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Published on:   February 20, 2010 11:04 PM
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Albany, NY - A local rabbi charged with unlawfully dealing with a child after police say an underage UAlbany student drank and was taken to the hospital after a party hosted at the rabbi’s home.

Rabbi Mendel Rubin, the Director of UAlbany’s Jewish Student Center faces a misdemeanor charge after police say he hosted a party at the center called Shabbos House and a student who attended was taken to the hospital. Police say this happened back on February 5th.

According to the police report at the scene the underage student was unconscious and blew above a .4 into a blood alcohol screening device, but the rabbi’s lawyer says that number isn’t accurate.

Guilderland Police Captain Curtis Cox says, “our emergency services got a call for someone sick almost unconscious on Fuller Road, so our department responded with our EMS department.

Police responded to 320 Fuller Road, Shabbos House, the Jewish Student Center at UAlbany. Cox says, “EMS reported the person to be highly intoxicated and it appeared he had been sick. Thats when officers started their investigation.”

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According to the police report, Rabbi Mendel Rubin was hosting a party at the house where alcohol was provided. Police say the sick person, an underage student, had consumed alcohol at the party.

He had to be transported to St. Peter’s Hospital and according to the report the student blew a .459. Cox says, “at that BAC you are highly impaired its even life threatening.”

Rabbi Rubin’s lawyer Peter Gerstenzang says that BAC can’t be accurate. By phone Friday night, Gerstenzang told FOX23 the student was attending the rabbi’s birthday party which was only an hour long. Alcohol was provided for the adults attending. Gerstenzang says the student helped himself to the drinks adding the rabbi and his wife never served the minor.

Gerstenzang said by phone tonight that the Rubins are horrified by the charge. “This was a complete aberration that has shocked the Rubins and has resulted in an advisory committee being formed to supervise the issue. They have also instituted an absolute ban of alcohol at Shabbos House.”

Gerstenzang says the Rubins didn’t know the young man was drinking until he threw up and the ambulance was called. He added the student was back at Shabbos House the next day.

Rabbi Rubin was issued an appearance ticket, he is due back in Guilderland Town Court at a later date.


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1

 Feb 20, 2010 at 10:18 PM dont worry Says:

Rabbi rubin, all the good u do, will protect u from all harm this guys wana do, u have done notin worng, when u have so many students attending ur house for shabbos meals,u r not controlling everyone, just drink another glezala maskah and things will be super good

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 10:25 PM Anonymous Says:

This is a problem at many Chabad house on or near college campuses. Kids are attracted to their events because they know alcohol is available, no questions asked. It is a shanda.

3

 Feb 20, 2010 at 10:22 PM Anonymous Says:

Your headline caption that a "child" drank to unconsciousness is really misleading and sensationalist to the point of being irresponsible.

4

 Feb 20, 2010 at 10:30 PM Anonymous Says:

"By phone Friday night, Gerstenzang told FOX23 the student was attending the"

this must be a typo.

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 10:30 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #1  
dont worry Says:

Rabbi rubin, all the good u do, will protect u from all harm this guys wana do, u have done notin worng, when u have so many students attending ur house for shabbos meals,u r not controlling everyone, just drink another glezala maskah and things will be super good

Idiot.

6

 Feb 20, 2010 at 10:34 PM Anonymous Says:

Since when is a 19 year old a child?

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 10:40 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #4  
Anonymous Says:

"By phone Friday night, Gerstenzang told FOX23 the student was attending the"

this must be a typo.

my guess is the lawyer isnt Jewish/frum (at least I dont know him and I live in the community) in which case, the news could have spoken to him on Shabbos.

I don't know what happened, but I know Mendel and Raizy are responsible adults. I hope this gets resolved quickly and in the most just way.

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 10:43 PM Anonymous Says:

@2
It is not a problem that they supply alcohol at chabad houses near college campuses its actually amazing that they do because if they didn't no one would show up. Chabad is singlehandedly responsible for being mekarev hundreds of students this way.

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 10:44 PM chabad Says:

To everybody who has a issue with chabad and looking to build of this story "kushen toches "

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 10:49 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #8  
Anonymous Says:

@2
It is not a problem that they supply alcohol at chabad houses near college campuses its actually amazing that they do because if they didn't no one would show up. Chabad is singlehandedly responsible for being mekarev hundreds of students this way.

It isn't 'amazing' to mekarev people with booze. Students will and do show up at other kiruv events by Chabad and other organizations without booze being present.

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 10:52 PM dont worry Says:

U # 5, would u care to explain urself, I know this rubin's well, and don't remember them as lazy people, therefor I'd say jusr keep ur mouth shut, and if u have not been there ,just stay quite, beisdes that we all very well know, were this kids would end up on a friday night if not at a chabad house, in the best case it would be in a local bar, and be takan away with EMS from there, I know chabad well,and I'm actually satmer, andi know the students just as well, my renting to them

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 10:56 PM Milhouse Says:

Reply to #10  
Anonymous Says:

It isn't 'amazing' to mekarev people with booze. Students will and do show up at other kiruv events by Chabad and other organizations without booze being present.

What a chassidisher farbrengen can achieve, even Malach Michoel cannot. Gedoloh legimoh shemekareves.

13

 Feb 20, 2010 at 10:57 PM Anonymous Says:

A very timely warning, with Purim coming up!

14

 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:02 PM litvish Says:

as someone that is involved with kiruv, i can tell you that aside from the Rubins great work out there in Albany, they are one of the most responsible Chabad Shlichim out there on campus. they are not party animals they are not a twenty three yo couple looking to find some fun. They have been out there for over a decade and have created a name for themselves as being extremely responsible not at all vild and not at all the kind to give drinks to minors. I am not going to just say that they do kiruv work, my point is the responsibility part of it. It may or many not have been a slip but at least for now give them a chance to let them clarify it before coming to conclusions. I myself studied in University and many times would drink before going to any event.

Mendel from your litvish friends

Chazak

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:03 PM Shmuli Says:

As someone who knows R' Mendel for many years still when he was a bochur in yeshiva, I could attest that he is a true tzadik. I rarely have ever met someone so devoted and out there to help another person!

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:10 PM UALBANY STUDENT Says:

i go there all the time, as do my friends, and I've never seen alchohol there, and that's certainly not the reason people go there. it's a very special place, with a great atmosphere that accepts everyone regardless where they're coming from.

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:13 PM Anonymous Says:

And why does there have to be alcohol in the first case?

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:15 PM Anonymous Says:

Thousands of students go by the Rabbi. Only an idiot would call him irresponsible.

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:16 PM dreidlerai Says:

so what do all the chachomin say to defend this chap when he IS sanctioned by Merkos??? bottom line they can't ever take criticism either way, always with some kind of answer amas loi and NEVER man enough to take responsibility

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:19 PM what do you know Says:

Reply to #10  
Anonymous Says:

It isn't 'amazing' to mekarev people with booze. Students will and do show up at other kiruv events by Chabad and other organizations without booze being present.

The Rubins are from the most responsible citizens of the USA. And I am not kidding!

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:19 PM Milhouse Says:

Reply to #17  
Anonymous Says:

And why does there have to be alcohol in the first case?

First, because it's a Jewish tradition. Second, because alcohol is Hashem's gift to us: veyayin yesamach levav enosh. Third, because alcohol helps the neshomo cut through the shell we build around it, and puts one in a receptive mood to hear what one needs to hear but doesn't want to. Mashkin es habeheimo lifnei hashchitoh. None of this means one should overdo it, but there's no reason to believe that the student drank too much at the farbrengen.

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:21 PM t s Says:

1. R Rubin is probably a great guy.
2. Chabad does seriously good work.
3. This kid (adult) probably got booze at the Rabbi's house.

Why can't #3 remain the exclusive focus?

If you host a party at which there is booze available, it is your responsibility as to what happens between the booze and the people. Even for adults there can be an issue if you served booze and someone leaves drunk and drives does damage.

Bottom line is booze should be a controlled substance - by you the owner and host. And if you don't own up to this responsibility, you may pay consequences - regardless of whether you are a Rabbi, Car salesman, in a Chabad place or your private home.

23

 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:22 PM UALBANYPARENT Says:

My daughter attends University at Albany and my family has been to Chabad on a few occasions. I did not see any alcohol there. There was no drinking. It
was a wonderful experience to be there. The rabbi and his wife are such wonderful people. They give so much of themselves to others. It saddens me that they are going through this ordeal.

24

 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:24 PM transparent Says:

Reply to #9  
chabad Says:

To everybody who has a issue with chabad and looking to build of this story "kushen toches "

I think from the comments it is transparent that the Rubins are responsible. You have to be nice to others.

25

 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:23 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #2  
Anonymous Says:

This is a problem at many Chabad house on or near college campuses. Kids are attracted to their events because they know alcohol is available, no questions asked. It is a shanda.

I have to say that at the Chabad House on campus that I lovingly attend there is no alcohol available. We all attend for the warm and inspiring hospitality.

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:29 PM Anonymous Says:

it seems from the story that they are taking it seriously, enacting an alcohol-free ban going forward. from people who are there who commented it seems this was a rare isolated incident, and not something that happens there regularly at all.

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:35 PM genetically linked???? Says:

Reply to #9  
chabad Says:

To everybody who has a issue with chabad and looking to build of this story "kushen toches "

If I didnt know better, I would think this comment came from my brother N,, only because I feel the same way,, and that was what was going on in my head as I was reading the story,,,

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:38 PM ShabbosHouseFan Says:

I am a student at UAlbany and a regular at Shabbos House. The Rubin family is wonderful. I have personally gone through a very tough time recently and the Rabbi has been unbelievably supportive and caring. I come to Shabbos House because of the commradary, love, and inspirational words of Jewish wisdom. I love Shabbos House!

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:38 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #12  
Milhouse Says:

What a chassidisher farbrengen can achieve, even Malach Michoel cannot. Gedoloh legimoh shemekareves.

A 'chassidisher farbrengen' doesn't have to involve copious amounts of cheap alcohol for minors. On a campus they call those frat parties.

Most campus groups, Jewish or not, play fast and loose with having alcohol available at events(chabad included). Whether or not it happened here, this should be a wake up call to be more careful.

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:40 PM parent Says:

I was very upset to read the story about Rabbi Rubin. I am the parent of a student who attends University at Albany and I have had the pleasure of visiting Shabbos House on several occasions. Shabbos House provides a warm, wholesome environment for the students at UAlbany. At no time have I seen alchol served there. The Rubins are responsible, wonderful people who provide a "home away from home" for my son and others. I feel very comfortable knowing that when I leave my son, he is being nurtured in a loving, warm environment.

31

 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:41 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #20  
what do you know Says:

The Rubins are from the most responsible citizens of the USA. And I am not kidding!

Responsible people can make a mistake and be wrong. I'm sure they're very nice people, but it is playing with fire to have booze around for the taking in an environment with people of various ages going in and out.

32

 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:48 PM chana Says:

he could have been drunk when he showed up, and a small amount at the rubin's sent him over the edge.
and he is a college student- hardly a child.

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 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:48 PM Lkaf zchus?? Says:

Reply to #22  
t s Says:

1. R Rubin is probably a great guy.
2. Chabad does seriously good work.
3. This kid (adult) probably got booze at the Rabbi's house.

Why can't #3 remain the exclusive focus?

If you host a party at which there is booze available, it is your responsibility as to what happens between the booze and the people. Even for adults there can be an issue if you served booze and someone leaves drunk and drives does damage.

Bottom line is booze should be a controlled substance - by you the owner and host. And if you don't own up to this responsibility, you may pay consequences - regardless of whether you are a Rabbi, Car salesman, in a Chabad place or your private home.

Lots of students drink before going out

35

 Feb 20, 2010 at 11:51 PM Milhouse Says:

Reply to #29  
Anonymous Says:

A 'chassidisher farbrengen' doesn't have to involve copious amounts of cheap alcohol for minors. On a campus they call those frat parties.

Most campus groups, Jewish or not, play fast and loose with having alcohol available at events(chabad included). Whether or not it happened here, this should be a wake up call to be more careful.

Nobody said anything about copious amounts.

36

 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:04 AM Parent Says:

My son went to Chabad Albany and never, never was alcohol served to him. The Rubins are responsible community leaders who follow the law to a T.

I know that they will be exonerated, but in the meantime, their names are being dragged into the mud, and that is a great, great shame.

37

 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:06 AM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #9  
chabad Says:

To everybody who has a issue with chabad and looking to build of this story "kushen toches "

I tried - I'm just not that fit.....

38

 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:08 AM Anonymous Says:

Maybe the Rubin's at UAlbanyare responsible people but at the major NE university I attend we all have dinner at Hillel the head over to Chabad. Hate to break everyone's bubble, but the only reason we got to Chabad is for the atmosphere ... alcohol.

39

 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:10 AM awacs Says:

I've known Mendel, well, almost since he was born, and I can tell you that Responsibility is his middle name.

(and I'm sure enough of my opinion to sign my name to it - Nachman Yaakov Ziskind).

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:12 AM Anonymous Says:

The Rubins are uber responsible people and alcohol is certainly NOT the way they mekarev jews. This is a small town that is capitalizing and trying to find a sensational news item. Rabbi Mendel is really an exceptional model and a super caring person. Im praying for you!

41

 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:21 AM One Who Knows Says:

The Rubins are warm, selfless people. To say that their decency and caring for students and for the Albany community are exceptional is a vast understatement.
This insinuating story about a drunken student is a sinful smear job.
And do you think there will be headlines when the accusation is shown to have been baseless? Don't hold your breath.
P.S. You don't have to be Lubavitch (I'm not) to be bowled over by the immeasurable, purely motivated chessed/kindness that emanates from Shabbos House.

42

 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:21 AM Anonymous Says:

I've known Mendy since he was a child (his father, Rav Yisroel Rubin, has been the main Shaliach in Albany for close to - if not more than - 40 years). He is one of the most responsible, level-headed people I know, and would not deliberately serve alcohol to a minor.

an Albany expat

43

 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:22 AM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #37  
Anonymous Says:

I tried - I'm just not that fit.....

JUST KEEP TRYING, You will get fit in no time

44

 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:23 AM So many know it all Says:

I have been to several chabad campus chabad houses. They often have agreements with the schools not to serve alcohol. They provided lots of free ,great shabbos food and a great environment for Jewish students to be with other Jewish students on a Friday night the biggest party night of the week. They manage to do this without alcohol. Years ago there may hav been alcohol but not in the last few years. Campus rabbis ate quite aware of the responsibility they have. Those who like to gripe and complain especially to chabad may continue to look for the negative first but of course that is truly irresponsible.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:23 AM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #38  
Anonymous Says:

Maybe the Rubin's at UAlbanyare responsible people but at the major NE university I attend we all have dinner at Hillel the head over to Chabad. Hate to break everyone's bubble, but the only reason we got to Chabad is for the atmosphere ... alcohol.

Not True!

46

 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:23 AM uri Says:

As a student attending his Friday night meals,I can tell you the Rabbi is very learned and delivers incredible Dvars to over 100 students every Friday night. He does not encourage drinking at all although there is always some liquor available but never abused or encouraged. I firmly believe the Rabbi will be cleared from this allegation.

47

 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:24 AM concerned student Says:

if is was not for shabbos house I probably would have transferred after my first semester. They give our school a comfortable Jewish atmosphere and really made my transition into college an easy one. I am very close with them and can not imagine my life without them. They are some the greatest people i know. It saddens me greatly to see the pain they are going through. They do not deserve anything of this nature in the slightest. I LOVE THE RUBINS!!!

48

 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:25 AM Anonymous Says:

chabad rocks if you have a problem with that you can do what coment 9 said to do

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:28 AM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #38  
Anonymous Says:

Maybe the Rubin's at UAlbanyare responsible people but at the major NE university I attend we all have dinner at Hillel the head over to Chabad. Hate to break everyone's bubble, but the only reason we got to Chabad is for the atmosphere ... alcohol.

You should probably NOT go than!
And at our campus I would definitely go to Chabad for Shabbat DINNER the food is great and just like Bubby's!

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:34 AM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #1  
dont worry Says:

Rabbi rubin, all the good u do, will protect u from all harm this guys wana do, u have done notin worng, when u have so many students attending ur house for shabbos meals,u r not controlling everyone, just drink another glezala maskah and things will be super good

those chabadniks who think more mashka wikk make you holier make me wanna barf., once i refused a drink at an event , telling the idiot with a bottle in each hand ( dont u love it when they ask white or brown ? )it makes me sick physically. he asked me what happens. maybe i should have barfed all over him , like i wanna barf all over you !

57

 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:38 AM daniel Says:

A 19 year old is only a child when he kills a cop. When a Rabbi gets arrested for letting him booze it up, then a 19 year old is an adult and fully reponsible for his actions.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:39 AM Aish HaTorah & Gateways Says:

Skip the booze and try some Cholent kiruv. Less cops around.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 01:01 AM Anonymous Says:

as a chabad rabbi on campus i can attest thatthere is a no tolerance policy as a national norm for the serving of alchol - yes there may be a rarity of some one breaking that yet Chabad House as a whole are very dry..at least in terms of teh Lchaim goes...
Reb Mendel - We have your back

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 01:32 AM Mark Says:

I have been to Shabbos House many many times and have never seen any alcohol there at all. I have enjoyed everything from Raisy's food to Mendel's insightful thoughts and the unbelievable Shabbos House atmosphere.
Go Mendel and Raizy, we're praying for you!

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 01:24 AM shay Says:

Stop knocking Chabad. You think it doesn't happen with Chareidi Rabbis??

Purim is coming time to put a ban for underage drinking and legal age. It's a shanda once a year the orthodox act like the secular or even worse drink & drive & become unconcious and land in the ER room with alcohol poisoning

Enough is enough!! Stop giving minors and iresppnsible men alcohol

62

 Feb 21, 2010 at 07:20 AM Anonymous Says:

At worst there was some alcohol around and this kid took it against the rules. These charges are so minor that it hardly matters if the rabbi is exonerated or not.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 08:18 AM HeyMe Says:

All the knee jerk reactionary comments should try to keep your uninformed comments to yourself. It happens to be the Campus Chabad Houses have very strict policies on alcohol and even when alcohol is present they usually keep the bottle close by and only personally give out to people that are regulars and known to be of legal drinking age.

You think it's the first time around the block for these people? You know how quickly they'd be kicked off campus if they openly served alcohol to minors?

be smart.

64

 Feb 21, 2010 at 08:46 AM Former student Says:

For all you Chabad bashers out there: Chabad rocks!!! Dont take one isolated story and try to besmirch an entire devoted group of hundreds of shluchim that RESPONSIBLY, kindly and with great mesiras nefesh, look after the college students of their town.

I know that Rabbi Rubin will be exonerated, but I hope that until then, his name is not besmirched. He, and hundreds of shluchim out there are extraordinarly responsible and good people.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 08:51 AM Raphael Kaufman Says:

1. I don't doubt that the kid may have been drunk but the Breathalyzer reading of .459 sounds wrong. Probably a calibration error. .459 should have killed him.

2. This is what you get when you make alcohol forbidden and therefore attractive. People learn to drink responsibly when halcohol has no special allure.

3. The country was in much better shape when the DRINKING age was 18 and the VOTING age was 21.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 08:59 AM Anonymous Says:

I am sure that the Rubins are fine people, and major Klal workers in concert with other Chabad shluchim. The issue here clearly involved responsibility, and the easy access to alcohol with the possibility of drinking to dangerous intoxication at a "farbrengen" is recognized easily as consistent with commonly understood Chabad protocol. If this event results in alcohol bans, and the advent of the "sober farbrengen", it will be a zechus for Chabad, and a kavod for the Rebbes of Lubavitch whose Torah and Chassidus will be spread with the honor and respect that they richly deserve. We all need to learn from such an incident that alcohol must always be used only with the proper moderation, legally, and with 100% awareness of the risks involved.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 09:16 AM robroy560 Says:

I know Rabbi Mendel and Raizy Rubin well. They were very helpful to me when I was a student at UAlbany. Rabbi Rubin was a witness at my chupah and had kriyat hasheim at my elder son's brit milah. These are outstanding responsible shiluchim who do unbelievable kiruv work at the University at Albany. They are also great parents to wonderful children. Raizy prepares a Shabbat meal that brings the Shabbat experience to so many.

While I wasn't there, but I'm willing to speculate (read; this is completely my opinion and I have no facts to support this) this student got drunk on his own beforehand (very common on college campuses) and, if there was alcohol there, he took a few drinks when no one was looking. I cannot remember alcohol being served at Shabbos House, even though in my day it was a much smaller house than it is today. I know of many stories of Jews and non-Jews, getting drunk before attending events at various organizations on and off campus.

If this kid has any sense, he should take the blame. I would be honored to be character witnesses for the Rubins. They don't encourage this behavior. This is not them. May the truth come out soon and exonerate the Rubins

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 09:45 AM its a hoax Says:

all of a sudden you would never believe it Vos iz neias has such a following with the faculty of Albany. VIN should get tenure over there. My guess, All these comments were written by two three members of the same family.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 10:00 AM anonymous Says:

What is so hard to understand? the kid came in drunk!

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 10:00 AM Anonymous Says:

take a look at the col pictures and the Lchaims. tons of teenagers drinking with Rabbonim looking on and no one says a word.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 10:11 AM moshe Says:

I agree to #9 and double the motion!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 10:12 AM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #21  
Milhouse Says:

First, because it's a Jewish tradition. Second, because alcohol is Hashem's gift to us: veyayin yesamach levav enosh. Third, because alcohol helps the neshomo cut through the shell we build around it, and puts one in a receptive mood to hear what one needs to hear but doesn't want to. Mashkin es habeheimo lifnei hashchitoh. None of this means one should overdo it, but there's no reason to believe that the student drank too much at the farbrengen.

Milhouse is right on this one. Right now, the most alcoholic countries in Europe have a wine consumption rate of about 20 liters per person per year. By contrast, the archeological evidence from the age of Melachim at some sites in Israel shows about 350 liters per year per person, basically a bottle or so a day!

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 10:17 AM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #6  
Anonymous Says:

Since when is a 19 year old a child?

He is a "child" legally when the drinking age is 21.

Oh, for the days when when we could start drinking legally at 18 and not be granted the vote until 21.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 10:19 AM formally Says:

Reply to #21  
Milhouse Says:

First, because it's a Jewish tradition. Second, because alcohol is Hashem's gift to us: veyayin yesamach levav enosh. Third, because alcohol helps the neshomo cut through the shell we build around it, and puts one in a receptive mood to hear what one needs to hear but doesn't want to. Mashkin es habeheimo lifnei hashchitoh. None of this means one should overdo it, but there's no reason to believe that the student drank too much at the farbrengen.

besides for this First, because it's a Jewish tradition., one can say this about heroin.

Good now I can be user with a piece of mind

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 10:20 AM formally Says:

Reply to #21  
Milhouse Says:

First, because it's a Jewish tradition. Second, because alcohol is Hashem's gift to us: veyayin yesamach levav enosh. Third, because alcohol helps the neshomo cut through the shell we build around it, and puts one in a receptive mood to hear what one needs to hear but doesn't want to. Mashkin es habeheimo lifnei hashchitoh. None of this means one should overdo it, but there's no reason to believe that the student drank too much at the farbrengen.

a simple solution would be have a server of the drinks. And maybe ask for id.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 10:29 AM kiruv woman Says:

My husband and I BH are zoche to do kiruv in our small community. We often have college kids over and have made a decision that if all our guest are minors, we don't serve alcohol (other that a little kiddush wine). IF we have guests of mixed ages, we offer a lchaim to those over 21. We generally know their ages but have found that if we ask, the kids are honest and tell us whether or not they are legal. We never have unattended alcolhol in our house. At a simcha, the schnapps is always right in fromnt of my husbands seat so he can monitor that a) no minors are heloing htemselves and b) no one has enough to get seriously drunk.
Living in America means that we follow american law. We need to remember that at all times, whether it's in business or in serving alcohol to minors.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 10:42 AM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #65  
Raphael Kaufman Says:

1. I don't doubt that the kid may have been drunk but the Breathalyzer reading of .459 sounds wrong. Probably a calibration error. .459 should have killed him.

2. This is what you get when you make alcohol forbidden and therefore attractive. People learn to drink responsibly when halcohol has no special allure.

3. The country was in much better shape when the DRINKING age was 18 and the VOTING age was 21.

1. I worked in addiction treatment centers in hospitals. Breathalyzer readings of .459 are uncommon, and do reflect serious intoxication. However, don't get "blown away" by such readings. If there is alcohol in the mouth, the reading will be higher, and not a direct result of blood alcohol level - which is what the breathalyzer should detect. Calibration errors are likewise uncommon. I have seen readings considerably higher, but .400 is most often at the level of being comatose. The number associated with death is around .500. I have seen readings closer to .600 on living people.

2. This argument is ages old. The alternative of having no boundaries or limits on alcohol is utterly irresponsible. The challenge is to be certain that we can educate our children, talmidim, and any others that learn from us on moderation - a tough task. Prohibition didn't work, but full legalization will result in untold chaos.

3. Great point. The argument against this is that it makes it more likely that the voter is intoxicated when voting.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 10:44 AM To: its a hoax Says:

Not that I blame a Boro Park guy for thinking that Albany faculty are the one's posting and its therefore a hoax, you probably don't know what a college campus looks like other than Touro. Unfortunately, You are a ignorant. Albany happens to be a school that has many frum boys like myself that attend(ed) for schooling. Being close to home (flatbush/5 towns etc) is very important and therefore the school's of choice are UAlbany, Binghamton, etc. Having Shabbos House available for Kosher food whenever the going gets tough, or just a shmooze with Rabbi Mendel when you're not feeling just right is already a reason to put Albany on the top 10 schools list :)
I am sure many would not stay as frum ifwe didnt have them.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 10:57 AM Anonymous Says:

i have been to chabad shabbat dinners quiet a lot. the fact the the student was taken drunk does not mean he got drunk @ the chabad house.

many a times i have witnessed students arriving drunk from other parties, and then say small lechaim and it puts them over the top.

keep in mind some chabad houses can have 100's of students and it is being run the the shliach at the table, and his wife in the kitchen serving. with 100's of kids its not practical to monitor who comes in sober and who comes in drunk. i did not see anywhere at the article written that the student arrived sober and got drunk @ chabad.


Lastly, if someone really WANTs to get drunk, they will find a way, also, chabad houses are an awsome atmosphere, and you dont atract students to come becuase of booze, they comes because they want something real, and warm, and a homey place to go to, hence the massive success chabad on campus is having.

Mendle Rubin, sat at my table in Yeshiva he is a tzadik, he is a great leader and a person who has great ahavas yisroel, and the kids coming to his shabbat dinner are coming for what he has to teach and inspire, not for the booze.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 10:58 AM Anonymous Says:

Rebbe Reb Elimelech wrote in Sefer Noam Elimelech that drunkeness is Klipah Nogah and must be avoided completely. Matisyahu quit Chabad over his Rebbe's drunken addiction and his path toward alcoholism. I personally was beaten by a drunken Chabad Rabbi because I answered with my mesorah of "L'Chaim Tovim u' Shalom" rather than "L'Chaim L'Brucha" to his L'Chaim. It is about time Chabad address its alcohol problem with its Shluchim. Something has got to be done. This is not a one time thing.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 11:03 AM Blame it on the Alcohol Says:

Once again 'jews' are not taking the blame and sweeping a huge problem under the rug. Once again, 'jews' are arrogant and feel that Laws don't apply to them. May g-d punish them measure for measure & have them or someone in their family involved (killed) in an alcohol related accident, and then they will think differently!

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 11:03 AM Shlucha Says:

Reply to #76  
kiruv woman Says:

My husband and I BH are zoche to do kiruv in our small community. We often have college kids over and have made a decision that if all our guest are minors, we don't serve alcohol (other that a little kiddush wine). IF we have guests of mixed ages, we offer a lchaim to those over 21. We generally know their ages but have found that if we ask, the kids are honest and tell us whether or not they are legal. We never have unattended alcolhol in our house. At a simcha, the schnapps is always right in fromnt of my husbands seat so he can monitor that a) no minors are heloing htemselves and b) no one has enough to get seriously drunk.
Living in America means that we follow american law. We need to remember that at all times, whether it's in business or in serving alcohol to minors.

Hello, Kiruv Woman.

Chabad has thousands of Kiruv Women and yes, we follow the law. Nice chance to try to jump on the competition, eh.

Cheap shot.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 11:27 AM Anonymous Says:

I'm waiting for someone to bust a certain "rebitzen" in BP that is serving alcohol to minors each friday nite. I hope it happens before someone gets really hurt or ch"v worse. V'hamayvin Yavin...

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 11:35 AM Raphael Kaufman Says:

Reply to #74  
formally Says:

besides for this First, because it's a Jewish tradition., one can say this about heroin.

Good now I can be user with a piece of mind

Heroin is a Jewish tradition? Maybe in your house.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:15 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #35  
Milhouse Says:

Nobody said anything about copious amounts.

Um, you can't exactly reach a blood alcohol level of .4 WITHOUT "copious amounts on alcohol".

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:32 PM Yaakov Aryeh Says:

The core issue of alcoholic use/abuse in Chabad circles is of far greater significance as opposed to focussing in on Rabbi Rubin. Many years ago, the Rebbe spoke out on this issue, yet many of his chassidim have chosen to ignore his words.
On October 20, 2009, VIN reported that Chabad Israel was actively opposing a bill in the Knesset which would ban alcoholic beverages to minors. Chabad claimed it knows best! How shocking.
By instituting an alcoholic ban in Albany, this ban implicitly acknowleges that a problem exists. While this action is to be applauded, it is unfortunate that it took a potential tragedy to evoke a response.
Chabad is in the business of saving Jewish souls. In addition to the neshama, they should also be concerned with the Guf. It is time that "770" recognize that terrible effects that alchol abuse and addiction has on the individual, their family and klal Yisrael and become proactive in combating this epidemic.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:34 PM esther Says:

Reply to #74  
formally Says:

besides for this First, because it's a Jewish tradition., one can say this about heroin.

Good now I can be user with a piece of mind

i'm just not clear on how heroin is a jewish tradition. please enlighten us.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:41 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #82  
Shlucha Says:

Hello, Kiruv Woman.

Chabad has thousands of Kiruv Women and yes, we follow the law. Nice chance to try to jump on the competition, eh.

Cheap shot.

For a shlucha you sure do have thin skin. The woman was just offering her experiences. Calm down and get off your high horse before you get a nose bleed.


Someone obviously isn't following the law if at 'chassidishe farbrengens' booze is getting to minors. Try again next time.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:41 PM Milhouse Says:

Reply to #73  
Anonymous Says:

He is a "child" legally when the drinking age is 21.

Oh, for the days when when we could start drinking legally at 18 and not be granted the vote until 21.

No, he is not a child. He is an adult. The headline on this story was wrong, and BH it was changed.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:44 PM Anonymous Says:

Anyone who claims the kid got drunk somewhere else doesn't know anything. Its known on college campuses that Hillel doesn't serve alcohol and if you want it, Chabad is the place to go.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:45 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #83  
Anonymous Says:

I'm waiting for someone to bust a certain "rebitzen" in BP that is serving alcohol to minors each friday nite. I hope it happens before someone gets really hurt or ch"v worse. V'hamayvin Yavin...

FYI - the alcohol was stopped. There was a corresponding decrease in the kids attending. But the change needed to happen. I urged that change.

It is not strange to find that those involved in outreach to the disenfranchised youth provide alcohol as a lure. I am against it, but it works. We need to have better strategies to bring these kids to where they can appreciate Shabbos for what it is. Yiddishkeit can be so beautiful and enjoyable that one should not need to entice anyone with external forms of numbing (while calling it spiritual). It is only in the English language that liquor is called "spirits". That is a goyishe concept.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 12:58 PM Milhouse Says:

Reply to #85  
Anonymous Says:

Um, you can't exactly reach a blood alcohol level of .4 WITHOUT "copious amounts on alcohol".

You can't reach a BAC of 0.4% WITH copious amounts either. The reading is surely wrong. But be that as it may, it's not relevant. NOBODY believes that this student drank enough at the farbrengen to reach such a level. The question is whether alcohol should be banned completely, not whether it should be supplied at a rate of a bottle per person! A chassidisher farbrengen needs mashkeh; but it does not need more than a medicinal dose.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 01:04 PM Milhouse Says:

Reply to #86  
Yaakov Aryeh Says:

The core issue of alcoholic use/abuse in Chabad circles is of far greater significance as opposed to focussing in on Rabbi Rubin. Many years ago, the Rebbe spoke out on this issue, yet many of his chassidim have chosen to ignore his words.
On October 20, 2009, VIN reported that Chabad Israel was actively opposing a bill in the Knesset which would ban alcoholic beverages to minors. Chabad claimed it knows best! How shocking.
By instituting an alcoholic ban in Albany, this ban implicitly acknowleges that a problem exists. While this action is to be applauded, it is unfortunate that it took a potential tragedy to evoke a response.
Chabad is in the business of saving Jewish souls. In addition to the neshama, they should also be concerned with the Guf. It is time that "770" recognize that terrible effects that alchol abuse and addiction has on the individual, their family and klal Yisrael and become proactive in combating this epidemic.

The Rebbe NEVER spoke out against drinking; he spoke against EXCESSIVE drinking, and imposed limits on it. He said that alcohol was absolutely necessary, but it is like mei ma'ayon, and is metaher bemashehu. On Purim he would designate one person to fulfill ad d'lo yoda literally, and be motzi the olam; everyone else was to stick to reasonable limits. The Rebbe personally gave vodka to minors, and never had the slightest qualm about it, but he never gave enough to cause harm.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 01:05 PM Milhouse Says:

Reply to #90  
Anonymous Says:

Anyone who claims the kid got drunk somewhere else doesn't know anything. Its known on college campuses that Hillel doesn't serve alcohol and if you want it, Chabad is the place to go.

Liar. As if Hillel and Chabad are the only places in the universe.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 01:35 PM shabboshouse#1fan Says:

These charges are absolutely absurd! The rabbi can simply not be held responsible for the selfish and immature actions of a student. There is no family more caring, loving, and generous than the Rubin family. The actions of one student should not change people's views on Shabbos House. For many years Shabbos House has provided students with a second home and to attempt to discredit them in any way is criminal.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 01:45 PM albany med grad Says:

I have known Mendy and his family since he was a child, They are outstanding people who follow the rules.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 01:52 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #94  
Milhouse Says:

Liar. As if Hillel and Chabad are the only places in the universe.

What exactly is the lie? Hillel does not serve alcohol at all. They don't want to deal with it and probably insurance comes into play. Chabad does serve alcohol on campuses. Jews on campus know this, it isn't a secret. It shouldn't come as a surprise that it isn't uncommon for students to go to Hillel for services and Chabad for alcohol after.

These are the only two places in the Jewish universe on most campuses.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 01:55 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #92  
Milhouse Says:

You can't reach a BAC of 0.4% WITH copious amounts either. The reading is surely wrong. But be that as it may, it's not relevant. NOBODY believes that this student drank enough at the farbrengen to reach such a level. The question is whether alcohol should be banned completely, not whether it should be supplied at a rate of a bottle per person! A chassidisher farbrengen needs mashkeh; but it does not need more than a medicinal dose.

Chassidisher farbrengens that supply alcohol to minors are illegal. Judges probably don't care if its a 'bissel' of mashkeh for the helige experience. If you want to play fast and loose, don't whine when your chassidishe rabbonim get in trouble with the cops.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 03:17 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #68  
its a hoax Says:

all of a sudden you would never believe it Vos iz neias has such a following with the faculty of Albany. VIN should get tenure over there. My guess, All these comments were written by two three members of the same family.

i 2nd this, im in albany weekly for many years & i have never came across the 100 of frum students, was actuallu on campus once, when i 1st got to albany looking for food, & the brooklyn jewish business directory had listed a kosher restaurant at Suny albany, so i drove down there, but was only able to hear from the security guards that this no longer exist

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 03:29 PM Anonymous Says:

Chabad m'kareved me 30 years ago and all I got was chicken soup. Boy, how times have changed.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 04:18 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #94  
Milhouse Says:

Liar. As if Hillel and Chabad are the only places in the universe.

Yes, those are pretty much the only Jewish places to go to on or near campus without being mechalel Shabbos, with a very few exceptions.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 04:26 PM Ex-Shliach Says:

Chabad does work that no other organization does - or have done - being mikarev Yiddin to YIDDISHKEIT since the times of Ezra. Having said this - they have to limit the intake of alcohol for the students on campuses. Alcohol may be the reason they come back, but Torah is the reason they will stay. Be careful - der rebbe mohnt pnimiyus.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 04:53 PM albanyclarify Says:

since i live in Albany and have attended Shabbos House on numerous occasions, I think I can clarify a few things. There IS a kosher dining hall in the University's Dutch Quad under the Albany Vaad. It might have been closed if you went during school breaks or something. regarding "frum" kids there, it depends how you define frum. Otherwise, restaurant-wise, there's nothing much in town, unless you count the new Price Chopper in Colonie which has a very nice Kosher section, deli, bakery etc.. There aren't dozens of yarmulkas on campus, but there are many dozens of kids who come from observant homes, who went to schools like HAFTR, HANC, North Shore, TAB, etc... Shabbos House is literally a haven for those kids, as well as Jewish kids who didn't go to Jewish schools. Re: the alcohol, its my understanding that this must be an isolated event, since I've been there many times and they don't even serve wine for Kiddush, they use grape-juice every week. Whatever happened that particular evening, alcohol is certainly not the way they draw kids in.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 04:51 PM Milhouse Says:

Reply to #97  
Anonymous Says:

What exactly is the lie? Hillel does not serve alcohol at all. They don't want to deal with it and probably insurance comes into play. Chabad does serve alcohol on campuses. Jews on campus know this, it isn't a secret. It shouldn't come as a surprise that it isn't uncommon for students to go to Hillel for services and Chabad for alcohol after.

These are the only two places in the Jewish universe on most campuses.

Repeating the lie doesn't make it true. Nor does pretending not to see the lie.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 04:51 PM Milhouse Says:

Reply to #98  
Anonymous Says:

Chassidisher farbrengens that supply alcohol to minors are illegal. Judges probably don't care if its a 'bissel' of mashkeh for the helige experience. If you want to play fast and loose, don't whine when your chassidishe rabbonim get in trouble with the cops.

Lots of things are illegal. Who cares?

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 04:53 PM Milhouse Says:

Reply to #101  
Anonymous Says:

Yes, those are pretty much the only Jewish places to go to on or near campus without being mechalel Shabbos, with a very few exceptions.

"Without being mechalel shabbos"? What has that got to do with the story? Do you imagine this student cares about chilul shabbos? On the contrary, if someone really is worried about shmiras shabbos, then there's no reason to be worried about his drinking.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 04:57 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #89  
Milhouse Says:

No, he is not a child. He is an adult. The headline on this story was wrong, and BH it was changed.

He is not a child but he is underage according to the law. If you don't like the law, you can fight to change it, but until you succeed, the law is that under 21 is considered a minor (for purposes of drinking) and you WILL suffer whatever the consequences are if you provide minors with alcohol and get caught. Do I think the law is silly? Absolutely. But I nonetheless follow it to a T. The only minors that ever get any alcohol from me are my own children in my own home under my full supervision and for ritual purposes only, and that will apply until they're 21 unless we manage to change the law before then.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 05:13 PM A. Nuran Says:

It doesn't matter how nice the guy is.
It doesn't matter how much good work Chabad does.
If you break the law you are responsible for the results.
If you're serving alcohol to minors you suffer the consequences, especially when something goes wrong.

I have no rachmonas at all for the rabbi here. He knew what he was doing. He didn't have good enough judgment to keep this kid from drinking himself nearly to death.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 06:09 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #77  
Anonymous Says:

1. I worked in addiction treatment centers in hospitals. Breathalyzer readings of .459 are uncommon, and do reflect serious intoxication. However, don't get "blown away" by such readings. If there is alcohol in the mouth, the reading will be higher, and not a direct result of blood alcohol level - which is what the breathalyzer should detect. Calibration errors are likewise uncommon. I have seen readings considerably higher, but .400 is most often at the level of being comatose. The number associated with death is around .500. I have seen readings closer to .600 on living people.

2. This argument is ages old. The alternative of having no boundaries or limits on alcohol is utterly irresponsible. The challenge is to be certain that we can educate our children, talmidim, and any others that learn from us on moderation - a tough task. Prohibition didn't work, but full legalization will result in untold chaos.

3. Great point. The argument against this is that it makes it more likely that the voter is intoxicated when voting.

1. The breathalzer does not measure blood alcohol level. It infers blood alcohol level by measuring the products of alcohol metabolism (ketones) in the subject's breath. Alcohol in the mouth will not effect the reading. (P.S. That's why a severe diabetic can also register a high reading without touching a drop.)

2. In freeadikeh (?!) yahren, alcohol was considered an integral part of every simcha and was freely available. On the other hand, drunkeness was strongly condemned (except in chassidisha circles).

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 07:41 PM Max Says:

Rabbi Rubin is truly a blessing to klal yisroel. You can't expect a man that has hundreds and hundreds of students pass through his door, take responsibilty on their occasional reckless behaviour. Perhaps he was dead drunk even before he stepped into the place. I don't get it.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 07:52 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #108  
A. Nuran Says:

It doesn't matter how nice the guy is.
It doesn't matter how much good work Chabad does.
If you break the law you are responsible for the results.
If you're serving alcohol to minors you suffer the consequences, especially when something goes wrong.

I have no rachmonas at all for the rabbi here. He knew what he was doing. He didn't have good enough judgment to keep this kid from drinking himself nearly to death.

A. Nuran, clearly you did not read everything. Yes, sometimes the responsibility and integrity of a person being called into question IS integral. You notice all the people who know him personally (and I am speaking of students and parents of students) have only complimentary things to say involving a person who has a general no alcohol policy? Even the laxest of campus Rabbis would never be idiotic enough to pump so much alcohol into a student, to the point that he is near death (being able to attend Shabbat the next day doesn't sound near death to me anyway). Being a student, I have been to my local campus Chabad for Shabbat before, and I can tell you that there are some students who get drunk before they show up for the meal, precisely because they know they won't get anything there. I've heard someone actually say, "I can't believe I'm still sober". These are people who live from one substance to the next. I believe it's a matter of them being educated by their parents (a little too late, it would seem). That's not the job of any Rabbi. He can only try to help them turn away from that path, and he obviously wouldn't do that by pumping them with more harmful substances.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 07:54 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #108  
A. Nuran Says:

It doesn't matter how nice the guy is.
It doesn't matter how much good work Chabad does.
If you break the law you are responsible for the results.
If you're serving alcohol to minors you suffer the consequences, especially when something goes wrong.

I have no rachmonas at all for the rabbi here. He knew what he was doing. He didn't have good enough judgment to keep this kid from drinking himself nearly to death.

I've seen my Rabbi asking for car keys from ADULTS who drank. To me, that is going above and beyond the call of duty. Remember- these people have been involved in PR for decades, and they know what is and what is not seen as acceptable by society at large. Give them a little credit.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 08:18 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #99  
Anonymous Says:

i 2nd this, im in albany weekly for many years & i have never came across the 100 of frum students, was actuallu on campus once, when i 1st got to albany looking for food, & the brooklyn jewish business directory had listed a kosher restaurant at Suny albany, so i drove down there, but was only able to hear from the security guards that this no longer exist

The kosher establishment you are referring to does in fact exist. It is under the supervision of the Vaad of the Capital District. There is a fleishic kitchen and a milkhet bagel franchise.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 08:23 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #76  
kiruv woman Says:

My husband and I BH are zoche to do kiruv in our small community. We often have college kids over and have made a decision that if all our guest are minors, we don't serve alcohol (other that a little kiddush wine). IF we have guests of mixed ages, we offer a lchaim to those over 21. We generally know their ages but have found that if we ask, the kids are honest and tell us whether or not they are legal. We never have unattended alcolhol in our house. At a simcha, the schnapps is always right in fromnt of my husbands seat so he can monitor that a) no minors are heloing htemselves and b) no one has enough to get seriously drunk.
Living in America means that we follow american law. We need to remember that at all times, whether it's in business or in serving alcohol to minors.

Is there a difference between serving wine for kiddish or shnaps for l'chaims? Grape juice works just as well for kiddish. Those in glass houses....

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 08:24 PM Student Says:

Reply to #108  
A. Nuran Says:

It doesn't matter how nice the guy is.
It doesn't matter how much good work Chabad does.
If you break the law you are responsible for the results.
If you're serving alcohol to minors you suffer the consequences, especially when something goes wrong.

I have no rachmonas at all for the rabbi here. He knew what he was doing. He didn't have good enough judgment to keep this kid from drinking himself nearly to death.

Nearly to death?! You don't know what you're talking about. He was back at shabbos house the next noon for shabbos lunch.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 08:30 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #110  
Max Says:

Rabbi Rubin is truly a blessing to klal yisroel. You can't expect a man that has hundreds and hundreds of students pass through his door, take responsibilty on their occasional reckless behaviour. Perhaps he was dead drunk even before he stepped into the place. I don't get it.

If he can't take responsibility then don't have any alcohol at all at these events regardless of the ages of the attendees.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 08:32 PM uastudent Says:

I am a senior at UA and have been going to Shabbos House for the past three and half years, and every experience has been wonderful and fulfilling. I have learned so much about myself as a human being, because of the work of Rabbi Mendel and Raizy Rubin. I can say with 100% certainty I am who I am today because of my parents, as well as Mendel and Raizy. They are truly amazing people who care about ALL of the students at UALBANY and go out of their way to make everyone feel at home.
As a senior at UA I can confirm that students do NOT go to Shabbos House because of alcohol, mainly because alcohol is not served. But also because of the Rubin family. Everyone who has gone to Shabbos House has been impacted by the Rubin's in a positive way, students attend their events in order to socialize with other Jews, expand open their Judaism, as well as just to spend time with the wonderful Rubin family.
I would also like to point out that it is physically impossible for someone to have blown a BA of .4. When someone has a BA of that level they are most likely dead. When are person has between a .2 and .25 they are usually in a coma, therefore it is impossible that student had a BA of .4.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 08:41 PM UA Says:

Reply to #38  
Anonymous Says:

Maybe the Rubin's at UAlbanyare responsible people but at the major NE university I attend we all have dinner at Hillel the head over to Chabad. Hate to break everyone's bubble, but the only reason we got to Chabad is for the atmosphere ... alcohol.

If you only go there for the alcohol than something is seriously wrong on your campus or something is wrong with you.
I go to Albany and we do not go there for alcohol. We go there for the homey friendly environment it is a place to socialize, NOT be a drunk mess
I know that Chabad on campus has a policy that only a small amount of alcohol be offered for kiddush NOT enough to have a raging party! If you wanna get smashed go to a frat party like a normal college kid.
By making this comment about alcohol you are making all Chabad's on campus look bad and shame on you! They do amazing work.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 08:51 PM Rivka Rochel Goldstein Says:

Reply to #68  
its a hoax Says:

all of a sudden you would never believe it Vos iz neias has such a following with the faculty of Albany. VIN should get tenure over there. My guess, All these comments were written by two three members of the same family.

You seem surprised that so many have posted supporting the Rubins...did you know that they run a very popular Chabad House on a campus of 7,000 Jewish students? That over 100 attend every Friday night? The Rubins have positively impacted thousands over the years. They were also finalists nationally in Federation's Jewish Heroes.

While some of you may have sought out Chabad because you wanted to drink, Chabad on Campus, and the Rubin's in particular bring much more to the table than L'chayim....Mendel and Raizy Rubin are especially known for creative, innovative and dynamic programming that really makes a difference to our kids that are "finding themselves." And they do this with enormous dedication and caring.

This is just an isolated incident, and should be treated as such. With so many people from varied backgrounds crossing Chabad's threshold, there is bound to be something now and then.... A few years ago, there was a shooting at a Chabad Shul in Florida.....was it a Chabad "gun control" problem? Pleeeeeeeeeze.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 09:35 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #9  
chabad Says:

To everybody who has a issue with chabad and looking to build of this story "kushen toches "

i love chabad they are the best

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 10:13 PM spoke with Raizy Says:

I know this will not stop the naysayers, and of course everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

The story has many factual errors, which will be dealt with by the Rubins in the way they see fit. If they want to post the truth here, that is there prerogative, but I will not tell their story.

The Rubins did nothing wrong, and have since then tightened their rules, even beyond what is required by law.

Please stay tuned to this story to ensure that you get all the facts in the end.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 11:14 PM robroy560 Says:

Reply to #108  
A. Nuran Says:

It doesn't matter how nice the guy is.
It doesn't matter how much good work Chabad does.
If you break the law you are responsible for the results.
If you're serving alcohol to minors you suffer the consequences, especially when something goes wrong.

I have no rachmonas at all for the rabbi here. He knew what he was doing. He didn't have good enough judgment to keep this kid from drinking himself nearly to death.

I don't think he served alcohol to a minor... I graduated from UAlbany and they served Kedem grape juice.

So A. Nuran, would you blast the non-Chabad shuls who have alcohol flowing on Simchat Torah? How about this one? Why don't you listen to the police scanner on Purim. Then you can hear the Chillul HaShem of all the Hatzolah calls with drunken youth taken to Maimonedes Hosp. Do their parents and rabbeim suffer the consequences?

Get the facts here before you act as the beit din. I don't have the facts either. But based on my experience as a graduate of UAlbany, I'll bet a large some of money this kid was loaded before he got there. If there was alcohol, it was probably a bottle or two split between many legal age students who were celebrating Rabbi Mendel's birthday. This kid probably took a shot or two that put his loaded body over the edge. Or, he smuggled his own bottle in there.

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 11:50 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #99  
Anonymous Says:

i 2nd this, im in albany weekly for many years & i have never came across the 100 of frum students, was actuallu on campus once, when i 1st got to albany looking for food, & the brooklyn jewish business directory had listed a kosher restaurant at Suny albany, so i drove down there, but was only able to hear from the security guards that this no longer exist

The milchig one is in the main Campus Center from 7-11 a.m. Monday through Friday when school is in session. The fleischig one is in Dutch Quad, open when the regular Dutch Quad is open Sunday through Friday (Friday until Shabbos starts).

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 Feb 21, 2010 at 11:52 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #106  
Milhouse Says:

"Without being mechalel shabbos"? What has that got to do with the story? Do you imagine this student cares about chilul shabbos? On the contrary, if someone really is worried about shmiras shabbos, then there's no reason to be worried about his drinking.

There are frum alcoholics. So, yes, maybe the student does care about being mechalel Shabbos.

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 Feb 22, 2010 at 08:19 AM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #109  
Anonymous Says:

1. The breathalzer does not measure blood alcohol level. It infers blood alcohol level by measuring the products of alcohol metabolism (ketones) in the subject's breath. Alcohol in the mouth will not effect the reading. (P.S. That's why a severe diabetic can also register a high reading without touching a drop.)

2. In freeadikeh (?!) yahren, alcohol was considered an integral part of every simcha and was freely available. On the other hand, drunkeness was strongly condemned (except in chassidisha circles).

You are correct that breathalizer does not measure BAL (blood alcohol level) but infers it. But you are plainly inaccurate regarding alcohol in the mouth. I have personally administered breathalizer to someone clearly sober (staff people in drug treatment programs) within seconds of using mouthwash or mouth spray, and readings were very high. However, the alcohol in the mouth would need to be quite recent, not several minutes or longer. There are other versions of spurious readings.

As for #2, there was no great respect in chassidishe circles for shikrus. In my personal experience, I witnessed far more shikrus in litvishe circles. I am sure there are different trends in different places, and I would hesitate to draw any conclusions. Even for Purim, there should be no banning of drinking wine (except for those who have no tolerance), and we need to be careful to avoid this becoming shikrus, which is neither simcha nor a mitzvah.

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 Feb 22, 2010 at 11:12 AM UAlbany Alum Says:

Rabbi Mendel and Raizy Rubin are two amazing people. From my personal experience they do all they can to make a positive Jewish community for all Students at UA. They are responsible and care so much about the students and give so much of themselves, that it is a shame they are going through this. Students often drink before coming to events of any organization; we don't know what this person did before they got to Shabbos House. I think that this is Crazy and that the Rubin family is wonderful and shouldn't be put through this. They have been there for me though some of the hardest things in my life and I stand by them and will support them. Keep doing all the good things you do for the Jewish Students of UA. They are and the Alums are lucky to have you.

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 Feb 22, 2010 at 11:45 AM Anonymous Says:

This is too funny. What about all the college students that get smashed at the bars every weekend. You don't hear anything about that!

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 Feb 22, 2010 at 11:54 AM Anonymous Says:

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Anonymous Says:

This is too funny. What about all the college students that get smashed at the bars every weekend. You don't hear anything about that!

You're so right! they should crack down on the underage drinking at bars and and Frat houses.

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 Feb 22, 2010 at 12:16 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #2  
Anonymous Says:

This is a problem at many Chabad house on or near college campuses. Kids are attracted to their events because they know alcohol is available, no questions asked. It is a shanda.

you know NOTHING about Chabad!
CHABAD is the most awesome organization/jewish sect!

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 Feb 23, 2010 at 02:12 AM Anonymous Says:

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Anonymous Says:

This is a problem at many Chabad house on or near college campuses. Kids are attracted to their events because they know alcohol is available, no questions asked. It is a shanda.

"This is a problem at many Chabad house on or near college campuses. Kids are attracted to their events because they know alcohol is available, no questions asked. It is a shanda.”

Right, it's much better to send your daughters to drink at the local frat parties. Idiot.

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 Feb 23, 2010 at 02:28 AM math says Says:

Reply to #2  
Anonymous Says:

This is a problem at many Chabad house on or near college campuses. Kids are attracted to their events because they know alcohol is available, no questions asked. It is a shanda.

180 lb person drinking 10 one oz. shots of Johnny Walker Black label (100 proof)
over a 40 minute time span will have BAC between 0.21-0.25. In order to achieve a BAC of 0.457 a 180 lb person would need to drink almost double that, almost a full bottle of Johnny Walker Black Label in under an hour. If it were 80 proof Smirnoff, standard Lubavitch farbrengen material, it would take a whole bottle. My guess is the kid boozed it up someplace else and the cops saw wine on the table (I hope it was mevushal) and cited the Rabbi.

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 Feb 23, 2010 at 01:59 PM Seeking truth? Says:

Reply to #16  
UALBANY STUDENT Says:

i go there all the time, as do my friends, and I've never seen alchohol there, and that's certainly not the reason people go there. it's a very special place, with a great atmosphere that accepts everyone regardless where they're coming from.

Are people seeking truth or do they want to confirm their stereotypes and preconceived notions? we know the answer. here is someone who goes there. Everyone knows that the Rubin's serve Grape Juice for kiddish... kids come to them because they are great people, very warm, knowlegable and wise...

Erica

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 Feb 27, 2010 at 11:00 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #17  
Anonymous Says:

And why does there have to be alcohol in the first case?

I agree you can be happy without alcohol. Give it a try make a party with out alcohol and see the results!!!!!!

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 Mar 29, 2010 at 05:30 PM Maccabee Says:

According to Jewish law, when Jewish children reach the 13 years for boys and 12 for girls they become responsible for their actions, and "become a Bar or Bat Mitzvah" (English: Son (Bar) or Daughter (Bat) of the commandments). We, the Jews, must to follow The Law of G-d, not the rules of the game of corrupted and infantile men. The young drunkard must to be responsible for his action, not the kind host, who served him at his house meal and beverages free of charge as a matter of hospitality. It's time for Hebrews to come back to our Lord and to start living by His rules and to demand from the State to let them exercise their real freedom of religion - to be born, to live and to die by The Law of G-D! Amen!

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