Jerusalem - A Handful of Orthodox Women Sitting and Learning Baba Metzia |
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Down the road at Beit Morasha, a center for Jewish studies and leadership development, a group of women in the Halacha program are sitting in pairs learning Even Ha'ezer, part of the corpus of Jewish law. Not far away at Nishmat, a leading center for Jewish women's learning, students in the Keren Ariel program are learning the key halachic sources relating to family purity.
The three programs - each of which provides a select group of exceptional women scholars with the opportunity to reach the highest level of Jewish scholarship, often with the same curriculum as rabbinical schools - were created to address different needs within the modern Orthodox world and, arguably, are unprecedented in their attention to training women for involvement in halachic discourse and the application of Jewish law.
"What is different about the Keren Ariel program is that women are involved in the application of Halacha and are not just involved in the study of Halacha," says Rabbanit Chana Henkin, the founder and dean of Nishmat. "There is nothing like this anywhere else in the world."
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Nov 08, 2009 at 03:48 PM Anonymous Says:
this looks like a reform study hall. very sad.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 03:44 PM Use Your Head Says:
Now we're coming full circle. First the men stopped working and started learning full time while the women supported them, now the women are also taking over the learning. Soon the men will spend all day pushing strollers, cooking, and cleaning.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 03:36 PM Richard Nixon Says:
Sounds like a good idea for some parts of the Othodox world, b"h no the one in which I live. But bava metzia?? Can't they keep up with daf yomi?
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Nov 08, 2009 at 03:50 PM Anonymous Says:
I guess these programs will hasten the Geula- Sic
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Nov 08, 2009 at 03:49 PM Anonymous Says:
One of the major perakim in Bava Metzia discusses hashavas avedah, returning lost objects. How fitting would it be if these holy yiddish neshamos would likewise return themselves back to their proper place; i.e. in the home. The home that only they, the Jewish woman, can create and nurture.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 03:49 PM Anonymous Says:
A women once wakled into Reb Shach Zet'l and asked him a question in learning, so he responded by asking her; "do you know how to make a good kugle" meaning that that is ™he womens job, to cook, clean, take care of the kids, and look nice for her husband. The mans job is to learn and work.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 03:49 PM wondering Says:
Just wondering how they are learning the gmora in sothah that women shoudnt learn,
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Nov 08, 2009 at 03:52 PM Anonymous Says:
Stupid ! Women are made to be in the kitchen not in shule
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Nov 08, 2009 at 03:51 PM Anonymous Says:
“ this looks like a reform study hall. very sad. ”
It happens to be wrong thing to do, but don't get carried away.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 03:57 PM Robert Says:
“ A women once wakled into Reb Shach Zet'l and asked him a question in learning, so he responded by asking her; "do you know how to make a good kugle" meaning that that is ™he womens job, to cook, clean, take care of the kids, and look nice for her husband. The mans job is to learn and work. ”
do you mean learn and work?
or just learn and also let the wife work?
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Nov 08, 2009 at 03:57 PM Sotah is banned from the curriculum Says:
“ Just wondering how they are learning the gmora in sothah that women shoudnt learn, ”
They don't learn that masechta. They aren't looking for truth. If they have free time let them cook clean learn how to run a house. Read books on shalom bayis, books on chinuch and how to undertand kids. Theres so many more useful ways for them to use their time. Shame on them.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 03:56 PM Anonymous Says:
“ Now we're coming full circle. First the men stopped working and started learning full time while the women supported them, now the women are also taking over the learning. Soon the men will spend all day pushing strollers, cooking, and cleaning. ”
Well said! And just to add, this whole thing just came to play when they had the whole women equal rights garbage!
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Nov 08, 2009 at 03:56 PM Robert Says:
“ this looks like a reform study hall. very sad. ”
i think you err...........
i never knew reforms even had study halls
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Nov 08, 2009 at 03:58 PM Robert Says:
“ Stupid ! Women are made to be in the kitchen not in shule ”
are they made to be in the work force?
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Nov 08, 2009 at 03:53 PM Only in israel Says:
I'm not an extremist but why are women learning bava metzia? I think they should be learning hilchos nidda to help other women and make things more comfortable for other women who have questions. Theres also benefit in learning hilchos shabbos and other Halachos pertaining to a kosher home but i think its gotten too far when they start learning dinnay momenos. I'll leave it to others to elaborate.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:00 PM Ok Says:
its ok- and some of the things that were ritten below were antithetical to yidishkeit. Treat peope wit proper derech eretz
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:01 PM Anonymous Says:
“ A women once wakled into Reb Shach Zet'l and asked him a question in learning, so he responded by asking her; "do you know how to make a good kugle" meaning that that is ™he womens job, to cook, clean, take care of the kids, and look nice for her husband. The mans job is to learn and work. ”
Wake up. You're living in 21 century not 9th century ghetto where a woman was bought like property for a prutah. Roles of women have evolved in society where they can vote and succeed in careers and learning.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 03:57 PM Anonymous Says:
“ this looks like a reform study hall. very sad. ”
Very sad because a woman might intimidate you with her brilliance in Torah knowledge? This is nothing new to me because in some modern orthodox high schools girls learn gemora the same way boys do. I was very impressed with their knowledge and analytical abilities. The age old myth that women don't have the mental capacity to analyze gemora like men do will be shattered very fast. Men will feel inferior that a wife might know more halacha than he learned in kolel. So they fear these trends.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:21 PM Anonymous Says:
“ A women once wakled into Reb Shach Zet'l and asked him a question in learning, so he responded by asking her; "do you know how to make a good kugle" meaning that that is ™he womens job, to cook, clean, take care of the kids, and look nice for her husband. The mans job is to learn and work. ”
look nice? does the husband look nice? rav shach endorses men working and not learning? can he make a kugel?
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:21 PM Anonymous Says:
“ One of the major perakim in Bava Metzia discusses hashavas avedah, returning lost objects. How fitting would it be if these holy yiddish neshamos would likewise return themselves back to their proper place; i.e. in the home. The home that only they, the Jewish woman, can create and nurture. ”
there is nothing wrong with a little learning. these are post high school - pre marriage girls. you dont like it thats your problem. it doesnt make them any less frum or non orthodox or righteous. seriously, the ignorance in this comment thread is astounding.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:19 PM Anonymous Says:
Its about time woman are being leaders and learning for them selves. If a woman can make more money then her husband why cant she learn if she wants too
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:19 PM Anonymous Says:
“ this looks like a reform study hall. very sad. ”
looks like an ignorant jew. how very sad you are indeed. may hashem bless you with seichel as it says "shomer psaim hashem"
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:18 PM kugel first Says:
regardless if they are capable or not, the gemara in sotah says that ladies shouldnt learn gemora. so there shouldnt be anyone commenting that "maybe the men will be shown that ladies can also "halt kup" in gemora!
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:16 PM Anonymous Says:
It sure is less expensive than shopping. This is a good thing.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:13 PM Anonymous Says:
The way to go! Looking forward to the siyum of shas. I'm also learning bava metzia can I ak them a kasha.what's the rebizins name ?
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:12 PM chauvinistic much? Says:
wowie! women belong in the kitchen not in shul, bearing children but not learning. and a great rabbi once asked a lady interested in Torah study if she could make a decent kugel? its great that we allow women to be breadwinners (while their husbands study) its not nice that we call them baby machines or kitchen slaves. especially those who wish to perform the miztvah of Torah study.
i guess this is the last time we hear anyone on VIN criticize the treatment of muslim women in saudi arabia or wherever? because hey dont we agree with them?
martin luther (founder of lutheranism) once said: women were created to bore children till they die from it. how can that be translated into yiddsh?
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:12 PM Getzel the Pretzel Says:
I can't wait to hear a chubarah on R' Elchanan in the sugya of tukfah cohen.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:11 PM Anonymous Says:
“ Just wondering how they are learning the gmora in sothah that women shoudnt learn, ”
I wonder how you learned it, anyobe who understood the gemara, sees that the gemara meant the opposite! The gemara says the shouldn't learn, so they shouldn't know that merit can save from Sotah and then become a Sotah, but today all girls are tought that they can be saved with merit anyways, so they actually should learn!
Either way, it is one opinion only in the Gemara
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:11 PM Anonymous Says:
“ Very sad because a woman might intimidate you with her brilliance in Torah knowledge? This is nothing new to me because in some modern orthodox high schools girls learn gemora the same way boys do. I was very impressed with their knowledge and analytical abilities. The age old myth that women don't have the mental capacity to analyze gemora like men do will be shattered very fast. Men will feel inferior that a wife might know more halacha than he learned in kolel. So they fear these trends. ”
Who said they don't have the ability? The Gemara they are learning tells them a women who learns Gemara is learning pritzus. How do they gloss over that one?
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:10 PM Anonymous Says:
“ Very sad because a woman might intimidate you with her brilliance in Torah knowledge? This is nothing new to me because in some modern orthodox high schools girls learn gemora the same way boys do. I was very impressed with their knowledge and analytical abilities. The age old myth that women don't have the mental capacity to analyze gemora like men do will be shattered very fast. Men will feel inferior that a wife might know more halacha than he learned in kolel. So they fear these trends. ”
exactly why we should supress it..
could you imagine a home where a woman can not only cook better than her husband but actually learn better?
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:26 PM NotSoHoly Says:
I'm not as holy as many of the commentators here, but I'm pretty sure that speaking/writing Loshon Hora about young Jewish women trying to elevate their neshomos & Torah knowledge is NOT the thing that's going to bring the Geulah.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:26 PM The Rebbe Says:
To #19 comment "The age old myth that women don't have the mental capacity to analyze gemora like men do will be shattered very fast"
Dear #19 the gemara says this about women, you're either a am haaretz or a apikoras, Shulchan Aruch and the Rambam paskin, that the fact that women don't have or use the same analytical reasonings and tools as men as the reason why the gmara says " a man who teaches his daughters Torah is like teaching her tiflus" go figure.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:25 PM moshe der g Says:
i wonder
what does it mean when they say "binah yeseirah nintah b'isha"
what does she have extra
and what is the purpose of this
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:25 PM hypocrisy Says:
“ this looks like a reform study hall. very sad. ”
this is soooo funny. in a commmunity full of people who force their little girls to go out and work full time jobs to support their parasite husands in kollel - the minute they hear some girls are learning the scream "but qomen belong in the kitchen..." etc.
if they belong in the kitchen then why are they the ones earning the paycheck??? let them stay home and you yungerleit get of your mediocre pilpul tuches and go support her so she can take care of YOUR bayis neeman!
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:06 PM Anonymous Says:
everyone here seems to disagree with woman learning gemorah........what exactly is the issur for a woman to learn gemorah if she chooses too?? i understand people think its unnecessary but its still not as weird as riding into a wedding in the 21st century on horses
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:30 PM kollel faker Says:
“ exactly why we should supress it..
could you imagine a home where a woman can not only cook better than her husband but actually learn better? ”
thyey do now
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:31 PM Loshon Hora Says:
Kol hamelamed es bito Torah Keilu limdo Tiflus. Noshim Daaton kalos.
That said it is a musar to us bloggers, if we don't get back to the Beis Hamedrash the ladies may have taken our place.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:01 PM Anonymous Says:
This is a very religious group of women and it is a good idea, inasmuch as these women can deal with women who have problems where . Jewish law is concerned. It makes sense that in certain areas that deal with women's problems that it should be women handling these types of cases and I think that it is wonderful. There
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:01 PM Anonymous Says:
“ Wake up. You're living in 21 century not 9th century ghetto where a woman was bought like property for a prutah. Roles of women have evolved in society where they can vote and succeed in careers and learning. ”
How stupid can u be for not realizing that this is the reason for the rising divorce rate in the 21st CENTURY. Its the wrong thing to do! Who cares about the 21st century!
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:59 PM Anonymous Says:
I wonder how many of you are married ? Or would say such a statement in front of your wife?? Also have you ever heard of Bruriah? I think we even pasken like her in a few places. Open your eyes
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:04 PM Anonymous Says:
“ look nice? does the husband look nice? rav shach endorses men working and not learning? can he make a kugel? ”
The gemarah states that a man can divorce his wife if she gets ugly, so hope you got your answer!
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:04 PM Mevakesh Emes Says:
“ Wake up. You're living in 21 century not 9th century ghetto where a woman was bought like property for a prutah. Roles of women have evolved in society where they can vote and succeed in careers and learning. ”
This whole idea is completly against what G-d wants and stinks of yeshus and gaiva. It's a waste of time. It's not tznua and it's not their avoda. Men are incapable of doing many things that women are able to do - spiritually and biologically. It's so sad that so many foreign elements such as this have come into Judaism trying to replace it (including but not limited to: Zionism, Feminism, Socialism, "the Lubuvitcher Rebbe shlita is Moshiach-ism" and "Frumism", e.g. not being able to sit next to one's own wife on the bus). I hope these modern day avodah zoras stay the exception and don't become the norm, although certain konaiyim in EY, Chabad and many "modern Orthodox" groups (whatever that means) have already "converted" to islam, x-tianity and the conservative movement, repectively.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:55 PM Anonymous Says:
If given the opportunity to learn and study without these naresh debates over whether or not its appropriate for women to learn talmud, within a generation, the leading women rabbonim will be running circles around the men in terms of lamdus and intellect. I suspect the image of a rabbanit explaining the real meaning and message of a complex sugya to a group of alte rabbonim really scares them but who cares. If not given the opportunity, women will take the opportunity so the smart thing to do would be to develop arrangements for women learning that don't embarass the men.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:55 PM Al Chait Says:
Can someone explain why Modern Orthodox or Religious Zionist women who learn Torah are such a threat to Charedi men? Why does it strike such a nerve?
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:45 PM WAKE UP!!! Says:
Let me start off by saying that I would not want my wife or daughters learning like this. However, my bracha to myself is that should be the worst things they ever do!! Instead of focusing on the "issur of women learning" and whether not women should be learning, let's focus on the picture of these tzniusly-dressed girls learning Torah. Even if if they "shouldn't be learning," how happy should we be that they are not engaging in znus on their free time! There are so many girls from Bais Yaacov, etc. that do one thing when they are in school and when the day is over they live a different life. How great is it that even when these girls have no obligation to learn, they go and try to immerse in Hashem's Torah while they could be doing nothing worthwhile!! Whether or not anyone believes in women learning, we should see the good in their actions and focus on the real "time-wasting" problems that cause much greater harm in our community.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 04:39 PM Talking from Experience Says:
Women MUST learn Baba Metziah. Who is going to help their son chazer Aylu Metzios or Ha Mafkid? It ain't sure gonna be the dad shtyging in kollel - bitul torah for him. It will be the mother - so she better know parts of Boba Metziah!! After making the kugel, I need to teach two of my sons those gemorahs and I sure wish I was taught them in Bais Yaakov.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:28 PM Mevakesh Emes Says:
“ Wake up. You're living in 21 century not 9th century ghetto where a woman was bought like property for a prutah. Roles of women have evolved in society where they can vote and succeed in careers and learning. ”
This whole idea is completly against what G-d wants and stinks of yeshus and gaiva. It's a waste of time. It's not tznua and it's not their avoda. Men are incapable of doing many things that women are able to do - spiritually and biologically. It's so sad that so many foreign elements such as this have come into Judaism trying to replace it (including but not limited to: Zionism, Feminism, Socialism, "the Lubuvitcher Rebbe shlita is Moshiach-ism" and "Frumism", e.g. not being able to sit next to one's own wife on the bus). I hope these modern day avodah zoras stay the exception and don't become the norm, although certain konaiyim in EY, Chabad and many "modern Orthodox" groups (whatever that means) have already "converted" to islam, x-tianity and the conservative movement, repectively.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:27 PM Anonymous Says:
“ Women MUST learn Baba Metziah. Who is going to help their son chazer Aylu Metzios or Ha Mafkid? It ain't sure gonna be the dad shtyging in kollel - bitul torah for him. It will be the mother - so she better know parts of Boba Metziah!! After making the kugel, I need to teach two of my sons those gemorahs and I sure wish I was taught them in Bais Yaakov. ”
kool
are you the sole bread winner for your family too?
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:26 PM Anonymous Says:
“ Let me start off by saying that I would not want my wife or daughters learning like this. However, my bracha to myself is that should be the worst things they ever do!! Instead of focusing on the "issur of women learning" and whether not women should be learning, let's focus on the picture of these tzniusly-dressed girls learning Torah. Even if if they "shouldn't be learning," how happy should we be that they are not engaging in znus on their free time! There are so many girls from Bais Yaacov, etc. that do one thing when they are in school and when the day is over they live a different life. How great is it that even when these girls have no obligation to learn, they go and try to immerse in Hashem's Torah while they could be doing nothing worthwhile!! Whether or not anyone believes in women learning, we should see the good in their actions and focus on the real "time-wasting" problems that cause much greater harm in our community. ”
what happened to miss bruriah and to rashi's daughters wearing tefillin?
where exactly does it say girls are forbidden to learn torah?
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:24 PM Anonymous Says:
“ This whole idea is completly against what G-d wants and stinks of yeshus and gaiva. It's a waste of time. It's not tznua and it's not their avoda. Men are incapable of doing many things that women are able to do - spiritually and biologically. It's so sad that so many foreign elements such as this have come into Judaism trying to replace it (including but not limited to: Zionism, Feminism, Socialism, "the Lubuvitcher Rebbe shlita is Moshiach-ism" and "Frumism", e.g. not being able to sit next to one's own wife on the bus). I hope these modern day avodah zoras stay the exception and don't become the norm, although certain konaiyim in EY, Chabad and many "modern Orthodox" groups (whatever that means) have already "converted" to islam, x-tianity and the conservative movement, repectively. ”
"This whole idea is completly against what G-d wants"
Azoy, the Ebeshter told you personally how offended he was by these women learning talmud. The only waste of time is responding to your warped notion of yiddishkeit. Hashem yarachem on any women in your immediate family (if there are any)since I cannot imagine any itelligent woman willingly living with such a hateful and dreche man. Your hate for chassidus is another issue, and your disparaging comments about the Rebbe, shlita, may cost you your chelek in olam haboah..
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:40 PM Anonymous Says:
“ what happened to miss bruriah and to rashi's daughters wearing tefillin?
where exactly does it say girls are forbidden to learn torah?
”
"where exactly does it say girls are forbidden to learn torah?"
The answer is NOWHERE. The efforts by some of the men who posted comments above which distort daas torah and incorrectly cite some yiddeshe verts as if these men new what they were talking about is pitiful. Women certainly are allowed to learn ANYTHING. The only issue under halacha is what they may ber required to learn (i.e. which mitzvot and learning is required for men and is discretionary for women).
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:38 PM Anonymous Says:
“ This whole idea is completly against what G-d wants and stinks of yeshus and gaiva. It's a waste of time. It's not tznua and it's not their avoda. Men are incapable of doing many things that women are able to do - spiritually and biologically. It's so sad that so many foreign elements such as this have come into Judaism trying to replace it (including but not limited to: Zionism, Feminism, Socialism, "the Lubuvitcher Rebbe shlita is Moshiach-ism" and "Frumism", e.g. not being able to sit next to one's own wife on the bus). I hope these modern day avodah zoras stay the exception and don't become the norm, although certain konaiyim in EY, Chabad and many "modern Orthodox" groups (whatever that means) have already "converted" to islam, x-tianity and the conservative movement, repectively. ”
Learning gemarah is foreign to Judaism. LOL.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:37 PM Anonymous Says:
“ How stupid can u be for not realizing that this is the reason for the rising divorce rate in the 21st CENTURY. Its the wrong thing to do! Who cares about the 21st century! ”
Women learning gemarah is the reason for rising divorce in the 21st century??? What cloud are you on.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:35 PM Anonymous Says:
I knew it wouldn't take long until they invoke Beruria. The fact that you know ONE Tanna's wife's name out of thousands should tell you something..... but no, let's make the exception the rule.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:34 PM NeveAliza Says:
This is great news. Thanks to ArtScroll, anyone can open up a daf gemora and learn.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:33 PM Anonymous Says:
“ It sure is less expensive than shopping. This is a good thing. ”
Good shtickle
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:22 PM Robert Says:
“ Can someone explain why Modern Orthodox or Religious Zionist women who learn Torah are such a threat to Charedi men? Why does it strike such a nerve? ”
i think the reason is obvious...
not to mention how would the charedi women react if they saw this trend as progressing?
could you imagine a charedi man actually making his own kugel?
(actually the thought of it made me burst out laughing)
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:19 PM Tam Says:
“ I can't wait to hear a chubarah on R' Elchanan in the sugya of tukfah cohen. ”
Great point. How many men on this blog can make a great chabura, learning Takfo Cohen (Baba Metzia 6a).
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Nov 08, 2009 at 06:47 PM Miss Williamsburg Says:
The Chauvinistic views of some posters here are appalling.
I agree women do not have to learn Baba Metzia, but to start rambling how this is the effect from the garbage women's equal rights movement (quoting #13) or women only belong in the kitchen, to bear children, to make kugel, is ridiculous. Of course it's beautiful to run your own beis mikdash me'at and for those women who are fine with that, good for them. But those who need something else, who find fulfillment outside of the home, good for them too.
Women are out there making great strides. I guess some of you are feeling threatened. It seems women can do it all, run the household, bear children, achieve high business positions and bring home nice paychecks. Well that is one of the reasons you say Sheloi Asani Ishah, you wouldn't be able to do half of what many women do today.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 06:47 PM Charlie Hall Says:
“ Can someone explain why Modern Orthodox or Religious Zionist women who learn Torah are such a threat to Charedi men? Why does it strike such a nerve? ”
Given that large numbers of charedi women are having to start businesses in order to suport their kollel families, the biggest need for learning Nezikin may be in charedi women so that they may avoid inadvertant aveirot. Too bad the charedi rabbis don't permit it.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 07:11 PM marhak Says:
“ there is nothing wrong with a little learning. these are post high school - pre marriage girls. you dont like it thats your problem. it doesnt make them any less frum or non orthodox or righteous. seriously, the ignorance in this comment thread is astounding. ”
actuely it is 1000% wrong how dare they (stated for a joke) this remids me of a good joke, a husband comes home after learning & the wife asks him what did you learn so the husband says i learned this &this;,the wife then says really i learned that a long time ago
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Nov 08, 2009 at 06:44 PM Charlie Hall Says:
“ "where exactly does it say girls are forbidden to learn torah?"
The answer is NOWHERE. The efforts by some of the men who posted comments above which distort daas torah and incorrectly cite some yiddeshe verts as if these men new what they were talking about is pitiful. Women certainly are allowed to learn ANYTHING. The only issue under halacha is what they may ber required to learn (i.e. which mitzvot and learning is required for men and is discretionary for women).
”
Women are *required* to learn all the mitzvot they are obligated in, and women are in fact obligated in all of the property law in Nezikin. Rov Soloveitchik z'tz'l was adament that it is a chiyuv to teach women gemara and we follow him today. It is totally appropriate that women would learn Bava Metzia in depth -- kol hakovod to the women who are doing this.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 06:42 PM Ben Ish Says:
is the reason for this maybe that men of today are not like men of yesterday? An entire generation raised to be parasites, weak, helpless sheep-like followers? A generation of men raised not to think for themselves, but to be led around by their noses by "leaders" who amass fortunes of real estate and pass on yeshiva power to the the best connected and the ones who can pay? A generation of men who shrink in insignificance and impotence, who don't take responsibility for the welfare of their families, who let their wives work and ":run the show" while they "shteig" away and refuse all responsibility. of course the women are now learning gemara because the weak men of this generation have turned over their leadership roles to the women.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 06:38 PM since you asked... Says:
“ i think the reason is obvious...
not to mention how would the charedi women react if they saw this trend as progressing?
could you imagine a charedi man actually making his own kugel?
(actually the thought of it made me burst out laughing) ”
my chareidi man can make an excellent kugel.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 06:38 PM Dag Says:
What happens when one of these women who CAN learn demands to enroll at BMG which cannot discriminate based on gender? They'd be in HUGE trouble and likely would have to give up their federal funding
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Nov 08, 2009 at 06:29 PM Anonymous Says:
After 120 years of a mans life, hashem will ask if he spent his time in this world learning torah. If not hashem will ask him why not. But these women will be asked why have you spent your time on something which is not for you its a boosha will the women start to ware pants or daven for the amud or become esrog soichrim? I think its shreclech are these women neturai karta by any chance? soon they will put on a reekel and a shtrimel i just hope im wrong also i think instead of learning baba metzia they should learn baba maysa
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Nov 08, 2009 at 06:29 PM Anonymous Says:
“ I wonder how you learned it, anyobe who understood the gemara, sees that the gemara meant the opposite! The gemara says the shouldn't learn, so they shouldn't know that merit can save from Sotah and then become a Sotah, but today all girls are tought that they can be saved with merit anyways, so they actually should learn!
Either way, it is one opinion only in the Gemara ”
Modern orthodox have strategically named themselves that. But it should more appropriately be labeled modern conservative - religion without commitment. Who cares what the rabbis of old said - what did they know - we know better! Nebuch. These people are destroying our religion
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Nov 08, 2009 at 06:24 PM its ok ... Says:
for a lady who becoming a bubba to look for metzias
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Nov 08, 2009 at 06:23 PM Anonymous Says:
What it actually says in Sotah is that the mei sotah would not be effective against a woman who is learned in Torah---her merit would overcome the punishment. Therefore, in order to be able to be sure that mei sotah would work against the adulterous woman, some rabbonim said that women should not learn Torah. Nowadays, there is no mei sotah, so the prohibition is not applicable.
What we truly learn is that the woman who studies Torah has great zechus. Why are some people against this? You can make a kugel AND learn Torah. Women are great muti-taskers.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 06:17 PM Anonymous Says:
“ I knew it wouldn't take long until they invoke Beruria. The fact that you know ONE Tanna's wife's name out of thousands should tell you something..... but no, let's make the exception the rule. ”
"I knew it wouldn't take long until they invoke Beruria"
ברוריה was only one of several woman quoted often in the Talmud. She was the wife of the Tanna Rabbi Meir and the daughter of Rabbi Hananiah Ben Tarfon. She was an acknowledged gadol in halachaha and aggadah and was famous as a teacher as well. She was famous for her humor and wit as well as her intellect. She challenged her father frequently on arcane matters of halahca.
She was also renowned for her sharp wit and sarcas. The gemorah (Eruvin 53b) tells the story that she once chastised Rabbi Yosi, when he asked her “Which way to Lod?” She told him that he could have asked the same question in two words, “Where’s Lod?” instead of four, and thereby follow the halacha that says not to speak to women unnecessarily. We should only have women today like ברוריה who would put some of the choshuve rabbonim who shown no respect for yiddeshe women in their place.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 06:15 PM Chasidishe Maimonidean Says:
Anyone who says that these holy veyber shouldn't be learning should be forced to use some of the medicinal cures in the Gemorah next time they get sick instead of going to a hospital (probably one with capable female doctors and nurses). Kein Yirbu!
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Nov 08, 2009 at 06:14 PM Bubbie Says:
here you go quoting??? the gemara in Sota when in fact it says nothing about a woman learning, its says "Kol hamelamed es bito Torah" - nothing about if she wants to learn by herself.
I believe it was Rav Sholom Schwadron who said his mother knew Shas. But I may be mistaken.
There have always been individual women who were learned (Rashi's daughters, for example) - there was one Rebbetzin who gave shiur from behind a mechitza. Sorry, I don't have all the sources handy.
What has changed is this. Sara Schenirer started the Bais Yaakov movement with the approval of the gedolim - the Chofetz Chaim and many choshuva rebbes as well. The girls were going to secular school and what the Mama taught them was not keeping them interested in Yiddishkeit.
Now that many girls are secularly educated beyond the bachelor's level, many have a need for even more depth in their Jewish studies. While this could be in hashkafa etc some find it in Gemara. Their poskim might not be yours, but they do have Rabbonim on whom they rely.
In any case, as long as nobody asks you to enroll your daughter in this program, what purpose does your criticism serve?
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Nov 08, 2009 at 06:12 PM torahyid Says:
“ Very sad because a woman might intimidate you with her brilliance in Torah knowledge? This is nothing new to me because in some modern orthodox high schools girls learn gemora the same way boys do. I was very impressed with their knowledge and analytical abilities. The age old myth that women don't have the mental capacity to analyze gemora like men do will be shattered very fast. Men will feel inferior that a wife might know more halacha than he learned in kolel. So they fear these trends. ”
Why do you think it is a good idea to wreck sholom bayis?
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Nov 08, 2009 at 06:11 PM shayleos Says:
It is essential for women to have women to talk to when asking specific religious questions. Rabbis are no available & not interested in speaking to women & particularly to answer their questions. Men forget the kugels --make some BBQ wings with sauce.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 06:10 PM Anonymous Says:
to all you bashers. whats better, women SHOPPING!!!! When women learn Torah, they get a sense of meaning in life and make a difference. Not just popping out kids and talking lashon hara. These women learning are going to bring moshiach. If williamsburg women learnt torah, there wouldn't be so much hidden things that are going on that are discusting to the meaning of "chassidic". Kol hakovod girls, learn, because the ones against you are not learned and are jealous.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 06:08 PM torahyid Says:
שו"ע יו"ד סרמ"ו ס"ו "צוו חז"ל שלא ילמד אדם את בתו תורה, מפני שרוב הנשים אין דעתן מכוונת להתלמד, ומוציאות דברי תורה לדברי הבאי לפי עניות דעתן"
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Nov 08, 2009 at 06:05 PM gregaaron Says:
“ The gemarah states that a man can divorce his wife if she gets ugly, so hope you got your answer! ”
Actually, it's more than that - it's a Mishnah (although it's only one opinion out of 3, I believe it is how we pasken) - and before anyone tries to deny it, look it up - last Mishnah in גיטין.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 06:01 PM Leah Says:
Amazing - the topic with the most heated responses in days is girls learning. What a problem!! Step up and move into the 19th century. Become as liberal as Saudi Arabia ! These responses are depressing - you guys are really insecure.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:57 PM Anonymous Says:
“ i think the reason is obvious...
not to mention how would the charedi women react if they saw this trend as progressing?
could you imagine a charedi man actually making his own kugel?
(actually the thought of it made me burst out laughing) ”
There are many famous chareidi chefs in EY. Read the story last week about the Sanser wedding and all the men who cooked for the other men.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:49 PM Random Jew Says:
Bruria
Devorah
Rashi's Daughter
Were these all MO?
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:18 PM Robert Says:
“ This whole idea is completly against what G-d wants and stinks of yeshus and gaiva. It's a waste of time. It's not tznua and it's not their avoda. Men are incapable of doing many things that women are able to do - spiritually and biologically. It's so sad that so many foreign elements such as this have come into Judaism trying to replace it (including but not limited to: Zionism, Feminism, Socialism, "the Lubuvitcher Rebbe shlita is Moshiach-ism" and "Frumism", e.g. not being able to sit next to one's own wife on the bus). I hope these modern day avodah zoras stay the exception and don't become the norm, although certain konaiyim in EY, Chabad and many "modern Orthodox" groups (whatever that means) have already "converted" to islam, x-tianity and the conservative movement, repectively. ”
i think you crossed the line by writing " certain konaiyim in EY, Chabad and many "modern Orthodox" groups (whatever that means) have already "converted" to islam, x-tianity and the conservative movement, repectively."
this is simply falsehood and deranged thinking on your part..
legitimate judaism has various forms of expression including chabad and "modern orthodox" that you denigrate. ther eare other forms of legitimate judaism too such as satmar chasidism and sephardic judaism to name but a few..
these people are not muslims nor christians and you deserve severe punishment for stating such divisive lunacy.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:18 PM Anonymous Says:
“ Let me start off by saying that I would not want my wife or daughters learning like this. However, my bracha to myself is that should be the worst things they ever do!! Instead of focusing on the "issur of women learning" and whether not women should be learning, let's focus on the picture of these tzniusly-dressed girls learning Torah. Even if if they "shouldn't be learning," how happy should we be that they are not engaging in znus on their free time! There are so many girls from Bais Yaacov, etc. that do one thing when they are in school and when the day is over they live a different life. How great is it that even when these girls have no obligation to learn, they go and try to immerse in Hashem's Torah while they could be doing nothing worthwhile!! Whether or not anyone believes in women learning, we should see the good in their actions and focus on the real "time-wasting" problems that cause much greater harm in our community. ”
“ Let me start off by saying that I would not want my wife or daughters learning like this. However, my bracha to myself is that should be the worst things they ever do"
You are right. Its NOT your decision what your wife and daughters will learn. If they choose to get together one night a week to discuss a mishna or listen to a daf yomi class on their IPod, will you physically try to restrain them. Your posting indicates you know better, and understand that the thirst for knowledge and torah learning is unstoppable and the only issue is when traditional yiddeshe institutions will get with the program.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 05:12 PM Anonymous Says:
im pretty sure that the reform movement started the same way. just a little change here, and a little change there. funny thing is, if the reason behind this is so that ladies can paskun for ladies, whats the need? i dont hear rabbonim complaining that their workload is to much since they have ladies coming to ask questions. if so then whats the need for these programs? nobody said a lady shouldnt learn but this is pushing it.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 07:39 PM Use Your Head Says:
One more comments:
IF ONLY it could be that women learning Gemara was the biggest problem faced by the Orthodox community!
Seriously, if anyone is spending serious time combating this "plague", then they either live in a cave or have a very poor grasp of priorities.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 07:41 PM Anonymous Says:
“ im pretty sure that the reform movement started the same way. just a little change here, and a little change there. funny thing is, if the reason behind this is so that ladies can paskun for ladies, whats the need? i dont hear rabbonim complaining that their workload is to much since they have ladies coming to ask questions. if so then whats the need for these programs? nobody said a lady shouldnt learn but this is pushing it. ”
bad example
you obviuously know little of the origin of the reform movement
additionally, the same could be said about chasidism and religious zionism
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Nov 08, 2009 at 07:27 PM Dovid Says:
“ After 120 years of a mans life, hashem will ask if he spent his time in this world learning torah. If not hashem will ask him why not. But these women will be asked why have you spent your time on something which is not for you its a boosha will the women start to ware pants or daven for the amud or become esrog soichrim? I think its shreclech are these women neturai karta by any chance? soon they will put on a reekel and a shtrimel i just hope im wrong also i think instead of learning baba metzia they should learn baba maysa ”
Most women will not do that -they will be your doctor, your lawyer and your member of knesset. gevalt!!
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Nov 08, 2009 at 07:46 PM Anonymous Says:
its perfectly fine for women to study gemarah. there are so many women going off the derech in monroe, monsey, wiliamsburg and especially crown heights. Halevai, they should learn gemarah instead of going to bars and clubs, wearing untniusdik clothing etc.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 07:57 PM LESKID Says:
How are these women going to get shiddach? Frum men would be intimidated by them.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 07:57 PM Anonymous Says:
“ After 120 years of a mans life, hashem will ask if he spent his time in this world learning torah. If not hashem will ask him why not. But these women will be asked why have you spent your time on something which is not for you its a boosha will the women start to ware pants or daven for the amud or become esrog soichrim? I think its shreclech are these women neturai karta by any chance? soon they will put on a reekel and a shtrimel i just hope im wrong also i think instead of learning baba metzia they should learn baba maysa ”
why do you say that? get your head out of the sand. these women are tzanuos. why would you claim having a seder in talmud is euqatable with wearing pants? you are a sick individual and should seek ental helth assistance at once!
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Nov 08, 2009 at 07:56 PM Anonymous Says:
“ One more comments:
IF ONLY it could be that women learning Gemara was the biggest problem faced by the Orthodox community!
Seriously, if anyone is spending serious time combating this "plague", then they either live in a cave or have a very poor grasp of priorities. ”
be aware, if they keep learning talmud they may become so smart so as to usurp the male dominance and financial control of the charedi male oriented society.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 07:54 PM Anonymous Says:
“ One of the major perakim in Bava Metzia discusses hashavas avedah, returning lost objects. How fitting would it be if these holy yiddish neshamos would likewise return themselves back to their proper place; i.e. in the home. The home that only they, the Jewish woman, can create and nurture. ”
What about the woman who leave their babys at home at 7:30AM to go to work and return at 6:00PM, allthewhile the spanish baby sitters watch the babies speaking to them and singing to them in spanish. why dont u critisize them woman?
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Nov 08, 2009 at 07:54 PM Anonymous Says:
“ This whole idea is completly against what G-d wants and stinks of yeshus and gaiva. It's a waste of time. It's not tznua and it's not their avoda. Men are incapable of doing many things that women are able to do - spiritually and biologically. It's so sad that so many foreign elements such as this have come into Judaism trying to replace it (including but not limited to: Zionism, Feminism, Socialism, "the Lubuvitcher Rebbe shlita is Moshiach-ism" and "Frumism", e.g. not being able to sit next to one's own wife on the bus). I hope these modern day avodah zoras stay the exception and don't become the norm, although certain konaiyim in EY, Chabad and many "modern Orthodox" groups (whatever that means) have already "converted" to islam, x-tianity and the conservative movement, repectively. ”
in the yeshivishe velt they would rather these girls spend their remaining years between seminary and the hcuppah leading the high school contatadada. time well spent
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Nov 08, 2009 at 07:54 PM Anonymous Says:
“ its perfectly fine for women to study gemarah. there are so many women going off the derech in monroe, monsey, wiliamsburg and especially crown heights. Halevai, they should learn gemarah instead of going to bars and clubs, wearing untniusdik clothing etc. ”
thats good to know
i had no idea there was such a problem
lets hope this gemarah study will be mekarev these women and be a light for those off the derech
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Nov 08, 2009 at 07:53 PM esther Says:
“ exactly why we should supress it..
could you imagine a home where a woman can not only cook better than her husband but actually learn better? ”
woman shouldn't learn because they'll outshine their husbands? that;s just ludicrous.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 07:53 PM Anonymous Says:
“ This whole idea is completly against what G-d wants and stinks of yeshus and gaiva. It's a waste of time. It's not tznua and it's not their avoda. Men are incapable of doing many things that women are able to do - spiritually and biologically. It's so sad that so many foreign elements such as this have come into Judaism trying to replace it (including but not limited to: Zionism, Feminism, Socialism, "the Lubuvitcher Rebbe shlita is Moshiach-ism" and "Frumism", e.g. not being able to sit next to one's own wife on the bus). I hope these modern day avodah zoras stay the exception and don't become the norm, although certain konaiyim in EY, Chabad and many "modern Orthodox" groups (whatever that means) have already "converted" to islam, x-tianity and the conservative movement, repectively. ”
dead wrong
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Nov 08, 2009 at 08:39 PM Truth Says:
I'm not going into this debate as far as ossur or mutter, but what I don't understand is this: If they have so much time on their hands, why don't they work or work more so their husbands or future husbands will have more time to learn? The gemorrah says a woman gets olam habah for helping her husband learn. This smells of Women's lib, which is rampid in our generation. If they were learning things for practical halacha is one thing, but this doesn't seem to be the case!
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Nov 08, 2009 at 08:36 PM Anonymous Says:
Real men are not threatened by women who are learned and they are not threatened by having to roll up their sleeves and help with childcare and housework. What is it about charedi life that makes men so afraid of women. They are afraid of women on buses, women in the street and now women sitting and studying.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 08:32 PM Anonymous Says:
From Rav Moshe Feinstein:
To Rav Elya Svei, Shlita, Rosh Yeshiva of Philadelphia,
Regarding the issue that there are some girls schools that are called Bais Yaakovs and the like, where the administration and the teachers of the school want to teach the girls Mishnayos: Behold, in the Rambam Talmud Torah 1:13 he rules like R. Eliezer in Sotah 20a, that you may not teach girls Torah. Yet he distinguishes between Torah Shebal Peh, which, if you teach to girls is as if you taught them Tiflus, whereas Torah Shebiksav is not as if you taught them Tiflus, but L'Chatchilah you shouldn't teach it to them anyway. In any case, Mishnayos, which is Torah Shebal Peh, Chazal commanded us not to teach to girls, and if you do, it is as if you taught them Tiflus. Therefore, you should prevent them from doing this [teaching Mishnayos], with the exception of Pirkei Avos, which, because it discusses Mussar and good Midos, you may teach it to them with explanations, in order to awaken them to Ahavas HaTorah and good Midos, but not any other Mesechta. And because this issue is simple, I will end here with a blessing that you may spread Torah and Yiras Shamayim to the world.
Your friend,
Moshe Feinstein
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Nov 08, 2009 at 08:56 PM Rivky Says:
“ A women once wakled into Reb Shach Zet'l and asked him a question in learning, so he responded by asking her; "do you know how to make a good kugle" meaning that that is ™he womens job, to cook, clean, take care of the kids, and look nice for her husband. The mans job is to learn and work. ”
There is no way this is a true story. Rav Schach would never say something that demeaning and insulting. To say so is insulting his memory.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 08:23 PM Anonymous Says:
“ What about the woman who leave their babys at home at 7:30AM to go to work and return at 6:00PM, allthewhile the spanish baby sitters watch the babies speaking to them and singing to them in spanish. why dont u critisize them woman? ”
While it may not be what many yeshivish women would feel comfortable with, a group of young women in our MO shul get together once a month at a local brew-pub and spend about 2 hours in a discussion of talmud. Its sort of a daf yomi class where one of the women takes the lead each month to prepare a shiur on a mishna etc. They spend about an hour in learning and an hour just schmoozing. For most of them, its a chance to get out of the house and combine torah study and socializing. No food,just coffee and beer. Again, not for the really frume, but somthing that works for them.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 08:23 PM Anonymous Says:
“ Women learning gemarah is the reason for rising divorce in the 21st century??? What cloud are you on. ”
U missed the boat! It has to to the fact that woman are telling there husbands halachicly what they should and shouldn't do! To daven with minyan etc... women think they are just as equal as men. And in our jewish history women are a piller in the house hold but not the decision makers. But it became a new thing of women's rights as equal rights, and that's what screws up marriages! These seminars not to mention names are the ONES AT FALT FOR THE SHIDDUCH CRISES! They make the girls the Rabbi of the house and it pisses off 99 percent of the guys!
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Nov 08, 2009 at 08:22 PM Raphael Kaufman Says:
“ here you go quoting??? the gemara in Sota when in fact it says nothing about a woman learning, its says "Kol hamelamed es bito Torah" - nothing about if she wants to learn by herself.
I believe it was Rav Sholom Schwadron who said his mother knew Shas. But I may be mistaken.
There have always been individual women who were learned (Rashi's daughters, for example) - there was one Rebbetzin who gave shiur from behind a mechitza. Sorry, I don't have all the sources handy.
What has changed is this. Sara Schenirer started the Bais Yaakov movement with the approval of the gedolim - the Chofetz Chaim and many choshuva rebbes as well. The girls were going to secular school and what the Mama taught them was not keeping them interested in Yiddishkeit.
Now that many girls are secularly educated beyond the bachelor's level, many have a need for even more depth in their Jewish studies. While this could be in hashkafa etc some find it in Gemara. Their poskim might not be yours, but they do have Rabbonim on whom they rely.
In any case, as long as nobody asks you to enroll your daughter in this program, what purpose does your criticism serve? ”
Re: Sarah Schnerer, with very few notable exceptions, the aforementioned Chafetz Chaim being one, the great majority of Rabonim at the time were against her. Organized education of Jewish girls was at least as radical an idea in her times as girls learning gemarah is today
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Nov 08, 2009 at 09:14 PM Anonymous Says:
Sarah Schenirer never taught her students Mishnah and Gemara.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 09:47 PM Henry Kissinger Says:
“ what happened to miss bruriah and to rashi's daughters wearing tefillin?
where exactly does it say girls are forbidden to learn torah?
”
Where does it say that Rashi's daughter wore tefilin???
$1,000 cash reward to the person who can find basis for this legend.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 09:46 PM Babishka Says:
My husband wants me to start learning gemara so that I can be his chavrusa. He even bought me the Soncino Shas on CD.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 09:18 PM Anonymous Says:
attention can men join the new kolel?and how mich is pay?
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Nov 08, 2009 at 09:44 PM Henry Kissinger Says:
“ Sarah Schenirer never taught her students Mishnah and Gemara. ”
You mean they already knew shas when they came to learn by her so she taught them only rishonim???
Wow, you learn something new every day!
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Nov 08, 2009 at 09:38 PM Henry Kissinger Says:
Thank Gd, Iam so glad to see that all the other problems in the Orthodox world today have been solved, the drop-outs, the kids at risk, the bais yaakov girls who cannot find a place in a high school, the girls who cannot find shidduchim, the under-the-carpet child molestors, the crushing cost of education, etc., not to mention Iran trying to nuke eretz yisroel, c"v, the president of the USA trying to throw Isreal under the bus c"v and rising anti-semitism across the globe, hashem yishmorainu, and now you bozos have nothing else to whine about, other than someone else's daughter learning gemara.
How perfect your world must be.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 09:33 PM The Chofetz chaim was the gadol hador Says:
“ Re: Sarah Schnerer, with very few notable exceptions, the aforementioned Chafetz Chaim being one, the great majority of Rabonim at the time were against her. Organized education of Jewish girls was at least as radical an idea in her times as girls learning gemarah is today ”
I think the Chofetz chaim had the foresight to see that it was a good thing. Plus she went to get permission from Gedolim. Who is sanctioning these girls learning talmud. Which halachic authorities were consulted?
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Nov 08, 2009 at 09:28 PM Anonymous Says:
“ From Rav Moshe Feinstein:
To Rav Elya Svei, Shlita, Rosh Yeshiva of Philadelphia,
Regarding the issue that there are some girls schools that are called Bais Yaakovs and the like, where the administration and the teachers of the school want to teach the girls Mishnayos: Behold, in the Rambam Talmud Torah 1:13 he rules like R. Eliezer in Sotah 20a, that you may not teach girls Torah. Yet he distinguishes between Torah Shebal Peh, which, if you teach to girls is as if you taught them Tiflus, whereas Torah Shebiksav is not as if you taught them Tiflus, but L'Chatchilah you shouldn't teach it to them anyway. In any case, Mishnayos, which is Torah Shebal Peh, Chazal commanded us not to teach to girls, and if you do, it is as if you taught them Tiflus. Therefore, you should prevent them from doing this [teaching Mishnayos], with the exception of Pirkei Avos, which, because it discusses Mussar and good Midos, you may teach it to them with explanations, in order to awaken them to Ahavas HaTorah and good Midos, but not any other Mesechta. And because this issue is simple, I will end here with a blessing that you may spread Torah and Yiras Shamayim to the world.
Your friend,
Moshe Feinstein ”
Dear Reb Moshe;
Assuming you ever wrote this letter, which I very much doubt, please be aware that yiddeshe women today want to learn torah and talmud, and will do so whether you or the other chashuve rabbonim agree or not. Among all the aveirot that a yiddeshe women can do, I doubt the ebeshter will punish her for learning his torah and the words of his tannaim and ammorim .
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Nov 08, 2009 at 09:23 PM Who missed the boat? Says:
“ U missed the boat! It has to to the fact that woman are telling there husbands halachicly what they should and shouldn't do! To daven with minyan etc... women think they are just as equal as men. And in our jewish history women are a piller in the house hold but not the decision makers. But it became a new thing of women's rights as equal rights, and that's what screws up marriages! These seminars not to mention names are the ONES AT FALT FOR THE SHIDDUCH CRISES! They make the girls the Rabbi of the house and it pisses off 99 percent of the guys! ”
Whether you want to believe it or not, women make halachic decisions at home all the time. Do you eat what your wife/mother cooks? Who is the mashgichah? There isn't a man sitting in the kitchen going over all the purchases; it's the woman of the house. Who is the first person to teach a child Torah? The child's mother, as its says in the Haggadah, "At Ptach Lo" -- not "Atah", but "At", feminine. And since men feel that they have to be learning 24x7, who's helping out the kids (boys and girls) with their homework? Mommy. And Mommy needs to know what the kids are learning in order to help. So before you go blaming the equal rights movement (which, by the way, more or less petered out in the 70's), open your eyes & see what is going on & has been going on for generations at home.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 09:15 PM The Chofetz chaim was the gadol hador Says:
“ Re: Sarah Schnerer, with very few notable exceptions, the aforementioned Chafetz Chaim being one, the great majority of Rabonim at the time were against her. Organized education of Jewish girls was at least as radical an idea in her times as girls learning gemarah is today ”
I think the Chofetz chaim had the foresight to see that it was a good thing. Plus she went to get permission from Gedolim. Who is sanctioning these girls learning talmud. Which halachic authorities were consulted?
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Nov 08, 2009 at 09:23 PM Who missed the boat? Says:
“ U missed the boat! It has to to the fact that woman are telling there husbands halachicly what they should and shouldn't do! To daven with minyan etc... women think they are just as equal as men. And in our jewish history women are a piller in the house hold but not the decision makers. But it became a new thing of women's rights as equal rights, and that's what screws up marriages! These seminars not to mention names are the ONES AT FALT FOR THE SHIDDUCH CRISES! They make the girls the Rabbi of the house and it pisses off 99 percent of the guys! ”
Whether you want to believe it or not, women make halachic decisions at home all the time. Do you eat what your wife/mother cooks? Who is the mashgichah? There isn't a man sitting in the kitchen going over all the purchases; it's the woman of the house. Who is the first person to teach a child Torah? The child's mother, as its says in the Haggadah, "At Ptach Lo" -- not "Atah", but "At", feminine. And since men feel that they have to be learning 24x7, who's helping out the kids (boys and girls) with their homework? Mommy. And Mommy needs to know what the kids are learning in order to help. So before you go blaming the equal rights movement (which, by the way, more or less petered out in the 70's), open your eyes & see what is going on & has been going on for generations at home.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 09:15 PM The Chofetz chaim was the gadol hador Says:
“ Re: Sarah Schnerer, with very few notable exceptions, the aforementioned Chafetz Chaim being one, the great majority of Rabonim at the time were against her. Organized education of Jewish girls was at least as radical an idea in her times as girls learning gemarah is today ”
I think the Chofetz chaim had the foresight to see that it was a good thing. Plus she went to get permission from Gedolim. Who is sanctioning these girls learning talmud. Which halachic authorities were consulted?
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Nov 08, 2009 at 10:25 PM Getzel the Pretzel Says:
“ Whether you want to believe it or not, women make halachic decisions at home all the time. Do you eat what your wife/mother cooks? Who is the mashgichah? There isn't a man sitting in the kitchen going over all the purchases; it's the woman of the house. Who is the first person to teach a child Torah? The child's mother, as its says in the Haggadah, "At Ptach Lo" -- not "Atah", but "At", feminine. And since men feel that they have to be learning 24x7, who's helping out the kids (boys and girls) with their homework? Mommy. And Mommy needs to know what the kids are learning in order to help. So before you go blaming the equal rights movement (which, by the way, more or less petered out in the 70's), open your eyes & see what is going on & has been going on for generations at home.
”
“ Whether you want to believe it or not, women make halachic decisions at home all the time. Do you eat what your wife/mother cooks? Who is the mashgichah? There isn't a man sitting in the kitchen going over all the purchases; it's the woman of the house. Who is the first person to teach a child Torah? The child's mother, as its says in the Haggadah, "At Ptach Lo" -- not "Atah", but "At", feminine. And since men feel that they have to be learning 24x7, who's helping out the kids (boys and girls) with their homework? Mommy. And Mommy needs to know what the kids are learning in order to help. So before you go blaming the equal rights movement (which, by the way, more or less petered out in the 70's), open your eyes & see what is going on & has been going on for generations at home.
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Huh? You seem to lack basic knowledge. Tosfos in Gittin 2b says the makor of ed echad neeman bissurin is from Nidah because an eishah is neeman to say she is a niddah. That is a neemanus, not a psak. Make sure you understand the difference.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 10:10 PM Anonymous Says:
“ I think the Chofetz chaim had the foresight to see that it was a good thing. Plus she went to get permission from Gedolim. Who is sanctioning these girls learning talmud. Which halachic authorities were consulted? ”
“ I think the Chofetz chaim had the foresight to see that it was a good thing. Plus she went to get permission from Gedolim. Who is sanctioning these girls learning talmud. Which halachic authorities were consulted? ”
The chofetz chaim was a rebbe not a rabbonit. You may be talking about the his wife,rebbitzen Poupko, who was a big advocate of woman learning torah and talmud. In this case, there was no issue, now pask was needed, so there was no need to consult any rabbonim.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 10:08 PM Anonymous Says:
“ Who said they don't have the ability? The Gemara they are learning tells them a women who learns Gemara is learning pritzus. How do they gloss over that one? ”
tiflot not pritzut
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Nov 08, 2009 at 10:05 PM u hypocrite Says:
“ Just wondering how they are learning the gmora in sothah that women shoudnt learn, ”
if you can sit here and blog then women can sit and learn too.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 11:22 PM Aharon Says:
“ Where does it say that Rashi's daughter wore tefilin???
$1,000 cash reward to the person who can find basis for this legend. ”
he wore Rabbeinu Tam tefilin
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Nov 08, 2009 at 11:21 PM WithIt Says:
The Lubavitcher Rebbe said clearly to a number of Gedolim that girls have to learn gemorrah nowadays...when reb. sara schnerer opened bais yaakov critics also tried to invoke the gemorrah sotah but the gedolim soon realized times have changed. What is not tznius is to talk about girls or females in a negative light or to talk about them and look at their pictures on websites...let them learn and let us all be better for it...aishet chayil ateret baalah
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Nov 08, 2009 at 11:28 PM Anonymous Says:
After observing many responses and knowing how the frum world works, my conclusion is that the fear of women in Torah learning is based on general fear of women that is indoctrinated to boys from days they enter first class in Yeshivas.
In their small world, a woman is some scary creature that can corrupt their souls, so they fear them in news papers, in billboards, on the street, in the elevator, in the bus, in the store, in the office and even at home at most of the times.
Yeshivas teach you that a wife must listen to you, obey your words and leadership at home, work hard to support her husband, and at the same time raise kids, while the husband sits and learns and learns and learns.
Now come along these few women who are threatening the status quoe thinking which is always scarry, just like it is still scary for many people that Obama is the president. But, this fear is no different when women were allowed to work in the 19th century, then came the women's right to vote in political discourse, and most men dreaded that idea as well. First women doctors struggled to gain confidence from male patients who thought women were not made for that, but only to bake cake and soup.
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Nov 08, 2009 at 11:53 PM WB Says:
“ Who said they don't have the ability? The Gemara they are learning tells them a women who learns Gemara is learning pritzus. How do they gloss over that one? ”
I'd like 2 know how do they explain the gemura, "nushim daton kalos" ?
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Nov 08, 2009 at 11:35 PM OMG Says:
“ To #19 comment "The age old myth that women don't have the mental capacity to analyze gemora like men do will be shattered very fast"
Dear #19 the gemara says this about women, you're either a am haaretz or a apikoras, Shulchan Aruch and the Rambam paskin, that the fact that women don't have or use the same analytical reasonings and tools as men as the reason why the gmara says " a man who teaches his daughters Torah is like teaching her tiflus" go figure. ”
The gmara must have an meaning which we don’t understand, just look in any science discipline woman are doing as good as man
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Nov 09, 2009 at 12:05 AM Anonymous Says:
“ I'd like 2 know how do they explain the gemura, "nushim daton kalos" ? ”
I would like to know how you explain it? I know that in Yeshivas that I learned in, nobody was able to explain it.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 12:00 AM Anonymous Says:
“ After observing many responses and knowing how the frum world works, my conclusion is that the fear of women in Torah learning is based on general fear of women that is indoctrinated to boys from days they enter first class in Yeshivas.
In their small world, a woman is some scary creature that can corrupt their souls, so they fear them in news papers, in billboards, on the street, in the elevator, in the bus, in the store, in the office and even at home at most of the times.
Yeshivas teach you that a wife must listen to you, obey your words and leadership at home, work hard to support her husband, and at the same time raise kids, while the husband sits and learns and learns and learns.
Now come along these few women who are threatening the status quoe thinking which is always scarry, just like it is still scary for many people that Obama is the president. But, this fear is no different when women were allowed to work in the 19th century, then came the women's right to vote in political discourse, and most men dreaded that idea as well. First women doctors struggled to gain confidence from male patients who thought women were not made for that, but only to bake cake and soup. ”
How do you bake soup?
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Nov 09, 2009 at 12:00 AM Anonymous Says:
“ How are these women going to get shiddach? Frum men would be intimidated by them. ”
I married a brilliant, learned physician. Who has the sense to stay away from discussions like this, unlike her husband.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 12:09 AM Charlie Hall Says:
“ I think the Chofetz chaim had the foresight to see that it was a good thing. Plus she went to get permission from Gedolim. Who is sanctioning these girls learning talmud. Which halachic authorities were consulted? ”
“ I think the Chofetz chaim had the foresight to see that it was a good thing. Plus she went to get permission from Gedolim. Who is sanctioning these girls learning talmud. Which halachic authorities were consulted? ”
Rov Soloveitchik was an outspokenly enthusiastic supporter of women learning Talmud. In fact he *personally* taught Talmud to women.
No other opinion is needed.
Midreshet Lindenbaum, the oldest of the three institutions mentioned in the article, was founded by Rabbi Chaim Brovender, a talmid of Rov Soloveitchik.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 12:08 AM gavi Says:
the chidazatzal, Tuv Ayin, no. 4, rules that the prohibition on teaching woman gemara only applies when you are making it a mandantory part of curiculum, as in most schools, but if the women asks to learn gemara their is no prohibition in teaching her,the perisha zatzal states taht a girl of exceptional talent may be taught gemara, althouigh he bans her father from doing the teaching, although their is an implication that this might just be while shes a girl, i will gladly agree their are rabbanim who disagree, ut the issue is not quite as clear cut as some think tmtsa-gavi
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Nov 09, 2009 at 05:52 AM starwolf Says:
We know that there is Rabbinical sanction for women to learn Gemara, as posted by Charlie Hall above.
As far as women not having the "mental capacity to analyze gemara", at one time it was common to think the same about biochemisty. Nobody has shown that the mental capacity of women is any less than that of men; on the contrary, when women have the opportunity to study and learn various disciplines, they do just as well as men.
The reason that women traditionally did not seem to have the "mental capacity" is that they were not trained to do it. Training is what sharpens mental capacity.
I will send my daughters to a school where gemara is part of the curriculum. If they should choose to continue studying gemara for their lifetimes--not a bad thing at all in my eyes. The Torah belongs to all of us, men and women alike. I do not hold the Eastern European tradition of not educating women up as an ideal; I do not want "Tzena u'r'ena" to be the only sefer with which they are familiar.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 05:14 AM Miss Williamsburg Says:
“ to all you bashers. whats better, women SHOPPING!!!! When women learn Torah, they get a sense of meaning in life and make a difference. Not just popping out kids and talking lashon hara. These women learning are going to bring moshiach. If williamsburg women learnt torah, there wouldn't be so much hidden things that are going on that are discusting to the meaning of "chassidic". Kol hakovod girls, learn, because the ones against you are not learned and are jealous. ”
So to you women can either be shopping, popping babies and talking Loshon Horah, or learning Baba Metzia.
Well, let me enlighten you that many women can also do many other things in between like run a beautiful home , work a prestigious job, be involved in various Chessed projects out there just to mention a few.
And please don't bring jealousy garbage in here. First of all, girls in Williamsburg (except Satmar) learn Chumash. Secondly, I think the last thing women would be jealous of is something that they don't think pertains to them . And there's nothing happening here due to the lack of girls not learning Gemorah.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 05:07 AM Miss Williamsburg Says:
“ After observing many responses and knowing how the frum world works, my conclusion is that the fear of women in Torah learning is based on general fear of women that is indoctrinated to boys from days they enter first class in Yeshivas.
In their small world, a woman is some scary creature that can corrupt their souls, so they fear them in news papers, in billboards, on the street, in the elevator, in the bus, in the store, in the office and even at home at most of the times.
Yeshivas teach you that a wife must listen to you, obey your words and leadership at home, work hard to support her husband, and at the same time raise kids, while the husband sits and learns and learns and learns.
Now come along these few women who are threatening the status quoe thinking which is always scarry, just like it is still scary for many people that Obama is the president. But, this fear is no different when women were allowed to work in the 19th century, then came the women's right to vote in political discourse, and most men dreaded that idea as well. First women doctors struggled to gain confidence from male patients who thought women were not made for that, but only to bake cake and soup. ”
If that is your conclusion then it is wrong. From not wanting women to learn Baba Metziah to concluding that the boys are taught that their wives must follow their leadership is a little ridiculous.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 03:06 AM An educated woman Says:
Go ladies, learn as much as you can
your husband will respect you for who you are and not because "a woman should stay at home clean cook etc", where is it written in the Torah, that a woman should play this role only ?
I know a lot of Rabbonim and Rebbetzin who think like me, and encourage women to study a lot. I'm one of them and very proud of it
Are you men afraid that women could be more successful than you in Torah study ?
If some of you think that only a kigel is what a wife should do to be an eshes chayil, then you should be ashamed of you
a woman can work and take care of her family and house and learn and be a true devoted bas yisroel.
Can men do 10% of that ?
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Nov 09, 2009 at 02:56 AM yankie Says:
what do they do bein hasedorim (between sessions) ? YOGA ?? maybe a cigarette? Now that would be a site.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 08:05 AM Jerusalem Yid Says:
I think we're all missing the point. The sector involved is people, that do not listen to Rabbonim in many areas, or search to find a Rabbi which will give them some heter for their ideas. It's not just the geomora issue. It is girls going to the army, wearing pants, single motherhood etc. This group is beyond doubt the biggest threat to orthodox Jewry today. It is a modern form of Reform Jews.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 07:53 AM formally Says:
“ Can someone explain why Modern Orthodox or Religious Zionist women who learn Torah are such a threat to Charedi men? Why does it strike such a nerve? ”
maybe they will be more serious about it, than the men who are in kollel and treat it like a 9-5 job?
What happens if they shatter the myths that woman do not have the mind to learn gemorah and find there are many woman who can out learn the men?
Or, information also threatens the power structure, this can be dangerous to frum men since it will give woman a say, and maybe figure out that the gemorah says men should go to work and earn a living and the woman have been duped and used for too long
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Nov 09, 2009 at 07:40 AM Dr. E Says:
“ What about the woman who leave their babys at home at 7:30AM to go to work and return at 6:00PM, allthewhile the spanish baby sitters watch the babies speaking to them and singing to them in spanish. why dont u critisize them woman? ”
What about the women who leave their babies at home at 9:00AM to go to shop and and meet their friends for lunch to plan the next Chinese auction, return at 3:00PM, allthewhile their Spanish baby sitters watch the babies speaking to them and singing to them in Spanish. What about those women?”
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Nov 09, 2009 at 01:08 AM Anonymous Says:
“ Sarah Schenirer never taught her students Mishnah and Gemara. ”
the women i know who were in the advanced talmud program for women are the frummest most religious ladies i have ever met. some of them are teaching in yeshivos now - can u imagine? girls who learned torah going into chinuch, with actual chinuch knowlege ???
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Nov 09, 2009 at 01:06 AM Anonymous Says:
“ Sarah Schenirer never taught her students Mishnah and Gemara. ”
BH for Nechama Leibowitz
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Nov 09, 2009 at 01:04 AM Anonymous Says:
“ After observing many responses and knowing how the frum world works, my conclusion is that the fear of women in Torah learning is based on general fear of women that is indoctrinated to boys from days they enter first class in Yeshivas.
In their small world, a woman is some scary creature that can corrupt their souls, so they fear them in news papers, in billboards, on the street, in the elevator, in the bus, in the store, in the office and even at home at most of the times.
Yeshivas teach you that a wife must listen to you, obey your words and leadership at home, work hard to support her husband, and at the same time raise kids, while the husband sits and learns and learns and learns.
Now come along these few women who are threatening the status quoe thinking which is always scarry, just like it is still scary for many people that Obama is the president. But, this fear is no different when women were allowed to work in the 19th century, then came the women's right to vote in political discourse, and most men dreaded that idea as well. First women doctors struggled to gain confidence from male patients who thought women were not made for that, but only to bake cake and soup. ”
MASKIM! Personally, id rather a wife be a competent individual who paid attention in school in between choir practices and dance shows and actually knows the difference between the klai yakar and the ram'chal
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Nov 09, 2009 at 12:54 AM Devorah Says:
Isn't it funny that a post made a bit earlier, about battered charedi women going to an organization that's been around for YEARS, garners virtually no comments. None. No one condemning the abusers of women. No snide comments about the geulah, no proclamative generalizations about the Problems Of Judaism Today. Nothing. Silence.
Yet this, this small, innocent act of women learning Torah has the community furious. Are they hurting anyone? Have they advocated that women go off the derech? Have they decided to remain single forever? No. They are smart. That's all. That's what is so frightening, I guess. Just smart, dedicated women, who are tired of being shut out of their own religion.
To all of you conflating reform and conservative with this, I beg to differ. This is a harmless act, not hurting anyone (I must stress this to differentiate this from other recent chumrahs), and stems from women wanting to be closer to Hashem. Reform and conservative practices stem from people wanting to distance themselves from Torah laws. Please curb your inflammatory rhetoric, because it just reflects poorly on yourself.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 12:46 AM Anonymous Says:
“ The Lubavitcher Rebbe said clearly to a number of Gedolim that girls have to learn gemorrah nowadays...when reb. sara schnerer opened bais yaakov critics also tried to invoke the gemorrah sotah but the gedolim soon realized times have changed. What is not tznius is to talk about girls or females in a negative light or to talk about them and look at their pictures on websites...let them learn and let us all be better for it...aishet chayil ateret baalah ”
The gedolim to who you think he said this didn't seem to take it too seriously.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 12:45 AM Anonymous Says:
“ I'd like 2 know how do they explain the gemura, "nushim daton kalos" ? ”
As oe who has raised a housefull of daughters, bli ayin horah, as well as a lone kaddish-zogger, I can tell you that boys and girls do have entirely different thought processes. I believe what the gemara means is that becoming a kala is all girls think about from the time they are three years old.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 12:13 AM Charlie Hall Says:
“ Sarah Schenirer never taught her students Mishnah and Gemara. ”
But Rov Soloveitchik did.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 12:12 AM Anonymous Says:
“ Re: Sarah Schnerer, with very few notable exceptions, the aforementioned Chafetz Chaim being one, the great majority of Rabonim at the time were against her. Organized education of Jewish girls was at least as radical an idea in her times as girls learning gemarah is today ”
Actually Sarah Schnerer was not the pioneer. Formal Jewish education for young women in modern times began in New York with the school founded in 1808 by Israel Baer Kurdsheet and Gershom Mendes Seixas. They were followed by Rebecca Gratz, Rabbi A. J. Rice, and Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch, among others.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 09:00 AM Anonymous Says:
"Beruriah was only one of several woman quoted often in the Talmud. She was the wife of the Tanna Rabbi Meir and the daughter of Rabbi Hananiah Ben Tarfon."
You do mean Tradyon, don't you? but otherwise a nice post
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Nov 09, 2009 at 08:58 AM tzoorba Says:
“ I would like to know how you explain it? I know that in Yeshivas that I learned in, nobody was able to explain it. ”
Rabbi Avigdor Miller said that it means that women are more easily swayed by emotional arguments than men. They are no less intelligent.
Since making halachic decisions often requires taking a strong stand, and not being swayed by emotional arguments or other means of persuasion, this would be an issue in accepting their torah decisions.\\
It is well known that when Al Gore openly displayed affection for his wife when he was running for office, this swayed a tremendous number of women towards him as they cast aside any other valid policy decisions. This was widely discussed in the news media.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 09:50 AM Anonymous Says:
“ I think we're all missing the point. The sector involved is people, that do not listen to Rabbonim in many areas, or search to find a Rabbi which will give them some heter for their ideas. It's not just the geomora issue. It is girls going to the army, wearing pants, single motherhood etc. This group is beyond doubt the biggest threat to orthodox Jewry today. It is a modern form of Reform Jews. ”
while i have my doubts of women in yeshiva learning like men, your comment is absurd and inflammatory,
i think you need prozac
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Nov 09, 2009 at 09:59 AM Robert Says:
“ Isn't it funny that a post made a bit earlier, about battered charedi women going to an organization that's been around for YEARS, garners virtually no comments. None. No one condemning the abusers of women. No snide comments about the geulah, no proclamative generalizations about the Problems Of Judaism Today. Nothing. Silence.
Yet this, this small, innocent act of women learning Torah has the community furious. Are they hurting anyone? Have they advocated that women go off the derech? Have they decided to remain single forever? No. They are smart. That's all. That's what is so frightening, I guess. Just smart, dedicated women, who are tired of being shut out of their own religion.
To all of you conflating reform and conservative with this, I beg to differ. This is a harmless act, not hurting anyone (I must stress this to differentiate this from other recent chumrahs), and stems from women wanting to be closer to Hashem. Reform and conservative practices stem from people wanting to distance themselves from Torah laws. Please curb your inflammatory rhetoric, because it just reflects poorly on yourself. ”
you make an excellent point
however remember that most of the bloggers here ( despite what they seem) are wasting time from torah study and on some level hypocrites... in fact there are many rabbis who forbid internet use period...
mmm.. i guess those psuedo-rightious bloggers here must be the seeds of a new reform movement..
i agree with you.. physical and emotional abuse of either men or women in marriage is wrong and needs to be condemned and prevented and if possible corrected.
and the charedi community should be leaders in this regard as many people do expect from them a higher standard.
this particular article / blog ( and woman learning) is an easy one and in some ways its funny reading all the different "fervent" opinions here.. ultimately i dont think it matters either way no matter what they think.. the womwn's shelter and its need unfortunately is a communal tragedy and shame hence everyone ignores it here on VIN...
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Nov 09, 2009 at 10:01 AM David Says:
Folks,
They're not hurting anyone. They're also not forcing other women to learn, nor are they preventing men from learning. For those of you who say women can't learn, well, they either can or they can't. If these women try and succeed, then you will have been proven wrong. I have a slight suspicion that those of you who are so convinced that women "can't" or "shouldn't" do this are just a bit scared of the idea that some women might turn out to be better at it than you are.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 10:01 AM Robert Says:
“ Rabbi Avigdor Miller said that it means that women are more easily swayed by emotional arguments than men. They are no less intelligent.
Since making halachic decisions often requires taking a strong stand, and not being swayed by emotional arguments or other means of persuasion, this would be an issue in accepting their torah decisions.\\
It is well known that when Al Gore openly displayed affection for his wife when he was running for office, this swayed a tremendous number of women towards him as they cast aside any other valid policy decisions. This was widely discussed in the news media. ”
do you think therefore the discussion of women studying talmud is an emotional one for the women involved? and therefore perhaps not an issue on which they could rationally judge?
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Nov 09, 2009 at 10:15 AM Moshe Says:
“ I would like to know how you explain it? I know that in Yeshivas that I learned in, nobody was able to explain it. ”
Very easy to explain - men wrote it.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 10:08 AM chief doofis Says:
The comments comparing these young women to Reform are absurd. Even if the Gemara's comments about women studying apply LITERALLY to today's seminary students, are they Reform?
Most young women who learn Talmud in school, learn only a small amount. They familiarize themselves with what the Talmud is. No facility, in the US or Israel, has the intensive programs that are available to boys. I find it absurd that many young women will insist upon marrying only a "earning guy", but will have absolutely no idea, as to what he is learning.
I am not a doctor, nor a scientist, but a High School bio course and a college class in "Chemistry for poets", gave me at least the rudiments to read a newspaper article about a new discovery. So, too, a young woman, spending two hours a week, for four months (one term), finding out merely what the Talmud does, and getting an inkling into how Halacha develops, is harming no one, and makes for one more slightly educated Jew.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 10:23 AM ugh Says:
“ The gemarah states that a man can divorce his wife if she gets ugly, so hope you got your answer! ”
And a woman can divorce if she is disgusted by her husband.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 09:09 AM Anonymous Says:
“ After observing many responses and knowing how the frum world works, my conclusion is that the fear of women in Torah learning is based on general fear of women that is indoctrinated to boys from days they enter first class in Yeshivas.
In their small world, a woman is some scary creature that can corrupt their souls, so they fear them in news papers, in billboards, on the street, in the elevator, in the bus, in the store, in the office and even at home at most of the times.
Yeshivas teach you that a wife must listen to you, obey your words and leadership at home, work hard to support her husband, and at the same time raise kids, while the husband sits and learns and learns and learns.
Now come along these few women who are threatening the status quoe thinking which is always scarry, just like it is still scary for many people that Obama is the president. But, this fear is no different when women were allowed to work in the 19th century, then came the women's right to vote in political discourse, and most men dreaded that idea as well. First women doctors struggled to gain confidence from male patients who thought women were not made for that, but only to bake cake and soup. ”
This comment is truck load of pop sociological nonsense with an anti Orthodox bias that has no basis in fact. It is very apt that he brings in fear of his idol Obama as a parallel to his distorted view.
There are clear sources in Chazal that teaching torah to women is improper. Col hamelamed es bito torah, ceilu melamda tiflus. This is the position of Torah Shebaal peh that the majority of the sincere Orthodox world follows. Women are allowed to learn for themselves but men are not supposed to teach them. They must learn the laws that pertain to them.
Hashem has indicated a different and very significant role for women. They can't be tied down to the gemara like one needs to be in order to really grow in Torah. They must be free to develop the next generation of our people and provide them with the idealism and skills necessary for a life of exalted accomplishment. Women have been designed by Hashem to be most happy in this role. The radical feminists who have warped the gender roles in general have caused much harm and unhappiness.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 10:48 AM The Truth Says:
If a womens JOB is to stay at home, look after kids, cook & clean, then it is a mans JOB to earn a parnasah.
People who are against women leaning should by default be against women going out to work. "6 days a MAN shall WORK".
Its a mans JOB/curse to support his wife & family, not to sit while his wife works to support him. Please get you own life straight before criticizing anyone else.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 10:47 AM the italian Says:
I see no problems in learning Halocho. But if Chazal (and ALL main rishonim and acharonim pasken like this) that women are not to lear torah shebeal pe (Gemorah) unless it is for for issue that concern them, then how can they transgress divrei Chazal?? Reb Moishe Feinstein was asked if a Sem was allowed to teach Mishnayos, "and the reply was that they weren't allowed and since it is such a simple matter I will end here the reply..."
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Nov 09, 2009 at 10:44 AM Anonymous Says:
“ This whole idea is completly against what G-d wants and stinks of yeshus and gaiva. It's a waste of time. It's not tznua and it's not their avoda. Men are incapable of doing many things that women are able to do - spiritually and biologically. It's so sad that so many foreign elements such as this have come into Judaism trying to replace it (including but not limited to: Zionism, Feminism, Socialism, "the Lubuvitcher Rebbe shlita is Moshiach-ism" and "Frumism", e.g. not being able to sit next to one's own wife on the bus). I hope these modern day avodah zoras stay the exception and don't become the norm, although certain konaiyim in EY, Chabad and many "modern Orthodox" groups (whatever that means) have already "converted" to islam, x-tianity and the conservative movement, repectively. ”
you sound like a retarded - like a learned woman can teach u a thing or two
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Nov 09, 2009 at 11:44 AM starwolf Says:
“ This comment is truck load of pop sociological nonsense with an anti Orthodox bias that has no basis in fact. It is very apt that he brings in fear of his idol Obama as a parallel to his distorted view.
There are clear sources in Chazal that teaching torah to women is improper. Col hamelamed es bito torah, ceilu melamda tiflus. This is the position of Torah Shebaal peh that the majority of the sincere Orthodox world follows. Women are allowed to learn for themselves but men are not supposed to teach them. They must learn the laws that pertain to them.
Hashem has indicated a different and very significant role for women. They can't be tied down to the gemara like one needs to be in order to really grow in Torah. They must be free to develop the next generation of our people and provide them with the idealism and skills necessary for a life of exalted accomplishment. Women have been designed by Hashem to be most happy in this role. The radical feminists who have warped the gender roles in general have caused much harm and unhappiness.
”
I think that it's a little presumptive of someone to pretend that they know how (and for what) "women were designed by Hashem". And I believe that I will leave it up to each of the women in my life to decide how they are "most happy"--rather than take the assurance of an anonymous poster on the internet. As far as sources in Chazal, I beleive that I will go with the shita of Rav Soloveitchik, who, since he lived in times close to our own, had a clearer understanding of today's needs.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 12:34 PM Aharon Says:
For the past 2000 years - all the commentators have been men - perhaps that may explain some of the bias in what was written. Nishtaneh hateva. Women now have the basic and advanced skills to be on the modraiga of men - in fact, whenever they are compared, women surpass the men.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 12:59 PM Anonymous Says:
“ I'd like 2 know how do they explain the gemura, "nushim daton kalos" ? ”
It's nashim, not nushim.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 12:14 PM Anonymous Says:
“ i think you err...........
i never knew reforms even had study halls ”
reform do have study halls, they just don't learn gemara. they learn counseling, piblic speaking and (I'm not kidding about this) the "jewishness" of the xtian bible.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 11:55 AM Anonymous Says:
“ I think that it's a little presumptive of someone to pretend that they know how (and for what) "women were designed by Hashem". And I believe that I will leave it up to each of the women in my life to decide how they are "most happy"--rather than take the assurance of an anonymous poster on the internet. As far as sources in Chazal, I beleive that I will go with the shita of Rav Soloveitchik, who, since he lived in times close to our own, had a clearer understanding of today's needs. ”
Rav Soloveichik's opinion is by far the minority opinion in this issue among Torah leaders.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 01:53 PM Anonymous Says:
“ Rav Soloveichik's opinion is by far the minority opinion in this issue among Torah leaders. ”
see rav moshe on the subject
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Nov 09, 2009 at 01:41 PM Dag Says:
“ reform do have study halls, they just don't learn gemara. they learn counseling, piblic speaking and (I'm not kidding about this) the "jewishness" of the xtian bible. ”
I have been in the Bais Medrash at Hebrew Union in LA. They DO study Gemorah
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Nov 09, 2009 at 02:57 PM Devorah Says:
“ As oe who has raised a housefull of daughters, bli ayin horah, as well as a lone kaddish-zogger, I can tell you that boys and girls do have entirely different thought processes. I believe what the gemara means is that becoming a kala is all girls think about from the time they are three years old. ”
“ As oe who has raised a housefull of daughters, bli ayin horah, as well as a lone kaddish-zogger, I can tell you that boys and girls do have entirely different thought processes. I believe what the gemara means is that becoming a kala is all girls think about from the time they are three years old. ”
Let me introduce you to a concept: It's called "Anecdotal is not evidence." Your personal experience with three women isn't indicative of every woman in the world. Sorry.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 03:55 PM Anonymous Says:
“ “ As oe who has raised a housefull of daughters, bli ayin horah, as well as a lone kaddish-zogger, I can tell you that boys and girls do have entirely different thought processes. I believe what the gemara means is that becoming a kala is all girls think about from the time they are three years old. ”
Let me introduce you to a concept: It's called "Anecdotal is not evidence." Your personal experience with three women isn't indicative of every woman in the world. Sorry. ”
i pity your son that you refer to him as the "lone kadish zugger"
what a sick way to look at your good fortune, hashem has blessed you with 4 children .
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Nov 09, 2009 at 04:17 PM Truth Says:
“ What about the women who leave their babies at home at 9:00AM to go to shop and and meet their friends for lunch to plan the next Chinese auction, return at 3:00PM, allthewhile their Spanish baby sitters watch the babies speaking to them and singing to them in Spanish. What about those women?” ”
You're right, but what does this have to do with women learning gemorah? It's definetly not a chiyuv for them to learn torah she baal peh, so why aren't they doing chessed or other mitzvos that they do have a chiyuv to do? Don't tell me noone needs chessed anymore! This is just another women's lib idea kenneged our Chazal!
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Nov 09, 2009 at 06:34 PM Anonymous Says:
This is really a good idea, as long as it doesn't get out of hand, meaning a new 'kind of movement', which always brings things down a slippery slope. These women are needed because they will be of great help to women who would not feel comfortable speaking with a rabbi, as it might pertain to personal matters. It's all plain common sense; these are wise women who have the intelligence to learn and can be of great help in Jewish communities everywhere. Yasher Koach to them. There were great tzidkaniot who were brilliant learners like Bruriah and even Rashi's daughters. It is not new in Jewish history; it's only that in the religious world, it is usually not promoted only because (as we see today in so many areas) things do slip and get out of hand. The main thing, it remains as is, assistants to Rabbis, etc., and not a movement of some sort, warping into something else.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 05:58 PM starwolf Says:
“ Rav Soloveichik's opinion is by far the minority opinion in this issue among Torah leaders. ”
Nevertheless, it still is a valid opinion, and therefore one cannot say that women learning are departing form the ways of shmirat Torah and Mitzvot. Nobody is trying to force Gemara learning on all women. It is only for those who express an interest in furthering their understanding of Torah in exactly this way. Since they have Rabbinical approval from one who was an unquestioned Gadol Hador, it is beyond the province of those here to forbid them.
The women studying at Midreshet Lindenbaum are G-d-fearing, shomrot mitzvot. Like it or not, the institution is run according to Orthodox halachic guidelines although not Hareidi.
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Nov 09, 2009 at 05:30 PM Smartt Says:
“ You're right, but what does this have to do with women learning gemorah? It's definetly not a chiyuv for them to learn torah she baal peh, so why aren't they doing chessed or other mitzvos that they do have a chiyuv to do? Don't tell me noone needs chessed anymore! This is just another women's lib idea kenneged our Chazal! ”
just because its not mentioned in this specific article it does not mean that t he student body at rabbi brovender's seminary (which has been around for many many years affiliated with yeshiva hamivtar) do not do chessed. Quite the contrary, the girls in brovenders are quite involved in a wide range of true selfless chesed activities, i daresay much moreso than their sisters at places like the holy bnos chava.
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Nov 10, 2009 at 09:15 AM Aishes Chayil Says:
Women MUST learn Baba Metziah. Who is going to help their son chazer Aylu Metzios or Ha Mafkid? It sure ain't gonna be my hubby who is shtyging in kollel - bitul torah for him. It will be the mother - me, after I get home from work! It is VERY IMPORTANT that all mothers know parts of Boba Metziah!!
After making the kugel, I need to teach two of my sons those gemorahs - it's their homework to chazer, and they often need help. Bless Art Scroll, but I sure wish I was taught Boba Metziah in Bais Yaakov.
Indeed, like following a kugel recipe, I follow the Art Scroll, but it doesn't always come out right.
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Nov 10, 2009 at 08:36 PM Truth Says:
“ Women MUST learn Baba Metziah. Who is going to help their son chazer Aylu Metzios or Ha Mafkid? It sure ain't gonna be my hubby who is shtyging in kollel - bitul torah for him. It will be the mother - me, after I get home from work! It is VERY IMPORTANT that all mothers know parts of Boba Metziah!!
After making the kugel, I need to teach two of my sons those gemorahs - it's their homework to chazer, and they often need help. Bless Art Scroll, but I sure wish I was taught Boba Metziah in Bais Yaakov.
Indeed, like following a kugel recipe, I follow the Art Scroll, but it doesn't always come out right.
”
You must be being cynical. All the youngerleit that I know in Lakewood learn with their sons. It usually the Baal Habuss that doesn't have time. If you are serious (which I doubt) -time for a new hubby. Women have no chiyuv to learn gemorrah, but they have a chiyuv to do other mitzvos. Who gave them a right to stop doing the other mitzvos to spend time learning things that they don't have to? There is a story in the gemorrah that a Tanah wanted to learn other things, but they told him if you find a time that is not day or night than you can learn these other things -because you're supposed to learn torah day & night! Women aren't equal to men- we frum Jews don't believe in women's lib. Women have their path in Avodas Hashem and men have another. They are both not supposed to be on the same path. The reform movement started with just changing a little in yiddishkeit. B'zecus Noshim Tzidkonius Assidim L'goel. Let them do what my Bubbe and I'm sure their Bubbe's did all day - like collect tzedakah, read Tzeneh oo'rennah and say Tehillim and help out with Maycim, if their children are already grown and if they don't need to work to help support the family!
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Nov 10, 2009 at 09:56 PM mamzer talmid chochom Says:
“ Women MUST learn Baba Metziah. Who is going to help their son chazer Aylu Metzios or Ha Mafkid? It ain't sure gonna be the dad shtyging in kollel - bitul torah for him. It will be the mother - so she better know parts of Boba Metziah!! After making the kugel, I need to teach two of my sons those gemorahs and I sure wish I was taught them in Bais Yaakov. ”
You are 100% right. Even if you hold Torah lishma is assur gamur for women (1/2 of klal yisroel should be m'vatel talmud torah k'neged kulam??!!!!) this is part of raising the kids. If your husband won't chazer with them let him teach you. If he won't teach you find a nice MO bochur to learn with your kids or teach you so you can. Do NOT hire a yeshivish one as those who are not grubbe am ha'artzim will probably say no.
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Nov 11, 2009 at 06:21 AM Anonymous Says:
“ i wonder
what does it mean when they say "binah yeseirah nintah b'isha"
what does she have extra
and what is the purpose of this ”
what does it mean when they say "binah yeseirah nintah b'isha"
If you would learn a little more you would know that "kol yeser kinital dami."
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Nov 11, 2009 at 05:02 PM Shmuel Says:
The oblivious Anonymous, who do not have the guts to be known and defend his distorted perceptions, totally forgot that even in the good old days wise ladies were helping the community in various ways. For Example, Hashem advised Abraham to listen to Sarah, Devorah Haneviah and Esther Hamalkah, made a tremendous impact on the community and so did many other women who had a great variety of valuable functions in addition to their participation in running the household.
If you want to be respected, respect others too, including women.
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Nov 13, 2009 at 09:49 AM chief doofis Says:
“ You must be being cynical. All the youngerleit that I know in Lakewood learn with their sons. It usually the Baal Habuss that doesn't have time. If you are serious (which I doubt) -time for a new hubby. Women have no chiyuv to learn gemorrah, but they have a chiyuv to do other mitzvos. Who gave them a right to stop doing the other mitzvos to spend time learning things that they don't have to? There is a story in the gemorrah that a Tanah wanted to learn other things, but they told him if you find a time that is not day or night than you can learn these other things -because you're supposed to learn torah day & night! Women aren't equal to men- we frum Jews don't believe in women's lib. Women have their path in Avodas Hashem and men have another. They are both not supposed to be on the same path. The reform movement started with just changing a little in yiddishkeit. B'zecus Noshim Tzidkonius Assidim L'goel. Let them do what my Bubbe and I'm sure their Bubbe's did all day - like collect tzedakah, read Tzeneh oo'rennah and say Tehillim and help out with Maycim, if their children are already grown and if they don't need to work to help support the family! ”
The same source that allows you to stop doing "other mitzvot" and write on this blog, allows women to stop doing "other mitzvot" and learn a little. There is also a concept of "curiousity". You hear so much about Torah B'al Peh, you want to know a little bit about what it contains. None of these women want to become Roshei Yeshiva!