Golders Green, London - Two Arrested over Purim 'Havoc' |
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Golders Green, London - Police arrested two Jewish revelers as a group of 300 people caused “havoc” during rowdy Purim celebrations.
The men were arrested on suspicion of affray in north west London after residents called for officers to disperse the crowds.
Barnet Police said there had been “fighting, throwing of fireworks and general havoc” in Brent Street, Hendon, and Golders Green Road, Golders Green, between 10pm and 12.30am on Sunday morning.
Officers and Community Security Trust volunteers separated Jewish men who were drunk and fighting with each other. Members of the Orthodox Shomrim volunteers were also in the area during the Purim celebrations.
Those who were arrested were later released without charge.
A police source said: “We thought it was going to be a quiet affair and then a group of young males came out, charging around and drinking. We were not expecting it.
“We always thought Golders Green was a quiet sort of place, but obviously not. We encouraged them to chill out.”
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Mar 01, 2010 at 11:42 AM cool masmid Says:Report as Inappropriate
Growing up in London all those years ago, I always remember the way it was set up that the first night (this year would mean Sat night)is always in Stamford Hill, and the second night(again this year would mean Sun night) is always Golders Green/ Hendon . As in both places the other night is totally dead. So Sat night is usually always dead the first night, and so the timing of this story being in GG on Sat night is a little surprising. But then again things could have changed over the last 25+ years.
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Mar 01, 2010 at 11:46 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Where are the Rabbonim to speak out against this?
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Mar 01, 2010 at 12:07 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
"We always thought Golders Green was a quiet sort of place, but obviously not. We encouraged them to chill out."
why, cuz of one incident?
I would think Golders green is a quiet sort of place except one time when a few drunk kids started fighting.
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Mar 01, 2010 at 12:13 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Growing up in London all those years ago, I always remember the way it was set up that the first night (this year would mean Sat night)is always in Stamford Hill, and the second night(again this year would mean Sun night) is always Golders Green/ Hendon . As in both places the other night is totally dead. So Sat night is usually always dead the first night, and so the timing of this story being in GG on Sat night is a little surprising. But then again things could have changed over the last 25+ years. ”
It was quiet in GG on Motzei shabbos. This was a non frum chevra that turned up late and fought with each other!
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Mar 01, 2010 at 11:41 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Lock them up an throw away the keys for a few weeks. Just what we need is to have yeshiva bochurim acting like a bunch of drunk goiyeshe skinheads.
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Mar 01, 2010 at 12:18 PM GGer Says:Report as Inappropriate
Same happens every year or two but has been getting worse over the years. (VERY different 25 years ago!) These people are not usually the frum crowd but are the non-frum looking for some "fun" and to cause havoc. THE place to be Purim used to be around PPA and the area was then heavily policed due to the crazy situation, with many people there deciding to either go away for Purim or have their seuda elsewhere due to the situation.
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Mar 01, 2010 at 12:31 PM a hemisha Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Where are the Rabbonim to speak out against this? ”
its golder's green not stamford hill ;)
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Mar 01, 2010 at 12:41 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Where are the Rabbonim to speak out against this? ”
talk about this they dont talk about more important things you want them to talk about drinking fighting and makeing a chil hashame get real
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Mar 01, 2010 at 12:49 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Where are the Rabbonim to speak out against this? ”
We have you BH
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Mar 01, 2010 at 01:22 PM punch Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Lock them up an throw away the keys for a few weeks. Just what we need is to have yeshiva bochurim acting like a bunch of drunk goiyeshe skinheads. ”
if they should be locked up for a few weeks than why throw away the keys?
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Mar 01, 2010 at 02:21 PM Stamford Hilly Billy Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Where are the Rabbonim to speak out against this? ”
You obviously enjoy making uniformed statements with no sustanance.
I saw in quite a few places a poster issued by Shomrim NW basically telling people to behave themselves over purim and signed by many well known rabbonim in Hendon/Golders Green.
From personal exerince, having been in Brent Street around the times mentioned in the article I did not see or hear anything that was described in the article just a few people walking around in a lively manner dressed in their costumes
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Mar 01, 2010 at 02:34 PM purimshpiel Says:Report as Inappropriate
There was also a fight at the JLE in Golders Green, which resulted in two guys being thrown out... Unfortunatly there are one or two BT's who get kiruved too quickly and started drinking like they used too, before they had found judaism. Its the same every year, these are not FFB kids doing this.
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Mar 01, 2010 at 03:29 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Maybe this is the same scum that later came over to Stamford Hill around 12-1am and started kicking up a ruckus there.
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Mar 01, 2010 at 03:59 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ There was also a fight at the JLE in Golders Green, which resulted in two guys being thrown out... Unfortunatly there are one or two BT's who get kiruved too quickly and started drinking like they used too, before they had found judaism. Its the same every year, these are not FFB kids doing this. ”
Get your head out of the sand, drinking to much has become a real problem in our communities,.Halevei it was only "one or two BT's who get kiruved too quickly" it is our ffb kids (and not just one or two) doing this as well, which is why the rabonim and askonim have taken a stance.
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Mar 01, 2010 at 04:10 PM londoner Says:Report as Inappropriate
See No. 4.
I was in Golders Green on Motze Shabbos and saw this. These hooligans were not heimishe kids. I don't know where they came from but they looked to me like some of the low-lifes who hang around Carmelli every Motze Shabbos.
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Mar 01, 2010 at 04:18 PM az Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ There was also a fight at the JLE in Golders Green, which resulted in two guys being thrown out... Unfortunatly there are one or two BT's who get kiruved too quickly and started drinking like they used too, before they had found judaism. Its the same every year, these are not FFB kids doing this. ”
are you kidding me??????
Are you seriously saying that all the rowdiness problems on purim are because of baalei teshuvah???
I say a bracha everyday..........SHELO OSANI FFB!!!!!
Your comments make me feel ill. baalei teshuva are often more fervent and excited about avodas Hashem than the average run of the mill ffb.
To your point, the ffb's are just as guilty as anyone.
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Mar 01, 2010 at 05:14 PM SHELO OSANI FFB Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ are you kidding me??????
Are you seriously saying that all the rowdiness problems on purim are because of baalei teshuvah???
I say a bracha everyday..........SHELO OSANI FFB!!!!!
Your comments make me feel ill. baalei teshuva are often more fervent and excited about avodas Hashem than the average run of the mill ffb.
To your point, the ffb's are just as guilty as anyone. ”
SHELO OSANI FFB - I love it!!!
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Mar 01, 2010 at 04:50 PM mottel Says:Report as Inappropriate
To #12 what a stupid comment about FFBs and BTs. Absolute nonesense and judemental. Get a life. I know LOADS of FFBs who drink too much and play up... don't kid yourslef - in fact BTs are more likely to hug each other and show love when they're drunk than FFBs.. by the way I'm a BT and I've never been an alcoholic, or a junkie actually, or a nymphomaniac - sorry to disappoint you
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Mar 01, 2010 at 05:44 PM purimshpiel Says:Report as Inappropriate
BT's all jump on the band wagon, I'm so frum we would never do that, blah blah. I'm sorry, but I saw with my own eyes, who was casuing the ruckus outside on golders green road, and these were not FFB kids. I can't say that FFB's are not also responsible for other events... However in THIS case, and the main issue of THIS news story, it was 'BT' kids who were responsible, and were behaving like yocks... How many arrests in Stamford Hill?..... None reported. Go figure.
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Mar 01, 2010 at 06:07 PM esther Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ BT's all jump on the band wagon, I'm so frum we would never do that, blah blah. I'm sorry, but I saw with my own eyes, who was casuing the ruckus outside on golders green road, and these were not FFB kids. I can't say that FFB's are not also responsible for other events... However in THIS case, and the main issue of THIS news story, it was 'BT' kids who were responsible, and were behaving like yocks... How many arrests in Stamford Hill?..... None reported. Go figure. ”
only a shoiteh or someone with a serious post purim hang over would try to classify all bt's, ffb's or chasidim,sefardim etc.for that matter, as all being one thing. the main thing is though and get this through your head,WE ARE ALL YIDDEN!
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Mar 01, 2010 at 06:26 PM mottel Says:Report as Inappropriate
sorry #12/#19 - you actually KNOW these people, to say that they are BTs and not FFBs??? Are they your friends then, that are causing all this trouble?
Anyway my point was the BT line was totally irrelevant. As for your Stamford Hill comment, there are plenty of rowdy off-the-derech kids in S. Hill chassidish litvish you name it. Wake up and smell the coffee buddy boy
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Mar 01, 2010 at 08:36 PM Let me get this straight Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ are you kidding me??????
Are you seriously saying that all the rowdiness problems on purim are because of baalei teshuvah???
I say a bracha everyday..........SHELO OSANI FFB!!!!!
Your comments make me feel ill. baalei teshuva are often more fervent and excited about avodas Hashem than the average run of the mill ffb.
To your point, the ffb's are just as guilty as anyone. ”
So you say a bracha everyday..........SHELO OSANI FFB???!!!
So, every day you thank Hashem that you had many years that were absent of Torah and Mitzvos?! Every day you thank Hashem that in your earlier years you were able to transgress against His will?! And I detect that you are proud of this fact!
Let me ask you, following your logic, should you not should encourage your children to transgress - that will "save" them from being FFB's???
You further claim that, "baalei teshuva are often more fervent and excited about avodas Hashem than the average run of the mill ffb" - sorry, but it seems to me that you are more excited about growing up WITHOUT avodas Hashem. At least, excited enough to make a daily brocha for this. I wouldn't answer Amen to your brocha, instead I say with pity, Shame on you!
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Mar 01, 2010 at 10:16 PM esther Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ So you say a bracha everyday..........SHELO OSANI FFB???!!!
So, every day you thank Hashem that you had many years that were absent of Torah and Mitzvos?! Every day you thank Hashem that in your earlier years you were able to transgress against His will?! And I detect that you are proud of this fact!
Let me ask you, following your logic, should you not should encourage your children to transgress - that will "save" them from being FFB's???
You further claim that, "baalei teshuva are often more fervent and excited about avodas Hashem than the average run of the mill ffb" - sorry, but it seems to me that you are more excited about growing up WITHOUT avodas Hashem. At least, excited enough to make a daily brocha for this. I wouldn't answer Amen to your brocha, instead I say with pity, Shame on you! ”
if we accept the basic premise that Hashem sends our neshamos to be born into the exact situation that is best for each of us,then we have to thank Him for our upbringing whatever it was.your neshama needed a frum family to be raised in and my neshama needed to find it's way to torah and mizvos and through tshuva hopefully transform my past avairos into mitzvos.
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Mar 01, 2010 at 11:25 PM cool masmid Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ if we accept the basic premise that Hashem sends our neshamos to be born into the exact situation that is best for each of us,then we have to thank Him for our upbringing whatever it was.your neshama needed a frum family to be raised in and my neshama needed to find it's way to torah and mizvos and through tshuva hopefully transform my past avairos into mitzvos. ”
Esther- don't try to spin this, #22 is very right in what he said . For that poster to suggest that he makes a brocho every day that SHELO OSANI FFB is seriously misguided and very dangerous. He may want to thank H-shem that he finally found the emes, but to thank that he is not a FFB, and that he is all the better for it, is totally irresponsible and factually wrong. For starters all the transgressions of earlier years need Teshuvah and a tikkun, and so I'm not sure how one could actually think that he is all the better for not being a FFB. Not withstanding I speak for many when we say that we are all in amazement at some of todays Baalei Teshuva who truly a lesson for us all.
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Mar 01, 2010 at 11:41 PM Let me get this straight Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ if we accept the basic premise that Hashem sends our neshamos to be born into the exact situation that is best for each of us,then we have to thank Him for our upbringing whatever it was.your neshama needed a frum family to be raised in and my neshama needed to find it's way to torah and mizvos and through tshuva hopefully transform my past avairos into mitzvos. ”
By all means thank Hashem for helping you break away from a life of darkness - and the greater appreciation you now have for living a true life, but... don't thank Him for the sins of your past.
True, through tshuva you have transformed your avoros into mitzvos, but...should one be grateful for the avaros? Should one "regret" they didn't accumulate more avoros - since ultimately, it would result in additional mitzvos?!
You, like every bal tshuva are the heros of our nation! You are a symbol of courage and triumph - as goodness overcomes evil. It is truly inspiring to each of us, and humbling - for who knows where we would be if fated to such a past. Indeed, Hashem challenges us according to our abilities, and ffb's likely don't have such abilities!
Having said that, certainly you would wish your children a life with less challenges! A life that is more insulated from evils. A life connected to Hashem and fullfilling His will with the mitzvos. You would consider it a curse if someone wished your child a life detached from Hashem - even with the promise that one day the child will return.
Therefore I object strenously to someone saying that it was a blessing to live in darkness
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Mar 01, 2010 at 11:47 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Esther- don't try to spin this, #22 is very right in what he said . For that poster to suggest that he makes a brocho every day that SHELO OSANI FFB is seriously misguided and very dangerous. He may want to thank H-shem that he finally found the emes, but to thank that he is not a FFB, and that he is all the better for it, is totally irresponsible and factually wrong. For starters all the transgressions of earlier years need Teshuvah and a tikkun, and so I'm not sure how one could actually think that he is all the better for not being a FFB. Not withstanding I speak for many when we say that we are all in amazement at some of todays Baalei Teshuva who truly a lesson for us all. ”
I am "FFB." Quite frankly, the way some behave leads me to wonder whether the "BT" who has been surrounded with all the worlds materialism and then found their way to G-d have a much higher zechus and level of kiddusha then the jews who are FFB and many of whom just follow judaism blindly as a way of life. Perhaps in his few years frum, the BT earns many more Zechusim through sacrifice, love of Hashem, and hard work, than many "FFBs" earn in a lifetime of just following the procedures that they grew up with.
The "BT" is often educated in secular studies, aware of different views of life and different lifestyles, is aware of the materialism that can be had so easily in America, is aware of all the reasons for not believing in G-d (evolution, world events) and yet he or she finds a way to believe. The "heimeshe" FFB lives in an insular world where he is not allowed to watch movies, he reads Yated and Homdia which only publishes news that wont offend frumies, pictures of girls or any stories of evolution are ripped out of school books - why should he not belive in G-d? Self control is easier when you insulate yourself.
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Mar 02, 2010 at 12:10 AM Let Me Get This Straight... Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ I am "FFB." Quite frankly, the way some behave leads me to wonder whether the "BT" who has been surrounded with all the worlds materialism and then found their way to G-d have a much higher zechus and level of kiddusha then the jews who are FFB and many of whom just follow judaism blindly as a way of life. Perhaps in his few years frum, the BT earns many more Zechusim through sacrifice, love of Hashem, and hard work, than many "FFBs" earn in a lifetime of just following the procedures that they grew up with.
The "BT" is often educated in secular studies, aware of different views of life and different lifestyles, is aware of the materialism that can be had so easily in America, is aware of all the reasons for not believing in G-d (evolution, world events) and yet he or she finds a way to believe. The "heimeshe" FFB lives in an insular world where he is not allowed to watch movies, he reads Yated and Homdia which only publishes news that wont offend frumies, pictures of girls or any stories of evolution are ripped out of school books - why should he not belive in G-d? Self control is easier when you insulate yourself. ”
Hashem gives us ALL challenges - nisyonos. The FFB and the BT each have their respective challenge. The nisoyon isn't easier or harder on the other side of the fence - just different.
Chazal tell us that the rich are challenged to spend time learning Torah - they have so much business to do. They think their challenge is greater than the poor person's. Meanwhile, the poor person is challenged to spend time learning Torah - for he must earn a living to survive. The poor think their challenge is greater than the rich person's. Each thinks, "If only I was...(poor/rich)...then I would have the time to study Torah!"
Chazal tell us," Ashrei me shelo chota - blessed is the one who never sinned", "u'me shechota yoshuv vyimchol lo - and he who sinned should return and will be forgiven."
Our goal is to be connected to Hashem. One doesn't get "better" connected to Hashem by abandoning Hashem. Our goal is to fullfill the will of Hashem as directed in our Torah - one cannot fullfill the will of Hashem by neglecting the Torah.
May we get chizuk from each other, as we look forward to the promise that no Jew will be left behind in Golus, let us march to greet Moshiach, as Chabad says: NOW!
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Mar 02, 2010 at 12:36 AM Straight Talk Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ are you kidding me??????
Are you seriously saying that all the rowdiness problems on purim are because of baalei teshuvah???
I say a bracha everyday..........SHELO OSANI FFB!!!!!
Your comments make me feel ill. baalei teshuva are often more fervent and excited about avodas Hashem than the average run of the mill ffb.
To your point, the ffb's are just as guilty as anyone. ”
We make many brochas of "Shelo Osani."
Someone once asked, "Why don't we make a bracha SHELO OSANI BEHAMA (thanking Hashem for not making us beasts)?"
The answer is, for some it would be a bracha l'vatala (a blessing in vain).
We, all of us - FFB's AND BT's, need to be mentchen and not behamos!
These morning brochas are said in the "negative" - with that we are yotzeh any negativity, and the rest of our day should remain only positive!
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Mar 02, 2010 at 08:16 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ So you say a bracha everyday..........SHELO OSANI FFB???!!!
So, every day you thank Hashem that you had many years that were absent of Torah and Mitzvos?! Every day you thank Hashem that in your earlier years you were able to transgress against His will?! And I detect that you are proud of this fact!
Let me ask you, following your logic, should you not should encourage your children to transgress - that will "save" them from being FFB's???
You further claim that, "baalei teshuva are often more fervent and excited about avodas Hashem than the average run of the mill ffb" - sorry, but it seems to me that you are more excited about growing up WITHOUT avodas Hashem. At least, excited enough to make a daily brocha for this. I wouldn't answer Amen to your brocha, instead I say with pity, Shame on you! ”
I'm not the one you wrote to, but I am a BT who agrees with "shelo asani FFB." I ABSOLUTELY thank Hashem for putting into the life He chose for me. It was His decision to put every single one of us into exactly the family that is right for us, and I am grateful every day!
Growing up outside the FFB framework, I see it with fresh eyes. I see what is working and what is not. If I had grown up in a frum community and attended frum schools, I would not have this objectivity. Sorry to tell you, but a lot of what you do isn't working. So many of your schools ARE failing, and a lot of your values and behaviors are way off. Yes, there is a lot you have right - but so much you have so wrong.
I can raise my children the right way, and not just accept it when FFB's do things against the Torah because "everyone does it." Talking in shul is the least of it, as is freely speaking lashon hara about other frum communities - but also the ganeivas, "havdalahs", incessant spying, judgementalism, lack of derech eretz... and the way BT's are treated!!! I teach my kids to treat ALL people with respect and love! Even FFBs!
As a BT, I can honestly say: 'Hashem forgives, but these people never do!'
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Mar 02, 2010 at 08:26 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Hashem gives us ALL challenges - nisyonos. The FFB and the BT each have their respective challenge. The nisoyon isn't easier or harder on the other side of the fence - just different.
Chazal tell us that the rich are challenged to spend time learning Torah - they have so much business to do. They think their challenge is greater than the poor person's. Meanwhile, the poor person is challenged to spend time learning Torah - for he must earn a living to survive. The poor think their challenge is greater than the rich person's. Each thinks, "If only I was...(poor/rich)...then I would have the time to study Torah!"
Chazal tell us," Ashrei me shelo chota - blessed is the one who never sinned", "u'me shechota yoshuv vyimchol lo - and he who sinned should return and will be forgiven."
Our goal is to be connected to Hashem. One doesn't get "better" connected to Hashem by abandoning Hashem. Our goal is to fullfill the will of Hashem as directed in our Torah - one cannot fullfill the will of Hashem by neglecting the Torah.
May we get chizuk from each other, as we look forward to the promise that no Jew will be left behind in Golus, let us march to greet Moshiach, as Chabad says: NOW! ”
"Our goal is to be connected to Hashem. One doesn't get "better" connected to Hashem by abandoning Hashem. Our goal is to fullfill the will of Hashem as directed in our Torah - one cannot fullfill the will of Hashem by neglecting the Torah."
Your entire premise is flawed. A BT is not someone who "abandoned" Hashem and then came back. 99% of the time, BT's are people who never heard of most of the mitzvos and grew up completely ignorant of what Hashem wants from them - or that Hashem exists! I've met BT's who had never, until age 22, heard of Purim, never until age 24 heard of Shavuous, Simchas Torah, Tu B'Shvat. (Yes it's true.) How can you then BLAME this person for not keeping them? How can you say they "abandoned" what they'd never even heard of?? Perhaps you can blame one of their great-grandparents - but don't, because we shouldn't judge - but certainly you can't blame the BT!
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Mar 02, 2010 at 08:21 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ So you say a bracha everyday..........SHELO OSANI FFB???!!!
So, every day you thank Hashem that you had many years that were absent of Torah and Mitzvos?! Every day you thank Hashem that in your earlier years you were able to transgress against His will?! And I detect that you are proud of this fact!
Let me ask you, following your logic, should you not should encourage your children to transgress - that will "save" them from being FFB's???
You further claim that, "baalei teshuva are often more fervent and excited about avodas Hashem than the average run of the mill ffb" - sorry, but it seems to me that you are more excited about growing up WITHOUT avodas Hashem. At least, excited enough to make a daily brocha for this. I wouldn't answer Amen to your brocha, instead I say with pity, Shame on you! ”
P.S. to discussion of "shelo asani FFB" which concluded "Hashem forgives but they never do." I want to add two things. (I was out of characters.)
(1) By the last statement I meant that Hashem accepts our teshuvah, but the FFB world continues to look down on us.
(2) I would say MOST FFB's are FFH - frum from habit. Very few have the relationship to Hashem that I have, and YES I appreciate it. I built it for myself, I own it. Yes, FFB's can accomplish this for themselves, too - but mostly I've observed it in BT's and in the finer FFB families.
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Mar 02, 2010 at 05:20 AM yanky Says:Report as Inappropriate
i live in gg & if the police would come out in force as they did on motzei shabbos & sunday, then all of gg & hendon would gain from lower crime & filth
if they would show up every motzei shabbos outside pizzaza in brent st & carmelli in gg, they would have weekly arrests of underage drinking & sex
most of these teenagers are not from frum homes, but they do generally eat kosher & hang out with Jews but there are many local boys & girls who have been shlepped in to these "cool" hangouts
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Mar 02, 2010 at 11:22 AM esther Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Esther- don't try to spin this, #22 is very right in what he said . For that poster to suggest that he makes a brocho every day that SHELO OSANI FFB is seriously misguided and very dangerous. He may want to thank H-shem that he finally found the emes, but to thank that he is not a FFB, and that he is all the better for it, is totally irresponsible and factually wrong. For starters all the transgressions of earlier years need Teshuvah and a tikkun, and so I'm not sure how one could actually think that he is all the better for not being a FFB. Not withstanding I speak for many when we say that we are all in amazement at some of todays Baalei Teshuva who truly a lesson for us all. ”
of course we bt's are the better for having having sinned in the past and then doing tshuva.( i'm not saying to purposely sin in order to do tshuva ),another basic premise gam zu ltovah,everything that happened in my life is hashgacha protis and therefore the best possible for me.btw,in chassidus it explains that each mitzvah is like a thread or rope connecting us to Hashem. an avaira severs the rope whereas tshuva reconnects the rope with a knot,a stonger connection then the original rope.
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Mar 02, 2010 at 05:10 PM Let Me Get This Straight... Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ of course we bt's are the better for having having sinned in the past and then doing tshuva.( i'm not saying to purposely sin in order to do tshuva ),another basic premise gam zu ltovah,everything that happened in my life is hashgacha protis and therefore the best possible for me.btw,in chassidus it explains that each mitzvah is like a thread or rope connecting us to Hashem. an avaira severs the rope whereas tshuva reconnects the rope with a knot,a stonger connection then the original rope. ”
"tshuva reconnects the rope with a knot,a stonger connection then the original rope”, like a broken bone heals and becomes thicker than the original - yet who would wish their bones should be broken to have this benefit?!
As I wrote earlier, we each have our personal avoda in the service of Hashem, whether FFB or BT, it comes with challenges. Let us learn from each other and draw inspiration, rather than be boastful of our ill or well fated past.
I reiterate how humbles I am by BT's - and I am grateful I was not fated to such challenges, clearly because it is beyond my abilities. You are the hero/ine of the Jewish people!
It is wonderful that you learn and cite chassidus or works of mussar. To FFB's, you are truly a living work of mussar/chassidus. May I add - each mitzva not only connects you to Hashem, but also to your fellow Jews.
" Ashrei me shelo chota - blessed is the one who never sinned"..."u'me shechota yoshuv vyimchol lo - and he who sinned should return and will be forgiven."
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Mar 26, 2010 at 05:58 PM "fighting" Says:Report as Inappropriate
all of you who believe the night in golders green was "havoc" then you are obviosly mad, i was there and was a witness of the "fighting" if you call it that- it was a fun night out and it only occurs once a year, i know some of you believe it causes a bad name for the jews but every one needs to have fun sometimes, else you obvously are a "boring, miserable and non existent to socialising." Those who also belive this event was appualing then you should come and visit this event one year and experience the night as you will be suprised as the night was enjoyable whilst it brings all jews together from all over england as reunite as one nation.