak maybe learn a few of the halachos before.See aruch hashulchan who writes that according to the Rambam,Rashi and Tosafos you should not use a shoe through which you cannot feel the ground.And he learns the rema that says"Hamachmir tovo olov brocha" to refer to this.So it is definately not so far fetched...
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Sep 27, 2009 at 03:07 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Thank you #46.
I am crying for Klal Yisroel as I just read through with absolute shock that just a few days before Yom Kippur there are people here posting opinions and knocking our undisputed Gadol Hador. UNDISPUTED amongst all Frum circles. Litvish, Chasidish, Misnagdish, Yeshivish, Sefardish, etc. There is no Rov in the entire world who will not tell you that Rav Elyashuv is our Gadol Hador. Even if they have a different Psak have you ever seen anyone in the last 10 years say a Psak from Rav Elyashuv is wrong???
I cry for those who used this forum to level hock and mock on and about Rav Elyashuv. It is you who will find yourself crying before next Yom Kippur for the tragedy's that will fall upon your family and you will need to remember that being Mivazeh a Talmud Chochom not only casues you to loose your Oilam Haba but destroys your Oilam Hazeh. I shudder to think of the children Klal Yisroel will bury next year because of the comments made on this topic.
Maybe Rav Elayshuv did give this Psak maybe he didn't - but to knock this Torah giant??? a few days befoere Yom Kippur???? What a Chaval on where Klal Yisroel is holding as a whole to have you people as a part of our Am Hanivchar. Atah Virchartanu Mekol Hoamim - Hashem chose us. The lowest Yid is greater then the greatest Goy in the eyes of Hashem. How sad that we cannot realize that and act accordingly.
.........And then from the same mouths that spew this disgusting redderick about our Gedolay Yisroel will come a Teffila of Ani Mamin for Moshiach??? and we expect the RBS"O to listen?????
we truly are a dor of Yesomim. ”
'redderick'? did you mean 'rhetoric'?
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Sep 27, 2009 at 02:32 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
The halacha technically says you should be less comfortable however if he says don't wear crocks then we should be allowed to wear uncomfortable leather shoes because technically they are less comfortable than crocs. The only reason we wear leather shoes in general is for style and durability. Doesn't that make sense? It doesnt say the rule is leather shoes in gemarah taanis is says neilas hasandal.
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Sep 27, 2009 at 06:56 AM Michael Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ First of all Crocs are so gay NO men should be wearing them. Second, I take off my shoes in Shul and daven in socks so I can feel like an anav on Yom Kippur. Third, it is improper for all the above writers to be insulting to the Posek HaDor of the Yeshivishe Kehillah. It is unbecoming to act this way if one is a frum Yid. Period. Non Frum Yidden, please refrain from insulting our Rabonim, especially on matters pertaining to halachah that the Reform Community does not respect. Just one man's opionion. ”
Let me know in what shul you are davening, so i could step on your toes to check if you are a real anav, or you just faking it!
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Sep 27, 2009 at 02:19 AM Pinchos Woolstone Says:Report as Inappropriate
There are 70 faces to our Torah
There are Rabbonim who reflect each.
There is no one Manhig who represents all.
We should respect all Tzaddikim but that does not mean one is superior to all others.
Every community should turn to their own leaders who will direct them accounting to their individual Mesorah
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Sep 27, 2009 at 10:30 AM MUST READ!!!!!!!! Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ typical misnaged mussarnik psak ”
it was not a psak halacha, only an opinion if it can even be authenticated..
Typical sinas chinam coming from you and others that love to throw the word misnaged out there whenever you can as an insult..
it makes me sick to think that, will you ever drop this sinas chinam>?
and besides that, even if it was authenticated.. how dare you insult a talmid chocom and tzadik! It should be considered as Divrei Elokim Chayim...
Who are you to stand up so tall and consider yourself more learned or richeous than Horav Elyoshiv Shlita! you should be ashamed of your comment.
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Sep 29, 2009 at 09:26 AM RP Says:Report as Inappropriate
Probably this is the beginning of a marketing campaign where someone wants to sell wooden shoes for yom kippur... remember that in elul 5770!
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Sep 29, 2009 at 11:00 AM Milhouse Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Actually there is a halachic issue with crocs and if u wear them on Yom Kippur take note:
Many people wear the strap on the top and don't wrap it around their heal. On Yom Kippur and Shabbos it can be carrying since it is unneeded. If you wear crocs on YK, make sure to put the strap back around your heel. Several yrs ago when crocs became the in-thing, our Rov announced this immediately following kol nidrei so the women/children who were leaving shul should not be oiver on carrying Ch"V. ”
This is not true. It's part of the garment, no matter how it's positioned. The same applies to the belt on a coat; it's part of the coat (even if it's not sewn on) and may be worn even if it's not done up.
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Sep 29, 2009 at 10:58 AM Milhouse Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Ve'initem means you "should impoverish", make poor! From the root, "Ani".
In Machshava the understanding is NOT to cause oneself pain, but to lessen the needs of the "Nefesh", the physical part of us on Yom Kippur. (In Kabbala, Chassidus, and Machshava the Nefesh is the Body, as opposed to the Neshama, the soul. Sometimes the word "Nefesh" is used to refer to to the Soul, including the Neshama, but the understanding is generally that it refers to the body, as in "Ki Hadam Hu Hanefesh").
Thus, the idea on Yom Kippur is not to cause ourselves pain, but to be on a level where physicality and physical pleasures are not the focus of our existence. We are angel-like for te day.
Therefore we don't eat, as angels don't eat, we don't drink, have relations, anoint ourselves, we say Baruch Shaim aloud, some people stand all day, not for pain, but because we're expressing our status as angels, who are removed from these things.
For this reason we don't wear LEATHER shoes, as they are symbolic of physical existence, as seen by Chalitza, the removal of the leather shoe, symbolizing the end of the physical existence of the dead brother, and in many other regards, removing shoes in the Bais Hamikdash, when talking to Hashem (Moshe Rabbeinu).
It is not like Tisha B'av, which IS a matter of causing ourselves discomfort, as it is a mourning day.
Yom Kippur is an "Angel" day. (According to Midrashim, we have no Yetzer Hara this day, as our Bodily pulls are negated. Any sins we do are from habit.)
I personally always felt that on YK one could wear Crocs for this reason, and on TB, it'd be better not to. (I wear slippers both days.)
With all that said, I am not a posek who comes to R' Elyashiv's toes, (let alone his Crocs) and I have not examined the Halachic sources recently, so I don't know which ones interpret "Ve'initem" as the idea of pain and discomfort, so I won't argue in Psak, I'm simply giving over a "deeper" understanding of the idea, so some of you might appreciate the significance of the Halacha.
I'm going now to learn the sources, so have a Gmar Chasima Tova
”
"Inuy" has nothing to do with poverty. (It also has nothing to do with answering.) It's a verb meaning "to afflict", as in "vate'aneho Sorai" (Bereishis 16:6) and many other places.
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Sep 29, 2009 at 10:52 AM Milhouse Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ The halacha technically says you should be less comfortable however if he says don't wear crocks then we should be allowed to wear uncomfortable leather shoes because technically they are less comfortable than crocs. The only reason we wear leather shoes in general is for style and durability. Doesn't that make sense? It doesnt say the rule is leather shoes in gemarah taanis is says neilas hasandal. ”
You are wrong. The halacha is that the prohibition is on leather shoes - all leather shoes, no matter how uncomfortable. Avoiding comfortable non-leather shoes is a hiddur, but it can't override the basic halacha! That's like eating chazir because you can't find glatt beef!
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Oct 01, 2009 at 10:11 PM Simcha Says:Report as Inappropriate
Why is this thread filled with Tziddukim who think they can pasken from a posuk??? Would you ever have the slightest thought of doing so l'kulah?