“ cant wait to se some buchirim playing some pranks, i see it already. oh and by the way who will be watching both screens while this confrence take place? (you'll be having lots of fun) ”

“ I think they should do chvrusa tunult like this ”

“ This is appalling and contradictory to today's frum community beliefs. Besides for the fact that internet "suddenly "now is allowed, there are several other factors that are wrong with this ShidduchVision picture. Up until the last bunch of years, calling the girl before the date was the norm- you were going out with her regardless, so it made sense to call right? But now its a no-no. Nobody calls beforehand (and if you do you're looked at as different). So if this is so, then what is with this whole webcam business? If these days it is considered "not Tznius" to speak to the boy/girl before the date, then why is this new phenomena okay?? This is so not temimasdik- this is superficial and contradictory! Besides for the fact that you can no way in the world even compare talking to a screen to the wonders of face-to-face communication, this whole new idea just lacks so much real depth! The decision of whether to continue going out again or not is going to be based soley on if the guy/girl is physically attractive enough- it cannot possibly be based on anything else because everything else that there is to consider you cant figure out from talking to a machine. A cold machine ”

“ This is appalling and contradictory to today's frum community beliefs. Besides for the fact that internet "suddenly "now is allowed, there are several other factors that are wrong with this ShidduchVision picture. Up until the last bunch of years, calling the girl before the date was the norm- you were going out with her regardless, so it made sense to call right? But now its a no-no. Nobody calls beforehand (and if you do you're looked at as different). So if this is so, then what is with this whole webcam business? If these days it is considered "not Tznius" to speak to the boy/girl before the date, then why is this new phenomena okay?? This is so not temimasdik- this is superficial and contradictory! Besides for the fact that you can no way in the world even compare talking to a screen to the wonders of face-to-face communication, this whole new idea just lacks so much real depth! The decision of whether to continue going out again or not is going to be based soley on if the guy/girl is physically attractive enough- it cannot possibly be based on anything else because everything else that there is to consider you cant figure out from talking to a machine. A cold machine ”

“ Great idea! NExt they should incorporate 100 questions that should be answered by each party to see if they are emotionally, financially, Hashkofo wise and other wise compatible. Only then do they get to see each other over the webcam. ”

“ This is appalling and contradictory to today's frum community beliefs. Besides for the fact that internet "suddenly "now is allowed, there are several other factors that are wrong with this ShidduchVision picture. Up until the last bunch of years, calling the girl before the date was the norm- you were going out with her regardless, so it made sense to call right? But now its a no-no. Nobody calls beforehand (and if you do you're looked at as different). So if this is so, then what is with this whole webcam business? If these days it is considered "not Tznius" to speak to the boy/girl before the date, then why is this new phenomena okay?? This is so not temimasdik- this is superficial and contradictory! Besides for the fact that you can no way in the world even compare talking to a screen to the wonders of face-to-face communication, this whole new idea just lacks so much real depth! The decision of whether to continue going out again or not is going to be based soley on if the guy/girl is physically attractive enough- it cannot possibly be based on anything else because everything else that there is to consider you cant figure out from talking to a machine. A cold machine ”

“ I never had such a good laugh in my life ”

“ yep you got it!! she'll be working for the next 10 years with 12 kids under 10 years old so you can warm up the seat 'learning'......
computer skills are essentail? oh - you're poor wife!
what about cooking? cleaning? is that just a bonus? ”

“ This is a great idea especially if you have to travel overseas, isn't it better to see if they click at all before an extensive trip. ”

“ AGAIN - another attempt to stifle and prevent natural communication and interrelationships among human beings, as HaShem intended it to be. How should couples relate normally to each other, when they get marries if they can't even meet normally? ! ”

“ Maybe next the weddings will be performed over the computer as well. ”

“ Can we do the chasuna like this too? It would surely save a lot of money.

Reminds me of the guy in China who recently married his virtual girlfriend... ”

“ The general comments evidence a lack of understanding of problem. This program was established because singles outside of the NY metropolitan area were often relegated to the bottom of the list of shidduch candidates because the time and expense involved in setting up a date.

Converesly, it is extremely taxing to travel to NY everytime a shidduch is discussed.

Most people feel it is in poor taste to set up a whirlwind tour of NY with % different dates in 2-3 days.

The ability to covenietly set up initial meetings will benefit many out of town singles who are currently underserved or sidelined.

While this was not the initial intent - it will be interesting to see if this concept catches on ig bochurim from lakewood will stop running to NYC or the surrounding areas -- allowing them to save time and money

Kudos to the people behind this project ”

“ There's actually a term for this: Webcam. It's not exactly a new concept..... ”

“ The general comments evidence a lack of understanding of problem. This program was established because singles outside of the NY metropolitan area were often relegated to the bottom of the list of shidduch candidates because the time and expense involved in setting up a date.

Converesly, it is extremely taxing to travel to NY everytime a shidduch is discussed.

Most people feel it is in poor taste to set up a whirlwind tour of NY with % different dates in 2-3 days.

The ability to covenietly set up initial meetings will benefit many out of town singles who are currently underserved or sidelined.

While this was not the initial intent - it will be interesting to see if this concept catches on ig bochurim from lakewood will stop running to NYC or the surrounding areas -- allowing them to save time and money

Kudos to the people behind this project ”

“ I'm wondering where these roshei yeshiva who obviously have no halachic reason to look at the potential mother in law or Kallah got a heter to look at these fremdeh women. To those who feel the rulings of the Rambam and Shulchan Oruch are out dated, but who rely on Reb Moishe z"l as their posek to be matir Cholov Akum or to reveal a tefech of a married woman's hair, please see Igros Moshe AH I s.40, titled issur histalkus binashim. ”

“ how are they going to solve the yichud issue if they are alone? guess the parents have to sit in while this is going on ”

“ The only people missing the point are those who refuse to acknowledge the real reason for this stupidity: that boys today (and their parents) believe that it is the responsibility of the girl to come to the boy for a date so that out-of-town girls have to spend their money and take their time to go out with this budding tzaddik. And not once either, but maybe after the 3rd or 4th date will this prize be willing to go to the girl's city to date and meet her parents. If Avrohom, TZ"L, were looking for a shidduch for Yitzchak, TZ"L, today, Lakewood would demand that Rivka, TZ"L, show up in Chevron so that Yitzchok need not be bothered. So please...no more platitudes about how this is going to save money for all. it is just another scam for a boy not to be menschleich when going out with a girl. ”

“ These comments are not correct and represent disrespect to talmidei chachomim and display farfrumte am hooratzus.

Rav Moshe z"l, who you are not worthy to talk about let alone criticize, was matir yisroel which has the din of aid echud who is supervising it and never matir cholov akum. You are not in the league to discuss his heter of a tefach of giluy saar.

There is no issur to look at women who are noheg tznius if you are not staring at them and are assessing a situation for halachic kashrus.

You can be machmir mistakenly for yourself, but don't impose your misguided chumras on the Torah true public. ”

“ These comments are not correct and represent disrespect to talmidei chachomim and display farfrumte am hooratzus.

Rav Moshe z"l, who you are not worthy to talk about let alone criticize, was matir yisroel which has the din of aid echud who is supervising it and never matir cholov akum. You are not in the league to discuss his heter of a tefach of giluy saar.

There is no issur to look at women who are noheg tznius if you are not staring at them and are assessing a situation for halachic kashrus.

You can be machmir mistakenly for yourself, but don't impose your misguided chumras on the Torah true public. ”

“ Read the bible and you'll c that ACTUALLY rifka did go to Yitzhok avinu. Mayb you should stop doing shnayim mikra and actually not only read but actually try and understand it as well.
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“ Read the bible and you'll c that ACTUALLY rifka did go to Yitzhok avinu. Mayb you should stop doing shnayim mikra and actually not only read but actually try and understand it as well.
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“ Ok, now that I have seen your face, I will ask you to stand up so can get the entire picture of you, size, waist. OK all done press disconnect next girl she or he is pretty for me to fat nothing happening. I like this, why spend money on a date when after 2 minutes u decide NOT for me. ”