China – Shanghai Shidduch Results in Historic Wedding [video]

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    At The Kabulas PunimChina – Possibly the first heimishe wedding in China since World War II took place today at the Marriot in Shanghai as a New York businessman married a Belgian employee of a high tech company.

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    Ari Lauber of Brooklyn’s Ner Mitzvah has been living in Shanghai for approximately seven years and is known for his tremendous hachnasas orchim, feeding guests, making cholent and helping travelers to the area as he manages Ner Mitzvah’s interests in China. Reizy Weingarten of Antwerp moved to Shanghai for business five years ago but it was a traveler from Boro Park who suggested what should have been the obvious shidduch to Lauber, saying “If the two of you are the only heimishe yidden who live here, maybe it is a basherte shidduch?”

    And indeed it was. Approximately 150 guests from various locations including New York, Skver, Antwerp, Israel and England flew to China joining 200 members of the Shanghai community for this landmark event. The wedding was catered by R’ Shulem Greenberg of Chabad, with R’ Akiva Asher Padwa head of the London Beis Din and a frequent guest of Lauber’s serving as Mesader Kiddushin.

    Entertainer Lipa Schmeltzer was flown to Shanghai for the wedding as a gesture of hakaras hatov by a group of businessman who have enjoyed Lauber’s hospitality over the years. Schmeltzer was one of only six people who managed to get onto a Continental flight out of Newark when his flight was cancelled due to the blizzard.

    “A heimishe wedding in Shanghai. It is just gevaldik,” said Schmeltzer in an exclusive interview with VIN News. “They are the only heimishe people here besides the shluchim. They both had to move to China to find a shidduch.”

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    Below, short clips of the wedding have been uploaded on YouTube by Heartytomato


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    JerryB
    JerryB
    13 years ago

    Mazal tov!!! Till 120+ together , with simcha and nachas l’rov, Hashem bless them for all the good they do in that far-away place.

    Godol-Hador
    Godol-Hador
    13 years ago

    In Shanghai?! I don’t understand! Where does he have a minyan? A mikveh? Kosher food? Where will he have chinuch for his children?

    mannie
    mannie
    13 years ago

    wow my friend went to this wedding. its amazing.

    DerTalmidChuchem
    DerTalmidChuchem
    13 years ago

    That is a major “Miser Haskel” that hashem is siting since the begining oif the world & is Mazaveg Zivigim..
    GREAT CHIZIK..

    ysgib
    ysgib
    13 years ago

    Is that sushi and egg rolls on the table? It’s chasunah meets dim sum.

    jerrygold
    jerrygold
    13 years ago

    Fantastic!!! Mi keAmcha Yisroel!!!

    YentaDevosha
    YentaDevosha
    13 years ago

    Mazel Tov! Mazel Tov! Ari & Reizy!!! We are all rejoicing in your simcha from far.
    We are so excited that our uncle made the headlines!!!!

    Poster #2 , there is kosher food and minyan all year round. Not to worry. There is a wonderful chabad rabbi too!

    BH, whoever from the family was planning to go, got there, even if the flights were originally cancelled, they all made it there on time!

    We are so happy for the new couple.

    Oif simchas vaater!

    skvererebbe
    skvererebbe
    13 years ago

    please open a skwerer shtibel ! and lmaan hashem never forget to wear your shtivel !!!

    EphraimY
    EphraimY
    13 years ago

    Mazal Tov Ari! Ephraim Yurowitz here. You remember me from back then before you became such a Chinese regular? You remember the China Hotel in Guangzhou? Where was my invitation? I would have, could have been there! Kosher food? A Minyan? A Mikveh? Come one you guys, take your head out of the sand or snow of Boro Park just long enough to realize that Brooklyn is not the only Jewish community in the world! Do you know that there is a Cholov Yisroel Pizza shop in Hong Kong? Do you know that the Rebbe in my Shul in Monsey wont eat meat bought here locally from some stores but told a fellow traveler that he can eat from any Chabad in China? Mazal Tov again Ari and Reizy!

    13 years ago

    To #14 - Why did you refer to Shanghai as “a hick place”. There are over 10,000,000 people who live there. During WW2, many Yidden found refuge and safety in Shanghai, and lived there for the duration of WW2, until 1949, when they emigrated to the USA, Canada, South America, and EY.

    AL-Coholic
    AL-Coholic
    13 years ago

    what some people won’t do, to show off that they have money…
    MAZEL TOV, ANYWAY

    13 years ago

    what a wonderful guy Ari is, i stayed at his apt in Shanghai and was so happy to hear about the wedding. luckily 4 of our group happened to be traveling to China and made it to the wedding .Simply amazing

    Whatchya-sayin
    Whatchya-sayin
    13 years ago

    Ari and Raizy, We are so happy for you!!!! We all want to wish you lots of good mazel, bracha, gezunt and happiness!
    We would have love to have been by the wedding!!

    Welcome to our family Raizy!

    Mazel tov from part of your Nieces that stayed behind!

    HaNavon
    HaNavon
    13 years ago

    #2 ,

    I used to live in Guangzhou and I spent time in Shanghai, Hong Kong and Singapore. There are nice Jewish communities there and they are rapidly growing, but it is hard to find girls for all of the single businessmen there. My older brother runs a business in Hong Kong and he can’t find a girl…
    Maybe the single girls in NY who can’t get married should go there to get married!

    By the way, I’m going to tell you a cool story.
    One time, when I was living in China, I went to a village that was totally isolated from any western influences or any kind. There was a little old man, writing chinese calligraphy. I pointed to his feather pen and to myself, so he handed it to me.
    I wrote “shvoich chamascha al hagoyim…”! He looked at it and shrugged, then his whole block came out to see this strange language, so I told him in chinese that “I’m Yotai ( a Jew)”. He said “Yotai?” and rubbed his thumb and forefinger together, the sign for money, and then gave me a thumbs up!!

    MosheZuchmere
    MosheZuchmere
    13 years ago

    GODOL HADOR The problem with you is that so many other self-aspiring Gedoilay Hador actually think like you. They sit in their high towers in Bnei Bark or Lakewood and shoot from the hip. But when they find themselves stranded or in need and Chabad is on hand, then…..only shhh don’t tell anyone. It could ruin my chances of being the next official godol hador!

    Meanwhile it is a fact that the Satmar Rebbe invited the Shanghai shliach (Rabbi Freundlach) to his tisch and to sit ‘oiben on’ with him in appreciation for everything he does there for his chassidim that travel through.

    Yes even Satmar and Chabad. Now if only we could get you litvishe “war mongers” to start practising some ahavas yisroel, we’d all be in a better place.

    ALLAN
    ALLAN
    13 years ago

    I wish the young couple only the best. On a lighter note, at least they won’t have to travel very far for real Chinese food (kosher of course)

    Jewish_Traveler
    Jewish_Traveler
    13 years ago

    Any Jew that ever traveled the world will know to appreciate the gadlus of the chesed and kiruv that Chabad does. And you know what, it is not only to those none religious Jews who know nothing and open their eyes when they come there. It is every single Jew, chasidish, litvish, religious and none religious. Chabad is there with open hands and arms, ready to feed you with whatever you need beruchnuious and begashmious. Mashgichim from all hashgoches eat there, and I personnaly saw them eat in Chabad in Shanghai, not just the food, but the meat too. Just remember one of the korbonois in Mumbai was also a mashgiach from the Edah Hachareidis. And all those people that go there, know the chashivus of Chabad and they appreciate them. It is those that sit at home, and know nothing about what goes on, those are the ones that talk and give their opinions that that are totally not relevant. I personally wish all the shluchim all over the world, Hashem should be with them and give them everything they need, because they are giving themselves away for the tzibur.
    And I wish Ari and Raizy all the best till a hundred and twenty, a life full of happiness.