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New York, NY - A Brooklyn jury convicted an orthodox man of repeatedly sexually abusing a 16-year-old classmate of his son.
The panel of 10 women and two men deliberated less than half a day before finding the rabbi, guilty of eight counts of sexual abuse. The jury acquitted him of two counts.
“Justice was served,” said the father of the abused boy.
The teen said the rabbi lured him into his car by offering to let him drive, then abused him.
The man had no reaction as the jury forewoman read the verdict, but sniffles and gasps were heard from the roughly 30 assembled friends and relatives.
Justice Patricia DiMango ordered the rabbi remanded pending sentence. He faces up to 32 years behind bars.
“I understand that there are a significant number of Jewish holidays coming up, and I am sorry,” she said.
The two not-guilty verdicts applied to charges during the summer months of 2004, when testimony showed that the victim was at an upstate camp with limited ability to visit Brooklyn.
“We’re extremely disappointed,” said lawyer Arthur Aidala. We were hoping that the jury was going to see things differently…He still maintains his innocence.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 07:23 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Wht the hell is every yid with a beard being called a Rabbi by the media?
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Mar 08, 2010 at 07:16 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
This "rabbi" has been molesting children for over three decades. Several of his victims are undergoing therapy. The star witness for the defense himself was exposed today as a child molester. It's time to finally rid our community of these predators. They are RODFIM!
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Mar 08, 2010 at 07:34 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Wow. The shmitz is finally hitting the fan. Let the debates begin. I just have one request:
Everybody is entitled to an opinion. But agree or not, however upset you are for either side, please remember one thing: DO NOT TURN THE VICTIMS INTO THE BAD GUYS!
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Mar 08, 2010 at 07:22 PM ST Says:Report as Inappropriate
I will keep my mouth shut and not blame anyone here before I know REAL FACTS! Now I know some ppl here are going to be wise and start giving their opinions... If u don't have 100% facts evidence etc keep quiet.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 07:44 PM nuchem fan ! Says:Report as Inappropriate
Oi oi nuchem vi bisti gaven a few years ago !!!
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Mar 08, 2010 at 07:43 PM wondering Says:Report as Inappropriate
32 years??? Wow!!!
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Mar 08, 2010 at 07:57 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
All I can say is, if he is indeed guilt, let him rot in hell. If he is not, I am mekana his oilem haba
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:05 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Thanks to nuchem rosenberg!!!!
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:03 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Sentencing is set for Erev Pesach. Several outlets report that he turned down a plea deal that would have carried only a few month jail term. Odir ya odir nisht.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:03 PM formally Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ I will keep my mouth shut and not blame anyone here before I know REAL FACTS! Now I know some ppl here are going to be wise and start giving their opinions... If u don't have 100% facts evidence etc keep quiet. ”
wake up, it happens it is real and has been going on for ages. The internet just exposed it, just like it exposed the church
whether this guy is guilty or not molestation seems to be a problem in the frum community. And the community need to deal with it since the robonum are doing nothing, and as a matter of fact helping the molester.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 07:46 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Thank you brave victims for making the world a wee bit safer for my children.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:12 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Before condemning or condoning just remember for a minute that there are innocent surrounding family members - wife, children, grandchildren, siblings - who are humiliated and hurting terribly right now. Remember: your gossip is someone else's pain. Lets show some strength of character in bain adam lachveiro and leave the negativity and judging up to the court system and the ultimate judge, Hashem. Chazak to whoever the true victims are...
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:11 PM Eli Says:Report as Inappropriate
Both the victim and the accused are big rachmones. But we have to remember that we have failed to offer the accused to go for therapy. And if that didn't work and he was a repeated offender, then he deserves what he deserves. But I don't think this case was treated properly.
And unfortunately, the jury will have more doubts if somebody murdered someone, then doubt if someone molested a child, they will except even weak evidence in a child molestations case.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:11 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ All I can say is, if he is indeed guilt, let him rot in hell. If he is not, I am mekana his oilem haba ”
Geavldig comment, I would just add if he is not guilty I am mekana the oilem habu of his family as well...wow the pain!
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:10 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Wow. The shmitz is finally hitting the fan. Let the debates begin. I just have one request:
Everybody is entitled to an opinion. But agree or not, however upset you are for either side, please remember one thing: DO NOT TURN THE VICTIMS INTO THE BAD GUYS! ”
You are indeed a righteous man. Making sure of the one thing that counts the most. Not turning the victims into bad people. Many people have been molested, hurt, and victimized, and don't come forward only due to fact that this community kills them for it. Its about time people with your opinion stood up. May you be blessed.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:10 PM formally Says:Report as Inappropriate
the guy does call himself a rabbi (don't blame the post). And maybe people call him that too. I think he has many other casses pending against him.
Another guy that was known to the powers to be, Robonum, and they did nothing about it.
Sorry they did they protect him and harassed the child.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:31 PM AuthenticSatmar Says:Report as Inappropriate
If the jury did not believe him about the summer incidents they should consider him a liar and not believe the others too. Of course because he's a Rabbi I'm sure it changed their decision.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:18 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Don't speak before you know the facts. And by the way, he is being held till his sentencing because he is a flight risk, this is the new craze about jews: they are all flight risks. Today its him, tomorroe its someone else. And another point to think of, the victim was caught lying about the summer months, how could he be credible for the rest? I am not saying that the guy molested, or did not molest. I just heard that there was very little evidence and a jury that likes to convict any Rabbi... All I am saying is, don't jump to conclusions.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:38 PM kidushhashem Says:Report as Inappropriate
is din v'is dieyan
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:32 PM Stick to the point Says:Report as Inappropriate
The lawyers' are not trying to exonerate Sholom Mordechai. They are proving that he is being treated more harshly than others convicted of similar crimes. Can't you read and comprehend the written words? If you read about his freezing in jail with no blanket or sweater and can still pop up and say that he deserves the punishment, I doubt that you are from bnei Avraham.
Please daven for the SAFETY of SMR - he has already been attacked by an anti-Semitic cellmate.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:23 PM formally Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Before condemning or condoning just remember for a minute that there are innocent surrounding family members - wife, children, grandchildren, siblings - who are humiliated and hurting terribly right now. Remember: your gossip is someone else's pain. Lets show some strength of character in bain adam lachveiro and leave the negativity and judging up to the court system and the ultimate judge, Hashem. Chazak to whoever the true victims are... ”
the problem is that it must be publicized to protect other children, that is why we have the registry of sex offenders
"Before condemning or condoning just remember for a minute that there are innocent surrounding family members - wife, children, grandchildren, siblings - who are humiliated and hurting terribly right now."
true but this the case in every criminal case.
Question for you, did you feel the same when the guy who sold the trief chickens was publicized, feel bad for his wife family?
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:36 PM confused Says:Report as Inappropriate
I don't understand. Anyone can come and accuse anybody and they are to believed just like that? Only when there is proof otherwise then charges are dropped, so what happens if there is no proof either way?
I'm not saying this to minimize any victim's pain, I just hoping someone can enlighten me as to how all these stories that keep on coming up can be proven as fact.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:44 PM Robert Says:Report as Inappropriate
its so sad when i see our community fighting over issues like is lox now still kosher... should there be gender seperate buses in israel
should women be allowed to daven in a womens minyan..
perhaps we have lost the forrest for the trees.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:44 PM ST Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ wake up, it happens it is real and has been going on for ages. The internet just exposed it, just like it exposed the church
whether this guy is guilty or not molestation seems to be a problem in the frum community. And the community need to deal with it since the robonum are doing nothing, and as a matter of fact helping the molester. ”
Btw YOU should wake up and see that this is not a problem by us ppl...its a problem by everyone that has it.. Read the news and see how many ongoing *** abuse and molestation cases all over not by us only.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:45 PM Shmuel Says:Report as Inappropriate
Very sad - he should have taken the plea deal. I hope the judge shows mercy
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:46 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
This is what happens when you don't teach sex education in the Haredi community. In the past few years so many cases of Hillul Hashem in the frum community. They are certainly not Or LaGoyim.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:49 PM Huh Says:Report as Inappropriate
you mean to tell me the 16 year old didn't know what he was getting himself into - this is a scam
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:50 PM Dag Says:Report as Inappropriate
No one was caught lying about the summer. The Jury felt there was reasonable doubt so they found him not guilty.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:56 PM Knowit Says:Report as Inappropriate
The point is our screwed up justice system, not one single piece of evidence was entered into evidence, no witness, no dna, no proof, nada, one individuals word against another, not to go into this specific case, have we fallen so low, to convict a person just on the word of an accuser, if we don't need any proof or evidence, where does it stop
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:58 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
i was there throughout the proceedings and its completly mind boggling that he was found guilty beyond a reasonable doubt,the only explanation possible is the jury was biased being that he looks so chasidish and he was called a rabbi,i challenge anyone that was there to say otherwise
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Mar 08, 2010 at 09:03 PM Anon Says:Report as Inappropriate
Not everything u hear is true and what u do hear are not all the facts of the case and therefore u have no right to conclude that the man deserves it. A jury ruling dosnt mean that they heard all the facts and the sholom rubashkin case is proof for that.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 09:10 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
What's the point in putting a sick man in jail and embarrassing his family? What a sick justice system!
Besides that, in the usa they somehow view jail time as compensation for the victim.Let him either pay money or give him an appropriate sentence that offers as a crime prevention tool. Why do they associate it with how many time he committed the crime, believe me if hes guilty he did it many times more.
It's the same with Rubashkin, what difference does it make how many papers he signed (every form another charge) while taking the bank loan, if he mailed it (mail fraud), faxed it (wire fraud) or delivered it (no additional charge). It just doesn't add up. Of course criminals need to pay a price, but why does jail time serve as a remedy for the crime rather than a tool to prevent others from copying his crime, in which case the technical details should not matter.
The difference is very clear, because under the current method, murderers get less than molesters and even white color criminals.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:47 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Don't speak before you know the facts. And by the way, he is being held till his sentencing because he is a flight risk, this is the new craze about jews: they are all flight risks. Today its him, tomorroe its someone else. And another point to think of, the victim was caught lying about the summer months, how could he be credible for the rest? I am not saying that the guy molested, or did not molest. I just heard that there was very little evidence and a jury that likes to convict any Rabbi... All I am saying is, don't jump to conclusions. ”
YOU don't know the facts. The victims was NOT lying about the summer months. He came back from camp early that summer. The defense attorney confused him about the dates and the jury was confused as well. Bottom line, there are dozens of people that were victimized by this guy. There are two other cases pending that are within the five year statute of limitations. The older cases unfortunately cannot be brought up, although the victims are still suffering.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 08:52 PM az Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Before condemning or condoning just remember for a minute that there are innocent surrounding family members - wife, children, grandchildren, siblings - who are humiliated and hurting terribly right now. Remember: your gossip is someone else's pain. Lets show some strength of character in bain adam lachveiro and leave the negativity and judging up to the court system and the ultimate judge, Hashem. Chazak to whoever the true victims are... ”
דברים י"ז) וכל העם ישמעו ויראו וגו',
the Torah doesn't worry about the feelings of the family, the guilty should be strung up and publicized, so people will see and understand that ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!!!!!
If this guy was at it for 32 years, I find it hard to believe that his family are so innocent either.
In any case, the safety of children is more important than the anguish of one family.
NAME HIM, POST HIS PICTURE EVERYWHERE!!!!!!!!
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Mar 08, 2010 at 09:15 PM Loshon Hora Says:Report as Inappropriate
BTW to convict someone you practically need a diary of dates times & places, sometimes you don't have all of them, so they cannot convict based on rough information.Many criminals are aware of that unfortunatly. That is not to say I agree one way or other. I the Loshon Hora blogger know nothing, nor do you.
I do know it exsists & is damaging, & very often the criminal was a victim in his childhood, & if the victim is not treated he could chas veshalom become a criminal himself,although you my not be able to cure the victim you could help him control himself, get married & have a constructive life,even though he may feel the pain forever.
I wish them all a Rfuah Sheleima & Yeshuah Kerova.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 09:34 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Before condemning or condoning just remember for a minute that there are innocent surrounding family members - wife, children, grandchildren, siblings - who are humiliated and hurting terribly right now. Remember: your gossip is someone else's pain. Lets show some strength of character in bain adam lachveiro and leave the negativity and judging up to the court system and the ultimate judge, Hashem. Chazak to whoever the true victims are... ”
i agree! very well said! someone with a normal comment!
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Mar 08, 2010 at 09:40 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Before condemning or condoning just remember for a minute that there are innocent surrounding family members - wife, children, grandchildren, siblings - who are humiliated and hurting terribly right now. Remember: your gossip is someone else's pain. Lets show some strength of character in bain adam lachveiro and leave the negativity and judging up to the court system and the ultimate judge, Hashem. Chazak to whoever the true victims are... ”
Very well said. It's a shame that criminals and their family are ostracized to such a degree. He's going to paya price and let it be done with respect for his kids and grandchildren and especially his wife.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 09:45 PM Gregaaron Says:Report as Inappropriate
It seems rather pointless to have these discussions, where every person that raises issues with the due process is labelled a friend of the molesters, and persecuting the victims, etc. etc....
Additionally, let's get one thing straight - if the kid was 16, odds are he knew EXACTLY what he was getting into. I'm not saying it in any way casts the abuser - IF IT HAPPENED - in a better light, but it's certainly not the same as a Rebbe who preyed on 7-year olds.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 09:46 PM OMG Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ i was there throughout the proceedings and its completly mind boggling that he was found guilty beyond a reasonable doubt,the only explanation possible is the jury was biased being that he looks so chasidish and he was called a rabbi,i challenge anyone that was there to say otherwise ”
It is obvious, that either you snoozed while sitting in the court room, or you don’t have any common sense. If someone testifies that he was molested, that by itself is considered evidence, and if the jury makes a determination that they believe the victim, then legally they could find him guilty, even without any physical evidences. How would you expect any molester to be tried and found guilty, if you would only find him guilty if you have physical evidence, or other witnesses to the act? Usually molester don’t molest in front of others they are discreet, and sometimes years elapses before the victim speaks up.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 09:47 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ דברים י"ז) וכל העם ישמעו ויראו וגו',
the Torah doesn't worry about the feelings of the family, the guilty should be strung up and publicized, so people will see and understand that ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!!!!!
If this guy was at it for 32 years, I find it hard to believe that his family are so innocent either.
In any case, the safety of children is more important than the anguish of one family.
NAME HIM, POST HIS PICTURE EVERYWHERE!!!!!!!! ”
az,
Learn how to read and understand English first. Nowhere does it say he was at it for 32 years. If convicted, he can face up to 32 years incarceration. (That' s a big word for: jail time)
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Mar 08, 2010 at 09:54 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Every child molester was molested, where does the cycle begin and where does it end? Is there no place for mercy in today's society?
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Mar 08, 2010 at 10:08 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ It is obvious, that either you snoozed while sitting in the court room, or you don’t have any common sense. If someone testifies that he was molested, that by itself is considered evidence, and if the jury makes a determination that they believe the victim, then legally they could find him guilty, even without any physical evidences. How would you expect any molester to be tried and found guilty, if you would only find him guilty if you have physical evidence, or other witnesses to the act? Usually molester don’t molest in front of others they are discreet, and sometimes years elapses before the victim speaks up. ”
Does that make sense? Where is the proof? The fact that they usually do not do it in public is a problem, but this is not the solution.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 10:10 PM Wondering Says:Report as Inappropriate
"The two not-guilty verdicts applied to charges during the summer months of 2004, when testimony showed that the victim was at an upstate camp with limited ability to visit Brooklyn. "
IF THE VICTIM LIED AND WAS PROVED A LIER ON THESE 2 CHARGES, THEN WHY ISN'T THE SO CALLED VICTIM A LIER ON ALL THE OTHER CHARGES??
I smell something fishy and think this was an attemped to extored money!!!
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Mar 08, 2010 at 10:19 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ It seems rather pointless to have these discussions, where every person that raises issues with the due process is labelled a friend of the molesters, and persecuting the victims, etc. etc....
Additionally, let's get one thing straight - if the kid was 16, odds are he knew EXACTLY what he was getting into. I'm not saying it in any way casts the abuser - IF IT HAPPENED - in a better light, but it's certainly not the same as a Rebbe who preyed on 7-year olds. ”
Very true on your first paragraph, it's almost as you lose all your rights when accused and definitely when you are found guilty.
I will however disagree on the fact about age. Somehow in the Orthodox community, they have a certain respect (false respect) for elders of their community. It's important to teach children that you need to be respect but not fear elders. They should speak their mind without fear and object to what you feel is wrong and respectfully decline to be stepped on. Example: When an older able person asks your child to bring him something, teach your child to respectfully decline, because respect is not demanded but rather offered.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 10:22 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
I spoke to a friend of mine who was in the court room and he told me that the jury was made up of 10 blacks and 2 whites. When Yankel Rosenbaum was killed by Lemeric Nelson yemach shmoy the Black Jury freed him on the murder charge and they all went out to eat to celebrate a Jews death. When OJ killed his wife the black jury found him innocent. The Jury system is made up of low lives and people not trained in the law. Anyone can make up a story about someone and claim they were molested.In New york any wife can go to the police and have her husband arrested on false charges. This is sodom.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 10:29 PM Hello Says:Report as Inappropriate
The guy was 16, he had to know what was happening.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 10:34 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ It is obvious, that either you snoozed while sitting in the court room, or you don’t have any common sense. If someone testifies that he was molested, that by itself is considered evidence, and if the jury makes a determination that they believe the victim, then legally they could find him guilty, even without any physical evidences. How would you expect any molester to be tried and found guilty, if you would only find him guilty if you have physical evidence, or other witnesses to the act? Usually molester don’t molest in front of others they are discreet, and sometimes years elapses before the victim speaks up. ”
Right, but Wrong!
As Torah Jews, the victim's words have no value, unless there are witnesses. If you don't like it, go complain to G-d! The Chasam Sofer rules that this is also the case when secular court judge a jew, they must use witnesses, otherwise they are not keeping the Noahidic Laws.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 10:34 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
mr. 34 let's see what you gonna say if you would be the father of the victim. don't hak in kop about toirah. as long we are not allowed to go to court. in the din toirah you have to have witness. let's hope he wouldn't be ruled for 32 years zats nisht azoi shlacht . bsiras toivois
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Mar 08, 2010 at 10:56 PM OMG Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Does that make sense? Where is the proof? The fact that they usually do not do it in public is a problem, but this is not the solution. ”
As I said, testimony is under Jewish and American law considered proof. Based on the view nobody should be convicted of molestation only if the molester was caught red handed.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 10:59 PM wondering Says:Report as Inappropriate
is this crazy or what a 16 year old has a mind of his own, 32 years for willingly having sex, unless this was a rape, in most democratic countries you can get married at this age. in some places age 14 is age for consent, hell I was married at 16, should my husband go to jail?. Its so painful when we go to the goyim,
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Mar 08, 2010 at 11:05 PM Mr. S Says:Report as Inappropriate
At this point there is really nothing we can say or do - but sending this guy to jail won't help him or is "victim", something has to be done about the laws and conviction/jail guidelines in the US.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 11:11 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ "The two not-guilty verdicts applied to charges during the summer months of 2004, when testimony showed that the victim was at an upstate camp with limited ability to visit Brooklyn. "
IF THE VICTIM LIED AND WAS PROVED A LIER ON THESE 2 CHARGES, THEN WHY ISN'T THE SO CALLED VICTIM A LIER ON ALL THE OTHER CHARGES??
I smell something fishy and think this was an attemped to extored money!!! ”
if he wanted money he would of taken the 100,000 they tried to bribe him with not to cooperate. The fact they tried to buy his silence was documented at the trial. He was not caught with a lie. It was a proof the system worked the way it should be and no anti semitism was a factor here. The jury found that for these two charges the prosecution failed to prove it beyond reasonable doubt. That is far from having been caught with a lie.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 11:18 PM Anon. Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ "The two not-guilty verdicts applied to charges during the summer months of 2004, when testimony showed that the victim was at an upstate camp with limited ability to visit Brooklyn. "
IF THE VICTIM LIED AND WAS PROVED A LIER ON THESE 2 CHARGES, THEN WHY ISN'T THE SO CALLED VICTIM A LIER ON ALL THE OTHER CHARGES??
I smell something fishy and think this was an attemped to extored money!!! ”
Dear Wondering,
It was not that the victim was proven a liar on two charges. Rather the jury found reasonable doubt about two of the counts during the summer months of 2004 due to an uncertainty in the testimony. The were not reasonably doubtful about the other 8 charges and they did not even hear about the other cases or victims.
HaShem Help Us!
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Mar 08, 2010 at 11:29 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Thank you vin for posting this article look how far we've come yes its sad but at least we are trying to clean up our mess
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Mar 08, 2010 at 11:30 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ i was there throughout the proceedings and its completly mind boggling that he was found guilty beyond a reasonable doubt,the only explanation possible is the jury was biased being that he looks so chasidish and he was called a rabbi,i challenge anyone that was there to say otherwise ”
That is the reason we should all take jury duty seriously. Don't complain about the jury when you try to get out of participating yourself.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 11:24 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Right, but Wrong!
As Torah Jews, the victim's words have no value, unless there are witnesses. If you don't like it, go complain to G-d! The Chasam Sofer rules that this is also the case when secular court judge a jew, they must use witnesses, otherwise they are not keeping the Noahidic Laws. ”
Your assertions are true for death and flogging, but prison is what Beis din uses when there is great evidence and little legality to rest upon.
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Mar 08, 2010 at 11:25 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ mr. 34 let's see what you gonna say if you would be the father of the victim. don't hak in kop about toirah. as long we are not allowed to go to court. in the din toirah you have to have witness. let's hope he wouldn't be ruled for 32 years zats nisht azoi shlacht . bsiras toivois ”
u dont need witness al pi torah in a case of molestation. Ever heard of kol d'lo possuk? And the fact that 2 witness is not required in such acts al pi the rishonim and chazal?
No one says u need 2 witnesses to KILL a rodeph. No one!
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Mar 08, 2010 at 11:35 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ It seems rather pointless to have these discussions, where every person that raises issues with the due process is labelled a friend of the molesters, and persecuting the victims, etc. etc....
Additionally, let's get one thing straight - if the kid was 16, odds are he knew EXACTLY what he was getting into. I'm not saying it in any way casts the abuser - IF IT HAPPENED - in a better light, but it's certainly not the same as a Rebbe who preyed on 7-year olds. ”
Listen, buster. I know of several teens who were raped and molested by their caring protective, loving rebbes and mentors. These perpetrators know exactly whom to prey upon and take full advantage. The 16 year old may know exactly what is going on but may be powerless under the guise of a very powerful and influential person to do anything about it! And certainly too embarrassed to speak to someone about it.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 12:02 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
The days of the Yiddisha molestors getting away with it ARE OVER!
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Mar 09, 2010 at 12:11 AM Eli Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ It seems rather pointless to have these discussions, where every person that raises issues with the due process is labelled a friend of the molesters, and persecuting the victims, etc. etc....
Additionally, let's get one thing straight - if the kid was 16, odds are he knew EXACTLY what he was getting into. I'm not saying it in any way casts the abuser - IF IT HAPPENED - in a better light, but it's certainly not the same as a Rebbe who preyed on 7-year olds. ”
Hey, people, stop blaming the victims!!! Our community teaches children to have absolute respect for Rebbes and gedolim. If a 16 year old is suddenly touched by a rebbe he is likely terrified and unsure what to do. It is bad enough when people deny that the abuse happens, but to now blame the victim is a new low!! And do not deny that this is blaming the victim; Shame on you. For all you people worried about the Rebbe's families reading these comments and being embarrased. Have you ever considered that the victim or his family reads these comments and is victimized even further? It is unbelievable the lengths that the frum community will go to deny that it has a problem. For shame!!!
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Mar 09, 2010 at 12:13 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ "The two not-guilty verdicts applied to charges during the summer months of 2004, when testimony showed that the victim was at an upstate camp with limited ability to visit Brooklyn. "
IF THE VICTIM LIED AND WAS PROVED A LIER ON THESE 2 CHARGES, THEN WHY ISN'T THE SO CALLED VICTIM A LIER ON ALL THE OTHER CHARGES??
I smell something fishy and think this was an attemped to extored money!!! ”
He was not "proved a liar" he was simply unable to convince a jury beyond a reasonable doubt on those issues. My G-d, is there any compassion for victims left in the frum community, or is it so important to deny that we have a problem.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 12:39 AM joe shmoe Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Wow. The shmitz is finally hitting the fan. Let the debates begin. I just have one request:
Everybody is entitled to an opinion. But agree or not, however upset you are for either side, please remember one thing: DO NOT TURN THE VICTIMS INTO THE BAD GUYS! ”
Totally agree! Just 1 thing, when we write whatever we think, lets try putting it in a constructive way! While it's the right thing to protect everyone, we be mekayim binfoel oyvecha ol tismach, (especially when these people did not harm us directly, hence not being oyvecha) We should rather put forth our opinions in a constructive manner. self hating jews are waiting to pounce on every possible word we write, and it doesn't help us at all to just slander! after all, these accused are our beloved brothers who did perhaps the worst. We are NOT disowning them, rather our hearts are bleeding that one of our jewish brothers were accused of this. Our hearts should be ripped apart hearing that another yid was found guilty!
Lets not rejoice on another yids problems, rejoicing on another's illnesses is not yiddish! crying about it IS!
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Mar 09, 2010 at 12:53 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Btw YOU should wake up and see that this is not a problem by us ppl...its a problem by everyone that has it.. Read the news and see how many ongoing *** abuse and molestation cases all over not by us only. ”
Its a shame that someone has to say not only by us. It should of been only by them and not by us.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 01:09 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
I don't understand why everyone here is talking Torah law. This is the law of the land. Dina DeMalchus Dina. It is a malchus shel chesed. Never in history have Jews been so protected and equal under the law. We are Americans and need to observe American law. Maybe we should not obey traffic laws, taxation or anthing else! This is ludicrous. Our courts are the fairest in the world. If found guilty, be assured he is guilty. Let us stop crying foul. We are mechalel Hashem if everytime a yid is found guilty, we cry antisemitism or foul.
We need to accept the vedict even if it hurts. We must always be on the side of the victim. And yes, we must acknowledge that these things are happening in our community and even frum Jews can be rotten people. Let us all be proud of our country that we live in and be happy this oisvorf is off the streets..
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Mar 09, 2010 at 01:50 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ I will keep my mouth shut and not blame anyone here before I know REAL FACTS! Now I know some ppl here are going to be wise and start giving their opinions... If u don't have 100% facts evidence etc keep quiet. ”
i agree with ST. we dont know the truth. many times the courts have found innocent people guilty. there is an asian saying, ' not everyone behind bars are guilty, nor everyone walking free innocent.'
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Mar 09, 2010 at 03:48 AM Bryna Says:Report as Inappropriate
I am sickened beyond belief with the comments here.
The victim must have *wanted it* -- you're talking about a vulnerable, frightened 16 year old child who was raped. Yes, raped.
*The jury didn't convict the rapist on two counts, so he must have been innocent on all counts* Its called *reasonable doubt* It demonstrates that the jury was paying attention, and jusged each count on its merits. It doesn't mean the victim lied.
*Bunch of blacks on the jury, and they hate Jews* Racist and disgusting. And by the way, so why did they care about the Jewish victim? Or acquit on 2 counts?
We need to put a stop to this, here and now. A stop to the abuse that has been going on in our communities for decades, and that we, like the Catholics, have swept under the carpet. We need to listen to the children, listen to the victims, and stand up as a community, as a kehila, and say that we WILL NOT TOLERATE ABUSE OF OUR CHILDREN. Stop protecting the molestors. Start protecting our kids.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 04:03 AM SOCIAL WORKER SCSW Says:Report as Inappropriate
To number 58, you are 100 % correct. It makes no diff what age the victim is, the molester knows which kids to prey on, whether they be 7 or be 16. Certain kids are automaticaly more prone to be preyed upon, innocent, naive, abused previously, kids from broken families, or just troubled in general. A molester tries his tactics, & sees where he can be succsessful. He must have tried this child, yes at 16, & must have been successful. Its not surprising, I have dealt with children in the past who have been molested at the age of 16. We must do everything we can, for both sides, & ofcourse, daven with all our power to help everyone who needs it.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 05:28 AM Englishman Says:Report as Inappropriate
I don't know about American law but English criminal evidence law says quite clearly "What one person says about another person is NOT evidence" There MUST be independant corroborative evidence. Victims' evidence is admitted but unless corroborated by other evidence e.g. medical or police reports etc. the judge MUST order the jury to ignore the alleged victims' testimony.
Check in C.M. Hilchos Eidus and you will find roughly the same thing.
There is a special gezeiras hakosuv (in "criminal" cases e.g. chilul Shabbos or chayvei malkos) of 2 witnesses who MUST be completely independant. They must not be related etc. and are subjected to rigorous cross-examination by the judges (who are supposed to be objective, not by counsel who just want to win) before their evidence is even admitted.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 05:55 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ It is obvious, that either you snoozed while sitting in the court room, or you don’t have any common sense. If someone testifies that he was molested, that by itself is considered evidence, and if the jury makes a determination that they believe the victim, then legally they could find him guilty, even without any physical evidences. How would you expect any molester to be tried and found guilty, if you would only find him guilty if you have physical evidence, or other witnesses to the act? Usually molester don’t molest in front of others they are discreet, and sometimes years elapses before the victim speaks up. ”
Remember, one day you might find yourself behind bars just because someone might say that you molested him. It is the easiest way to get even or revenge on anyone.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 06:28 AM MARK Says:Report as Inappropriate
HAVING ATTENDED THE WHOLE TRIAL AND SEEING THAT THE ONLY WITNESS IS A RABBI A..... A MENAHEL WHO HIMSELF SIGNED A DOCUMENT TO BAIS DIN CONFESSING HE WAS A MOLESTOR WAS SO CRUCIAL IN THE JURY CONVICTING THE MOLESTOR IN JUST ONE HOUR THE LESSON IS THAT ALL THOSE WHO TRY TO COVERUP THE CRIMES WILL BE EXPOSED AND PROSECUTED,
THE WALL OF SILENCE MUST COME DOWN
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Mar 09, 2010 at 06:57 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ It is obvious, that either you snoozed while sitting in the court room, or you don’t have any common sense. If someone testifies that he was molested, that by itself is considered evidence, and if the jury makes a determination that they believe the victim, then legally they could find him guilty, even without any physical evidences. How would you expect any molester to be tried and found guilty, if you would only find him guilty if you have physical evidence, or other witnesses to the act? Usually molester don’t molest in front of others they are discreet, and sometimes years elapses before the victim speaks up. ”
And how could you prevent a guy from fabricating a story against SM1if you just take his word? How would you feel if SM1 charges you and you didn't do anything? (not saying this is the case here) there was a story now that a woman who testified again abuse and now she came clean and said she fabricated the story?!
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Mar 09, 2010 at 07:28 AM how???? Says:Report as Inappropriate
if you read the story in the daily news it says there was no dna evidence no eyewitness ,, only the testiomony of a person who is now in drug rehab??? seriously if anyone who has knowledge can shed some light please do?? this story just makes no sense??!!!!
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Mar 09, 2010 at 07:32 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
This guy (and so all other with the same problem) need medical and physicist help, Not prison. I was molested as a young boy and as a teenager and I would never ever want my abuser to spend even one day in prison for what he did. And BH I don't need any therapy, those who do need therapy would've probably needed it regardless of them being abused. I can never understand what joy someone might have to put a man behind bars for the rest of his life.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 07:39 AM formally Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Btw YOU should wake up and see that this is not a problem by us ppl...its a problem by everyone that has it.. Read the news and see how many ongoing *** abuse and molestation cases all over not by us only. ”
many of the commentators are funny,
the excuses they are making, he is innocent, blame the jury, because in one or two cases there was not enough to be called "without a shadow of doubt" that right away means he is lying.
I wonder why is it, that all these excuses never apply to a goy who is suspected of a crime, either the system is flawed or the system is not flawed, make a choose.
However, I agree a 16 year old is not a 7 year old, there are not even in the same ballpark when one is talking about molestation. And yes one of the problem is that a rebbie just like a priest is a person of power and influence. If the story would have been with a another boy it would be called consent.
PS where do people think they flogged people stoned people etc in the Torah times in a cave so nobody saw. No, it was done in the open. So stop with this is against the Torah way. The Torah way is much more harsh, we do not stone anymore.
Yes the US is different, in most democratic countries jail time is for rehabilitation, keeping the public safe and the usa it is for punishment. Blame the Puritains about that
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Mar 09, 2010 at 08:18 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Don't speak before you know the facts. And by the way, he is being held till his sentencing because he is a flight risk, this is the new craze about jews: they are all flight risks. Today its him, tomorroe its someone else. And another point to think of, the victim was caught lying about the summer months, how could he be credible for the rest? I am not saying that the guy molested, or did not molest. I just heard that there was very little evidence and a jury that likes to convict any Rabbi... All I am saying is, don't jump to conclusions. ”
Its sad, but Jews are flight risks for a reason. The court didn't make this up on its own.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 08:21 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ i was there throughout the proceedings and its completly mind boggling that he was found guilty beyond a reasonable doubt,the only explanation possible is the jury was biased being that he looks so chasidish and he was called a rabbi,i challenge anyone that was there to say otherwise ”
Perhaps this is hard to believe, but maybe the jury found him guilty....because he's guilty.
If that's the case then unfortunately these 12 goyim have done more for Jewish children than the rabbis in this guy's kehilla.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 08:31 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ This guy (and so all other with the same problem) need medical and physicist help, Not prison. I was molested as a young boy and as a teenager and I would never ever want my abuser to spend even one day in prison for what he did. And BH I don't need any therapy, those who do need therapy would've probably needed it regardless of them being abused. I can never understand what joy someone might have to put a man behind bars for the rest of his life. ”
I doubt there is a word of truth to your claim, but if it were true you'd obviously be suffering from Stockholm Syndrome.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 08:35 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ if you read the story in the daily news it says there was no dna evidence no eyewitness ,, only the testiomony of a person who is now in drug rehab??? seriously if anyone who has knowledge can shed some light please do?? this story just makes no sense??!!!! ”
Molestation is not rape. There usually is no DNA in these cases because the victims are scared and don't immediately report it. After the passage of time, DNA is destroyed. There are also rarely if ever witnesses to a case like this. This is a crime that takes place in secret behind closed doors. People don't do this with eyewitnesses around.
That there was testimony from someone now in drug rehab does not mean their testimony is worthless. The rabbi's attorney had the opportunity to impeach the witness, but obviously the jury believed him regardless of his current drug issues. Even a broken clock is right twice a day.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 08:49 AM clear thinker Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ i agree with ST. we dont know the truth. many times the courts have found innocent people guilty. there is an asian saying, ' not everyone behind bars are guilty, nor everyone walking free innocent.' ”
Be careful what you wish for. When a Jew is murdered in Washington Heights a conviction is called for. When a molester (no longer alleged) is convicted in Brooklyn he is always innocent. The law protects all. Are there mistakes? Sure, but not as many as you seem to think. I was not there, but it would seem that the defendant is guilty if for no other reason than he was convicted by a jury.. It is time for us not to protect criminals because they are yidden. It is time for us to worry a litttle about victims.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 08:49 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ the problem is that it must be publicized to protect other children, that is why we have the registry of sex offenders
"Before condemning or condoning just remember for a minute that there are innocent surrounding family members - wife, children, grandchildren, siblings - who are humiliated and hurting terribly right now."
true but this the case in every criminal case.
Question for you, did you feel the same when the guy who sold the trief chickens was publicized, feel bad for his wife family? ”
I really dont get your question, of course did any yid with a bit of heart feel terrible for the entire family of the one who sold treif chickens!
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Mar 09, 2010 at 08:50 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ The guy was 16, he had to know what was happening. ”
Of course he knew what was happening. So in your opinion that means that he isn't a victim. A 16 year old might have daas but at that age a boy is very vulnerable to an adult seducing him. His alleged "knowledge" of the situation does not diminish the fact that he was abused and raped.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 09:02 AM jancsi Says:Report as Inappropriate
there is no doubdt in my mind thathe is guilty as i wrote before i myself over 50 years ago was molested at the age of 10 by non other then our shoihet and moel of the town in europe he was 62 at the time for me there is no doubdt whatsoever that he was molested the unbelievable part is that ther are so many stories of molestations and people still take the side of the molester i guess because in their minds they cannot fathom such devious behaviour from religious persons but i see much more cases of molestations among the very religious then among the non religious jews this shows something to me that there is something very very wrong with the very religious that they cannot face their own faults and just shoved it under the rug so to say this is evil
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Mar 09, 2010 at 09:08 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
To #70: STOP SHOUTING!!!
I don't get some of these comments. It is imperative that victims come forward and speak up. It must be incredibly painful to do so, but someone has to break this wall of shame. There is no shame, only for the sick creep to who preys on kids. The victims are always blameless. Same thing for women who are raped: no means NO.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 09:16 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ I spoke to a friend of mine who was in the court room and he told me that the jury was made up of 10 blacks and 2 whites. When Yankel Rosenbaum was killed by Lemeric Nelson yemach shmoy the Black Jury freed him on the murder charge and they all went out to eat to celebrate a Jews death. When OJ killed his wife the black jury found him innocent. The Jury system is made up of low lives and people not trained in the law. Anyone can make up a story about someone and claim they were molested.In New york any wife can go to the police and have her husband arrested on false charges. This is sodom. ”
If more of us didn't avoid jury duty we would get better results.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 09:19 AM OMG Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ And how could you prevent a guy from fabricating a story against SM1if you just take his word? How would you feel if SM1 charges you and you didn't do anything? (not saying this is the case here) there was a story now that a woman who testified again abuse and now she came clean and said she fabricated the story?! ”
To discern between testimony and decide if to believe the victim/witness that is actually the job of the jury, after listening to all the evidence and the summations from both sides and the Judge instructions on the law then and only then the jury will judge the case and decide if there is enough evidence to convict the defendant beyond a reasonable doubt. And our systems is based on the understanding that during direct/cross examination both sides should elicits what is most favorable to them, and based on that the jury could make an informed decision based on what each witness said on the stand and the victim is considered a witness like any other witness.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 09:34 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
nuchem rosenberg your the hero of our time.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 09:35 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ This guy (and so all other with the same problem) need medical and physicist help, Not prison. I was molested as a young boy and as a teenager and I would never ever want my abuser to spend even one day in prison for what he did. And BH I don't need any therapy, those who do need therapy would've probably needed it regardless of them being abused. I can never understand what joy someone might have to put a man behind bars for the rest of his life. ”
Your comments show a disturbing amount of mercy for a person who destroyed the lives of young children. You compound this mercy with contempt for the victims, by saying they were crazy to begin with! By your outrageous gall, I would venture to say you are a verbally abusive Brooklyn Hungarian Chassidic guy.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 09:40 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Enough of you defenders of guilty perverts and molestors. Normal Yidden have had enough of you and the backlash has started.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 09:41 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ I don't know about American law but English criminal evidence law says quite clearly "What one person says about another person is NOT evidence" There MUST be independant corroborative evidence. Victims' evidence is admitted but unless corroborated by other evidence e.g. medical or police reports etc. the judge MUST order the jury to ignore the alleged victims' testimony.
Check in C.M. Hilchos Eidus and you will find roughly the same thing.
There is a special gezeiras hakosuv (in "criminal" cases e.g. chilul Shabbos or chayvei malkos) of 2 witnesses who MUST be completely independant. They must not be related etc. and are subjected to rigorous cross-examination by the judges (who are supposed to be objective, not by counsel who just want to win) before their evidence is even admitted. ”
The UK system is known to be hostile to victims of molestation. The difference is that cases involving minors do not (except for extremely rarely) involve rape. The best evidence in rape cases often is the testimony of other victims, unless there is clear signs physical violence, as well as the proof of sexual contact. It would be impossible for police to find rape victims of the accused, if they were not allowed to make the case public.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 09:55 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ To discern between testimony and decide if to believe the victim/witness that is actually the job of the jury, after listening to all the evidence and the summations from both sides and the Judge instructions on the law then and only then the jury will judge the case and decide if there is enough evidence to convict the defendant beyond a reasonable doubt. And our systems is based on the understanding that during direct/cross examination both sides should elicits what is most favorable to them, and based on that the jury could make an informed decision based on what each witness said on the stand and the victim is considered a witness like any other witness. ”
In that case of that woman who admitted that she falsely fabricated a rape charge on a man who was already sitting 4years in jail, there also the jury believed the woman. And now they come across like fools
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Mar 09, 2010 at 09:56 AM BP Mom Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ This guy (and so all other with the same problem) need medical and physicist help, Not prison. I was molested as a young boy and as a teenager and I would never ever want my abuser to spend even one day in prison for what he did. And BH I don't need any therapy, those who do need therapy would've probably needed it regardless of them being abused. I can never understand what joy someone might have to put a man behind bars for the rest of his life. ”
You were either not molested or you are c"v doing the same to others now. A true victim would not write the above.....
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Mar 09, 2010 at 10:03 AM murray Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ 32 years??? Wow!!! ”
What did you expect............32 days?
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Mar 09, 2010 at 10:21 AM clearthinker Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ I don't know about American law but English criminal evidence law says quite clearly "What one person says about another person is NOT evidence" There MUST be independant corroborative evidence. Victims' evidence is admitted but unless corroborated by other evidence e.g. medical or police reports etc. the judge MUST order the jury to ignore the alleged victims' testimony.
Check in C.M. Hilchos Eidus and you will find roughly the same thing.
There is a special gezeiras hakosuv (in "criminal" cases e.g. chilul Shabbos or chayvei malkos) of 2 witnesses who MUST be completely independant. They must not be related etc. and are subjected to rigorous cross-examination by the judges (who are supposed to be objective, not by counsel who just want to win) before their evidence is even admitted. ”
I will only speak of the first part of your post since the defendant was convicted under American law. One witness testimony if believed is enough to prove a person guilty beyond a reasonable doubt. This is true in a robbery case, this is true in a molestation case. Corroboration of testimony is not needed. The reason is clear. In many cases there cannot be corroboration. People do not necessariy leave forensic evidence, nor do they do their crimes infront of witnesses. Capitalizing certain words do not change the basic law.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 10:21 AM tOPSY-tURVY Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Thank you brave victims for making the world a wee bit safer for my children. ”
Apparently, if your children are girls they are safe, or at least SAFER
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Mar 09, 2010 at 10:25 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Before condemning or condoning just remember for a minute that there are innocent surrounding family members - wife, children, grandchildren, siblings - who are humiliated and hurting terribly right now. Remember: your gossip is someone else's pain. Lets show some strength of character in bain adam lachveiro and leave the negativity and judging up to the court system and the ultimate judge, Hashem. Chazak to whoever the true victims are... ”
Before feeling sorry for the innocent surrounding family members, think for a moment - where was his Rachmonos for his own family when he was committing his crimes?
BTW, this is only the first of another 2 trials he is facing.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 10:29 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
so? nu, people will, unfortunately, break the law, in minor ways or with heinous crimes like this. we need to make it our job to stop this from happening in our communities, it will lead to a more HUGE chilulei hashem
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Mar 09, 2010 at 10:29 AM Freida Says:Report as Inappropriate
I believe this case will save alot of innocent kids in our community of being mollested
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Mar 09, 2010 at 10:35 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Very sad - he should have taken the plea deal. I hope the judge shows mercy ”
The judge already showed mercy - to the poor, poor victim whose life is in ruins. Let's see how much mercy you can show for this young man, nebach.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 10:38 AM OMG Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ In that case of that woman who admitted that she falsely fabricated a rape charge on a man who was already sitting 4years in jail, there also the jury believed the woman. And now they come across like fools ”
I never said that the system is 100% foul prove, yes there are always a very small percentage that could be innocent, but by far the guilty are found guilty, but you seem to take the side of the minority and regardless the facts that this man will be tried again for two more molestations, on *two* different children, but you still try to argue that he was set up. Facts and logic cries out for the victim. But you will argue about a singular case were a woman/wife did fabricated a story, that is what I am perplexed about. If you are not family with this defendant, how could you in good conscience even think that this young man would make up a story, which only brings shame on him and his family.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 10:39 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ The point is our screwed up justice system, not one single piece of evidence was entered into evidence, no witness, no dna, no proof, nada, one individuals word against another, not to go into this specific case, have we fallen so low, to convict a person just on the word of an accuser, if we don't need any proof or evidence, where does it stop ”
Fool! Think! What proof of evidence would satisfy you? Witnessess? Videos? This is a crime committed in secrecy, and precisely because the molester knows it's his word agains the victim he feels so smug and actually tells the victime "no one will believe YOU!
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Mar 09, 2010 at 10:44 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
One lesson to be learned here is that the yetzer horah does not get scared off by sporting a long beard or by wearing a wide brimmed hat. The only sollution is limud hatorah and tefilla. If someone has a problem let him seek professional help as well as guidance from his rav, rebbe, rosh yeshiva (assuming that these people themselves are not trapped in the net of their own evil inclination). If all of the above do not help then at least change the levush before comitting these terrible sins and do not call oneself a rabbi thereby minimizing the chillul hashem as chazal tell us, yalbish shechorim viyaatif shechorim viyaaseh ma shelibo chafetz.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 10:44 AM OMG Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ This guy (and so all other with the same problem) need medical and physicist help, Not prison. I was molested as a young boy and as a teenager and I would never ever want my abuser to spend even one day in prison for what he did. And BH I don't need any therapy, those who do need therapy would've probably needed it regardless of them being abused. I can never understand what joy someone might have to put a man behind bars for the rest of his life. ”
Everything you wrote up to that part is possible that it could have happened, but when I came across you logic that these people would have been damaged regardless if they were molested, that is when I decided that you are not telling a true story. Every logical excuse fails, you are masquerading as a victim to score points for the defendant.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 10:45 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Right, but Wrong!
As Torah Jews, the victim's words have no value, unless there are witnesses. If you don't like it, go complain to G-d! The Chasam Sofer rules that this is also the case when secular court judge a jew, they must use witnesses, otherwise they are not keeping the Noahidic Laws. ”
Rav Wosner paskened that a crime that occurs between four eyes - an Isha and a Katan can be believed witout witnessess.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 10:49 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Hey, people, stop blaming the victims!!! Our community teaches children to have absolute respect for Rebbes and gedolim. If a 16 year old is suddenly touched by a rebbe he is likely terrified and unsure what to do. It is bad enough when people deny that the abuse happens, but to now blame the victim is a new low!! And do not deny that this is blaming the victim; Shame on you. For all you people worried about the Rebbe's families reading these comments and being embarrased. Have you ever considered that the victim or his family reads these comments and is victimized even further? It is unbelievable the lengths that the frum community will go to deny that it has a problem. For shame!!! ”
Amen!!! Very well said. The victims, and there are so many, thank you!
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Mar 09, 2010 at 10:53 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Remember, one day you might find yourself behind bars just because someone might say that you molested him. It is the easiest way to get even or revenge on anyone. ”
Really? How come you're not behind bars yet?
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Mar 09, 2010 at 10:56 AM Mr S Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ You were either not molested or you are c"v doing the same to others now. A true victim would not write the above..... ”
Hello you don't know who he is, so how do you know what he is saying isn't true?
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Mar 09, 2010 at 10:59 AM AP Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ It is obvious, that either you snoozed while sitting in the court room, or you don’t have any common sense. If someone testifies that he was molested, that by itself is considered evidence, and if the jury makes a determination that they believe the victim, then legally they could find him guilty, even without any physical evidences. How would you expect any molester to be tried and found guilty, if you would only find him guilty if you have physical evidence, or other witnesses to the act? Usually molester don’t molest in front of others they are discreet, and sometimes years elapses before the victim speaks up. ”
Good point. But what is stopping your worst enemy who is a good liar from bringing charges against you?
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Mar 09, 2010 at 11:01 AM Rachmonis Says:Report as Inappropriate
If you want to have rachmonis on the families of the offenders, help nip it in the bud when it starts. Better the small embarrassment of mandatory treatment on the first offense than letting the severity of the acts grow and the number of victims increase.
Why is his family’s blood redder than the blood of his victims' families?
Those who covered up when it started are the achzoryim responsible for the suffering of his addtional victims and even his long jail sentence.
This cancer does not go away on its own. It needs to be cut out when it is small.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 11:11 AM murray Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ i agree with ST. we dont know the truth. many times the courts have found innocent people guilty. there is an asian saying, ' not everyone behind bars are guilty, nor everyone walking free innocent.' ”
So which Chinese restaurant do you hang out in? Don't believe everything you read on those "Fortune " cookies.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 11:23 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ I never said that the system is 100% foul prove, yes there are always a very small percentage that could be innocent, but by far the guilty are found guilty, but you seem to take the side of the minority and regardless the facts that this man will be tried again for two more molestations, on *two* different children, but you still try to argue that he was set up. Facts and logic cries out for the victim. But you will argue about a singular case were a woman/wife did fabricated a story, that is what I am perplexed about. If you are not family with this defendant, how could you in good conscience even think that this young man would make up a story, which only brings shame on him and his family. ”
you dont get it. im not talking if this men molested or not. im talking about the system, the fact that a person could come and accuse you only based on words is very harmful to the justice system
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Mar 09, 2010 at 12:10 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ It seems rather pointless to have these discussions, where every person that raises issues with the due process is labelled a friend of the molesters, and persecuting the victims, etc. etc....
Additionally, let's get one thing straight - if the kid was 16, odds are he knew EXACTLY what he was getting into. I'm not saying it in any way casts the abuser - IF IT HAPPENED - in a better light, but it's certainly not the same as a Rebbe who preyed on 7-year olds. ”
I don't know the full story here and I am not passing judgement, but regarding your comment that the kid was 16 and he know what he was doing, maybe you are right that he knew what he was doing, but what sometimes happens to kids when they are molested is that they get like paralyzed and shocked and they don't know how to react, of course they may feel the sensation of the act and even possibly enjoy the feeling, but they don't know how to react, that is why they are so vulnerable and that is why the law is so strict against people who exploit kids.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 12:20 PM ShatzMatz Says:Report as Inappropriate
Just to make things clear: The perpatrator in this case was NOT the victims Rebbe. He was a classmate of the perps son. He is also not a "Rabbi". He is a travel agent who happens to have a big scragly beard. He was never respected by his peers and was not an authority figure. He was born an orphan (his father died before he was born), so we can only imagine what horor he endured as a child. Its the vicious cycle all over again.
Although the crime is reprehensible, the reality is that there was no coersion alledged in this case. The boy was attracted to the perp for a reason. And it is not the "abuse" that messed him up, but rather his unconventional predilictions. Many failures in society feel it neccessary to vinicate themselves by projecting their own failures on someone else. This is quite a common phenomenon. Of course this perp is a pig, but he posed no danger to unsuspecting children. He pursued his own perversions with other like minded pervs. One of who was bound to end up messed up. In the end it came back to bite him.
This is the reality we are living in nowadays.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 12:28 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Wow. The shmitz is finally hitting the fan. Let the debates begin. I just have one request:
Everybody is entitled to an opinion. But agree or not, however upset you are for either side, please remember one thing: DO NOT TURN THE VICTIMS INTO THE BAD GUYS! ”
YES!!!
That is the only and/or best thing one can say!
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Mar 09, 2010 at 12:38 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ You are indeed a righteous man. Making sure of the one thing that counts the most. Not turning the victims into bad people. Many people have been molested, hurt, and victimized, and don't come forward only due to fact that this community kills them for it. Its about time people with your opinion stood up. May you be blessed. ”
Oh! my G-D, you have totally and so well expressed my opinion and my own feelings!
And believe me, I, very well know, am suffering and will continue for the rest of my life suffer, the results of these matters, today exactly 25 years!!!
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Mar 09, 2010 at 12:50 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Just to make things clear: The perpatrator in this case was NOT the victims Rebbe. He was a classmate of the perps son. He is also not a "Rabbi". He is a travel agent who happens to have a big scragly beard. He was never respected by his peers and was not an authority figure. He was born an orphan (his father died before he was born), so we can only imagine what horor he endured as a child. Its the vicious cycle all over again.
Although the crime is reprehensible, the reality is that there was no coersion alledged in this case. The boy was attracted to the perp for a reason. And it is not the "abuse" that messed him up, but rather his unconventional predilictions. Many failures in society feel it neccessary to vinicate themselves by projecting their own failures on someone else. This is quite a common phenomenon. Of course this perp is a pig, but he posed no danger to unsuspecting children. He pursued his own perversions with other like minded pervs. One of who was bound to end up messed up. In the end it came back to bite him.
This is the reality we are living in nowadays. ”
An adult is not allowed to make aggressive overtures on minors, that is statutory rape, regardless if the minor wants to engage in the activity, that doesn't lessen the severity of the crime. The crime is endangering the welfare of the child because the child has no cognizance of the dangers the activity pose to his health and safety. He his posed a tremendous danger to them, to their minds, souls, and bodies, by corrupting their innocence. He had no right to steal their innocence. He also potentially exposed them to disease. Your mischaracterization of the children as perverts is to further their victimization.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 01:08 PM PMO Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Molestation is not rape. There usually is no DNA in these cases because the victims are scared and don't immediately report it. After the passage of time, DNA is destroyed. There are also rarely if ever witnesses to a case like this. This is a crime that takes place in secret behind closed doors. People don't do this with eyewitnesses around.
That there was testimony from someone now in drug rehab does not mean their testimony is worthless. The rabbi's attorney had the opportunity to impeach the witness, but obviously the jury believed him regardless of his current drug issues. Even a broken clock is right twice a day. ”
"Molestation is not rape."
That is not entirely true. If there was no consent, it was rape. If the boy did not fight back out of fear or due to threats, it is RAPE by law. Secondly, having sex with a 16 year old is always STATUTORY rape under the law and we all know it.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 01:10 PM Honesty Says:Report as Inappropriate
Their is a few points ij want to make clear as a mother of a child i feel that this person deserves to be punished imagine yourself being a mother of the child that he was molested this child is damaged for life now doing this and in you mind you know that you will get punished maybe not on this world but the world above yesdont you think he deserves to be rotten in jailed for life. and he did it to so many kids that i personaly think ten years is to little. I woould throw the key of his room in the pacific ocean. IF HE COUlD RUIN SO MANY LIFES FOR GOOD SO HE SHOULD BE JAILED FOR LIFE .
By the way if his inmates find out what he did they can kill him that means he did something very very bad and therfor justice has been served DONT FEEL BAD FOR HIM FEEL BAD OF THE KIDS THAT HE RUINED GOR LIFE.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 01:14 PM PMO Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Molestation is not rape. There usually is no DNA in these cases because the victims are scared and don't immediately report it. After the passage of time, DNA is destroyed. There are also rarely if ever witnesses to a case like this. This is a crime that takes place in secret behind closed doors. People don't do this with eyewitnesses around.
That there was testimony from someone now in drug rehab does not mean their testimony is worthless. The rabbi's attorney had the opportunity to impeach the witness, but obviously the jury believed him regardless of his current drug issues. Even a broken clock is right twice a day. ”
Why are people defending this guy? Over a dozen of his victims have come forward! Only 3 are still within the statute of limitations and those 2 cases will hopefully be going forward shortly. This was a slam-dunk when you look at all the facts. The jury did not even get to hear about the other cases and it was a slam-dunk for them too. I understand that people want to have rochmuness on this guy who will spend the rest of his life in prison. I understand that we all feel pain when a yid falls in this way. But to think that this obvious rodef is innocent, or that he is the 'victim', or that this is some conspiracy is just ignoring the facts.
This guy should be happy to go to prison. As a proven rodef, we have appropriate ways in halacha to deal with him. At least here he can live in a cage instead of rotting in pine box where he belongs.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 01:22 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ That is the reason we should all take jury duty seriously. Don't complain about the jury when you try to get out of participating yourself. ”
It won't help. They will never ever allow a religious Jew to be in the Jury on another religious Jew. That's why the system is unfair. They will allow an all black jury on a black case but will not allow even one Jew on a Jewish case.
P.S. I'm not referring to this case but in general to the point you make about taking jury duty seriously. Jury duty as it applies to a religious Jewish a joke, and the joke is on us.
The Magna Carta still hasn't provided us the same rights as everyone else.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 01:33 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ HAVING ATTENDED THE WHOLE TRIAL AND SEEING THAT THE ONLY WITNESS IS A RABBI A..... A MENAHEL WHO HIMSELF SIGNED A DOCUMENT TO BAIS DIN CONFESSING HE WAS A MOLESTOR WAS SO CRUCIAL IN THE JURY CONVICTING THE MOLESTOR IN JUST ONE HOUR THE LESSON IS THAT ALL THOSE WHO TRY TO COVERUP THE CRIMES WILL BE EXPOSED AND PROSECUTED,
THE WALL OF SILENCE MUST COME DOWN ”
BRAVO! Mr. Gorbachov, Take Down this Wall!
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Mar 09, 2010 at 01:36 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ is this crazy or what a 16 year old has a mind of his own, 32 years for willingly having sex, unless this was a rape, in most democratic countries you can get married at this age. in some places age 14 is age for consent, hell I was married at 16, should my husband go to jail?. Its so painful when we go to the goyim, ”
In our system of ours, a 16 year old is treated like 7 year old, massaging is considered rape, and to some even murder. But worse of all when a frum Jew is accused, justice is truly blind, the jury will always believe the prosecution blindly.
I am not arguing for this mans innocence, only that our justice system, when it pertains to this, and when it pertains to us, is a mockery of justice and the Magna carta. We can never get a fair trial especially when our own brethren are also blind to reality. We need to rid ourselves of all predators, but also be true to ourselves at the same time. The extremists on both sides will sadly assure that we fail in both.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 01:54 PM pityu Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Just to make things clear: The perpatrator in this case was NOT the victims Rebbe. He was a classmate of the perps son. He is also not a "Rabbi". He is a travel agent who happens to have a big scragly beard. He was never respected by his peers and was not an authority figure. He was born an orphan (his father died before he was born), so we can only imagine what horor he endured as a child. Its the vicious cycle all over again.
Although the crime is reprehensible, the reality is that there was no coersion alledged in this case. The boy was attracted to the perp for a reason. And it is not the "abuse" that messed him up, but rather his unconventional predilictions. Many failures in society feel it neccessary to vinicate themselves by projecting their own failures on someone else. This is quite a common phenomenon. Of course this perp is a pig, but he posed no danger to unsuspecting children. He pursued his own perversions with other like minded pervs. One of who was bound to end up messed up. In the end it came back to bite him.
This is the reality we are living in nowadays. ”
you sound like you know it all you are not the person who was molested you are very arrogant to write here that it wasnt the molestation that messed him up it sure contributed to it unbeleivable what youre writing here that he posed no danger to others well let me tell you motti borger was a victim of his who laider is not with us anymore in his own words because of him he is a murderer a multiple murderer and to you you just dismiss all this so lightly like it doesnt matter what he did you are a very very disturbed person
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Mar 09, 2010 at 01:58 PM pityu Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Oh! my G-D, you have totally and so well expressed my opinion and my own feelings!
And believe me, I, very well know, am suffering and will continue for the rest of my life suffer, the results of these matters, today exactly 25 years!!! ”
as i wrote here in the past i was molested over 50 years ago at the age of 10 and the anger is still with me the people whom we trust the most our rabbis and teachers if they can do something so unimaginable then whom can we trust its a cruel world out there
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Mar 09, 2010 at 02:51 PM OMG Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Good point. But what is stopping your worst enemy who is a good liar from bringing charges against you? ”
That is why the system is called adversarial, because the defense would have the ability in cross examination, to bring out the fact that the alleged victim has a bias against the defendant and therefore the jury should not trust the accuser, but to sit here and say that this child decided to make up a story for what? There is no logical argument that would prevail. His lawyers had ample opportunity to point out all the inconsistencies and biases the victim might have, but the jury still decided that this man is guilty, therefore he is guilty.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 02:51 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Btw YOU should wake up and see that this is not a problem by us ppl...its a problem by everyone that has it.. Read the news and see how many ongoing *** abuse and molestation cases all over not by us only. ”
You are right that it is a world-wide problem that knows no creed, BUT, it is ONLY the Jews who defend the molesters. ONLY the Jews write letters and beg judges and condem children.....that is your legacy. You know how many MILLIONS of catholics left the church when they found out the church heads shuffled around the priests as opposed to bringing them to justice?? MILLIONS!! In your sick world you crawl out of the woodwork claiming these sickos are special people and are bing framed. You are just as dangerous to your children as these creeps are. Just keep burying your head in the sand....your future generations will be a bunch of impaired addicts with intimacy issues.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 03:02 PM clearthinker Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ It won't help. They will never ever allow a religious Jew to be in the Jury on another religious Jew. That's why the system is unfair. They will allow an all black jury on a black case but will not allow even one Jew on a Jewish case.
P.S. I'm not referring to this case but in general to the point you make about taking jury duty seriously. Jury duty as it applies to a religious Jewish a joke, and the joke is on us.
The Magna Carta still hasn't provided us the same rights as everyone else. ”
You are so wrong. In each case a an attorney is allowed to challenge a specific number of jurors for no reason (so long as that reason does not include race or religion), Other than that they can only challenge a juror if they can find a cause. Cause means that you cannot be fair. The law will allow an all black jury, an all Jewish jury etc. The reason there are few Jews on juries is that most find a way off. I have heard all sorts of excuses why middle class people do not want to sit on juries. Yes, so long as people like you decide your time is too valuable to waste in court there will be few Yidden on juries. It isn't the magna carta, it is that you want off.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 03:03 PM MazelKGH Says:Report as Inappropriate
We are ALL guilty. We know the truth of what is going on in our communities and sweep it under the rug. Some of you pretend as if this the first ever such case to happen.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 03:31 PM musicluver Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ as i wrote here in the past i was molested over 50 years ago at the age of 10 and the anger is still with me the people whom we trust the most our rabbis and teachers if they can do something so unimaginable then whom can we trust its a cruel world out there ”
Trust in G-d. No one else. Don't Judge Jews, judge Judaism.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 03:39 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
For a very long time frum Yidden thought that the US laws did not pertain to them and they could do whatever they liked either financially or sexually. Now the US Government has had enough, and you are crying. Well mend your ways and Hashem and the US Government will not go after you.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 04:29 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
I dont know why were fighting like this. All of us posting here condemn molesters and feel they should be taken off the streets. However, the question is, when do we truly know if the accused was not framed as there doesnt need to be clear evidence that he committed a crime. #85 makes sense. If a person contradicts himself or answers in a way that clearly shows he is lying can be enough cause for conviction. This way of justice is not foolproof though, and I'm sure innocent people can get caught in this kind of system.
Regarding the victim's age factor- a teenager of sixteen years, especially if the victim is from a dysfuntional home cannot defend himself properly nor knows how to react. Even older people can go into shock when something like this happens c"v. Add to all of this that a lot of kids in our comm. have no idea about these issues and can be totally stunned and not know how to react.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 04:48 PM Talmid Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Rav Wosner paskened that a crime that occurs between four eyes - an Isha and a Katan can be believed witout witnessess. ”
Where and when did Rav Wosner pasken this? Chapter and verse with mareh mekoimois please.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 04:55 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ "Molestation is not rape."
That is not entirely true. If there was no consent, it was rape. If the boy did not fight back out of fear or due to threats, it is RAPE by law. Secondly, having sex with a 16 year old is always STATUTORY rape under the law and we all know it. ”
No, it is entirely true. Rape and molestation have entirely different mens rea involved on the part of the accused and have entirely different elements. They are not the same thing at all, hence the fact that they are different crimes.
No having sexual relations with a 16 year old is not always statutory rape either. The age required for that charge depends on the jurisdiction. 16 is age of consent in many states.
I think this guy is a criminal, but making specious legal arguments doesn't bolster your point.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 05:29 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
Yesterday was such a honest day in what is really going on in our communities.
In Albany, Yaakov Weiss was sentenced to the worst sentencing he can get, with a plea bargain, and Mr Leibovitz was found guilty on 8/10 accounts. In both cases, the majority of the support in the courtroom was very obviously for the accused. Yet, with that, justice was served. Its a shame we need to go to non Jewish courts for some Justice to be served. Beis Din only knows how to protect abusers and shove things under the carpet. They force us to do mesirah. In this case, Mesirah is a mitzvah.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 05:57 PM Rabbi or Mr? Says:Report as Inappropriate
Guilty or innocent, why does the media label all molesters with the undeserved title "Rabbi"?? this man is a businessman, a plain simple travel agent, isn't and never was a Rabbi, teacher or counselor. So whats behind this ??
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Mar 09, 2010 at 06:18 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ You are so wrong. In each case a an attorney is allowed to challenge a specific number of jurors for no reason (so long as that reason does not include race or religion), Other than that they can only challenge a juror if they can find a cause. Cause means that you cannot be fair. The law will allow an all black jury, an all Jewish jury etc. The reason there are few Jews on juries is that most find a way off. I have heard all sorts of excuses why middle class people do not want to sit on juries. Yes, so long as people like you decide your time is too valuable to waste in court there will be few Yidden on juries. It isn't the magna carta, it is that you want off. ”
I'm talking from personal experience. I have answered every call for jury duty, and got dismissed just like that. When Lemerick Nelson murdered Yankel Rosenbaum an all black jury freed him on the murder charge. Would one Jew have been permitted on that jury? The answer is no. If it had been in reverse and Yankel Rosenbaum would have murdered Lemerick Nelson, then would they have allowed ONE single Jew on the jury? The answer again is no. Would they have allowed an all black jury? The answer is yes. So tell me, isn’t the system stacked against a Jew, and especially a frum Jew?
Again I’m not defending this man, only pointing out why the system isn’t fair to us. Even if he is guilty, we shouldn’t be proud of an unfair system where we don’t have the same rights as others. Someone once saw his house burning, so he started jumping for joy saying “ah nekooma in di vantzen”, revenge in the bedbugs, they’re burning too. While this jury might have issued a correct verdict, the choice of jurors was majorly flawed, and we shouldn’t support that. Right now it’s open season on the sickos among us, tomorrow it will be open season on the rest of us. We will sleep in the bed we made for ourselves.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 06:22 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ We are ALL guilty. We know the truth of what is going on in our communities and sweep it under the rug. Some of you pretend as if this the first ever such case to happen. ”
No one I know sweeps it under the rug. It is those who want to see us in a bad light who sweep it onto the rug. It happens everywhere, and believe it or not, even among us.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 06:24 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ For a very long time frum Yidden thought that the US laws did not pertain to them and they could do whatever they liked either financially or sexually. Now the US Government has had enough, and you are crying. Well mend your ways and Hashem and the US Government will not go after you. ”
Don't tarnish an entire community. If you thought that the US laws do not apply to you, doesn't mean that everyone thought so too. Talk only for yourself.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 06:30 PM Leib Says:Report as Inappropriate
This is a huge chillul hashem. But if the desecrator happens to be a professed Torah observer or, even worse, a so-called scholar of the Torah, then the Chillul Hashem is mamash gevaldig grois Hashem help us already
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Mar 09, 2010 at 06:30 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Yesterday was such a honest day in what is really going on in our communities.
In Albany, Yaakov Weiss was sentenced to the worst sentencing he can get, with a plea bargain, and Mr Leibovitz was found guilty on 8/10 accounts. In both cases, the majority of the support in the courtroom was very obviously for the accused. Yet, with that, justice was served. Its a shame we need to go to non Jewish courts for some Justice to be served. Beis Din only knows how to protect abusers and shove things under the carpet. They force us to do mesirah. In this case, Mesirah is a mitzvah. ”
And this is what you take away from yesterday, that mesirah is a mitzvah? Pity you.
What do you want Beis Din to do? Do they have any power to administer corporal punishment? Does any Beis Din have jurisdiction over anyone? It's easy to say that "Beis Din only knows how to protect abusers and shove things under the carpet" but can you tell us which Beis Din please.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 06:57 PM Lea Says:Report as Inappropriate
The issue is that if a bais din has no experience handling an issue they should say so , dont shove it under the rug. if your not competent dont get involved. i am talking from experience
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Mar 09, 2010 at 07:26 PM BP Mom Says:Report as Inappropriate
Most of you guys are blogging here like ignorant fools.
THE TRIBE HAS SPOKEN; a molester has been locked up. This should be a time of reflection and seeing where we went wrong and how we can raise awareness and protect our children in the future. Now is not the time to be looking for excuses for the molester and the difference betw a 7 year old vs. a 16 year old and of coarse the old jury duty excuse. Have we really stooped so low that we fight on such blogs about such nonsense instead of looking at the big picture and seeing how we can learn from our mistakes and where we can grow from here?
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Mar 09, 2010 at 07:31 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Where and when did Rav Wosner pasken this? Chapter and verse with mareh mekoimois please. ”
I have a copy of it with me here. No chapter no verse. Call him yourself. I beleive he is listed or call his son rav benzion in Monsey who has eloquently expounded on the psak in a multipage ruling.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 08:00 PM formally Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ It won't help. They will never ever allow a religious Jew to be in the Jury on another religious Jew. That's why the system is unfair. They will allow an all black jury on a black case but will not allow even one Jew on a Jewish case.
P.S. I'm not referring to this case but in general to the point you make about taking jury duty seriously. Jury duty as it applies to a religious Jewish a joke, and the joke is on us.
The Magna Carta still hasn't provided us the same rights as everyone else. ”
not sure if what you say it is true
but reading some of the bazaar excuses people are making for this guy and every other frum yid that get arrested their concern is justified.
About 60% of the people on this board would not believe a yid did a crime even it it happened right before their eyes.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 08:11 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ I'm talking from personal experience. I have answered every call for jury duty, and got dismissed just like that. When Lemerick Nelson murdered Yankel Rosenbaum an all black jury freed him on the murder charge. Would one Jew have been permitted on that jury? The answer is no. If it had been in reverse and Yankel Rosenbaum would have murdered Lemerick Nelson, then would they have allowed ONE single Jew on the jury? The answer again is no. Would they have allowed an all black jury? The answer is yes. So tell me, isn’t the system stacked against a Jew, and especially a frum Jew?
Again I’m not defending this man, only pointing out why the system isn’t fair to us. Even if he is guilty, we shouldn’t be proud of an unfair system where we don’t have the same rights as others. Someone once saw his house burning, so he started jumping for joy saying “ah nekooma in di vantzen”, revenge in the bedbugs, they’re burning too. While this jury might have issued a correct verdict, the choice of jurors was majorly flawed, and we shouldn’t support that. Right now it’s open season on the sickos among us, tomorrow it will be open season on the rest of us. We will sleep in the bed we made for ourselves. ”
Stop with the whining, its no better than what the Arabs do.
No defense attorney in their right mind would allow as a juror someone who was a member of the same tight knit group as the victim in a case because they cannot be objective. They also don't want priests, nuns, ministers, rabbis, imams or any very religious people of any stripe. Religious people can sway the thinking of the rest of the jury and that is exactly what a defense attorney does not want. It isn't some anti-Semitic plot.
Both sides have a limited number of potential jurors they can kick out of the pool. Neither side will be able to disqualify every single black person (or every single Jew) from a jury and if they did it's likely the verdict would be overturned on appeal.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 08:12 PM formally Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ I really dont get your question, of course did any yid with a bit of heart feel terrible for the entire family of the one who sold treif chickens! ”
go back to the comments when that story hit,
everybody wanted it publicized and I did not hear one person say, nebach on the guys family
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Mar 09, 2010 at 08:14 PM formally Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ This is a huge chillul hashem. But if the desecrator happens to be a professed Torah observer or, even worse, a so-called scholar of the Torah, then the Chillul Hashem is mamash gevaldig grois Hashem help us already ”
worry about the damage a molester does to the child they molested, and not so much about chillul hashem, G-d is a big boy he can handle it.
The victim cannot
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Mar 09, 2010 at 08:21 PM formally Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ And this is what you take away from yesterday, that mesirah is a mitzvah? Pity you.
What do you want Beis Din to do? Do they have any power to administer corporal punishment? Does any Beis Din have jurisdiction over anyone? It's easy to say that "Beis Din only knows how to protect abusers and shove things under the carpet" but can you tell us which Beis Din please. ”
that is why one does not go to beais dein about these matters.
Do a search and found out how many beais dins protected mondrwits kolco and others and harassed the victim
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Mar 09, 2010 at 08:24 PM ST Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Its a shame that someone has to say not only by us. It should of been only by them and not by us. ”
I agree. BUT, don't say its by US. Its by all and by us it shouldn't be.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 08:34 PM ST Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ You are right that it is a world-wide problem that knows no creed, BUT, it is ONLY the Jews who defend the molesters. ONLY the Jews write letters and beg judges and condem children.....that is your legacy. You know how many MILLIONS of catholics left the church when they found out the church heads shuffled around the priests as opposed to bringing them to justice?? MILLIONS!! In your sick world you crawl out of the woodwork claiming these sickos are special people and are bing framed. You are just as dangerous to your children as these creeps are. Just keep burying your head in the sand....your future generations will be a bunch of impaired addicts with intimacy issues. ”
I just stated in my reply that the molestation problem is by us all not by us only. PERIOD. Now thank you for cursing and fyi my generation and your generation as of my knowledge are the same. I doubt that we are 50 yrs apart. So keep cursing have ur kids in mind too. And B"H my head is abt 6 feet above ground. Nxt time before you open your "pisk" read my comment 2x. G'bye.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 10:04 PM Eli Says:Report as Inappropriate
When it comes to sexual abuse, the level of denial and victim-bashing in the frum community is terrifying. Even more terrifying is that the problem will not stop as long as sex offenders know that they can count on so many fellow frum yidden to defend them and help sweep thier crime under the rug. For shame.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 10:06 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ I spoke to a friend of mine who was in the court room and he told me that the jury was made up of 10 blacks and 2 whites. When Yankel Rosenbaum was killed by Lemeric Nelson yemach shmoy the Black Jury freed him on the murder charge and they all went out to eat to celebrate a Jews death. When OJ killed his wife the black jury found him innocent. The Jury system is made up of low lives and people not trained in the law. Anyone can make up a story about someone and claim they were molested.In New york any wife can go to the police and have her husband arrested on false charges. This is sodom. ”
Well it's time for the jews to go down to judy duty when they get called so we can save a jewish life too
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Mar 09, 2010 at 10:53 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ דברים י"ז) וכל העם ישמעו ויראו וגו',
the Torah doesn't worry about the feelings of the family, the guilty should be strung up and publicized, so people will see and understand that ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!!!!!
If this guy was at it for 32 years, I find it hard to believe that his family are so innocent either.
In any case, the safety of children is more important than the anguish of one family.
NAME HIM, POST HIS PICTURE EVERYWHERE!!!!!!!! ”
How can you say something like this. Regardless if he is innocent or guilty, His family is innocent. They are victims here just like any of his other victims. They are going through shame that you can't immagine and are being shunned for crimes they did not do and did not know about. You should be ashamed of yourself for your complete disregard to thier feelings. I agree that criminals should be punished but thier families shouldn't.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 11:12 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
its ekeldig even if its true noone wants their children to know what this subject is all about so all of you please start getting ready for peasach and stop with this nonsense
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Mar 09, 2010 at 11:51 PM ELI Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ its ekeldig even if its true noone wants their children to know what this subject is all about so all of you please start getting ready for peasach and stop with this nonsense ”
Actually, I do want my children to know what this is about. I want them to know that while most people are trust-worthy and kind, there are some people, even frum jews, who may try to do bad things, including touching them inappropriately. They should know that I will no punish them or go crazy on them if they come to me and tell that someone touched them in a private area. Instead, I will do what i can to protect them and make sure it never happens to them again by this person.
Perhaps if we did want our children to know about this they would be more armed with the ability to yell no and come for help when someone violates them. So I disagree with your comment as far as children knowing about this. Now, whether it is necessary to have 154 comments on one post is a different story. But if these back and forths convince even one more person to make sure thier kids are safe, then it is a good thing.
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Mar 09, 2010 at 11:52 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Don't tarnish an entire community. If you thought that the US laws do not apply to you, doesn't mean that everyone thought so too. Talk only for yourself. ”
Nebech, to all of your defeners of this sorry loser.
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Mar 10, 2010 at 12:17 AM BP Mom Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ its ekeldig even if its true noone wants their children to know what this subject is all about so all of you please start getting ready for peasach and stop with this nonsense ”
Nonsense? What nonsense? Is this what you'll be telling your kids if they come to you saying that someone touched them inappropriately? Or are you trying to justify your urges by saying that it's all nonsense and we should get ready for pesach? You need help Mr., serious help and it's never too late.
I am proud to say that my 5 year old knows to come to me if someone c"v touches him inappropriately. And I am chassidish btw.
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Mar 10, 2010 at 12:59 AM PMO Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ No, it is entirely true. Rape and molestation have entirely different mens rea involved on the part of the accused and have entirely different elements. They are not the same thing at all, hence the fact that they are different crimes.
No having sexual relations with a 16 year old is not always statutory rape either. The age required for that charge depends on the jurisdiction. 16 is age of consent in many states.
I think this guy is a criminal, but making specious legal arguments doesn't bolster your point. ”
Yes, rape and molestation are different. The general difference is coercion and/or force. Molestation requires neither. Rape requires one or the other. Coercion can be at the barrel of a gun, or a threat against one's family. It is a nuanced difference. The term 'molestation' (without being too graphic) is also typically used when there was no penetration even if coercion was used. Cases where a dirty old man penetrates (in any way) a child, it is almost always rape.
Again, I am sorry if this is too detailed/graphic, but it is the truth that needs to be said.
However, when it occurs with someone 16 years old (in NY) the word RAPE is used (as in statutory rape).
On a side note, obviously when I said that relations with a 16yo is statutory rape, I was obviously talking about New York as that is where this case took place.
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Mar 10, 2010 at 01:05 AM PMO Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ How can you say something like this. Regardless if he is innocent or guilty, His family is innocent. They are victims here just like any of his other victims. They are going through shame that you can't immagine and are being shunned for crimes they did not do and did not know about. You should be ashamed of yourself for your complete disregard to thier feelings. I agree that criminals should be punished but thier families shouldn't. ”
Then why not be the one who stands up to defend them when people speak ill of them. Why not stand up and shout when someone says "I don't want one of THOSE boys marrying my daughter". Be REAL man of CHARACTER who will publicly SHAME and REBUKE those who speak ill of the family. The problem is, you probably aren't one of those REAL men of character. So few are, and THAT is the real problem.
You're right in that we must not blame the family of this filthy rodef. But it is up to the entire community to show them love and support. It is up to all of us to ensure that they are in no way punished. The family must never doubt that we are on their side. However, sweeping the details under the rug is not the way to do it. Standing shoulder to shoulder with them against this rodef is.
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Mar 10, 2010 at 01:14 AM PMO Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Actually, I do want my children to know what this is about. I want them to know that while most people are trust-worthy and kind, there are some people, even frum jews, who may try to do bad things, including touching them inappropriately. They should know that I will no punish them or go crazy on them if they come to me and tell that someone touched them in a private area. Instead, I will do what i can to protect them and make sure it never happens to them again by this person.
Perhaps if we did want our children to know about this they would be more armed with the ability to yell no and come for help when someone violates them. So I disagree with your comment as far as children knowing about this. Now, whether it is necessary to have 154 comments on one post is a different story. But if these back and forths convince even one more person to make sure thier kids are safe, then it is a good thing. ”
Eli, you are so right. Children are not as dumb as we think. They know what their private areas are. They know that when they are touched it is wrong. However, they don't understand WHAT is wrong, or WHY it is wrong. It is that missing piece of information that causes so many to become victims. They think that because they participated, THEY did something wrong, generally because the molester/rapist told them so. Your child must ALWAYS know that they can say NO. They must know that they can scream like hell and run to tell the first person they can find ANY time they think they were touched in an inappropriate way. They must always know that YOU will never be angry with them for telling you anything.
Predators look for kids with rough home lives. They seek out kids who are TOO fearful of their parents, or parents who are not involved in their lives. A filthy rodef knows what he is looking for when he seeks out his prey. If your child is the one he has selected, and is unprepared, he/she WILL be a victim. Count on it.
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Mar 10, 2010 at 07:33 AM Asken Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ I spoke to a friend of mine who was in the court room and he told me that the jury was made up of 10 blacks and 2 whites. When Yankel Rosenbaum was killed by Lemeric Nelson yemach shmoy the Black Jury freed him on the murder charge and they all went out to eat to celebrate a Jews death. When OJ killed his wife the black jury found him innocent. The Jury system is made up of low lives and people not trained in the law. Anyone can make up a story about someone and claim they were molested.In New york any wife can go to the police and have her husband arrested on false charges. This is sodom. ”
We appreciate everyone's comments and suggestions the main solution to the problem i don't see anyone acknowledging
we must form a group in each heimishe community to deal with the issue in a normal way which includes getting people to go for help which will help the entire community, and keep family's from being destroyed,
the people are dealing with these issues now have no knowledge how its suppose to be dealt with they decided that if no one else is getting involved they will use any kind of action that requires a major wake up call , job well done, but now is the time we all act together the right way and form a group in every community to deal with the issue the rightful way.
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Mar 10, 2010 at 11:13 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ not sure if what you say it is true
but reading some of the bazaar excuses people are making for this guy and every other frum yid that get arrested their concern is justified.
About 60% of the people on this board would not believe a yid did a crime even it it happened right before their eyes. ”
And more then 60% of blacks on a jury would not believe that a black person did a crime if the defendant killed a Jew; and still the jury system would allow an all black jury, but will not allow even one Jew; so my argument stands.
That's besides the percentage of anti-Semites in the population where blacks are percentage wise much more anti-Semitic then whites, and I didn't even use this argument.
I believe that he is probably guilty, but the jury system as it pertains to Jews and especially religious Jews isn’t fair to say the least. That’s probably why most religious Jews on trial will rather plead guilty and be in the hands of a merciful judge who needs to answer to society, then to be judged by a jury that is NOT their peers.
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Mar 10, 2010 at 11:39 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ Stop with the whining, its no better than what the Arabs do.
No defense attorney in their right mind would allow as a juror someone who was a member of the same tight knit group as the victim in a case because they cannot be objective. They also don't want priests, nuns, ministers, rabbis, imams or any very religious people of any stripe. Religious people can sway the thinking of the rest of the jury and that is exactly what a defense attorney does not want. It isn't some anti-Semitic plot.
Both sides have a limited number of potential jurors they can kick out of the pool. Neither side will be able to disqualify every single black person (or every single Jew) from a jury and if they did it's likely the verdict would be overturned on appeal. ”
Read your comment again and then tell me how in the world a judge allowed an all black jury (or an almost all black jury) in the Lemerick Nelson case?
Why, after the jury went out to party with Nelson after their "peer" verdict, wasn't there an uproar? Can you imagine what would happen if the roles were reversed and Yankel Rosenbaum was on trial and a Jewish jury would have exonerated him of killing a black man? All hell would have broke loose. So again why do we JUSTIFY the unfairness against us? Why?
I can understand that people want to see justice in this case, but for the life of me can't understand why people justify an unjust system? The ends to not justify the means; unless of course if you're mean.
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Mar 10, 2010 at 11:45 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ that is why one does not go to beais dein about these matters.
Do a search and found out how many beais dins protected mondrwits kolco and others and harassed the victim ”
Which Beis din, what Beis din? I really don't understand what you want from Beis din's. They have no power unless both sides submit to it, and even then they cannot enforce their psak in most cases.
Beis din has no rugs to shove it under.
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Mar 10, 2010 at 01:25 PM Joey d Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ We appreciate everyone's comments and suggestions the main solution to the problem i don't see anyone acknowledging
we must form a group in each heimishe community to deal with the issue in a normal way which includes getting people to go for help which will help the entire community, and keep family's from being destroyed,
the people are dealing with these issues now have no knowledge how its suppose to be dealt with they decided that if no one else is getting involved they will use any kind of action that requires a major wake up call , job well done, but now is the time we all act together the right way and form a group in every community to deal with the issue the rightful way. ”
Asken? Who would u appoint? There is not on person within the charedi community that knows how to deal with abuse except for org like ohel that is known to cover up abuse. We don't need askunom and mashgichim for this isuue. We already have the POLICE
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Mar 10, 2010 at 01:42 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
I dont know if this did or did not happen but as the mother of an abused son i am very happy that someone will get punished for this. I hope and pray with all my might that this will put in some fear into these sick sick men. This has to STOP and now is the time.
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Mar 10, 2010 at 05:24 PM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ I dont know if this did or did not happen but as the mother of an abused son i am very happy that someone will get punished for this. I hope and pray with all my might that this will put in some fear into these sick sick men. This has to STOP and now is the time. ”
It is an open question if this will put the fear of God into these sick men. I'm no psychologist, but I would bet that the impulse for this depravity outweighs any logical considerations. The person who needs this is like a drug addict who is obsessed with his next fix and nothing is going to stop him. So, one would say, lock them all up. But the problem is that a lot of people have this impulse and most don’t act on it. Some have stopped acting on this impulse and others haven’t yet started. So are we going to lock up everyone with a propensity for this? I think that the psychology part has not been addressed by anyone, only the revenge part. That you are a mother of an abused son I can understand your desire for punishment, but society needs to look at this in a broader light.
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Mar 10, 2010 at 06:44 PM poshuta_yid Says:Report as Inappropriate
I have read most of the comments and I would like to add something that I didn't see yet on here.
I don't live in NYC, but in a small jewish community out west. So I am not sure if what we did will work anyplace else.
When abuse occured in our community, instead of notifyying the authorities the Rabbonim and community leaders decided to devise strict resolutions and rules for the offender. We felt that the main goal here is not to punish anyone but to protect our children.
We realized our plan might not work because these offenders and child molesters are devious and not honest. But in keeping with the laws of a "Rodef" the Rabbonim felt first we should try other methods to stop him before notifying the police.
I am sure you all realize by now that turning a child molester over to law enforcement authorities is like "Killing him". And the law of "Rodef" clearly states to first try other methods.
I feel for the victims of child molestation, but the community leaders and Rabbonim, must keep the Torah and first try to stop the molester in ways that will not "kill him".
Doing this will safegaurd our children and also avoid any suffering to the offenders family, and to the offender himself. Yes you heard me right. It's not our job to play G-D and attempt to seek justice and punish someone. Those are all Goyish concepts . And it's a shame I keep reading on here how Torah Jews want to punish and "get even" or "seek justice" with the perpertrators.
Our main focus should be in protecting our children. If it can be done without the Goyish courts getting involved , that's the path you should choose.
Every Rav and community leader has the obligation to see if such an option is available.
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Mar 10, 2010 at 08:00 PM OMG Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ It is an open question if this will put the fear of God into these sick men. I'm no psychologist, but I would bet that the impulse for this depravity outweighs any logical considerations. The person who needs this is like a drug addict who is obsessed with his next fix and nothing is going to stop him. So, one would say, lock them all up. But the problem is that a lot of people have this impulse and most don’t act on it. Some have stopped acting on this impulse and others haven’t yet started. So are we going to lock up everyone with a propensity for this? I think that the psychology part has not been addressed by anyone, only the revenge part. That you are a mother of an abused son I can understand your desire for punishment, but society needs to look at this in a broader light. ”
How I wish you have written your comment two days ago, so maybe it could have opened a decent discussion in the community. Before I start let me be upfront with you, that I am not an expert, my only expertise’s derives from being a victim. Therefore, some of my views might be biased; you decide how you want to advance my view.
I agree with your supposition that not everyone who has a propensity will act on it, it is the same as any addiction, some succeed but some fail, but usually in other types of addiction, they hurt themselves, and their family, i.e. the use drugs, or gambling. But when pedophilia is the addiction, you have an innocent child being victimized for someone own gratification. And the pain could be a lifetime struggle. The biggest problem is the community itself, because they don’t understand when and how to react therefore, they will look away and because it is a horrific act people tend to not want to believe the victim. You have one side, the offenders’ family who are victims too; they would do anything possible to clear their name, even at the expense of the victim and their family. But here is the problem if a person is already arrested that usually means tha
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Mar 10, 2010 at 10:15 PM OMG Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ It is an open question if this will put the fear of God into these sick men. I'm no psychologist, but I would bet that the impulse for this depravity outweighs any logical considerations. The person who needs this is like a drug addict who is obsessed with his next fix and nothing is going to stop him. So, one would say, lock them all up. But the problem is that a lot of people have this impulse and most don’t act on it. Some have stopped acting on this impulse and others haven’t yet started. So are we going to lock up everyone with a propensity for this? I think that the psychology part has not been addressed by anyone, only the revenge part. That you are a mother of an abused son I can understand your desire for punishment, but society needs to look at this in a broader light. ”
Part # 2
But here is the problem if a person is already arrested that usually means that there are other victims, like the current case, there are two more cases pending, if you encounter such a person there is no available help they must be stopped, anyway possible.
Yes there are no easy answers but it comes a time when adults need to act like adults and take care of the children. But if it didn’t come to such a point then yes we should try to help the person to find a way how they could overcome the desires but that is professional help not rabbinical.
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Mar 13, 2010 at 11:13 PM moishe Says:Report as Inappropriate
{if a person is already arrested that usually means that there are other victims, like the current case,}
that dosent mean anything it means some one called the police and claimed something
but most of the stories by us is just a borogh park talk which means that we talk bunch of loshon hora and every one who hears an half story adds more spices to it
im not saying he is not guilty
but what does it mean abused ?
does it mean tought him how to do do something or does it mean did
something and the most important is what is our gain if he goes to jail ?
that he is not gonne try to do it again he cant do it again cause hes name is dirty allready and whats our gain that people will try to do it more quitley ?
than we are creating for ourself a new problem
the way to deal with it is deffrent lets look into someone who needs it
is it the only thing that will satisfy him ?
no there are plenty more things that can make him or anyone not to do anything discosting like this ]
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Mar 14, 2010 at 01:12 AM Anonymous Says:Report as Inappropriate
“ I have read most of the comments and I would like to add something that I didn't see yet on here.
I don't live in NYC, but in a small jewish community out west. So I am not sure if what we did will work anyplace else.
When abuse occured in our community, instead of notifyying the authorities the Rabbonim and community leaders decided to devise strict resolutions and rules for the offender. We felt that the main goal here is not to punish anyone but to protect our children.
We realized our plan might not work because these offenders and child molesters are devious and not honest. But in keeping with the laws of a "Rodef" the Rabbonim felt first we should try other methods to stop him before notifying the police.
I am sure you all realize by now that turning a child molester over to law enforcement authorities is like "Killing him". And the law of "Rodef" clearly states to first try other methods.
I feel for the victims of child molestation, but the community leaders and Rabbonim, must keep the Torah and first try to stop the molester in ways that will not "kill him".
Doing this will safegaurd our children and also avoid any suffering to the offenders family, and to the offender himself. Yes you heard me right. It's not our job to play G-D and attempt to seek justice and punish someone. Those are all Goyish concepts . And it's a shame I keep reading on here how Torah Jews want to punish and "get even" or "seek justice" with the perpertrators.
Our main focus should be in protecting our children. If it can be done without the Goyish courts getting involved , that's the path you should choose.
Every Rav and community leader has the obligation to see if such an option is available. ”
Very well said!, we as Jews do not consider a 16 year old as a minor, and in this case, the pretended rodef didn't bother any children or young boys at all, and he absolutely did not force anyone into anything, and to our understanding that doesn't give him the rodef status. that doesn't set him free of all charges, but there are different ways to figure out how to go about the problem...
never in the last 60 years since we live in america, we did anything similar to this,and never in all of our history we punished a community member like this.