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New York - Op-Ed By Rabbi Yakov Horowitz: Occupy Beit Shemesh!! Time for the 99% to Be Heard

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An ultra-Orthodox Jewish man (L) argues with a secular man during a protest against the government's pledge to curb Jewish zealotry in Israel, in the town of Beit Shemesh, near Jerusalem December 26, 2011.. ReutersAn ultra-Orthodox Jewish man (L) argues with a secular man during a protest against the government's pledge to curb Jewish zealotry in Israel, in the town of Beit Shemesh, near Jerusalem December 26, 2011.. Reuters

New York - The ongoing violence in Beit Shemesh by hooligans has taken an even uglier turn recently as it is being directed against school-age children and their parents. It is now receiving front-page international coverage due to the involvement of Israeli elected officials at the highest levels.

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As the colossal Chilul Hashem and distortion of genuine Torah values is escalating, it is incumbent on decent Jews worldwide to do our part to distance ourselves from this behavior and loudly proclaim that this is not the way of our Torah. It is of paramount importance that we do so not only before the media and the world at large, but also that we explain this to our impressionable children in the starkest of terms. Our work with children and teens over the years has clearly indicated that “Hate Does not Have an Off Button ” – meaning that the toxic message of intolerance is one that has long-term harmful effects.

Many people in our community insist, “Everyone understands that these are a small bunch of radicals who do not have the support of any rabbinic leaders.” But that is simply not the message resonating around the world nowadays.

The 1% is getting all the media attention due to the passiveness of the 99%.

Several years ago, readers of this website conducted our own peaceful “hafgana” (protest) when the demonstrations in Eretz Yisroel were spinning out of control, by writing respectful emails to the editors of The Jerusalem Post and Ha’aretz condemning the violence in the clearest terms.

By all accounts, it was very successful as each of the papers received more than 100 emails from Jews worldwide. The Jerusalem Post designated a letters-to-the-editor section, where they printed many of the responses and actually wrote a column noting that there was a grass-roots movement by charedi Jews worldwide condemning the violent behavior.

We respectfully ask that you do the same at this critical time – with the eyes of the world focused on Beit Shemesh. Kindly take a few moments to cut and paste this message or write something along these lines and email them to

letters@nytimes.com

letters@jpost.com

feedback@haaretz.co.il

“As a Torah Jew, I am deeply distressed by the harassment and violence in Beit Shemesh – all of which is diametrically opposed to the teachings of our Holy Torah. Lest our silence be misconstrued as passive acceptance of this behavior, we condemn it in the strongest terms, as do the vast, overwhelming, majority of Torah Jews worldwide.”

We ask that you show public support for this effort by posting your name and the city where you live as a comment on the bottom of this thread so that members of our community and the media at large can see that this is a broad-based effort.

Thank you very much for your time and may this effort be helpful in restoring k’vod shamayim.

Rabbi Yakov Horowitz is the founder and dean of Yeshiva Darchei Noam of Monsey, and founder and Director of Project Y.E.S. (Youth Enrichment Services). He is recognized throughout the Jewish community as an authority on raising children in these troubled times.


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 Dec 27, 2011 at 10:41 AM jsjcbs Says:

J. Jacobs
Manhattan

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 11:07 AM Rabbi Horowitz you are wrong Says:

I am sorry Rabbi Horowoitz, you mean well and do much good but you are wrong and have been wrong on this issue before. It is first and foremost the responsibility of the RABBINIC LEADERSHIP to forcefully and explicitly denounce this Colossal Chilul Hashem. It is not enough for them to denounce it because it is a chilul Hashem, but to denounce it because the whole hashkafa of this group that you refer to as the “one percent” is just as treif as eating Chazir and their approach to Yiddishkeit is against Halacha on all levels. The Rabbonim and specifically the Gedolim and we all know who they are, need to come out and say meforash that
1. There is no issur to sit next to a woman on a bus
2. It is Assur to ask women to move to the back of the bus
3. It is Assur to put up signs asking women to only walk on certain sides of a street
4. It is Assur to spit on another human being and Ain Lo Chelek Lolam Haba to one who does so
5. It is Assur to call another Jew a “Nazi” and Ail Lo Chelek Lolam Haba to one who does so
6. It is Assur to sing the Neturei Karta Song
7. It is Assur to assault or harrass another human being

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 11:09 AM Willy girl Says:

I will do just that!! Thank you Rabbi Horowitz!!

-from Williamsburg, Brooklyn NY

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 11:14 AM Anonymous Says:

Now that all the chashuve rabbonim and gadolim like Rav Horowitz. shlita are speaking out against these hoodlums, their days are numbered. It takes a lot to rouse the sleeping giants of gadolei yisroel but woe to those on the wrong side when it happens.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 11:16 AM some1 Says:

Very well said.
No need to add.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 11:20 AM ichmein Says:

See my letter to the papers Dear ______ I am a Charedi Jew living in New York City and I am appalled by the actions of the violent protesters in Jerusalem in Beit Shemesh. Their actions are repulsive and reprehensible, and violate both the letter and spirit of Jewish law. These people are not mainstream in our community. They are a small fringe group that has no support from any segment of our community. The majority of Charedim feel strongly and passionately about our way of life but respect the decisions of others not to live our lifestyle. I urge my fellow Charedim living in Israel to speak out against this fringe group. Sincerely,

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 11:24 AM busy Says:

WOW! Awesome!! Go Rabbi Horowitz!!

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 11:26 AM Nice Says:

Nice as far as it goes, but doesn't go nearly far enough. The hatred for modern orthodoxy among the Chareidim has long, deep roots, taught by its leadership, and this latest public outbreak of violence is only unique for capturing international media attention. The Associated Press article is the lead story on today's AOL. The proposed letter to various editors is pareve, in merely condemning "harassment and violence". The Chareidi violence against children is the product of a warped hashkafah which teaches hatred. It is also the source of child abuse and coverup. It is the Chareidi hashkafa which spits on children, the modern orthodox, and even Greek orthodox clerics minding their own business. When a Chareidi gadol gives a speech about shalom with the modern orthodox, only then will real change happen. In the meantime, I've checked out from that crowd, never to return. I have no stomach for sheker, and today I'm a fulfilled, happy modern orthodox Jew.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 11:30 AM Erlicher yid Says:

"this time" I'm in total agreement with R Horowitz
It's a shame that we are not publicizing in the strongest terms that the super majority of klal Yisroel regardless of background is strongly opposed to this massive chillul hashem Where are all the Rabonim, Askonim etc in time of need?

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 11:33 AM Mikey Says:

As a Torah Jew, I am deeply distressed by the harassment and violence in Beit Shemesh – all of which is diametrically opposed to the teachings of our Holy Torah. Lest our silence be misconstrued as passive acceptance of this behavior, we condemn it in the strongest terms, as do the vast, overwhelming, majority of Torah Jews worldwide.
Mikey Schwartz
Woodmere, NY

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 11:40 AM shvigger Says:

That the Rabbinic leadership does NOT denounce what Horowitz deems offensive is proof to me that there's another side to the equation that the Israeli media is not reporting.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 11:55 AM kalman1 Says:

Reply to #2  
Rabbi Horowitz you are wrong Says:

I am sorry Rabbi Horowoitz, you mean well and do much good but you are wrong and have been wrong on this issue before. It is first and foremost the responsibility of the RABBINIC LEADERSHIP to forcefully and explicitly denounce this Colossal Chilul Hashem. It is not enough for them to denounce it because it is a chilul Hashem, but to denounce it because the whole hashkafa of this group that you refer to as the “one percent” is just as treif as eating Chazir and their approach to Yiddishkeit is against Halacha on all levels. The Rabbonim and specifically the Gedolim and we all know who they are, need to come out and say meforash that
1. There is no issur to sit next to a woman on a bus
2. It is Assur to ask women to move to the back of the bus
3. It is Assur to put up signs asking women to only walk on certain sides of a street
4. It is Assur to spit on another human being and Ain Lo Chelek Lolam Haba to one who does so
5. It is Assur to call another Jew a “Nazi” and Ail Lo Chelek Lolam Haba to one who does so
6. It is Assur to sing the Neturei Karta Song
7. It is Assur to assault or harrass another human being

You cannot create issurim without a basis. Some of those things may or may not be assur, but your moral beliefs do not formulate halacha.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:01 PM Yonason_Herschlag Says:

The 1% is getting all the media attention due to the passiveness of the 99%.

Not true! The media attention is soley due to the fact that the media is a charedi bashing machine.

The media know well that the majority of charedim are appalled by dispicable actions such as an adult "man" spitting on a seven year old school girl, but they are not interested in presenting the true picture.

The media also knows well, that for every child spit on by a charedi man, 1000 girls are raped by non-charedim in Israel. But hey, who cares; not the media, nor the police.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:06 PM busy Says:

Reply to #11  
shvigger Says:

That the Rabbinic leadership does NOT denounce what Horowitz deems offensive is proof to me that there's another side to the equation that the Israeli media is not reporting.

#11 what "other side" can there possibly be?? That little girls DESERVE to be harassed?? Is there "another side" to the World Trade Center bombing?

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:08 PM LunaNY Says:

Rabbi Horowitz, agree with you 100%! I grew up among the worst anti-Semites, and seeing our fellow Jews treating others Jews with such hatred and deeply hurtful to me!
Tamara Borukhov, Brooklyn, NY

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:08 PM MarkTwain2 Says:

Feel free to use my revised version, which follows. I believe it corrects some grammar issues and as well as others as it includes our Rabbanim and us individuals.
As a Torah Jew, I am deeply distressed by the harassment and violence in Beit Shemesh – all of which our true leaders are saying is diametrically opposed to the teachings of our Holy Torah. Lest our collective individual silence, while our leaders vociferously protest and condemn, be misconstrued as passive acceptance of this behavior, we collective individuals who in fact comprise the vast, overwhelming, majority of Torah Jews worldwide condemn it in the strongest and most absolute terms.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:08 PM mosheh Says:

Reply to #11  
shvigger Says:

That the Rabbinic leadership does NOT denounce what Horowitz deems offensive is proof to me that there's another side to the equation that the Israeli media is not reporting.

yes, that they are not totally against it. The rabbonim, if they are true leaders, should have every bachur in their yeshiva go out and civily protest against this madness. If they are true leaders, they should be giving shmuzin about how wrong it is and for the need to stand up against these animals. If they were true leaders, they would issue the kol koreh's they issue for all the small things they have been issued for. If they were true leaders they would boycott the hashgachas of the larger groups they associate with until THIER leaders came and did the same.
And as a side note, your wording of "...does not denounce what Horowitz deems offensive" shows what camp you are in.
R' Horowitz in one day most likely does more than your simple, lay mind can conceptualize and is certainly doing more than the "rabbonim" who remain silent.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:11 PM str8tothepoint Says:

Rabbi Horowitz-You are 100% Correct on this matter-Thank you for being the first one to speak out against this insanity-We as frum Jews have to stand together and condemn this huge Chillul Hashem in the most certain of terms.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:11 PM LunaNY Says:

Rabbi Horowitz, thank you! I grew up among the worst anti-Semites in the world, and seeing such hatred from one Jew to another is deeply disturbing.

Tamara Borukhov, Brooklyn, NY

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:11 PM Original Orthodox Says:

With all respect to Rabbi Horowitz You are wrong!
Orthodox Jews are a community that have stuck to torah principles and not modernized. You are either modern or orthodox.
As for us we have been guided by our Torah Rabonim and not by commentators and the media.
A real kidush hashem is when Jews stick to the Isur of Velo Yieyeh Becho Ervas Dovor and that is what the torah calls Venikdashti Besoch Benei Yisroel and Chilul Hashem is to keep quiet on Peritzus.
I have personally asked my old Non-Kanoi Rebe for the Torah opinion about it and he told me that this is called a kidush hashem.
As for the Issurim mentioned by #2
1. There is no issur to sit next to a woman on a bus
2. It is Assur to ask women to move to the back of the bus
3. It is Assur to put up signs asking women to only walk on certain sides of a street
4. It is Assur to spit on another human being and Ain Lo Chelek Lolam Haba to one who does so
5. It is Assur to call another Jew a “Nazi” and Ail Lo Chelek Lolam Haba to one who does so
6. It is Assur to sing the Neturei Karta Song
7. It is Assur to assault or harrass another human being
please verify your facts by Rav Elyashuv or any rov willing to write a teshuvah first

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:12 PM bp Says:

The fact that the modern orthodox is not willing to respect the orthodox tradition is not even spoken about. Only the Chareidim ??????????? Shame on you. בדרך התורה נלך באש ובמים even it does not sound politicaly correct.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:12 PM mo lakewood Says:

To. #11 the other side of the story that Rabbi Horowitz doesn't want you to talk about is! That this whole ordeal is not at all anymore about spitting on school children (and on that Yes 99% agrees that is not allowed) ITS ABOUT THE SIGNS!!!! And YES 99% agrees that it should stay there...it was always there! Who is Mrs Clinton and Natanyuihi to have a Word in our Holy Tora and Holy Land This is what the fight is!! AND TO YOU Rabbi Horowitz!! with all due respect this Chanifa L'rshuim Aint gonna help you they Hate you anyway with your Beard and Payois!!! Rather don't twist away from what this fight is about and BE OF THE 99% EHRLICH YIDEN that wanna live with these signs Btzniot and Kedisha...Halvai we have it here in the US we would have less problems...you know what I'm talking about RABBI!!!

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:13 PM shambenee Says:

Reply to #2  
Rabbi Horowitz you are wrong Says:

I am sorry Rabbi Horowoitz, you mean well and do much good but you are wrong and have been wrong on this issue before. It is first and foremost the responsibility of the RABBINIC LEADERSHIP to forcefully and explicitly denounce this Colossal Chilul Hashem. It is not enough for them to denounce it because it is a chilul Hashem, but to denounce it because the whole hashkafa of this group that you refer to as the “one percent” is just as treif as eating Chazir and their approach to Yiddishkeit is against Halacha on all levels. The Rabbonim and specifically the Gedolim and we all know who they are, need to come out and say meforash that
1. There is no issur to sit next to a woman on a bus
2. It is Assur to ask women to move to the back of the bus
3. It is Assur to put up signs asking women to only walk on certain sides of a street
4. It is Assur to spit on another human being and Ain Lo Chelek Lolam Haba to one who does so
5. It is Assur to call another Jew a “Nazi” and Ail Lo Chelek Lolam Haba to one who does so
6. It is Assur to sing the Neturei Karta Song
7. It is Assur to assault or harrass another human being

Are all these issurim and heteirim that you mention based on halucha? If yes perhaps you can back it up with some sources so we can look it up.
If they are not halucha than you are entitled to your opinion but don't call it issur or heter because those have to be backed up by the shilchan urech.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:13 PM torahis1 Says:

once again - a breath of fresh air from R' Horowitz...

and where are the Gedoylim, Askonim and the moderate Chareidim?
I only hear the crickets...

My Chanukah wish is that even though the above mentioned people are very busy with important and overriding communal crises like banning: shaitels, concerts, internet, blogs, strawberries, fish, strollers, Shwekey, and promoting/defending discrimation vs. Sefardim in Emmanuel, that they would find some time to come and join in this protest.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:14 PM Matys Says:

It is wrong to harass any human being by any act or did. It is even more wrong when harassment comes from the individuals whom by their appearance you would expect higher standards of morality. There can be more wrongs than this on the side of the Haredi community of Beit Shemesh. However to it is disgraceful to use recent events as another opportunity to bash haredim, to joint modern misyavnim in persecution of people who, I believe, in its majority do not support despicable behavior of these misguided individuals who are spiting on anybody or harassing people otherwise.
But somehow my impression is that there are people who are quick to condemn only one sector of klal Yisroel at any given occasion.
I am waiting for Rabbi Horowitz to denounce religious settlers, religious members of knesset, and all other people using Torah for their own political or other agenda bringing not less of Hilul Hashem than blew out of proportion events in Beit Shemesh.
I was almost ready to send the email to the institutions listed in the open ad but by doing it I would admit that thousand of haredi residents of Beit Shemesh are violent people looking to harass others and this is not true. Privately

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:14 PM Anonymous Says:

Rabbi Horowitz,Stop trying to put the onus on the masses. You know very well that if the Gedolim would come out against this hooliganism,it would stop. You have consistantly refused to countanence criticism of the Gedolim and the Rabbinic Leadership on other issues namely the molestation issue. The truth be told though is that the silence of the Rabbinic Leadership on the abuse issue, and on the gender segregation issue, and on the Beit Shemesh issue is loud and clear and makes them guilty and complicit. There is no dancing around it any more.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:16 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #2  
Rabbi Horowitz you are wrong Says:

I am sorry Rabbi Horowoitz, you mean well and do much good but you are wrong and have been wrong on this issue before. It is first and foremost the responsibility of the RABBINIC LEADERSHIP to forcefully and explicitly denounce this Colossal Chilul Hashem. It is not enough for them to denounce it because it is a chilul Hashem, but to denounce it because the whole hashkafa of this group that you refer to as the “one percent” is just as treif as eating Chazir and their approach to Yiddishkeit is against Halacha on all levels. The Rabbonim and specifically the Gedolim and we all know who they are, need to come out and say meforash that
1. There is no issur to sit next to a woman on a bus
2. It is Assur to ask women to move to the back of the bus
3. It is Assur to put up signs asking women to only walk on certain sides of a street
4. It is Assur to spit on another human being and Ain Lo Chelek Lolam Haba to one who does so
5. It is Assur to call another Jew a “Nazi” and Ail Lo Chelek Lolam Haba to one who does so
6. It is Assur to sing the Neturei Karta Song
7. It is Assur to assault or harrass another human being

"3. It is Assur to put up signs asking women to only walk on certain sides of a street"
Where'd you pick up that one? Orthodox Jews have always practiced separation of genders. A community has a right to set its own rules for accepted public conduct. A bachor proved this point well, when chumatz was sold on pesach in "public" in a store; he took off all his clothes and was arrested for indecent behavior in "public", disproving the stores claim that inside the store is not considered selling chametz in public.

"1. There is no issur to sit next to a woman on a bus"
It is certainly forbidden to sit next to someone else's wife on the bus. What planet are you from?

"2. It is Assur to ask women to move to the back of the bus"
If it is done politely and respectfully, there is no issur in making such a request. All the gedolim agree that the proper practice is that women should sit in the back such that the men won't be facing them for the length of the trip. If the buses were designed with the seats facing backwards, the rabbonim would order the men to the back. However, the rabbonem have been clear, that the policy is only a recommendation, and not to be imposed.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:16 PM shambenee Says:

Reply to #11  
shvigger Says:

That the Rabbinic leadership does NOT denounce what Horowitz deems offensive is proof to me that there's another side to the equation that the Israeli media is not reporting.

I sure hope that Rabbi Horowitz contacted the local rabbinic leadership in Bet Shemesh to hear all sides of this story before he wrote that op-ed and didn't just rely on the media for his information. I just wonder why he didn't quote them in his article.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:22 PM Raven Says:

signed in support of this article and r. Horowitz; in abhorrence of violence that is against the way of Torah
R. Wood
Ashland, Oregon, USA

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:31 PM #2 Says:

They are not my "moral beliefs", they are Halacha and Torah that every Bar Bay Rav should know. Go to Yeshiva and learn a little and you will see that.
For starters.......
1. Kol Hamalbin Pnei Chavero Ain Lo chelek L'olam Haba
2. Onaas Devarim
3. Lo sisna es Achicha
4. Lo saamod Al dam Re'acha
I might add that if your Rov does not agree with the above, get yourself a new Rov.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:37 PM kalman1 Says:

Reply to #14  
Yonason_Herschlag Says:

The 1% is getting all the media attention due to the passiveness of the 99%.

Not true! The media attention is soley due to the fact that the media is a charedi bashing machine.

The media know well that the majority of charedim are appalled by dispicable actions such as an adult "man" spitting on a seven year old school girl, but they are not interested in presenting the true picture.

The media also knows well, that for every child spit on by a charedi man, 1000 girls are raped by non-charedim in Israel. But hey, who cares; not the media, nor the police.

your argument is silly. The existence of rape has little bearing on the argument. Sex crimes exist in all societies and the Israeli government and people do their best to proscute those henious villains, but that has no bearing on this case. Of course there is media bias and rampant anti-chareidizm but that is just playing the victim card. If you believe what these chareidim are doing is wrong and there is a consensus by the other 99% of chareidim (which I doubt), then where are they. They have a responsibilty to make themselves heard. Personally, I don't know what is happening so I will not allow my emotions to pick a side even if 1 chareidi alledgedly did something despicable, but your beliefs have to fit in some logical framework.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:39 PM bk Says:

Rabbi Horowitz,
Thank you very much for standing up for true Torah values once again. I just sent my letters, as you suggested. I am also ready to sign a collective petition if you start one.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:42 PM unbelvbl Says:

Why is everyone becoming so excited over what's happening in Israel when this is going every week Shabbos, in Boro Park, and in Williamsburg, when zealots Harass men women and children because they carry Shabbos with an Eiruv that is not to their liking? These so called zealots have no problem shaming other people in public, a sin that nullifies ones Oilem Haba, according to Chaza"l, and their Rabonim encourage, and support them. Why don't we fix our own communities here in the USA before we wage war on the zealots in Israel.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:43 PM reblen Says:

Kudos to Rabbi Horowitz, it is a wonderful idea, and we should try to get everyone to participate.

But #2 is also correct. The Haeidi leadership has NOT spoken out forcefully against this.

I wrote about this two years ago, and vosizneias was kind enough to post it.
http://www.vosizneias.com/36217/2009/08/05/new-york-time-for-charedim-to-stand-up-to-hooliganism-in-yerushalayim/

Unfortunately, not much has changed - it has only gotten worse.

I repeat the call -- the Rabbonim of the Chareidi world must get behind the effort to stop this massive and terrible chillul Hashem -- not just those of us , who by definition as people who use the internet, are posul in their eyes.

Rabbi Yehuda L Oppenheimer

PS - It is interesting to me that some of the same people who were defending the terrible actions of these hooligans then are still defending them here. Sad, but true.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:50 PM wb Says:

Can any! Please explain me!
why does the Israeli government have to get involved from the 1st place, if there is still a small percentage of yiden who want to abide by the torah, and have tzenius in their city, why bodder them, everything would’ve been just fine if the govt. would look the other side and let them live peacefully and quiet and if their wife’s agree to walk on 1 side which was designated to them good for them, and end of story,
This whole commotion going on now could’ve been avoided,
Its only and only the govt's fold.
They should be happy that Israel still has some observing torah jews!!!

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:53 PM Robert Says:

these issues are complex and emotional
bottom line in my opinion is we need mutual respect between all religious groups (chasid, mod orthodox and charedim) ashkenaz and sepharad
and all of israel religious and secular
with unity will come strength and the messiah
all people involved need to ratchet down the emotions and rhetoric and find common respect ( kavod habriot).

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:53 PM kalman2 Says:

Reply to #23  
mo lakewood Says:

To. #11 the other side of the story that Rabbi Horowitz doesn't want you to talk about is! That this whole ordeal is not at all anymore about spitting on school children (and on that Yes 99% agrees that is not allowed) ITS ABOUT THE SIGNS!!!! And YES 99% agrees that it should stay there...it was always there! Who is Mrs Clinton and Natanyuihi to have a Word in our Holy Tora and Holy Land This is what the fight is!! AND TO YOU Rabbi Horowitz!! with all due respect this Chanifa L'rshuim Aint gonna help you they Hate you anyway with your Beard and Payois!!! Rather don't twist away from what this fight is about and BE OF THE 99% EHRLICH YIDEN that wanna live with these signs Btzniot and Kedisha...Halvai we have it here in the US we would have less problems...you know what I'm talking about RABBI!!!

Finally someone who gets it. I don't agree with all your views about segregation. I think it is the Hungariazation of judaism. This overfrumness only existed in pre-war Hungary. But, you are right, people are missing the big picture. It all started when Hillary ym's condemned the bus segregation, which I believe is not neccessary, but is legitamate. The leftists than used their minions to fan those flames. They then found some alledged dumb chareidi radicals going about their daily moronic doings and are using that to create more anti-charedism. The chareidi public has been checkmated into the situation they are in now. The hatred I see spewing here just plays into the anti-chareidi media game.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:55 PM Craig Brenner, M.D. Says:

This is going to blow up and if they start an occupy movement, the world will see the ignorance and arrogance of this "1%" that lives in a jewish state that wants to destroy the community and presence of freedom loving Israeli Citizens. I say give it a try. It may be the medicine we need.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 12:56 PM shambenee Says:

Reply to #15  
busy Says:

#11 what "other side" can there possibly be?? That little girls DESERVE to be harassed?? Is there "another side" to the World Trade Center bombing?

I can think of one possible other side and that is that the little girl wasn't harassed, all we know of this story is what the media is telling us and we all know how reliable they are, but if you speak to local rabunim you might get a whole different picture of what is going on there.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 01:04 PM CommonSense Says:

Reply to #14  
Yonason_Herschlag Says:

The 1% is getting all the media attention due to the passiveness of the 99%.

Not true! The media attention is soley due to the fact that the media is a charedi bashing machine.

The media know well that the majority of charedim are appalled by dispicable actions such as an adult "man" spitting on a seven year old school girl, but they are not interested in presenting the true picture.

The media also knows well, that for every child spit on by a charedi man, 1000 girls are raped by non-charedim in Israel. But hey, who cares; not the media, nor the police.

Ridiculous reasoning.

Should the media not report a murder because most people do not condone it??

We're the ones creating the story here...don't blame the reporting.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 01:07 PM The_Rat Says:

Regarding the sources requested by several posters, the Chief Rabbinate of Israel (R' Yonah Metzger and R' Shlomo Amar), as well as Holon Sheif Rabbi R' Avraham Yosef have all publicly addressed the bus issue. One may disagree with them, but that's opinion, not black and white halacha. One may sit in a mixed bus. Be machmir if you like, but you may not inflict your chumra on others in a public setting.

Regarding some of the other subjects, it is clear that one must be very careful not to embarrass others in public. Clearly this is being violated. Additionally, the basis for the embarrassment does not have its roots in halacha, merely in chumra. Chumra is not halacha, it is opinion.

There is no logical reasoning that can support the actions of the sikrikim. In religious zeal, one can follow Shimon or Levi. Levi learned the place of zeal, Shimon did not. It's clear that those who spit at modestly dressed children and call them whores are Bnei Shimon. They just don't get it. If you choose to support that kind of activity, neither do you.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 01:12 PM crazykanoiy Says:

Just look at the smile of the kid in the picture and you will see all that is wrong with chinuch today.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 01:14 PM #2 Says:

Reply to #21  
Original Orthodox Says:

With all respect to Rabbi Horowitz You are wrong!
Orthodox Jews are a community that have stuck to torah principles and not modernized. You are either modern or orthodox.
As for us we have been guided by our Torah Rabonim and not by commentators and the media.
A real kidush hashem is when Jews stick to the Isur of Velo Yieyeh Becho Ervas Dovor and that is what the torah calls Venikdashti Besoch Benei Yisroel and Chilul Hashem is to keep quiet on Peritzus.
I have personally asked my old Non-Kanoi Rebe for the Torah opinion about it and he told me that this is called a kidush hashem.
As for the Issurim mentioned by #2
1. There is no issur to sit next to a woman on a bus
2. It is Assur to ask women to move to the back of the bus
3. It is Assur to put up signs asking women to only walk on certain sides of a street
4. It is Assur to spit on another human being and Ain Lo Chelek Lolam Haba to one who does so
5. It is Assur to call another Jew a “Nazi” and Ail Lo Chelek Lolam Haba to one who does so
6. It is Assur to sing the Neturei Karta Song
7. It is Assur to assault or harrass another human being
please verify your facts by Rav Elyashuv or any rov willing to write a teshuvah first

As is well known, one does not need a Teshuva written by a Poseik, to pasken that what is already Poskened on in the Shulchan Aruch, is actually the Halacha. I will therefore enlighten you and reiterate what I mentioned in a previous post which so far has not been posted by VIN.
1.Anyone who embarrases someone else or to be more precise Col Hamalbin Pnei Chavero B'rabim AIn Lo chelek L'olam Habo. Most of the Poskim actually consider this a Yaharog Val Yaavor on Par with Retzicha.
2. Lo Sono - the prohibition of Onaas Devarim
3. Lo Sisna - the prohibition of hating another Jew
Etc. Etc. Etc
If you need a Psak from Rav Elyashiv that this is so, then you need not to have your head examined, but you need to go to the head store and buy yourself a new head and flush the old one down a drain.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 01:18 PM lostinCA Says:

Reply to #2  
Rabbi Horowitz you are wrong Says:

I am sorry Rabbi Horowoitz, you mean well and do much good but you are wrong and have been wrong on this issue before. It is first and foremost the responsibility of the RABBINIC LEADERSHIP to forcefully and explicitly denounce this Colossal Chilul Hashem. It is not enough for them to denounce it because it is a chilul Hashem, but to denounce it because the whole hashkafa of this group that you refer to as the “one percent” is just as treif as eating Chazir and their approach to Yiddishkeit is against Halacha on all levels. The Rabbonim and specifically the Gedolim and we all know who they are, need to come out and say meforash that
1. There is no issur to sit next to a woman on a bus
2. It is Assur to ask women to move to the back of the bus
3. It is Assur to put up signs asking women to only walk on certain sides of a street
4. It is Assur to spit on another human being and Ain Lo Chelek Lolam Haba to one who does so
5. It is Assur to call another Jew a “Nazi” and Ail Lo Chelek Lolam Haba to one who does so
6. It is Assur to sing the Neturei Karta Song
7. It is Assur to assault or harrass another human being

You hit the nail on the head.
All these people claim to follow some rov, rebbe, godol, poisek. they have a choiv kodosh to come out clearly against these actions. And whether your list is halachically correct is irrelevant. the main thing is #4, and #5 should be revolting especially to any ashkenazi who lost relatives in the holocaust.
If they can't strongly and clearly denounce these actions, they should retire immediately. We can't have leaders who are controlled by fanatics, or we are all doomed.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 01:27 PM Shaul in Monsey Says:

Reply to #2  
Rabbi Horowitz you are wrong Says:

I am sorry Rabbi Horowoitz, you mean well and do much good but you are wrong and have been wrong on this issue before. It is first and foremost the responsibility of the RABBINIC LEADERSHIP to forcefully and explicitly denounce this Colossal Chilul Hashem. It is not enough for them to denounce it because it is a chilul Hashem, but to denounce it because the whole hashkafa of this group that you refer to as the “one percent” is just as treif as eating Chazir and their approach to Yiddishkeit is against Halacha on all levels. The Rabbonim and specifically the Gedolim and we all know who they are, need to come out and say meforash that
1. There is no issur to sit next to a woman on a bus
2. It is Assur to ask women to move to the back of the bus
3. It is Assur to put up signs asking women to only walk on certain sides of a street
4. It is Assur to spit on another human being and Ain Lo Chelek Lolam Haba to one who does so
5. It is Assur to call another Jew a “Nazi” and Ail Lo Chelek Lolam Haba to one who does so
6. It is Assur to sing the Neturei Karta Song
7. It is Assur to assault or harrass another human being

Your comments don't make Rabbi Horowitz's editorial wrong in any sense. Rabbi Horowitz is doing what we call leading by example. He can't make anyone else do anything the other person doesn't want to do of their own volition. If anything, your name calling directed at Rabbi Horowitz is no less offensive than the RBS shgotzim's.

In my opinion, these idol worshipping former yiddin have abandoned the Torah way of life. They are far less desirable to have in the tribe than the car driving lobster eating on shabbos Jews. Anyone involved in this harrasment should be shunned, no shidduchim should be made with their spawn, they should not be counted in minyonim, they should not be recognized as Jews, because they are not Jews.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 01:35 PM ccccc Says:

What never ceases to amaze me is how all these that are so horrified by the hatred being portrayed by a small group of people never hide their hatred to the chassidim in general, by labeling and stereotyping a community or communities for things they never did nor stand behind. Unfortunately when people have a guilty concious on something they do wrong the only way to feel less guilty is by knocking those that are better then them in that aspect. Though I strongly condemn the actions taken by the radicals I did not see 1 word of condemnation by the others for working so hard on painting a dirty picture on all of the chassidim. Not one word to condemn the media of working so hard to make this into a mockery of frum jews when we all know including the isrealy media that it's not frum righteous jews that stand behind it. Lastly since when does the isrealy government care so much for the well being of the frum women that they show so much concern for women who have to sit in back of the bus when the frum women are clearly ok with it? Aren't they doing it just to bring negative attention to this community? So on what side do you see more hate now??

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 01:37 PM Greg83 Says:

I find the whole situation with the school & behavior of Charadi hooligans to be very disturbing. It’s shocking to me that most of the Charadi leadership is passive/approving in was face such a clear Chillul Hashem by so called “Zealots”. How does it make any sense to them to congregate in area were they claim there is “pritzus”? Should they be walking blocks away from the area. The issue with side walk / buses is a little bit different, but there is no basis for this Jewish halacha & tradition. It’s issur to both subtract and add to the Torah.
Another thing that is shocking is that some people are trying to find excuses for "Zealot"'s behavior. To #12 & # 14, the things you have mentioned may be true, but do not worry about the secular / media, it’s Chillul Hashem by these mamzerim that all of us should be worrying about and unqualifiedly condemning.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 01:39 PM Anonymous Says:

An important fact to know, the ultra frum yidden and the seculars in Beth Shemesh live in different ends of town, those posters etc. are localized in the frum area only!

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 01:40 PM sechelyoshor Says:

Sadly, the responses defending the machmirim in Beit Shemesh prove the point that this is only going to get worse. Will we soon gender segregation on 13th Ave. too?
20 years ago, you would visit Meah Shearim and see how they lived. I would visit and see how a group of machmirim chose to live. I was cool with that. Hey, it was their turf. It was kinda like visiting Amishtown. Then they moved out for lack of space and now want to conquer other zones. It's no longer cool.

It's hard for our rabbonim to speak out against chumros that are very engrained in certain kehillos. But they better come up with something fast. Should we have separate cities for each gender???

I really doubt they had gender separation in the streets of Yerushalyim at the time of the Mikdosh. My proof is that they only did so in the Mikdosh itself, and even that was only after a takana to do so but not the way it was originally.

We need our leaders to be screaming from the rooftops, not just against violence, but against the ruach of intolerance that parts of our kehilla have been breeding.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 01:44 PM Ben_Kol Says:

Reply to #2  
Rabbi Horowitz you are wrong Says:

I am sorry Rabbi Horowoitz, you mean well and do much good but you are wrong and have been wrong on this issue before. It is first and foremost the responsibility of the RABBINIC LEADERSHIP to forcefully and explicitly denounce this Colossal Chilul Hashem. It is not enough for them to denounce it because it is a chilul Hashem, but to denounce it because the whole hashkafa of this group that you refer to as the “one percent” is just as treif as eating Chazir and their approach to Yiddishkeit is against Halacha on all levels. The Rabbonim and specifically the Gedolim and we all know who they are, need to come out and say meforash that
1. There is no issur to sit next to a woman on a bus
2. It is Assur to ask women to move to the back of the bus
3. It is Assur to put up signs asking women to only walk on certain sides of a street
4. It is Assur to spit on another human being and Ain Lo Chelek Lolam Haba to one who does so
5. It is Assur to call another Jew a “Nazi” and Ail Lo Chelek Lolam Haba to one who does so
6. It is Assur to sing the Neturei Karta Song
7. It is Assur to assault or harrass another human being

Some posters are asking for the sources for these laws. As far as I know, they are all absolutely true. The heiter to sit next to a woman on a bus was stated by R' Morshe Feinstein. The others fall under one or more of several issurim d'Oraisa (Biblical prohibitions), such as not embarassing someone in public, not descrating the name of G-d, not hating, not causing others to hate (lifnei iver), not causing distress to widows and orphans, etc. etc. I wish I had time to track down all the specific sources. Start with Rambam Hilchos. Yesodei Hatora 5:11.

As far as the Neturei Karta song is concerned, I can't say because I don't know the words. But I assume that it espouses the hate-filled anti-Israel views of the Neturei Karta, which are opposed by the vast majority of Rabbonim and cause great distress to most religous Jews. As such, even believing in these views is forbidden certainly singing them in the form of a song.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 01:45 PM Yonason_Herschlag Says:

Reply to #32  
kalman1 Says:

your argument is silly. The existence of rape has little bearing on the argument. Sex crimes exist in all societies and the Israeli government and people do their best to proscute those henious villains, but that has no bearing on this case. Of course there is media bias and rampant anti-chareidizm but that is just playing the victim card. If you believe what these chareidim are doing is wrong and there is a consensus by the other 99% of chareidim (which I doubt), then where are they. They have a responsibilty to make themselves heard. Personally, I don't know what is happening so I will not allow my emotions to pick a side even if 1 chareidi alledgedly did something despicable, but your beliefs have to fit in some logical framework.

"They have a responsibilty to make themselves heard"
Boker Tov. It's illegal for the charedim to "make themselves heard". The radio and television waves in Israel are off limits to charedim. Arabs are allowed to broadcast, but charedim are not.

It is a sin to "doubt" that the vast majority of charedim are opposed to grown "men" spitting on little school girls. It is a transgression of judging one's fellow to the side of merit. It is a greater sin to post such an insinuation in a public internet forum of loshan hora and motzei shem ra against the bulk of the charedi population.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 01:46 PM YJay1 Says:

Thank you Rabbi Horowitz, I just sent a letter to the three addresses you posted. Could someone post the e-mail addresses of other major newspapers so that we can spread the word?

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 01:46 PM Velvel Says:

Down with the protestors!

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 01:50 PM kalman1 Says:

Reply to #44  
#2 Says:

As is well known, one does not need a Teshuva written by a Poseik, to pasken that what is already Poskened on in the Shulchan Aruch, is actually the Halacha. I will therefore enlighten you and reiterate what I mentioned in a previous post which so far has not been posted by VIN.
1.Anyone who embarrases someone else or to be more precise Col Hamalbin Pnei Chavero B'rabim AIn Lo chelek L'olam Habo. Most of the Poskim actually consider this a Yaharog Val Yaavor on Par with Retzicha.
2. Lo Sono - the prohibition of Onaas Devarim
3. Lo Sisna - the prohibition of hating another Jew
Etc. Etc. Etc
If you need a Psak from Rav Elyashiv that this is so, then you need not to have your head examined, but you need to go to the head store and buy yourself a new head and flush the old one down a drain.

You said
"2. It is Assur to ask women to move to the back of the bus
3. It is Assur to put up signs asking women to only walk on certain sides of a street
6. It is Assur to sing the Neturei Karta Song
You may disagree with those actions but why are they assur? On a separate note I think you are zealosly falsifying the truth when you say "most" poskim believe that it is Yeharog Veal Yaavor, and no one says it is on par with retzicha just possibly an abizrahu deritzichz. Honestly, do you think any rov would be machmir and tell you to get yourself killed not to embarrass another Jew. Yes it is a legitamate halachik viewpoint, but don't turn it into demagoguery.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 01:53 PM keepsmiling Says:

very important note in the letter and the news this isnt beit shemesh it is a few people!!!! I live a few minute walk from that are and have no idea what is going on there until i look here on line. it is all a huge mountain out of a mole ill to get votes nfor elections!!!!!!!!!

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 01:58 PM Ben_Kol Says:

contd.
See the list of Biblical prohibitions in the pesichah to Sefer Chafetz Chayim. Many of them apply here.
There is also another major (Rabbinic) law that is relevant: the obligation to observe the laws of the land (dina demalchusa dina), which according to most Poskim appies in Eretz Yisrael as well.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 02:11 PM JudyG Says:

I will post the link to this article on Facebook where I did NOT post the link to the awful video of poor little Na'ama but just sent it to Jewish friends. I wonder if these thugs realize (or care) that their behavior is not only tormenting innocent children, but offering fodder for anti-Semites.

Aryeh Deri also went on Israeli TV and said much the same thing. This is outright chillul HaShem, and those who indulge in such behavior - ein lahem chelek ba'olam haba. Right now, we are left to take care of the situation "ba'olam hazeh."

It's unfortunately always the case that thugs, hoodlums and terrorists make headlines and have an impact far beyond what their numbers would seem to justify. Decent people have to react en masse to counteract such actions, and this forum is one way of facilitating this.

Todah.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 02:13 PM jsjcbs Says:

How come no one is following the instructions:

We ask that you show public support for this effort by posting your name and the city where you live as a comment on the bottom of this thread so that members of our community and the media at large can see that this is a broad-based effort.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 02:13 PM Crazykanoiy Says:

Dont email Ha'aretz! Email the Agudah and the Chavrei Knesset of Degel Hatorah.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 02:15 PM empowered Says:

I couldn't sleep last night after watching the videos of these animals. Thank you R' Horowitz for giving us the impetus to write to the media.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 02:20 PM Trolly_McTrollerston Says:

Reply to #38  
kalman2 Says:

Finally someone who gets it. I don't agree with all your views about segregation. I think it is the Hungariazation of judaism. This overfrumness only existed in pre-war Hungary. But, you are right, people are missing the big picture. It all started when Hillary ym's condemned the bus segregation, which I believe is not neccessary, but is legitamate. The leftists than used their minions to fan those flames. They then found some alledged dumb chareidi radicals going about their daily moronic doings and are using that to create more anti-charedism. The chareidi public has been checkmated into the situation they are in now. The hatred I see spewing here just plays into the anti-chareidi media game.

close, its more than the Hungariazation of Judaism its the mixing in of chasidish ideals into litvish cultures but I digress...

I think YOU are missing the big picture.
1) the charedi media is just as complicit in the reporting of these events (just look to this and similar sites)
2) the real bigger picture is the lack of leadership and the lack of noise by the mainstream charedim against these actions (which is somewhat reminiscent of all the times that the mainstream media points to the general muslim world when they don't condemn extremists.)
3) If we got the same level of response that we get when say, a hospital digs up a couple of unidentified and likely non-Jewish bones ---i.e., mass protests, garbage cans burning and pashkevelim ad ain sof, then this would have all gone away pretty quickly... but the charedim have brought it upon themselves
3b) these nutcases in beit shemesh, meah shearim and batei varsaw are like kids, they see that they can get away with their actions, so they keep upping the ante - the gedolim or the pashkevilim printers should have stepped in months ago. They now have to suffer the consequences of their inaction...

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 02:29 PM Anonymous Says:

I'm cancelling my family's trip next week to Israel. Was taking the kids and grandkids, but feel it's not safe now. Too bad.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 02:32 PM ProudMO Says:

Rabbi Horowitz is from one of the yechidei segulah of our generation. He IS daas torah and anyone saying we need to listen to daas torah should listen to him. One of the few people who actually get what is going on. Kol Hakavod for once again being one of the few leaders to speak up on an important issue when the rest of the so called gedolim continue to sit with their heads in the sand making proclamations no one listens to yelling about issues they continue to be ignored on.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 02:49 PM Yonason_Herschlag Says:

Reply to #48  
Greg83 Says:

I find the whole situation with the school & behavior of Charadi hooligans to be very disturbing. It’s shocking to me that most of the Charadi leadership is passive/approving in was face such a clear Chillul Hashem by so called “Zealots”. How does it make any sense to them to congregate in area were they claim there is “pritzus”? Should they be walking blocks away from the area. The issue with side walk / buses is a little bit different, but there is no basis for this Jewish halacha & tradition. It’s issur to both subtract and add to the Torah.
Another thing that is shocking is that some people are trying to find excuses for "Zealot"'s behavior. To #12 & # 14, the things you have mentioned may be true, but do not worry about the secular / media, it’s Chillul Hashem by these mamzerim that all of us should be worrying about and unqualifiedly condemning.

1. The term "charedi-hooligans" is in itself loshan hora. There is a group of Jews termed charedim, which means G-d fearing, as they are strict in their observance of halacha. To say that there are charedi hooligans defames the entire group. Rather there are hooligans dressed as charedim living within the charedi community.
2. It is a false assumption and motzie shem ra to post on the internet that charedi leadership is passive/approving of such hooliganism. Do you really think it would honor the charedi community for their leaders to make press anouncements that it it forbidden for adult men to spit on little girls???!!! Perhaps they should also make a press release that it is STRICTLY forbidden to chop up boys into pieces?

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 02:52 PM #44 Says:

Reply to #55  
kalman1 Says:

You said
"2. It is Assur to ask women to move to the back of the bus
3. It is Assur to put up signs asking women to only walk on certain sides of a street
6. It is Assur to sing the Neturei Karta Song
You may disagree with those actions but why are they assur? On a separate note I think you are zealosly falsifying the truth when you say "most" poskim believe that it is Yeharog Veal Yaavor, and no one says it is on par with retzicha just possibly an abizrahu deritzichz. Honestly, do you think any rov would be machmir and tell you to get yourself killed not to embarrass another Jew. Yes it is a legitamate halachik viewpoint, but don't turn it into demagoguery.

Take a look at the Rosh for starters. The rosh as in the rishon known as the Rosh.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 02:55 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #38  
kalman2 Says:

Finally someone who gets it. I don't agree with all your views about segregation. I think it is the Hungariazation of judaism. This overfrumness only existed in pre-war Hungary. But, you are right, people are missing the big picture. It all started when Hillary ym's condemned the bus segregation, which I believe is not neccessary, but is legitamate. The leftists than used their minions to fan those flames. They then found some alledged dumb chareidi radicals going about their daily moronic doings and are using that to create more anti-charedism. The chareidi public has been checkmated into the situation they are in now. The hatred I see spewing here just plays into the anti-chareidi media game.

This overfrumness only existed in pre-war Hungary.

So in Poland and Galicia they wre dancing together in discos? Maybe in the Litte. What absolute garbage.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 02:55 PM It is a mountain Says:

Reply to #56  
keepsmiling Says:

very important note in the letter and the news this isnt beit shemesh it is a few people!!!! I live a few minute walk from that are and have no idea what is going on there until i look here on line. it is all a huge mountain out of a mole ill to get votes nfor elections!!!!!!!!!

The worldwide mainstream media has picked it up and is reporting on it. It has become a Chilul Hashem of astronomical proportions.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 03:02 PM Eagle Says:

Reply to #8  
Nice Says:

Nice as far as it goes, but doesn't go nearly far enough. The hatred for modern orthodoxy among the Chareidim has long, deep roots, taught by its leadership, and this latest public outbreak of violence is only unique for capturing international media attention. The Associated Press article is the lead story on today's AOL. The proposed letter to various editors is pareve, in merely condemning "harassment and violence". The Chareidi violence against children is the product of a warped hashkafah which teaches hatred. It is also the source of child abuse and coverup. It is the Chareidi hashkafa which spits on children, the modern orthodox, and even Greek orthodox clerics minding their own business. When a Chareidi gadol gives a speech about shalom with the modern orthodox, only then will real change happen. In the meantime, I've checked out from that crowd, never to return. I have no stomach for sheker, and today I'm a fulfilled, happy modern orthodox Jew.

What exactly is "Modern Orthodoxy", I have heard about it but don't know what it means, please explain.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 03:10 PM Proud Non Agudist Says:

Take a look at how MK Eichler and Gafni are dealing with this. They are blaming the messenger, namely the media for spreading hatred of the Charedi world. Sorry folks but here in America we have a two word expression for that and it starts with a B and ends with T. Stop pretending this is a small group of extremists and pretending that there is not a real problem here. You did the same thing with the molestation issue.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 03:13 PM Phineas Says:

Reply to #67  
Anonymous Says:

This overfrumness only existed in pre-war Hungary.

So in Poland and Galicia they wre dancing together in discos? Maybe in the Litte. What absolute garbage.

It's actually true. My grandfather remembers clearly that men and womwn sat together at all simchas in Williamsburgh until the Hungarians came along.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 03:18 PM Original Orthodox Says:

Reply to #44  
#2 Says:

As is well known, one does not need a Teshuva written by a Poseik, to pasken that what is already Poskened on in the Shulchan Aruch, is actually the Halacha. I will therefore enlighten you and reiterate what I mentioned in a previous post which so far has not been posted by VIN.
1.Anyone who embarrases someone else or to be more precise Col Hamalbin Pnei Chavero B'rabim AIn Lo chelek L'olam Habo. Most of the Poskim actually consider this a Yaharog Val Yaavor on Par with Retzicha.
2. Lo Sono - the prohibition of Onaas Devarim
3. Lo Sisna - the prohibition of hating another Jew
Etc. Etc. Etc
If you need a Psak from Rav Elyashiv that this is so, then you need not to have your head examined, but you need to go to the head store and buy yourself a new head and flush the old one down a drain.

There are things that you are allowed to be Malbin for like speaking during shmonah esrah where says Goarim Bo and that is surely when it comes to kanoes the equivelent of Pinchas

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 03:30 PM Miss Swiss Says:

Reply to #43  
crazykanoiy Says:

Just look at the smile of the kid in the picture and you will see all that is wrong with chinuch today.

I agree with you absolutely. The look of pure joy on this child's face is disturbing. I was saddened to see this very picture published in a widely circulated Swiss newspaper.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 03:37 PM Ben_Kol Says:

The following comment appeared on the VIN article about the mayor of Beit Shemesh which appeared today at 10:26 a.m. I have no idea whether the story is true, but I've heard many like it.

The commenter writes:

"I recently traveld on an ElAl flight from New York to Israel, and HaGoan Reb. Berel Povarsky was on board, and seated next to a non frum women. I attempted to switch my seat to hers to enable the Rosh Hayeshiva to sit next to a frum man. The woman saw what was going on and she insisted she is not moving "no way". The Rosh Hayeshiva saw that she was not willing to budge; he told me, Please don't make a scene as not to hurt her feelings. I met the Rosh hyeshiva at a later time and he thanked me for not hurting her. So let all these great fanatics read this story and learn from a Talmud chuchem how to act in public."

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 03:43 PM YJay1 Says:

Reply to #63  
Anonymous Says:

I'm cancelling my family's trip next week to Israel. Was taking the kids and grandkids, but feel it's not safe now. Too bad.

I hope you are joking. Do you really think that because there are some troublemakers in Beit Shemesh, the whole country is on fire? Who sold you that nonsense? Ynet? NYT? As an American who currently lives in Israel, I can tell you that the streets here are just as safe as in America.

You're all invited to come to Israel, and if you really made the reservations, don't cancel them - Bruchim Habo'aim!

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 04:00 PM #44 Says:

Reply to #72  
Original Orthodox Says:

There are things that you are allowed to be Malbin for like speaking during shmonah esrah where says Goarim Bo and that is surely when it comes to kanoes the equivelent of Pinchas

So you are saying we have a situation here like Zimri being Boal an Aramis in public??? You may be original Orthodox but it is not Jewish Orthodox, maybe Greek Orthodox.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 04:11 PM shabos Says:

Reply to #34  
unbelvbl Says:

Why is everyone becoming so excited over what's happening in Israel when this is going every week Shabbos, in Boro Park, and in Williamsburg, when zealots Harass men women and children because they carry Shabbos with an Eiruv that is not to their liking? These so called zealots have no problem shaming other people in public, a sin that nullifies ones Oilem Haba, according to Chaza"l, and their Rabonim encourage, and support them. Why don't we fix our own communities here in the USA before we wage war on the zealots in Israel.

zealots are the ones that are מחלל שבת in english "disgrace the shabos" by carrying. they are the ones that shaming shabos.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 04:12 PM Nice Says:

Reply to #69  
Eagle Says:

What exactly is "Modern Orthodoxy", I have heard about it but don't know what it means, please explain.

Mr. Eagle, your subtle put down of modern orthodoxy is inappropriate, your point being that modern orthodoxy is so small and inconsequential, it has mostly escaped your notice. Even if you are being truthful, this comment section is not large enough to teach you about Torah Im Derech Eretz, Torah U'Maddah, Religious Zionism, and everything else that entails modern orthodoxy. If Chareidi hashkafa is to be fixed, it has to change, by rooting out the hatred, and that can start right here, in Beit Shemesh, or anywhere else. The modern orthodox attend the shiurim of the Chareidi rabbis, but not vice-versa. The status quo of spitting, rock throwing, dumpster burning, and beatings has got to start ending somewhere.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 04:14 PM Greg83 Says:

Reply to #65  
Yonason_Herschlag Says:

1. The term "charedi-hooligans" is in itself loshan hora. There is a group of Jews termed charedim, which means G-d fearing, as they are strict in their observance of halacha. To say that there are charedi hooligans defames the entire group. Rather there are hooligans dressed as charedim living within the charedi community.
2. It is a false assumption and motzie shem ra to post on the internet that charedi leadership is passive/approving of such hooliganism. Do you really think it would honor the charedi community for their leaders to make press anouncements that it it forbidden for adult men to spit on little girls???!!! Perhaps they should also make a press release that it is STRICTLY forbidden to chop up boys into pieces?

1. I was not saying that ALL Charedi are hooligans, which would indeed be defaming the entire group. But I did not hear that people involve in attacks against little girls were put in herem, so they Charedi hooligans. If they were thrown out of the community, then it would be appropriate to call them "hooligans dressed as charedim ."
2. It’s exactly the problem, it’s not Gadolim honor , it’s TORAH’s honor that we should be worried about. I do not see any connection with the sad story of what happened to Leiby Kletzky. In the case in hand, we have a situation where a group of "frum" people consistently & openly commit disgraceful acts on day to day basis. The topic of reporting crimes to secular authority is the whole area where a lot could be said, but we should probably leave it out of this discussion.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 04:17 PM YJay1 Says:

Reply to #71  
Phineas Says:

It's actually true. My grandfather remembers clearly that men and womwn sat together at all simchas in Williamsburgh until the Hungarians came along.

And my Bubbe remembers when most of the Yidden in America worked on Shabbos before there was a huge influx of Charedi Jews. What a shame that they came along, had they not come we would be able to continue the trend of Yidden in America lowering their observance level generation after generation - right?

Do you think that your zeide's zeide who lived in Europe would have attended a simcha with a few hundred couples who were sitting mixed? I highly doubt it.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 04:19 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #63  
Anonymous Says:

I'm cancelling my family's trip next week to Israel. Was taking the kids and grandkids, but feel it's not safe now. Too bad.

i dont see why i live very close by and if not for this news sight wouldnt know what is going on. Ask a rav you will see he will say it is safe. Noone was killed or injured chas vesholem so calm down it is all to gain seats for elections!!!

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 04:30 PM noahz6 Says:

its going to get much worse before it gets better

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 04:31 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #80  
YJay1 Says:

And my Bubbe remembers when most of the Yidden in America worked on Shabbos before there was a huge influx of Charedi Jews. What a shame that they came along, had they not come we would be able to continue the trend of Yidden in America lowering their observance level generation after generation - right?

Do you think that your zeide's zeide who lived in Europe would have attended a simcha with a few hundred couples who were sitting mixed? I highly doubt it.

Our grandparents were more normal than these crazy fanatics. Yes, they had mixed seating weddings, and there was nothing wrong with it. You didn't have our community producing child butchers like Levy Aron in those years.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 04:31 PM Trolly_McTrollerston Says:

Reply to #80  
YJay1 Says:

And my Bubbe remembers when most of the Yidden in America worked on Shabbos before there was a huge influx of Charedi Jews. What a shame that they came along, had they not come we would be able to continue the trend of Yidden in America lowering their observance level generation after generation - right?

Do you think that your zeide's zeide who lived in Europe would have attended a simcha with a few hundred couples who were sitting mixed? I highly doubt it.

So I assume you want to go on record here and state unequivocally that say the Gedolim of the earlier generations like Rav Aharon Kotler, Rav Moshe Feinstein, Rav Yaakov Kamenitzky, and Rav Solevetchik never sat with their wives at any functions? I'm sure without too much work someone could pull out an old black and white photo to prove you wrong.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 04:38 PM Anonymous Says:

Why for heaven sake so busy fighting the chareidim (whether right or wrong) and protesting their actions whilst all of us -- and the author of this post -- are quiet when there is huge chillul shabbos, and other aveiros? Is it really so terrible that a few woman have to go back of the bus? Would you rather walk in a hareidi neighborhood or a secular neighborhood where there is all sorts of crime, and why? - because the chareidim are really peaceful, yerei hashem and Hashem's torah? And the reason the freier and the modern orthordox are making such a tumult about some minor incidents is because they want to bring down the chareidi way of life and Hashem's torah. I am not saying everything is ok, all I say is that (the same tumult demonstrating in the name of torah of course) should be done ten fold for all the great mitzvos being tread upon (incuding kol isha in a state sanctioned place) by the same freier & the State of Israel who protesting the frummer, and people who are holding on to the mesorah of torah and mitzos. And I say the same to R Horovitz where are you when mitzvos are torn down anywhere -- do you scream with the same passion as when you talk to the (terrible) chareidm

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 04:42 PM Phineas Says:

Reply to #80  
YJay1 Says:

And my Bubbe remembers when most of the Yidden in America worked on Shabbos before there was a huge influx of Charedi Jews. What a shame that they came along, had they not come we would be able to continue the trend of Yidden in America lowering their observance level generation after generation - right?

Do you think that your zeide's zeide who lived in Europe would have attended a simcha with a few hundred couples who were sitting mixed? I highly doubt it.

My zaide's zaide was a Radomsker dayan and yes, I believe he would have. Plenty of gedolim in Williamsburgh before the Hungarians came along. COmparing sitting at a mixed table to chilul Shabbos demonstrates how you epitomize the damaging trend taking place.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 04:48 PM garyone Says:

Why in 2011 is there "ONLY 1" Rabbi that has his head on his shoulders & is not busy with Strawberry Bugs, Water Bugs, Fish Wormos,Kosher Camaras,Bans.. Bans... Etc Etc..............
Where is everybody??????????????????????????

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 04:56 PM Anonymous Says:

For heaven sake this is a media installed demonstration against chareidim and what every toah and yiras shomayim person stands for. Its on Chanukah too -- and whom do you think are the misyavnim of today? Israeli leaders - leading the charge against frum Jews - are mechallel shabbos, and they should be the one's rebuking the chareidim in israel, and was anyone murdered or hurt and were the woman trampled on or even touched (they were sspat upon)? This is entriely a media circus wh, R Horovitz is contributing to.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 04:59 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #43  
crazykanoiy Says:

Just look at the smile of the kid in the picture and you will see all that is wrong with chinuch today.

Your comment is inappropriate. The child in the picture is clearly challenged or developmentally disabled. You should not use such a photo as an indictment of the entire system of chinuch for Chareidim in EY. Normal children from the Chareidi schools do not have such a sick smile when their parents or older siblings are engaged in such a heated and emotionally charged verbal battle.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 05:16 PM unbelvbl Says:

Reply to #77  
shabos Says:

zealots are the ones that are מחלל שבת in english "disgrace the shabos" by carrying. they are the ones that shaming shabos.

Reply to #77
You are a great example of the idiotic zealots we are talking about. Someones Rav says that the Eiruv is kosher and that he's allowed to carry, and you have the nerve to call them מחלל shabbos?!
I hope this uprising against people like you spreads to the heimisha neighborhoods in the US.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 05:18 PM Yonason_Herschlag Says:

Reply to #79  
Greg83 Says:

1. I was not saying that ALL Charedi are hooligans, which would indeed be defaming the entire group. But I did not hear that people involve in attacks against little girls were put in herem, so they Charedi hooligans. If they were thrown out of the community, then it would be appropriate to call them "hooligans dressed as charedim ."
2. It’s exactly the problem, it’s not Gadolim honor , it’s TORAH’s honor that we should be worried about. I do not see any connection with the sad story of what happened to Leiby Kletzky. In the case in hand, we have a situation where a group of "frum" people consistently & openly commit disgraceful acts on day to day basis. The topic of reporting crimes to secular authority is the whole area where a lot could be said, but we should probably leave it out of this discussion.

You're right that the community should put the hooligans in cherim. But the community leaders have their hands tied behind their backs in this medina. They don't have governmental authority, nor do they control the police, nor are they given the necessary funding to handle this and many other problems of hoodlims in the community. If the leaders would take on these hoodlims, there cars would be set on fire, and rocks would come through their windows, and the neither the police nor the courts would protect the rabbis, rather the courts would protect the hoodlims if the leaders did anything like taking the law into their own hands.

So the only recourse is to turn to the police. That is what the community rabbonem and leaders recomend when being attacked by hoodlims dressed as charedim. Since the courts and police control all the authority, the blame for these crimes needs to be put on them and not upon the charedi community or their leaders who are forbidden by the courts from implementing justice.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 05:29 PM maiven Says:

Reply to #18  
mosheh Says:

yes, that they are not totally against it. The rabbonim, if they are true leaders, should have every bachur in their yeshiva go out and civily protest against this madness. If they are true leaders, they should be giving shmuzin about how wrong it is and for the need to stand up against these animals. If they were true leaders, they would issue the kol koreh's they issue for all the small things they have been issued for. If they were true leaders they would boycott the hashgachas of the larger groups they associate with until THIER leaders came and did the same.
And as a side note, your wording of "...does not denounce what Horowitz deems offensive" shows what camp you are in.
R' Horowitz in one day most likely does more than your simple, lay mind can conceptualize and is certainly doing more than the "rabbonim" who remain silent.

since when those the godoil batorah has to lisen to a katon bedaas

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 05:50 PM bp1166 Says:

“As a Torah Jew, I am deeply distressed by the harassment and violence in Beit Shemesh – all of which is diametrically opposed to the teachings of our Holy Torah. Lest our silence be misconstrued as passive acceptance of this behavior, we condemn it in the strongest terms, as do the vast, overwhelming, majority of Torah Jews worldwide.”

joel rubin
boro park, brooklyn ny, usa

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 05:52 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #89  
Anonymous Says:

Your comment is inappropriate. The child in the picture is clearly challenged or developmentally disabled. You should not use such a photo as an indictment of the entire system of chinuch for Chareidim in EY. Normal children from the Chareidi schools do not have such a sick smile when their parents or older siblings are engaged in such a heated and emotionally charged verbal battle.

Actually the adults in the photo are the ones that are clearly challenged or developmentally disabled.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 05:55 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #69  
Eagle Says:

What exactly is "Modern Orthodoxy", I have heard about it but don't know what it means, please explain.

I will explain after you explain what exaclty Jewish zealotry is. I have heard about it but don't know what it means, please explain.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 06:03 PM MidwesternGuy Says:

Reply to #85  
Anonymous Says:

Why for heaven sake so busy fighting the chareidim (whether right or wrong) and protesting their actions whilst all of us -- and the author of this post -- are quiet when there is huge chillul shabbos, and other aveiros? Is it really so terrible that a few woman have to go back of the bus? Would you rather walk in a hareidi neighborhood or a secular neighborhood where there is all sorts of crime, and why? - because the chareidim are really peaceful, yerei hashem and Hashem's torah? And the reason the freier and the modern orthordox are making such a tumult about some minor incidents is because they want to bring down the chareidi way of life and Hashem's torah. I am not saying everything is ok, all I say is that (the same tumult demonstrating in the name of torah of course) should be done ten fold for all the great mitzvos being tread upon (incuding kol isha in a state sanctioned place) by the same freier & the State of Israel who protesting the frummer, and people who are holding on to the mesorah of torah and mitzos. And I say the same to R Horovitz where are you when mitzvos are torn down anywhere -- do you scream with the same passion as when you talk to the (terrible) chareidm

You really don't get it. You don't see the difference between spitting on a girl, which is a horrible aveirah bein odom l'chaveiro, and chillul Shabbos, which is bein odom l'Makom.

The fact is that we have absolute control over the way we act bein odom l'chaveiro. Remember why the Bais HaMikdosh was destroyed? It wasn't over chillul Shabbos.

When it comes to bein odom l'chaveiro, please let HaShem sort it all out. Yes, it's painful that people don't keep Shabbos, but yelling at them won't bring them closer to a single Shabbos. How about getting out there and having not-yet-frum people over for a seudah? But you would rather burn garbage and throw rocks.

As a side point, if the Charedim are so peaceful, why are they terrorizing this poor eight year old girl?

Your worldview is so twisted that all you can do is blame Rabbi Horowitz. There's very little hope for people who think the way that you do.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 06:12 PM SherryTheNoahide Says:

To all the people who are against the violence & Chillul HaShem of these whackos who are distorting your religion, I just want to say...

THANK YOU!!!

You are all one of the (many) reasons my husband & I fell in love w\Judaism!

Stay strong! Keep fighting for the Torah of your ancestors!

And keep fighting for the beautiful women in your world, who w\out them...your world couldn't even be possible!

Keep fighting for your righteous, modest & respectable mothers, daughters, sisters & friends, who continue to make HaShem beam w\pride each & every day!

If 10 of those whackos show up to spit on a little girl... let 1,000 of you righteous souls, stand in her defense the very next day!

And if 1,000 of them show up to make noise...then let 10,000 of you show up that weekend!

Don't ever give up!

G-d bless you all! You have my support!

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 06:17 PM greg83 Says:

Reply to #91  
Yonason_Herschlag Says:

You're right that the community should put the hooligans in cherim. But the community leaders have their hands tied behind their backs in this medina. They don't have governmental authority, nor do they control the police, nor are they given the necessary funding to handle this and many other problems of hoodlims in the community. If the leaders would take on these hoodlims, there cars would be set on fire, and rocks would come through their windows, and the neither the police nor the courts would protect the rabbis, rather the courts would protect the hoodlims if the leaders did anything like taking the law into their own hands.

So the only recourse is to turn to the police. That is what the community rabbonem and leaders recomend when being attacked by hoodlims dressed as charedim. Since the courts and police control all the authority, the blame for these crimes needs to be put on them and not upon the charedi community or their leaders who are forbidden by the courts from implementing justice.

This is not exactly correct, when there “questionable” books came out it seems like there is no problem with putting people in charem. Charem, practically, it’s likely not to accomplish nothing, but it shows a stands for emes. I feel that leadership cannot just close their eye’s to such a low behavior & Chillul Hashem.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 06:43 PM shredready Says:

Reply to #18  
mosheh Says:

yes, that they are not totally against it. The rabbonim, if they are true leaders, should have every bachur in their yeshiva go out and civily protest against this madness. If they are true leaders, they should be giving shmuzin about how wrong it is and for the need to stand up against these animals. If they were true leaders, they would issue the kol koreh's they issue for all the small things they have been issued for. If they were true leaders they would boycott the hashgachas of the larger groups they associate with until THIER leaders came and did the same.
And as a side note, your wording of "...does not denounce what Horowitz deems offensive" shows what camp you are in.
R' Horowitz in one day most likely does more than your simple, lay mind can conceptualize and is certainly doing more than the "rabbonim" who remain silent.

very well said

or simply they some rosh yeshivas should tell some bochreim or kollel guy to volunteer to walk some of the girls to school

but their silence in these matter is telling.

maybe they agree with these guys on some level

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 06:47 PM destro613 Says:

Until the Agudah and the rabbi's in Israel issue a statement that what these charediem are doing is wrong! There is no point in writing to the media.
Let the rabbis remember stekia c'hodia. Unless we hear from them that these actions are abhorrent we can assume based on halacha that the rabbi agree with them.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 06:48 PM shredready Says:

Reply to #88  
Anonymous Says:

For heaven sake this is a media installed demonstration against chareidim and what every toah and yiras shomayim person stands for. Its on Chanukah too -- and whom do you think are the misyavnim of today? Israeli leaders - leading the charge against frum Jews - are mechallel shabbos, and they should be the one's rebuking the chareidim in israel, and was anyone murdered or hurt and were the woman trampled on or even touched (they were sspat upon)? This is entriely a media circus wh, R Horovitz is contributing to.

yep the media is too blame for everything that is always the excuse when people simply cannot face the facts

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 06:49 PM truth Says:

Reply to #84  
Trolly_McTrollerston Says:

So I assume you want to go on record here and state unequivocally that say the Gedolim of the earlier generations like Rav Aharon Kotler, Rav Moshe Feinstein, Rav Yaakov Kamenitzky, and Rav Solevetchik never sat with their wives at any functions? I'm sure without too much work someone could pull out an old black and white photo to prove you wrong.

Rav Moshe Feinstein's daughter's wedding had mixed seating. The mir yeshiva's dinners used to have mixed seating.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 06:53 PM YJay1 Says:

Reply to #86  
Phineas Says:

My zaide's zaide was a Radomsker dayan and yes, I believe he would have. Plenty of gedolim in Williamsburgh before the Hungarians came along. COmparing sitting at a mixed table to chilul Shabbos demonstrates how you epitomize the damaging trend taking place.

Before anything I want to make clear that I absolutely do not equate Chillul Shabbos to mixed seating. I was just trying to make a point that because (certain people of) an earlier generation was less stringent in certain areas of Yiddishkeit it doesn't mean that there is no room for improvement.

Regarding your zeide's zeide who was a Radomsker Dayan - sorry, I simply don't believe that he would have sat by a simcha that had hundreds of people (many of them not his relatives) and had mixed seating. I myself am from Polish Chassidic lineage, and I have read a lot about Polish Chassidim. Don't look at your chashuve zeide through the lens of your own worldview, look at him through HIS OWN worldview (which was probably very different than yours).

Again, my point is NOT that you can't go to simchas that have mixed seating, that's up to your Rav to decide. All that I'm saying is that if people want to strengthen themselves in certain areas of Yiddishkeit (legitimate stuff, not spitting at young girls!) - Mah Tov U'mah No'im.

Any other questions?

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 07:05 PM YJay1 Says:

Reply to #84  
Trolly_McTrollerston Says:

So I assume you want to go on record here and state unequivocally that say the Gedolim of the earlier generations like Rav Aharon Kotler, Rav Moshe Feinstein, Rav Yaakov Kamenitzky, and Rav Solevetchik never sat with their wives at any functions? I'm sure without too much work someone could pull out an old black and white photo to prove you wrong.

When you show me a photograph of one of the Gedolim from the past generation sitting by a simchah with mixed seating and you can prove that: 1) There were many women there who were not his relatives. 2) It was done because the Gadol thought that it was proper and not because of some other reason (e.g. shalom bayis, an invitation he for some reason could not decline, etc.). Then I will be convinced, till then your words are cheap and have no facts to back them.

Let the search begin, and let me know when your done. I'll be waiting.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 07:13 PM YJay1 Says:

Reply to #83  
Anonymous Says:

Our grandparents were more normal than these crazy fanatics. Yes, they had mixed seating weddings, and there was nothing wrong with it. You didn't have our community producing child butchers like Levy Aron in those years.

Who said they weren't more normal, on the contrary I believe they were! But what does it have to do with Levy Aron? Did he grow up to be a butcher because his parents didn't attend functions with mixed seating? Are you for real?

Your comment has absolutely nothing to do with the point that I was making. Next time stop and think before hitting the keyboard.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 07:13 PM Ben_Kol Says:

Reply to #85  
Anonymous Says:

Why for heaven sake so busy fighting the chareidim (whether right or wrong) and protesting their actions whilst all of us -- and the author of this post -- are quiet when there is huge chillul shabbos, and other aveiros? Is it really so terrible that a few woman have to go back of the bus? Would you rather walk in a hareidi neighborhood or a secular neighborhood where there is all sorts of crime, and why? - because the chareidim are really peaceful, yerei hashem and Hashem's torah? And the reason the freier and the modern orthordox are making such a tumult about some minor incidents is because they want to bring down the chareidi way of life and Hashem's torah. I am not saying everything is ok, all I say is that (the same tumult demonstrating in the name of torah of course) should be done ten fold for all the great mitzvos being tread upon (incuding kol isha in a state sanctioned place) by the same freier & the State of Israel who protesting the frummer, and people who are holding on to the mesorah of torah and mitzos. And I say the same to R Horovitz where are you when mitzvos are torn down anywhere -- do you scream with the same passion as when you talk to the (terrible) chareidm

Your rant is so full of naarishkeit from beginning to end that I don't know where to start.
I think I have time for just one point:
You say that we should stop chillul Shabbos. That's true. But the only way to stop chillul Shabbos is by being mekarev those who are not frum; by showing them that we have a beautiful, peaceful lifestyle. This would be a lot easier if there weren't any ostensibly orthodox lunatics out there who spit and yell at little girls. These people that you apparently support are causing chillul Shabbos.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 07:30 PM Darth_Zeidah Says:

Reply to #91  
Yonason_Herschlag Says:

You're right that the community should put the hooligans in cherim. But the community leaders have their hands tied behind their backs in this medina. They don't have governmental authority, nor do they control the police, nor are they given the necessary funding to handle this and many other problems of hoodlims in the community. If the leaders would take on these hoodlims, there cars would be set on fire, and rocks would come through their windows, and the neither the police nor the courts would protect the rabbis, rather the courts would protect the hoodlims if the leaders did anything like taking the law into their own hands.

So the only recourse is to turn to the police. That is what the community rabbonem and leaders recomend when being attacked by hoodlims dressed as charedim. Since the courts and police control all the authority, the blame for these crimes needs to be put on them and not upon the charedi community or their leaders who are forbidden by the courts from implementing justice.

Dear R' Yonason

You have chosen to uproot yourself, your wife and your children from the United States to live in Israel - כל הככבוד לכם!

If you were still living in north America, you would - without any hesitation - obey דיני מלכותא. The police and the courts represent and enforce the laws of the country.

מדינת ישראל is an internationally recognized country with a democratically elected parliament that is authorized to enact laws and to enforce them for the sake of good governance and for the common good of all its inhabitants. Why, therefore, should (according to you, it seems) the authority to govern and to enforce law and order suddenly be devolved to "community leaders"?

Do you and other enlightened and educated charedim advocate a way of life in Israel along the lines of theocratic countries like Iran and in Saudi Arabia, where 'sharia' law applies.

That, R' Yonason, is the quickest way to anarchy and (c"v) to a possible civil war

Is that what the קהילה החרדית in Meah Shearim and in RBS wants?

If so, include me - and the vast majority of all other Israeli citizens - out. We (the Jews, Moslems & Xtians of Israel) abhor such a situation.

And so should you.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 07:35 PM Greg83 Says:

Reply to #88  
Anonymous Says:

For heaven sake this is a media installed demonstration against chareidim and what every toah and yiras shomayim person stands for. Its on Chanukah too -- and whom do you think are the misyavnim of today? Israeli leaders - leading the charge against frum Jews - are mechallel shabbos, and they should be the one's rebuking the chareidim in israel, and was anyone murdered or hurt and were the woman trampled on or even touched (they were sspat upon)? This is entriely a media circus wh, R Horovitz is contributing to.

What is the problem? Um… what about Chillel Hashem, disgusting site where so called “frum” men verbally & in same cases physically assaulting innocent women / kids with rocks. So yes, people are getting hurt ( I heard that in many cases physiological abuse is even more hurtful than physical abuse on a victim), and anyone with even limit knowledge of halacha & hashfaka should be repulse by so called “Zealots’” behavior.
Clearly today Misyavnim are so called “Zealots”, they trying to force the ideology they borrowed from our cousins on everyone. It’s issur to subtract and TO ADD to Torah. For you information, many holim are 3rd & 4th generation holim with no or limited knowledge of Judaism, this has halachic ramification when they mechallel shabbos. Behavior of “Zealots” and their silent supporters not likely to bring holim closer to Hashem, just a quiet opposite and that why I believe any frum Yid should be up in arms about the situation.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 07:37 PM Truth Says:

Reply to #31  
#2 Says:

They are not my "moral beliefs", they are Halacha and Torah that every Bar Bay Rav should know. Go to Yeshiva and learn a little and you will see that.
For starters.......
1. Kol Hamalbin Pnei Chavero Ain Lo chelek L'olam Haba
2. Onaas Devarim
3. Lo sisna es Achicha
4. Lo saamod Al dam Re'acha
I might add that if your Rov does not agree with the above, get yourself a new Rov.

#2 -All those Issurim apply to Jews who keep the Torah, but the MO don't. Or you don't believe that dressing Tzinus is part of the Torah?
I'll assume you're misguided and don't know when these Issurim apply. But if you think they apply to all Jews, not just Frum ones B'shita -then you are Megaleh Ponim B'Torah Shelo K'Halacha and You don't have a Chelek in Olam Haboh!

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 07:40 PM Mrs Friedman Says:

As per R' Horowitz's request, from Lakewood NJ and am deeply disturbed by all the misguided righteousness, WRONG! ANTI TORAH behavior! I am embarrassed to be associated with them. We must remember, who we are being frum for? - for Hashem! - Then we must ask what does Hashem want. Why was Moshe chosen to give the Torah? Because if he was so compassionate to an animal even more so would he be to people.That was a crucial trait. If most intelligent people are repulsed by this I can only imagine how it is regarded in Shomaim! May we all be led in the right direction.....

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 07:46 PM mekubel Says:

thank you rabbi horowits for being mekadish shem shumayim burabim,,,you should be blessed with all bruches from the torah

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 08:01 PM Anonymous Says:

All entitlements should be immediately ended to anyone of these martians caught spitting on a little girl or adult.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 08:02 PM greg83 Says:

Reply to #85  
Anonymous Says:

Why for heaven sake so busy fighting the chareidim (whether right or wrong) and protesting their actions whilst all of us -- and the author of this post -- are quiet when there is huge chillul shabbos, and other aveiros? Is it really so terrible that a few woman have to go back of the bus? Would you rather walk in a hareidi neighborhood or a secular neighborhood where there is all sorts of crime, and why? - because the chareidim are really peaceful, yerei hashem and Hashem's torah? And the reason the freier and the modern orthordox are making such a tumult about some minor incidents is because they want to bring down the chareidi way of life and Hashem's torah. I am not saying everything is ok, all I say is that (the same tumult demonstrating in the name of torah of course) should be done ten fold for all the great mitzvos being tread upon (incuding kol isha in a state sanctioned place) by the same freier & the State of Israel who protesting the frummer, and people who are holding on to the mesorah of torah and mitzos. And I say the same to R Horovitz where are you when mitzvos are torn down anywhere -- do you scream with the same passion as when you talk to the (terrible) chareidm

No one is fighting Charidi way of life, unfortunately they are telling themselves this, so now it looks like they started to believe this. The greatest threat to Charadi way of life are Charadi hooligans and obliviousness to this fact. Chilul Shabbos & other averios you are mentioning are done by 3rd & 4th generation of holonim, while of course this does not make okay, but there is certain halachick “immunity” to their behavior (ones). In the case in hand, we have a group of “frum” men on daily basis & openly engage in disgusting and low behavior with no/ limited objection from their community. If they were engaged in “Charadi” things like learning and doing act of kindness, no one would have bothered them. Also let’s not forget who subsidies Charadi lifestyle. “Zealots” are in clearly engaged in Chillel Hashem. As far as I know, one cannot do tshuva for doing Chillel Hashem in public.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 08:05 PM hiijacker Says:

#104 You justify the mixed seating by gedolim be cause "It was done because the Gadol thought that it was proper and not because of some other reason (e.g. shalom bayis, an invitation he for some reason could not decline, etc.)"

Yet you disallow and ignore the harms caused by these self appointed zealots. if a gadol can act with shev val taaseh by being seated near a woman, how can you just these juts spitting and yelling at others?

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 08:07 PM GavrielaRivka Says:

J. Ray, Forest Hills, NY
message sent -- thank you, Rabbi, for giving us some direction on how to speak up and to whom!! I've shared this on Facebook with many other concerned diaspora Jews!!

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 08:35 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #104  
YJay1 Says:

When you show me a photograph of one of the Gedolim from the past generation sitting by a simchah with mixed seating and you can prove that: 1) There were many women there who were not his relatives. 2) It was done because the Gadol thought that it was proper and not because of some other reason (e.g. shalom bayis, an invitation he for some reason could not decline, etc.). Then I will be convinced, till then your words are cheap and have no facts to back them.

Let the search begin, and let me know when your done. I'll be waiting.

Just look in any wedding album from the 40's through the 60's and you will see mamash hundreds of such photos. The world didn't start and doesn't end with you sonny boy. Sorry if your ma and ta told you otherwise.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 09:49 PM To #104 Says:

I have just seen a YouTube about a satmar Event I think from the 70's and you clrearly see the rebbe r' Yoel sitting and his wife running the whole show! On the stage in front off all the Chasidim. Nobody dare to put a sign in front of her, actually the men had to move aside for her out of respect, what happen to this generation, there no respect to the elderly or to the mothers of the next generation! No wonder why so many are falling out to respect the Torah and Halocha, everyone is busy with this nonsense while our kids are watching and laughing at the whole thing.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 10:01 PM jordon Says:

#1 The respected rabanim must come out loud and clear against such type of behavior. These so called god loving people are making a chillul hasham like never before they are being mirachake Jews (all types) from Judaism and making the goiym despise frum jews they are an utter despise to our beautiful religion the must be stopped. They are NOTHING different then hamas or al-Qaeda and it must be condemned.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 10:14 PM Phineas Says:

Something else to consider. Till now, it's been people feeling harassed or intimidated. How long before someone, whether chareidi zealot, chiloni counter-protester, police or daati leumi, chas v'shalom gets really hurt or killed.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 10:15 PM yiddishe bubby Says:

As usual you are right on the mark and the fact that you step up and say it like it should be said is wonderful. Now let's hear from other sane Rabbonim not only on paper but in your musar shmuses in shule as well, thank you Rabbi Horowitz

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 10:37 PM YJay1 Says:

Reply to #120  
hiijacker Says:

#104 You justify the mixed seating by gedolim be cause "It was done because the Gadol thought that it was proper and not because of some other reason (e.g. shalom bayis, an invitation he for some reason could not decline, etc.)"

Yet you disallow and ignore the harms caused by these self appointed zealots. if a gadol can act with shev val taaseh by being seated near a woman, how can you just these juts spitting and yelling at others?

Did I ever justify the "juts spitting and yelling at others"? You seem to have read words that I have never written. I've posted quite a few posts over the last few days and in none of those posts did I even remotely justify or condone the violence that is being practiced by these zealots. On the contrary I have written numerous posts condemning these "zealots" in quite strong terms. In fact I have probably written more posts condemning these "zealots" than most posters here on VIN! Google YJay+VIN and check for yourself.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 10:40 PM Elimelech Zishe Says:

I am 75 now and I saw many Gedolim of the last Dor walk out of weddings of talmidim after the chuppah since there was mixed seating for the dinner.

These included Rav Yaakov, Rav Aharon, Reb Yonason Shteiff, the Boyaner Rebbe, Reb Yankel Teitelbaum, and others that I do not recall.

And these were from the weddings of freinds of mine from Torah Vodaas.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 10:48 PM YJay1 Says:

Reply to #122  
Anonymous Says:

Just look in any wedding album from the 40's through the 60's and you will see mamash hundreds of such photos. The world didn't start and doesn't end with you sonny boy. Sorry if your ma and ta told you otherwise.

Here we go again with people writing before reading. Have you read my post?

I have specifically written that in order to prove me wrong, you must prove that: "1) There were many women there who were not his relatives [don't forget that the simchas in those days were much smaller and were generally attended only by close family]. 2) It was done because the Gadol thought that it was proper and not because of some other reason (e.g. shalom bayis, an invitation he for some reason could not decline, etc.)."

I know very well that there are many photographs like this, in fact I have lots of them in my house, but photographs don't talk! You cannot judge from a photograph without having all the background.

Still waiting for the hard evidence that has yet to come forth.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 11:09 PM YJay1 Says:

Reply to #124  
To #104 Says:

I have just seen a YouTube about a satmar Event I think from the 70's and you clrearly see the rebbe r' Yoel sitting and his wife running the whole show! On the stage in front off all the Chasidim. Nobody dare to put a sign in front of her, actually the men had to move aside for her out of respect, what happen to this generation, there no respect to the elderly or to the mothers of the next generation! No wonder why so many are falling out to respect the Torah and Halocha, everyone is busy with this nonsense while our kids are watching and laughing at the whole thing.

You are totally off course. If you want to bring proof from Gedolim of the previous generation, Satmar is the last place to go. As #71 wrote, the Hungarians (i.e. Satmar) were actually the ones who were at the forefront of instituting the idea of separate seating.

As for the Rebbitzin sitting upfront - If you would read up a little about Chassidim you would know that in most Chassidic courts the Rebbitzin almost has the "din" like a man. The Chassidim look up to her and may even go up to her to get her advice etc. (she may even have a Gabbai who is a man! *gasp*). So I wouldn't really consider this an example of "mixed seating".

Since you upped the ante, I will now challenge you to find a photograph of a simcha in SATMAR the had mixed seating (i.e. all the men and women mingling together).

Still waiting.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 11:12 PM deyeh-zoger Says:

Chassidus is based on Ahavas Yisroel. These people, dressed as Chassidim, are being moitzi shem rah on the rest of us!

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 11:19 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #74  
Ben_Kol Says:

The following comment appeared on the VIN article about the mayor of Beit Shemesh which appeared today at 10:26 a.m. I have no idea whether the story is true, but I've heard many like it.

The commenter writes:

"I recently traveld on an ElAl flight from New York to Israel, and HaGoan Reb. Berel Povarsky was on board, and seated next to a non frum women. I attempted to switch my seat to hers to enable the Rosh Hayeshiva to sit next to a frum man. The woman saw what was going on and she insisted she is not moving "no way". The Rosh Hayeshiva saw that she was not willing to budge; he told me, Please don't make a scene as not to hurt her feelings. I met the Rosh hyeshiva at a later time and he thanked me for not hurting her. So let all these great fanatics read this story and learn from a Talmud chuchem how to act in public."

Maybe the "non" frum woman had an aisle seat and you didn't. Perhaps the Rov could have switched with you. You cannot and should not expect others who have chosen their seat carefully perhaps months in advance to move just because people think they are entitled to it. The only exception is if you are offering the person a better seat. This is why people have unfavorable views about frum people. Any person so concerned about sitting next to a person should not travel period. The world owes you gornisht!

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 11:20 PM Ben_Kol Says:

Reply to #115  
Truth Says:

#2 -All those Issurim apply to Jews who keep the Torah, but the MO don't. Or you don't believe that dressing Tzinus is part of the Torah?
I'll assume you're misguided and don't know when these Issurim apply. But if you think they apply to all Jews, not just Frum ones B'shita -then you are Megaleh Ponim B'Torah Shelo K'Halacha and You don't have a Chelek in Olam Haboh!

I've got bad news for you. You are the one who is misguided.
The Chafetz Chayim, at the end of his sefer Ahavas Chesed, cites a "Gaon" as follows (apologies for the clumsy translation):

"[One should] do what one can to benefit one's fellow and to pursue peace, and to be careful to avoid the prohibition of "Do not hate" (לא תשנא). Even in the case of a completely wicked person (רשע גמור), it is forbidden according to the Maharam MiLublin to hate him before one has given him rebuke. Now, there is no one in this generation who knows how to give rebuke. [Therefore, we must say that] if he had someone to rebuke him, he would have accepted the rebuke, and that it was just his bad nature that caused him [to sin, for we are commanded] 'Do not judge your fellow until you are in his place.' "

The Chazon Ish cites these words as halachah! (Sorry, but I can't remember where).

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 11:22 PM aeschicago Says:

I am proud to be a non Charedi. I am scared that Hashem will pour his wrath on the Jewish people for desecrating his name. I pray that he has mercy on us.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 11:25 PM LouKay Says:

Shame on people that can in any way think that you can force someone to be "frum". Someone earlier was asking for definitions.... how about first defining what "frum" means? or at least what "frum" means to the poster so that we can at least understand a little what he/she ranting about!
I am 60 yrs old "tzum gitten" & I work daily on being "frum" so, I'm certainly no expert on the matter but I do have a bit of experience...
Seems to me that however one defines "frum" they can not be "frumer' then Hashem! He gave EVERYONE a "FREE CHOICE" - "BECHIRA"!
Who on this earth has ANY right to FORCE others to follow "THEIR" definition?
Yeshivish believe Their Rosh Yeshiva's have exclusivity in defining Frumkiet, Chassidim believe their Rebbe's have a monopoly. Oh, let's not forget the Modern Orthodox and their RABBI's... (hope I haven't left any one out) and within each of these "frum" groups there are many sub-groups different yeshiva's different Chassidic sects different Rabbi's etc.. ALL CONVINCED THAT THEY HOLD THE PATENT ON FRUMKEIT!
We can only hope & pray that Moshiach comes quickly...until then the spitting on a little girl is just wrong.
BY any sensible frum definition!

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 11:31 PM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #115  
Truth Says:

#2 -All those Issurim apply to Jews who keep the Torah, but the MO don't. Or you don't believe that dressing Tzinus is part of the Torah?
I'll assume you're misguided and don't know when these Issurim apply. But if you think they apply to all Jews, not just Frum ones B'shita -then you are Megaleh Ponim B'Torah Shelo K'Halacha and You don't have a Chelek in Olam Haboh!

At last, one of the right wingers has actually come out and said what he really believes: "The Modern Orthodox don't keep the Torah."

This intolerance and hatred is the root of all the problems.

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 11:41 PM pg Says:

Rabbi Horowitz, you are right. I admire you for publically taking a stand on issues where others remain silent. Leaders should lead and if they are afraid to lead, they are not leaders

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 Dec 27, 2011 at 11:43 PM Bais Yaakov girl Says:

Something we can do to help fix our distorted image, thank you VIN!

a Bais Yaakov girl from Brooklyn, NY

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 Dec 28, 2011 at 12:01 AM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #138  
Anonymous Says:

At last, one of the right wingers has actually come out and said what he really believes: "The Modern Orthodox don't keep the Torah."

This intolerance and hatred is the root of all the problems.

It's the zealots who don't observe the Torah.

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 Dec 28, 2011 at 12:05 AM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #130  
Elimelech Zishe Says:

I am 75 now and I saw many Gedolim of the last Dor walk out of weddings of talmidim after the chuppah since there was mixed seating for the dinner.

These included Rav Yaakov, Rav Aharon, Reb Yonason Shteiff, the Boyaner Rebbe, Reb Yankel Teitelbaum, and others that I do not recall.

And these were from the weddings of freinds of mine from Torah Vodaas.

Unless they are getting paid asach gelt to stay for the meal rabbonim rarely stay mixed seating or not.

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 Dec 28, 2011 at 12:31 AM harryw Says:

Reply to #21  
Original Orthodox Says:

With all respect to Rabbi Horowitz You are wrong!
Orthodox Jews are a community that have stuck to torah principles and not modernized. You are either modern or orthodox.
As for us we have been guided by our Torah Rabonim and not by commentators and the media.
A real kidush hashem is when Jews stick to the Isur of Velo Yieyeh Becho Ervas Dovor and that is what the torah calls Venikdashti Besoch Benei Yisroel and Chilul Hashem is to keep quiet on Peritzus.
I have personally asked my old Non-Kanoi Rebe for the Torah opinion about it and he told me that this is called a kidush hashem.
As for the Issurim mentioned by #2
1. There is no issur to sit next to a woman on a bus
2. It is Assur to ask women to move to the back of the bus
3. It is Assur to put up signs asking women to only walk on certain sides of a street
4. It is Assur to spit on another human being and Ain Lo Chelek Lolam Haba to one who does so
5. It is Assur to call another Jew a “Nazi” and Ail Lo Chelek Lolam Haba to one who does so
6. It is Assur to sing the Neturei Karta Song
7. It is Assur to assault or harrass another human being
please verify your facts by Rav Elyashuv or any rov willing to write a teshuvah first

Very sorry to inform you. But, I totally disagree with you.

You are dead wrong on items 1,2,3 and correct on the others. If you have a problem with the concept of tznios like many of the bloggers here have then take it up directly with hashem. The rabbanim are here to voice the halacha the way we know it for generations and not the way you like to interpet it to benefit you and your yetzer hora.

Sorry

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 Dec 28, 2011 at 01:20 AM chatzag Says:

The rabbanim are the only smart ones.These "frum" jews are bored souls with low self esteem.If you ignore them they will go away.They are looking for attention.
I am not saying that according to halacha they are wrong but there are 2 ways to do things.When its YOUR city then YOU can do what you want.You can not force your chumrahs on others and tell me its a halacha.

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 Dec 28, 2011 at 02:43 AM Trolly_McTrollerston Says:

Reply to #103  
YJay1 Says:

Before anything I want to make clear that I absolutely do not equate Chillul Shabbos to mixed seating. I was just trying to make a point that because (certain people of) an earlier generation was less stringent in certain areas of Yiddishkeit it doesn't mean that there is no room for improvement.

Regarding your zeide's zeide who was a Radomsker Dayan - sorry, I simply don't believe that he would have sat by a simcha that had hundreds of people (many of them not his relatives) and had mixed seating. I myself am from Polish Chassidic lineage, and I have read a lot about Polish Chassidim. Don't look at your chashuve zeide through the lens of your own worldview, look at him through HIS OWN worldview (which was probably very different than yours).

Again, my point is NOT that you can't go to simchas that have mixed seating, that's up to your Rav to decide. All that I'm saying is that if people want to strengthen themselves in certain areas of Yiddishkeit (legitimate stuff, not spitting at young girls!) - Mah Tov U'mah No'im.

Any other questions?

I'm sure your great grandparents believed in spontaneous generation of life
I'm sure your great great granparents would have been horrified to send their daughters to beis yaakov
and your great-great-great ....grandfather would have supported burning the Rambam's seforim and probably thought that the world was flat

Just because your grandparents did something in your rose-glassed crazily distored view of the old country doesn't make it right or normal and rational...

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 Dec 28, 2011 at 02:45 AM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #130  
Elimelech Zishe Says:

I am 75 now and I saw many Gedolim of the last Dor walk out of weddings of talmidim after the chuppah since there was mixed seating for the dinner.

These included Rav Yaakov, Rav Aharon, Reb Yonason Shteiff, the Boyaner Rebbe, Reb Yankel Teitelbaum, and others that I do not recall.

And these were from the weddings of freinds of mine from Torah Vodaas.

So in Torah v'dass it was normal to have mixed seating weddings -- you inadvertently proved everyone's point!

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 Dec 28, 2011 at 03:08 AM yspitz Says:

I will do just that!! Thank you Rabbi Horowitz!!

-from Williamsburg, Brooklyn NY

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 Dec 28, 2011 at 07:40 AM Avreich1 Says:

Reply to #115  
Truth Says:

#2 -All those Issurim apply to Jews who keep the Torah, but the MO don't. Or you don't believe that dressing Tzinus is part of the Torah?
I'll assume you're misguided and don't know when these Issurim apply. But if you think they apply to all Jews, not just Frum ones B'shita -then you are Megaleh Ponim B'Torah Shelo K'Halacha and You don't have a Chelek in Olam Haboh!

@ Truth #115:

Just who are **YOU** to decide who will and who will not have a חלק בעולם הבא? Are you suffering from delusions of grandeur?

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 Dec 28, 2011 at 08:16 AM Ben_Kol Says:

contd. from #135.
The Chazon Ish is in Yoreh Deah, Hilchos Shecitah 2:28.
He writes there that it is a mitzvah to love the wicked (מצוה לאהוב את הרשעים), because we can't assume that he is wicked unless he has been rebuked properly and ignores the rebuke, and no one nowadays knows how to give rebuke.

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 Dec 28, 2011 at 08:32 AM Averagejoe Says:

Someone please correct me if I'm wrong. I've noticed the name on the synagogue of these zealots says Toldos Avrham Yitzchak. Why can't we focus on their Rebbe in an effort to calm this situation? Surely he doesn't support what his followers are doing? I hope...

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 Dec 28, 2011 at 08:41 AM AviKes Says:

Reply to #28  
Anonymous Says:

"3. It is Assur to put up signs asking women to only walk on certain sides of a street"
Where'd you pick up that one? Orthodox Jews have always practiced separation of genders. A community has a right to set its own rules for accepted public conduct. A bachor proved this point well, when chumatz was sold on pesach in "public" in a store; he took off all his clothes and was arrested for indecent behavior in "public", disproving the stores claim that inside the store is not considered selling chametz in public.

"1. There is no issur to sit next to a woman on a bus"
It is certainly forbidden to sit next to someone else's wife on the bus. What planet are you from?

"2. It is Assur to ask women to move to the back of the bus"
If it is done politely and respectfully, there is no issur in making such a request. All the gedolim agree that the proper practice is that women should sit in the back such that the men won't be facing them for the length of the trip. If the buses were designed with the seats facing backwards, the rabbonim would order the men to the back. However, the rabbonem have been clear, that the policy is only a recommendation, and not to be imposed.

#28,
1. Rav Moshe says differently. From what planet are you?

2. As there is no issur for her to sit up front it is assur to ask her to sit in back. Nobody has the right to force his chumrot on others.

3. Separation has only been practiced in shul and at other religious events - and even then it has not always been practiced except in shul (see Levush minhagim on mixed seating at weddings). Communities cannot impose their standards on others in a public place. If this is what they (in general - not the violent minority) want let them establish their own town in a place that needs more Jews such as the Negev.

4. If you are so frum what are you doing on the Internet?

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 Dec 28, 2011 at 09:01 AM Anonymous Says:

Reply to #149  
Ben_Kol Says:

contd. from #135.
The Chazon Ish is in Yoreh Deah, Hilchos Shecitah 2:28.
He writes there that it is a mitzvah to love the wicked (מצוה לאהוב את הרשעים), because we can't assume that he is wicked unless he has been rebuked properly and ignores the rebuke, and no one nowadays knows how to give rebuke.

uh oh...according to this that means we have to even love the charedi extremists who are doing all these horrible things-they definitely fit the profile of wicked...

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 Dec 28, 2011 at 09:28 AM Ben_Kol Says:

Reply to #134  
Anonymous Says:

Maybe the "non" frum woman had an aisle seat and you didn't. Perhaps the Rov could have switched with you. You cannot and should not expect others who have chosen their seat carefully perhaps months in advance to move just because people think they are entitled to it. The only exception is if you are offering the person a better seat. This is why people have unfavorable views about frum people. Any person so concerned about sitting next to a person should not travel period. The world owes you gornisht!

You've missed the point of the story. The lesson to be learned is not from the guy who tried to change seats with the woman, but from the Rosh Yeshiva who insisted that he not do so, in order to avoid hurting the woman's feelings. The moral is that hurting someone's feelings is a bigger sin than sitting next to an irreligous woman. To you and me, this is obvious. But to the zealots out there (some of whom comment on this site) it's an utterly foreign concept.

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 Dec 28, 2011 at 11:54 AM Ben_Kol Says:

Reply to #143  
harryw Says:

Very sorry to inform you. But, I totally disagree with you.

You are dead wrong on items 1,2,3 and correct on the others. If you have a problem with the concept of tznios like many of the bloggers here have then take it up directly with hashem. The rabbanim are here to voice the halacha the way we know it for generations and not the way you like to interpet it to benefit you and your yetzer hora.

Sorry

No, he is not dead wrong. In fact, he is right.
1. There is no issur to sit next to a woman on a bus (R' Moshe Feinstein).
2. It is Assur to ask women to move to the back of the bus. This is assur under thje laws of loving your fellow as yourself, not embarrassing someone in public, not causing distress to a widow or orphan (where applicable), observing the law of the land (which, according to most Poskim, appies in Eretz Yisrael), not talking to women, and Chilul Hashem. As discussed in comments #135 and 149, these issurim pertain even to complete reshaim.
3. It is Assur to put up signs asking women to only walk on certain sides of a street. This is forbidden under the halachah to observe the law of the land. It is also a Chilul Hashem because it is just a chumra and it is perceived by the general public as a terrible avlah..

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 Dec 28, 2011 at 01:10 PM YJay1 Says:

Reply to #145  
Trolly_McTrollerston Says:

I'm sure your great grandparents believed in spontaneous generation of life
I'm sure your great great granparents would have been horrified to send their daughters to beis yaakov
and your great-great-great ....grandfather would have supported burning the Rambam's seforim and probably thought that the world was flat

Just because your grandparents did something in your rose-glassed crazily distored view of the old country doesn't make it right or normal and rational...

And just because hour grandparents attended functions with mixed seating, doesn't mean that you should to!

You have just proven my point that I have been making all along that - just because your zeide did something, it doesn't mean that it was correct. Thanks for proving my point!

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 Dec 28, 2011 at 01:12 PM Elimelech Zishe Says:

Reply to #146  
Anonymous Says:

So in Torah v'dass it was normal to have mixed seating weddings -- you inadvertently proved everyone's point!

That is indeed correct! That does not mean it was right or good. And my point was that no Rabbanim stayed for the seudah.

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