India – Modern Day Avraham Avinu , The Fascinating Story Of The Wannabe ‘Ger’ Of Mumbai

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    Dr. Aaron Abraham;India – No one looking for the director of the intensive care unit at Mumbai’s prestigious Breach Candy Hospital would expect to encounter a bearded fellow with a black yarmulke on his head and tzitzis peeking out from his green surgical gown.

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    No, he’s not from Israel, though he’s visited five times.

    He’s not even Jewish, though he meticulously observes even the most minor halachos as though they were major.

    He’s even a leader of the local Jewish community.

    For years, Dr. Aaron Abraham; his wife, Malka; and his children, Shmuel, Sarah, and Sharon have meticulously observed all the mitzvos, including the halachah requiring them to turn a light on or off several minutes before the end of Shabbos, since a non-Jew who observes Shabbos incurs the death penalty.

    In fact, Abraham’s children have never known anything but a Torah way of life.

    Only as they grew up did they understand that they themselves were not yet Jewish.

    Dr. Abraham fell into the media spotlight after the terrorist attack at the Chabad House in Mumbai last December, when he stood guard over the murdered Jewish bodies of Gavriel and Rivka Holtzberg, Benzion Kruman, Rav Aryeh, Leibish Teitelbaum, Yocheved Orpaz, and Norma Shwartzblatt-Rabinowitz.

    For two-and-a-half days, he stayed in the morgue of the government hospital.

    “I knew that if I neglected the bodies for even a moment, they’d immediately be autopsied,” Dr. Abraham told Mishpacha.

    But those who heard of Dr. Abraham’s heroism after the massacre had no idea of the Abraham family’s daily heroism in observing mitzvos in India.

    Every Shabbos the Abrahams walk to shul for Kabbalas Shabbos and Maariv, Shacharis, and Minchah — an hour each way.

    Their kitchen is strictly kosher, and the children attend regular Indian schools (the local Jewish school is defunct) dressed in their Jewish garb.

    Shmuel wears his yarmulke on and his tzitzis out and finds himself explaining to his friends why he and his father dress that way.

    The Abrahams took care of us from the moment we met them in shul on our visit to Mumbai to the moment we left the country.
    Dr. Aaron Abraham;
    Arriving at their home, however, was an adventure in itself, an unforgettable tour of the teeming, filthy Mumbai streets.

    On the steps outside the building — and remember, this is a typical “middle-class neighborhood” — locals congregate on mats and discarded cardboard, preparing their lunch.

    In India, “street life” has a different connotation.

    It’s literally where people live.

    A piece of cardboard marks floorspace — squatters’ rights.

    If they’re lucky, they’ll fashion a roof out of scraps of rusted metal.

    An entire family might sleep here, side by side, on old moldy mattresses.

    And in the gutter alongside runs an open sewer, which is just as well, as the municipality has no way of controlling all that generated garbage.

    The doctor’s home — the home of a top physician in a prestigious private hospital — is nothing more than a kitchenette, a bathroom I’d rather not describe, and one other room that serves as a family/dining room by day and a bedroom for the whole family at night.

    There is also a closet, a desk, and a computer, but the bare cement floors and the black, cracked walls on both the inside and outside of the building make everything seem gray.

    In Mumbai, the slums seem to pop up everywhere, wedged into the space between the buildings of the middle class, and even alongside the fanciest homes of Mumbai’s millionaires.

    As we flew back to Israel, Dr. Abraham flew to Belgium for a medical conference, where he lectured his colleagues in his yarmulke and protruding tzitzis.

    In snatches of conversation during our stay and late at night in his hospital office between patients, Dr. Abraham sits with us and tells us his astounding story.

    “This isn’t a regular ward, it’s intensive care,” he apologizes periodically as he leaves us to attend to the most urgent cases.

    Breaking With Tradition Aaron Abraham was born in India as Bahagirdas Pradas.

    His father was the chief priest in the idolatrous shrine in his area. “My father believed in idols,” relates Dr. Abraham.

    “He worshipped them and prostrated before them, placed food before them, and claimed to have conversed with them.

    “He worshipped them and prostrated before them, placed food before them, and claimed to have conversed with them.

    There were all kinds of bizarre figurines to which he attributed special powers.

    Even as a youngster, I didn’t understand how my father honored something I could smash with one swing of a hammer.

    I didn’t understand why my mother bothered to prepare food for these idols.

    Initially I attributed my confusion to my youth.

    But the older I got, the less I understood, and I realized that I could never believe in this.

    My father taught us how to pray to this wood and stone, but I never did.

    As the oldest child in the family, I was expected to follow in my father’s footsteps, but as time passed, the clearer it became to me that I wouldn’t.

    ” When Pradas completed his compulsory studies, he and his father began arguing openly.

    “I told him something like ‘They have a mouth but don’t speak, ears but don’t hear, eyes but don’t see.

    I didn’t yet know the verse in Tehillim.
    I’m the one eating the food you place before them.

    How can you believe in this nonsense?’ My father listened and remained silent.

    He had no answers.

    “I couldn’t bear my father’s belief in this foolishness.

    I knew I would go my own way, but he’d waste the rest of his life on this nothingness.

    I wanted to show him these gods were worthless.

    So one day I entered his shrine, hammer in hand, and smashed the idols.

    Of course, he screamed at me.

    ‘The gods are angry!’ I retorted.

    ‘So let them do something; let them rebuild themselves.

    I’m provoking them to do something,’ I said, breaking another idol.

    Only later did I learn about Avraham Avinu and the Midrash about how he’d smashed Terach’s idols.

    Had I known,” Abraham says with a smile, “maybe I would also have placed the hammer in the biggest god’s hand and claimed that he’d destroyed his fellow god.

    But I didn’t know the Midrash.

    ” Bitter and angry, young Pradas left his village and went to study medicine at the University of Mumbai.

    But even during his studies, he kept searching for the true faith, wondering to whom to worship and who created the world.

    “I looked at the complexity of the world.

    During my medical studies, I came to realize the astounding precision in the design of the human body, and how even the most sophisticated machine can’t compete with the intricacies of the human creation.

    I said to myself, ‘Someone must have created this; it didn’t just come about.

    Such a wondrous world must have been created by a central power — I must find it.

    ’ And thus I embarked on my spiritual journey.

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    Dr Avraham


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    wow
    wow
    14 years ago

    very inspiring!

    one who searches for the truth is led to it. I only wish that my devotion would reach even 1/10th of his.

    NW YID
    NW YID
    14 years ago

    Clearly a Great Soul, he should make Aliyah and complete the conversion process. Hazak Hazak, The Mitzvot and Chesed of Aaron Abraham bring great honor to the Name of our Abraham Avinu and Aharon HaTzaddik..

    kashrus pro
    kashrus pro
    14 years ago

    I read the article over Yom Tov and it helped me understand a lot that I have heard over the last 8 years.

    Beautiful !!!
    Beautiful !!!
    14 years ago

    This is a perfect message for us the day after Zman Matan Torasaynu. Clearly this man Dr. Aaron Abraham has a great neshama and will join Am Yisrael as a Ger Tzedek. He is a great Man like Yisro !!! You have to read stories like these to believe that in this world there are moments of greatness today as in the times of the Yetzias Mitzrayim I bless him and his beautiful family with much hatzlucha and welcome them completely. I will honor his chelek in Torah and Yiras Shomayim. When will he and his family complete geirus? May he be as great as the Tanna Rabbi Hai Hai !!!

    kal
    kal
    14 years ago

    yet another testimony to the awe-inspiring hashpaah of the Holtzbergs,H-Shem Yikom Domom!

    Anonymous
    Anonymous
    14 years ago

    It would have been better had the article’s publication been delayed until after the giyur was complete.

    Anonymous
    Anonymous
    14 years ago

    beautiful story

    Anonymous
    Anonymous
    14 years ago

    beautiful & touching story.
    chazak v’ematz!

    Anonymous
    Anonymous
    14 years ago

    Wow! Lipa should rewrite his version of loi lanu (the one with the yatchmach refrain) to include this doctor’s life story – it would make a great companion to his song about Moishele.

    ruthie l
    ruthie l
    14 years ago

    What an article. Every time I pick up Mishpacha Magazine, I am awed by how comprehensive and satisfying their articles are. Kudos to them!

    Anonymous
    Anonymous
    14 years ago

    Nice story! I like to read about converts to Judaism. I especially like to read about Christian clergy who converted to orthodox Judaism.

    Anonymous
    Anonymous
    14 years ago

    This is refreshingly true… unlike that hezbollah-ger story….

    Anonymous
    Anonymous
    14 years ago

    I hope and pray that once he gets to Israel, the wise-crackers will button their lips and swallow any insults. He is too lofty a neshama to be subjected to the “usual” harrassments that seem to be “mandatory” for all gerim, like when they called the Bamboo Cradle girl “goy” in her classroom. Please guys, just give this guy a break!! I beg of you to be nice for once!!

    Anonymous
    Anonymous
    14 years ago

    This man’s story is an inspiration, similar to that of our true father, Avraham Avinu. We can all learn from his steadfast devotion. May he be blessed amd welcomed into the nation of Israel as soon as possible. Though his good deeds are clearly needed in the hospital in Mumbai, I’d like to see him here in Eretz Israel, contributing to the health profession here! May Ha Shem keep him and send him quickly, home, to His people in Eretz Israel.

    Anonymous
    Anonymous
    14 years ago

    “It would have been better had the article’s publication been delayed until after the giyur was complete.”

    Why? Imo there will probably be a follow up article. What strikes me about this is how difficult orthodox conversion can be, and how easy reform conversion can be. While orthodox Judaism shouldn;t encourage converts, and should make sure that a person learns enough about Judaism before deciding to convert, it shouldn’t make it so difficult for those who are devoted. It does seem cruel in this case for for it to take so many years for Dr. Abraham to convert to Judaism. Many here seem to belittle the reform and conservative movements, however since it appears that orthodox conversion can be so difficult, it becomes understandable why many converts to Judaism who eventually have an orthodox conversion first undergo a conservative or reform conversion.

    dayanpezarkar
    dayanpezarkar
    5 years ago

    Hello everyone, I am a local Jewish resident of Mumbai. And i want to mention few things which are really very important for the world to understand. Abraham has mentioned that “I knew that if I neglected the bodies for even a moment, they’d immediately be autopsied,” Dr. Abraham told Mishpacha.” But this is not the Fact, There were Bunch of Jewish people (Not Converted) who were present at that time at the hospital. Abraham was not even allowed inside hospital, but Because of the local Jewish Community Leaders who came running to help Rav Gavi and his wife, He got entry with them. The real Witness, who helped throughout was never appreciated. and Abraham never mentioned about any person who helped throughout,. People Back here never expect their Names, but not the lies. There are few leaders who have spent 3 Days in hospital and made it sure that bodies goes untouched to Israel.